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3 Sep 2004

Quote by subbuteo
The worst part is where, on some of them, they actually open their mouth to show that half their tongue is still caked in the stuff, then have difficulty swallowing it all, then open their mouths again to show it's all gone.

Yep you have hit the nail on the head subbuteo... it's that having to prove that it has all gone bit... the licking of the lips with relish etc., etc!
Just one of those lovely differences between male and female heterosexual likes and dislikes... and yes... I'm aware that I'm generalising. smile

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Thanks for yours and other's responses.
xxx

3 Sep 2004

Quote by Biddlybop
Hi Wibbly,,, I might get a bit of stick here from some of the geezers. Im not into my partner swallowing. For me , just my opinion, it is as you say treating her with disrespect. As I found out from the start she doesnt have a problem with it,,, but I do. No dont like it.

Oh no Biddlybop please do not misunderstand me... There is nothing wrong with swallowing as far as I'm concerned... blast

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especially when the gorgeous darling concerned has had a vasectomy... :twisted: :smitten: GT :smitten: :twisted:
If your partner is okay about it then aren't you denying her a way of showing her love for you? Just a thought... but of course if you do have a strong dislike of it then your feelings are equally viable. smile

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3 Sep 2004

Quote by Heather
I do feel the need, however to tell all our Swinging Heaven friends that I can't imagine life without you and as the years stretch out before us, I will work in every way I know how to make things better for you. No matter what life brings to you; good, bad or indifferent, I will be at your side...

That is one of the most beautiful written sentences I've seen in a long time... thank you for sharing... (where's m' tissues... sniff... blow)

3 Sep 2004

Quote by Clare_Lincs
As Steve said we watched it sat there with 2 very young children and it made us wonder what kind of world we had brought them into.

Hiya Claire...
I can see why you would think like that but I think you've bought them into a better world than our parents and grandparents had though. Sept 11th, like Enniskillin (spelling?), Oklahoma, Manchster, London IRA bombings, Brighton Bombs pale into insignificance when you consider the carnage of WW1 & WW2.
Please believe me, I really do not intend to demean or lessen the horror of those and other past and future tragedies but when you worry about bringing children into a horrid world... think about being a parent during the 'Cold War' when falling nuclear bombs seemed to be an inevitablity at the time. Think about being a parent worrying about being invaded by Nazis and sons fighting overseas...
Life, and death, go on... there will always be horrors until, hopefully, the human race evolves to a more civilised way of life. Fat chance though! sad

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With Sept 11th we saw with our own eyes the events, the human tragedy and suffering. That makes it more real and significant to us than reading about it a day later in a newspaper. No matter how good a journalist is, they cannot make the same impact with words as seeing, with your own eyes, bodies jumping from a tower block and realising that their choice of death is preferable to the horrendous alternative... that is why Sept 11th and other modern tragedies make such a huge impact on us...
Just my tuppence worth...

3 Sep 2004

When GT downloads porn he'll place the odd clip on my desktop that he knows will appeal to me. He did so yesterday and it was a knicker wetting film of a very pretty girl having sex with three men. So far so good and in the end the three men come either on the girls face or in her mouth and she swallows.
Now I'm trying to figure out whether it's a girl thing or a Wibbly thing in that I loved the whole clip until the very end where she swallows three mens come and then looks straight into the camera like she's just swallowed an Irish Baileys Cream
So... me and GT were sat outside last night on the patio discussing this after a nice Chinese takeaway and drinking vino... and I said I'd have to put this to 'The Cafe' as I wondered if I was in a minority of women for not enjoying the 'come part' of the movie.
From my perspective, if she was being given an orgasm by one bloke, while another one was giving her a pearl necklace while she was sucking another bloke off to orgasm, then that would be sexy to me as everyone is having a good time... just seemed degrading to the woman in the way that it ended and I wondered what other females on the forum thought... and men too of course... smile

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3 Sep 2004

Oooh... I've been resisting responding to this 'cos I don't normally do slushy but 'resistance is futile' as the Borg will have it. I'm a closet Sci-Fi fan too...
As probably mentioned before GT and I love a genre of music called Northern Soul... and the track we played at our wedding is called 'Because of You' by Jackie Wilson... as GT has said to me... it's the ultimate love song.
Have a listen to the words...

