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24 Jan 2005

Quote by westerross
Sorry...maybe I shouldnt have posted on this thread..
but it pisses me of and no doubt countless others when threads are full of interlectual shite..as if some people are trying to prove themselves...
I really hope these people are as clever as what they make out but as I mentioned earlier on my last post...just dont patronise!!!
Im sorry for upsetting the folk that have posted on this thread

Can everybody get off ant140's case? He's flucking right! I was the offender and now I've put it right. Humble pie eaten redface

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. Now can we get on with what is a great discussion.
Is this group dynamics in action ?? lol

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I think so Tune, and it`s fascinating! You did sound like you had a mouthful of marbles there! I can be pretty wordy myself (a really BAD habit) and often end up confusing the shit out of myself!
Anyway, there has been some great input, and I`m itching to post my responses, but it`s late, and I`m making too much noise (light sleeper next to me)! It`ll have to wait til tomorrow.
Back to my insomniac lurking!
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

And I`m very sorry if you found me patronising. I didn`t intend to be smile

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Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Quote by ant140
I guess i cant resist one either....
I understand the nuances as was put earlier..but...
dont patronise the folk that use this site with a load of clever shit that most folk dont understand..(or is it me been thick)
why cant you leave it simple or are you talking in code for the so called "Cliche"
sorry if this as upset anyone but if folk wanna talk like this then why dont they PM each other

I thought the discussion might open up a little understanding and tolorance, which is one of the reasons I started the thread.
I am happy for you to take it to PM if you have a problem with my motives?
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Just to annoy the snot out of those who hate armchair psychology :twisted: , let`s bounce a few theories around on how people interact on here, and further afield.
Serious question. Not an opportunity for people to complainof cliques, and mob mentality etc, although I`m happy to hear theories on how these are seen to be formed and why, if at all. Keep it general please, I`m genuinely interested and if barely disguised specifics arise I will ask for the thread to be locked! :P
One sentiment I try to maintain personally, is that my opinions stand in their own right. However, how many of us can truely say that, myself included, in an environment which depends upon people bouncing posts off of one another? I mean, how immune are we really from being influenced by a common opinion? If a sentiment comes up on a thread, and is echoed by others, why does it need to be said again and again? Is it a personal need to voice the same opinion but in your own words, or perhaps some feel a little braver once someone has stepped forward first. Is it possible that once everyone has had this opportunity a `bandwagon` is seen?
This isn`t influenced by any onething, but from a general observation......and the fact I think too much! :mrgreen:
That`s just one line of discussion....I have loooooooads more! :bounce:
mods: I need somethingto keep my brain ticking and to keep me out of trouble! wink

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:giggle:
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
I`ll have you know I`ve never been caught prolificating in all my life

Bloody chance to prolificate would be nice!
Are we talking about the same thing or have I got it wrong again?
I have no idea, seeing as I have no clue what I`m on about! Just being my normal random self! :mrgreen: ;)
:giggle:
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Good point smile

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. I suppose I wondered if there was some kind of code, like with dogging. I has occurred to me that if there was, then sticking your head around the door and saying `er, excuse me?`, might be seen as bad form. :shock: lol

lol

Venusxxx (who spent her one and only trip to a club playing pool.... :lol2 smile

smile

23 Jan 2005

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Venus and Judy (two of the most prolific posters

OI! Who are you calling prolific?! I`ll have you know I`ve never been caught prolificating in all my life mad

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(time to stop picking the scab)
Hi, mark_nwest, welcome to the site, dive in, get yourself known. The Cafe is where most of the fun and banter is, I hope you have fun here! smile

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Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Great question, one I`d be interestedin seeing the answers to smile

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Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Response 1. Me being nice
Response 2. Me being an arse
Response 3. Me being an offensive arse
Response 4. Me being a flippant arse
Response 4. Me being a clever arse
Response 5. Me being a smart alec arse but trying to maintain banter arse
Response 6. Me being a little stung, and defensive, but wondering if it was all my fault arse
Response 7. Me trying to make up for it arse.
Response 8. Me trying for a clean slate arse
Response 9. Me being a tart arse and hoping Jas wasn`t too pissed off arse
Response 10. Me being contrite and trying to salvage arse
Response 11. Me trying to tone down aggression and play with others arse
Response 12. Me having an `oh bollocks` arse and trying to diffuse my effect arse.
Response 13. Me feeling cuntish and taking some responsibility arse.
Conclusion?
Having established that I spammed the poor sod`s thread 13 times, perhaps it would be best for everyone if I became even more close and personal with my arse ;) ....besides, it`s kind of interesting down here, in a kind of dark and pervy way........ :rascal:
Nowt to do with anything Tune said.......I don`t need too much of an excuse to get intimate with my arse :mrgreen:
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Quote by Marcuso
Did anyone else show any emotion at that point, or is it just me thats a soft sod?