The format is real audio and you get a minute of the track... 'tis a lovely song... biggrin

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3 Sep 2004

I was working from home and had the radio on in the background... there was a little aside from the DJ saying that they'd received reports of a plane hitting one of the twin towers. I thought it would just be a light aircraft so continued working... after a minute something inside me told me to turn on the TV in the bedroom. One tower was on fire... I shouted to my ex- Colin to come and see. He walked into the bedroom just as the other plane came into view and crashed into the other tower.
I was in shock... couldn't comprehend what I was seeing but Colin assessed the situation correctly within a second and said 'terrorism'.
The rest of the day was spent watching the news, trying to email friends in America... especially Alex (Colin's friend) who worked in Tower 5. He was safe and it took him six hours to walk home.
Did anyone see that documentary, filmed by the two French brothers, which happened to be about New York Firemen and coincidentally at the same time as Sept. 11th? It was incredible, shocking, moving and again shocking... took a while to get some images out of my head.
Was it really three years ago... for different reasons it feels that it occured longer ago than that and for others just like yesterday... if that makes sense!

2 Sep 2004

Quote by Steve_Lincs
Don't go out,you'll never manage it if you want to try the patches,theyre really good worked for us,well for 18 months till we went on holiday and started again.

As a drug nicotine is unbelievably potent... I stopped smoking when I was about 23... not a conscious decision as I just stopped enjoying it. However there are certain times when I could murder a ciggie... 20 years on...
GT smokes so I have a pull on his occasionally :twisted: we are still talking cigarettes aren't we? :P

2 Sep 2004

Hmmm... I can never resist deep discussion such as these...
People truly capable of Polyamoury must be the most generous, secure, confident and sweet natured of people to be able to give of themselves to such relationships... I wonder why some societies have forbidden it... in legal terms I mean.
I cannot imagine of a more wonderful world to be in if you can whole heartedly commit to such an arrangement. In the two years that you experienced it was there jealousy and if so how did you over come the problem of the green eyed monster? As long as you all shared everything and were honestly in love with each other... then I can genuinely see how it would work...
I tell you what a great society we humans could emulate and that is Bonobo chimpanzees. They solve everything by shagging each other senseless... lol

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Here is the URL to read more about Bonobo Chimpanzees...

2 Sep 2004

Quote by GT
A wonderful sentiment that all too often is missed by partners... :P
Your partner is very lucky to have someone who'll appreciate the input they gave to get you to achieve your output.

Not this partner! BTW did I remember to say 'thank you' last night? :rose:
You know I much I appreciate your 'input' :twisted:

2 Sep 2004

Quote by dwonderful
But if you consider that a DISASTEROUS meet - well who am I to argue!!

Course he didn't think it was a disasterous meet... he's just showing off! smackbottom

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31 Aug 2004

Quote by Clare_Lincs
i love it!!

Yup me too... It is amazing how many couple seem to think it will hurt the sphincter muscle in that area if you have anal sex! I think I may have mentioned this story before so sorry if I have but we were at a BBQ and one of my brothers said as much... I responded unthinkingly and indignantly 'Oh no it doesn't!' while looking at GT for backup (ooo'er missus)... I then blushed beetroot when I realised what I'd just made known to my youngest brother... He just burst out laughing - thank God!

27 Aug 2004

Quote by outdoorsfunmale
Hello all, fairly new here so I thought I would introduce myself. Wiltshire based 25 year old male who enjoys...I'll let you figure it out lol. The and part of my post is that I have an ad set up here but with rubbish pics on it. I am trying to update it with some much better pics but it won't let me submit them as they need to be under 50kb each. Problem is my camera wont take any smaller file sizes. Can anyone recommend a jpeg shrinker to help. Thanks and speak to you soon.

Hello, good evening and welcome... biggrin

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You could do a lot worse than investing a relatively small amount of money by purchasing PaintShopPro... Quite easy to learn and plenty of sites offering advice, help and tutorials.

You can download a trial version which might just help in this small job
Take care
xxx

27 Aug 2004

Quote by Mark
SME hosting, web development and SEO (Search Engine Optimization)... allegedly. Of course, you'll usually find me on here instead

Ditto! /me waves to Mark... a fellow web worker in Sheffield!

26 Aug 2004

Quote by Calista
I'm not feeling on top form at the moment ... I think I've picked a water/kidney infection and so i'm not upto posting much but I do know I owe a number of people pm's and emails.

I've had that too Calista and it ain't fun... Huggggggggggs hun... xxx

26 Aug 2004

Quote by Naughty Nurse
"of course not why would we want to come and holiday up here"

Because of...

Closer to Burton Upon Trent you have;

And Repton School, Lichfield Cathedral... Calke Abbey...
I could go on... smile

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25 Aug 2004

Quote by Kenluvslucy
Anybody else seen the article ref staying power?? Boffins reckon its in the jeans, er genes- I reckon its more to do with- 1 the lady you're with, 2 the amount of alcohol imbibed, 3 general 'ambience' ie the mood you may be in-- any views??

Men - like women - are different so who can really say. Apart from GT I've only had three other sexual partners... neither of which lasted more than say 20 mins - start to finish... Things are somewhat different with GT... :twisted:
I asked GT this afternoon why he thought it was that he could maintain his erection for so long pretty much regardless of how much he'd had to drink... He said he put it down to mind control as he will not allow himself to come until whoever he's with has had her satisfaction several times... Now sober I could accept that but he's just the same when he's had a fair few glasses of wine so maybe it is genetics. I've no way of knowing (yet) how common this is. GT is adopted so he doesn't have any Father or brothers that he could ask - even if it was a question you could ask your Dad! :shock:
Then again it could be the woman 'cos we were walking to the cinema last night and we found ourselves following two females dressed in tight jeans... I asked GT which bum he preferred and then asked him if he'd enjoy a couple of hours with her... To which he replied "I'd be lucky to last an hour"... to which I absentmindedly smiled until the penny dropped a second or so later... so I clocked him one when I realised what he meant! :sparring:
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25 Aug 2004

Quote by GT
Has anyone any tales to tell of a memorable early morning ????

Oh goody... it wasn't a dream then! hump

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Ooops I did behave rather manlike by just turning over and then slept for the next couple of hourse while you worked! Hehehehe... :yawn:
Darling... said in wheedling tones... Your sig... do you really, really like it? Cos... I don't! :rude: I'm out of here............... bolt

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24 Aug 2004

Quote by surreycouple2003
Hi there
You have a PM
Dxx

Please don't think I'm ignoring you 'cos I'm not... got two hungry girls to feed and then we are all off to the cinema to see the Bourne Supremacy film... Will read through the stuff and PM you back... 'K? smile

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24 Aug 2004

Quote by PaulnSusie
Susie and I have both been to radlett and the age range, is pretty accurate. However, as always seems to be the case in this forum, one comment, that in my opinion, has been taken out of context by some people leads to a massacre of individuals.

Hiya Paul

Quote by Radlett Website
There is no restriction on age or physique, but it has been many months since we saw any one who had lost pride in their appearance to the extent of being fat.

Can you not see the ugly nature of the above sentence? I completely understand that people have preferences, nature made us that way but to communicate your dislike of a certain type of build in such a negative way is disturbing. Thirty years ago it could have said...
"There is no restriction on age or physique, but it has been many months since we saw any one of dark skin colour who got ideas above their station."
I know I'm giving an extreme example but the comparison is there I feel.

Quote by PaulnSusie
If people on this forum feel they are inadequate because of the way they look because they are bigger, that is their problem, not others. Why is it that if somebody makes a comment on size, it is immediately jumped on as an opportunity to defamate the character of someone?

I would feel the same if the sentence had been about thin people with big hooked noses... it is not the preference stated as such but more about the derogatory way in which the preference was laid out.
With regard to your comment about people defaming the characters of others... I've genuinely not seen it... but I must admit to having a sneaking suspicion that you were adopting a stance of 'attack is the best form of defence' lol

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Quote by PaulnSusie
I myself find 'fat' people unnattractive, does this make me any less of a human being for having my own preferences? They may be beautiful people inside and I may get on really well with that person, it is a fault of mine, or a fault of anyone else for that matter if i/they don't find a 'fat' person sexually appealing?

Nope... not a sausage wrong with that... but would you personally have written that sentence? If not, is it possible that you see the offensiveness of it. confused

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Thanks for reading... smile

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24 Aug 2004

Quote by Clare_Lincs
When i met my beloved Steve,there was some chemistry on the night we met but that was highly fueled by alcohol,following that there was just a spark which developed,theres not one thing i could pin it down to.
The chemistry has been there ever since,getting more and more :grin:

I know what you mean about the chemistry on first meeting... for us though it was a tad one sided... At our first meeting I remember GT smiling at me and flicking my hair commenting on the fact that the reason I'd forgotten to do something was because I was blonde... I just remember my stomach doing a flip flop at his grin...
We were both in relationships with other people at the time so I didn't think anything more about it other than walking away thinking... 'cor blimey - not felt that in a long time!' GT can't actually remember us meeting for the first time... What an impression I made! rolleyes

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24 Aug 2004

Quote by davej
You might want to give dressing up a go.............I tried it for mrs davej once, dressed up as a well known telivision personallity....didn't work (probably picked the wrong celebrity), she just giggled, but still worth a try.