As opposed to when? dunno

dunno

;)
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

I`ll have the bang please :mrgreen:
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

I have one. It`s about two years old, which I use when I need to....reads like a road accident rolleyes

rolleyes

. It`s in a passworded room however, and I know who has access. Can`t post about the SH lifestyle however....
Maybe I should start a new one under a psuedonom. there`s some pretty relevent stuff I`ve learnt from here!
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

:bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
I remember!
I first had sex in my vagina! :mrgreen:
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Quote by westerross
FFS I thought Mark made a very well balanced entry into the Forum and seems like a genuine nice guy.
I think I'd have been a bit riled at the intemperate response about Liverpool from Judy if I lived there. There is no tongue-in-cheek in that post. Within minutes he's surrounded by a group with a pack mentality biting chunks of flesh out of his arse.
I really HATE it when posters refer to another in the third person merely to try and make them feel excluded.
I've gotta say in view of the characters involved I am very surprised.
Rant over.

Ok Tune, I get your point. Loudly. I stepped over the mark. It wasn`t `pack mentality`, it was me being me. I like making people laugh. Normally I try to be so over the top it`s seen as an obvious parody. Screwed up. I`ll tone it down in future.
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Noooooooooooo! If you do that then I`ll be in trouble with the mods, and, and, and they`ll do nasty and suspect things to me, tar and feather me, and possibly tie me to somewhere very public wearing a sign that says `nasty SH bully bitch` :shock: :shock: :shock:
Then I will cry :cry:
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Quote by davej
Venus did you get the qoute thingy wrong or are you asking me to tell you to fuck off with a I'm happy to oblige, but you wouldn't take a blind bit of notice

We`ve met before haven`t we Dave?!
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Quote by mark_nwest

Yeh nice 1 mate. Here is the missing H - stick it up your ar$e
The smiley was placed to show i was joking but obviously you have all missed the point

That wasn`t the statement which worried me!
No matter, let`s start again...
Wanna shag?! :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Depends wink

wink

:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: kiss

kiss

I`m sorry, Jas is right of course, I`ve been exploring my dom personality, and am waiting for a new job to start..........in the interim I`ve been driving everyone nuts!
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Quote by Jas-Tim
I'm holding you responsiblr for this madam..................................YES YOU Venus
You've been that aggressive lately it's rubbing off on everyone.
Now bend over and take it like the tart you are

Yes! I knew I`d get what I deserved sooner or later!! :twisted:
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Quote by mark_nwest
Yeh nice 1 mate. Here is the missing H - stick it up your ar$e
The smiley was placed to show i was joking but obviously you have all missed the point

That wasn`t the statement which worried me!
No matter, let`s start again...
Wanna shag?! :mrgreen:
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Quote by davej
i think to get on the committee you have to think your a lot better than everyone, but were you would fail, is the fact you have to be able to spell.

found one for you Judy
Yeh nice 1 mate. Here is the missing H - stick it up your ar$e lol

lol

Guess we havn't really got off on the right foot then Mark, never mind. Look as Venus said, people are just playing, why get aggresive, why not turn things to your advantage and interact with others in a similar way, it's a good oppurtunity to bump into more people through the thread.
Yeah....just tell me to fuck off! (with a :P on account of you being new and all that ;) )
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Quote by mark_nwest
i have a bag just like that.
I just don't like her condescending, narrow minded wafflings- thats all

Who? Me or Judy?! :shock: :shock: :shock:
Perhaps you need to get to know us all a little better before you make such judgements? Just a suggestion, we are all pretty friendly really!

Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Quote by mark_nwest
did i say i was perfect? if i was on for punctuation lessons i would ask you, venus. I am obviously not perfect, i missed the extra p in opinion, i was talking about your tittle!

Oooh, I never wait to be asked! :mrgreen:
Judy`s `Tittle` was probably intentional on account of her fixation with tits. She might have told you that if you`d waited until asked for spelling lessons........
Now chill you daft bugger, I`m teasing! :moon:
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Pssst Judy, not to worry, I think Caps Lock might be optional ;)
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Quote by Eagerslut9
:grin: :grin: :grin: :grin:
But she hasn't found out yet :twisted: :twisted:

You shit behind my sofa didn`t you?!
Go on, admit it!
That smell has been bugging me all day! I should have KNOWN it had something to do with you!!!! mad

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Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Behind a granary in a field.........country inbred that I am! :mrgreen:
Not too sure if that one counts as having sex though, it was when I lost my virginity.........but the time I was actually awakefor it was with a childhood sweetheart in his bedroom!
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Tis true according to Bill Bryson. He had quite a lot to say about Mr Kellog! lol

lol

Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Quote by westerross
I thought Sub-lieutenant Whipmearse was your boss. Getting a bit above ourselves here ain't we??
:welcome: Mark. I usually advise people to hang around and get to know people when they arrive but it looks as though you've made a few already.
Now if Venus tells you she approves because of your pleasant demeanour - you'll never know 'cos you put 6'2" brown hair and green eyes in your intro.

6ft 4 actually...not that I was taking any notice or anything.........
That`s a fuck off amount of hair......*sigh*...I love guys with long hair :mrgreen:
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

Quote by ant140
I have....Ive got most of his material....
check this out

OMG! I`ll be back in two weeks! lol

lol

(that was a dangerous thing you just did, giving me access to his site :twisted: )
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/16661.html wink

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Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

I love Kevin Bloody Wilson :mrgreen:
Venusxxx