PLEASE - PLEASE - PLEASE... which well known TV personality was it?
Mr cuddly jumper Noel Edmonds? Affable Terry Wogan? Acerbic Jerry Paxman? Suave Angus Dayton? Hunky Donal MacIntyre? Debonair Micheal Aspel?
Or was it a woman? lol

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24 Aug 2004

Quote by surreycouple2003
The Radlett parties are a commercial venture.
The guy running them is a business man and has targeted a specific segment of the market. He obviously feels that larger people are not in keeping with the image he is trying to create. If he was just mercenary as one person put it he would invite anyone that was happy to pay, however he is actually reducing the amount of potential clients by not allowing larger people to attend. Personally I dont see anything wrong with that.
Dxx

Hmmm... the impression given by the TV proggie last Thursday was that they give parties for fun not for commercial gain. The words on their website back this up;

We try to keep the format simple and fun. You donâ€™t need to join a club, pay membership, send photographs or give your life history. The devaluation of our home by parties is well into six figures, so we do look for a contribution to pool maintenance, damage, etc. from those who havenâ€™t had us to a recent uncharged party. We throw parties while we enjoy them, not as a business. While revellers defray the costs of parties we can throw more of them.

If you know differently then isn't there a little hypocracy taking place perhaps? If the parties *are* just for fun and the turnover genuinely does defray the expenses then the organiser/s of the Radlett House Parties are sexual snobs, however they are within their right to to dictate terms of how they organise events - whether they run a business or hold genuine parties.
My opinion of them was favourable from the TV programme, I applauded their openess but reading their website, where they wash their dirty linen in public with regard to some family issues plus the topic we've been discussing here has reversed my opinion of them. Do they care however?.. nope... and why should they! smile

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I really should get on with some work... rolleyes

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24 Aug 2004

Quote by VenusnMars
Ok, well I kept mine short and sweet, I`ll bounce it off of you guys first

Brilliant email Venus... go for it... please let us know if you receive a response... biggrin

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24 Aug 2004

Quote by JudyTV
This just brings home the fact that this is very much business orientated and is not in the real world. There is perhaps a couple of questions that may need to be addressed here. (1) What are they selling and (2) what are people buying? here is a typical example of lets throw some money at it then it will be OK.

According to their site they say;

We try to keep the format simple and fun. You donâ€™t need to join a club, pay membership, send photographs or give your life history. The devaluation of our home by parties is well into six figures, so we do look for a contribution to pool maintenance, damage, etc. from those who havenâ€™t had us to a recent uncharged party. We throw parties while we enjoy them, not as a business. While revellers defray the costs of parties we can throw more of them.

The website says they charge Â£30 per couple and they do not get less than 100 people per party... so a minimum of Â£1500 pounds per party... they have two parties a month being the last weekend on the month... Fri is singles & couples... Sat is couples only... Can't find a charge for singles... prolly the same as couples... I've noticed that single men certainly have to pay a premium! So a conservative estimate of turnover would be Â£3 - a month... not too bad! smile

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Don't take this that I am criticising their methods of business/fun... far from it...

24 Aug 2004

Quote by VenusnMars
I did it again! Wrote an e-mail..............
But this time it went into `email waiting to be sent` because I remembered just how personally I take it when wankers hit back!
It was actually very polite, but one cannot ensure a polite response from such a mentality.
Venusxxx

What you are sending/sent an email to Radlett... wow... :thumbup: - I never thought about doing that... good on ya!

24 Aug 2004

Quote by bluexxx
Why don't they just say that they don't like cuddly people and have done with it

Well they are aren't they... and to be honest what is the difference between that and sexism, racism... It can be argued that being fat is a choice - I agree to a certain extent but fairly extensive studies have demonstrated the opposite to be true...
I'm suprised there has been so little response to this - I guess I am in my own cuddly little minority... lol

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24 Aug 2004

Quote by warwick
I will be out of action for at least a couple of weeks, but will most definately be back. So im not leaving the site but wont be able to post from Monday for a while

Good luck with your operation and hope it is a complete success! xxx

24 Aug 2004

Being a woman of well stacked and goodly proportions :twisted: I was a little put out to read the comment below taken from the Radlett Parties website;

Attendance profile drifts with time, but the average age seems currently to be around 35. There is no restriction on age or physique, but it has been many months since we saw any one who had lost pride in their appearance to the extent of being fat.

Am I being too sensitive? smile

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24 Aug 2004

Quote by frogster
Judy to Tap Dance, whilst waving her...

knickers at Sarge demanding that he see