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WibblyWobbly
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 66
Straight Male, 57
0 miles · South Yorkshire

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Quote by Vix
Will, you are just wrong. Wrong I tells ya.
Now, that Charlotte Green, from Radio4 news has the sexiest voice, but she does have the perfect face for radio. sad
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As much as I hate to contradict you the most perfect woman on Radio 4 is the one and only Samantha... no one yet has managed to find a picture to do her justice... but we live in hope!
Quote by Happy Cats
The attraction of this site to the purchasers is its large number of members.
The large number of members is what will attract new paying members
To do anything that might make this existing large number leave would therefore not be in the interest of the owners
Keeping this site in its existing format with its existing mods is low maintenance for the owners.
My belief is that it will be new members, attracted by the size of the site, that will give the owners their return on investment.
The new owners are obviously not daft - they know that if they dont look at after the existing large group of members, they will go off and form their own free "son of SH" site.
So, nothing to worry about.

Hiya HC... smile
Just bear one thing in mind though... those of us that actively contribute in the forum are very much a minority of the total membership... in the bigger scheme of things, although we are the most vociferous we are also the most expendable... just do the math and you'll see what I mean.
The new owners will have seen that there are a lot of inactive members out there and by greatly improving the features of SH they can attract them with the benefits which the members will gladly pay for... more chat rooms for different interests... better photo ads section... Lots of members + relatively small fee = nice grin on face.
As a self employed person I cannot criticise that at all... good luck to them... all I'm pointing out is that although we were/are doing a lot of shouting we are the least of their worries... as the real money is in the other parts of the site. I sincerely believe that if they removed the forum sections it would not affect their future cash flow one iota... I don't think that is in their plans but if it got to be too much trouble then who could blame them for removing it.
We have a simple choice... we continue here and as long as things are not changed too detrimentally then we are going to be happy... with regard to munches etc... we are innovative enough to rebrand if necessary... and carry on with the same rules.
If things become too unpalatable then a leader amongst us will finally have enough and will create another forum that will cater for what we like about this site and that is chatting, sharing, meeting, exchanging jokes and just general all round silliness...
All I'm saying is let's not get too inflated with our own importance on SH... I do believe we are relatively small fry in their bigger scheme of things... just a pragmatic and hopefully realistic POV... awaits brickbats... smile
Hugggggggggggs and and happy Saturday's smile
Wibbly
xxx
Quote by Martin_M
SPAMMING
We will never spam and are registered with data protection

Trouble is that spam has different definitions... some companies consider it fine to contact members/customers from sister companies... and the thing is we have to opt out which often leads to more spam... ok last word from me on this subject for now...
Quote by Martin_M
Hi All:

Oooh hello... it's Stavros... ;-) Insider SH joke Martin... don't get offended...
Quote by Elliot
The servers are located in the US, and will remain there. There are plans to move the site to a brand new super high spec server, which will still be in the same rack, so infact the server will be moving around 10 inches downwards biggrin
And on the subject of spam, we dont spam, we dont sell info, we dont do popups. smile

So you will be affected by the legal points that Reese has introduced... I'm puzzled... I rent a whole stack of server space in the US... with Viaverio so I'm sure that you need to look into the points that Reese has introduced.
Quote by Reese
P.S. to Elliot: Out of curiosity, in which country is the SH server located?

Good question and is the location of the SH database going to be moved? Also, are you intending to spam... ooops... I mean 'contact' all the membership via email about all your other business ventures... we have enough unsolicited commercial email PLEASE don't add to it!
smile
Quote by TallFunLondon
In other word there seems something a bit odd, possibly flipant and definately casual about all of this.

Oh dear... stones and glass houses comes to mind... hugggggs I know you meant well... smile
Actually I did notice that in the reply to my query about privacy guarantee was spelt wrong and I wondered if that was a 'get out clause' or just carelessness. biggrin
Hey ho... Derby should be interesting tonight if we were not otherwise engaged I'd be asking Calista and Morbius for details.
WW
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Quote by Jas-Tim
Ringing Heaven obviously rolleyes lol lol lol lol
Jas
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Bluddy hilarious... excellent! lol
Quote by Morbius
OPEN INVITE TO THE NEW OWNERS
I openly invite any/all of you to come along and see/meet the kind of people you are going to be dealing with.
I know its very short notice, but that seems to be the theme of the day lol.
Morbius.

I do think that is a very sensible suggestion... well done you!
Wibbly
xx
Quote by Phoenix
Surely you don't use your primary email account on here ???

What we have here is a failure to quote... were you talking to me? smile
Of course I don't have my primary email account on here... but some people will do - those that are less net savvy... rules and regs are designed to protect all... and in any case... even if my email address here is a tertiary one... it doesn't mean that I wish it to be abused... :P
I'm concerned about the privacy issue... it is one thing putting your trust in fellow swingers but quite another when a commercial entity becomes involved. Do we have your word that you will not sell our email addresses to marketeers for instance?
Hello Alex darlink...
Could you add jay n dee to the list please... They went to the mini munch that Sarah organised and they were a bit of a hit! smile
Ta passionkiss
Wibbly... biggrin
Can you add me and GT to the reserve list please... thought we couldn't make it but now we can... hey ho...
Ta muchly! smile
Quote by little gem
a bootle ey??? is that some new sex toy I should know about??? ;)
:rascal:

It must be an North West industrial version of the Old lady who lives in a shoe... rolleyes best I could come up with sorry...
I've still got a bottle of champers chilling in the fridge - burpday pressie from Bro #1 (not afore mentioned Bro #2)... shall I crack it open?
Quote by willxx69
It's not really any of our business, of course, but by posting this thread you have got us all wondering what will happen next confused confused . Hope it all works out for you.
Will

Hi Will and all... naturally you are quite right... Firstly, I do regret involving you all in my knee jerk action... it isn't like me and I just panicked... 'look at me' posts are not my style and the next day I felt quite embarrased about my actions. However... friends will laugh with you at silly mistakes... and I am kind of laughing.
Last night I spoke to the suspected brother 'account' and it appears not to be him... I'm still getting over the coincidence of it all... same names, ages and area... I have yet to speak to my brother in real life... when the time seems right I'll broach the subject... so meanwhile I'm going to carry on as normal and if I act like a dork again you have my permission to spank me! ;-)
Thank you for caring...
smile
Hugggggggggggggs
Wibbly
xxx
hugggggggggggggggggs Cathy... have a fantastic time... hope you got your Delhi belly out of the way early smile
WW and GT
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Quote by Deviated Prevert
WW could you possibly provide a reference for that statement about HPV getting through condoms? I only ask because I've just checked with Mrs. DP (who has a PhD in Immunology), and she's pointed out that since HIV is about the same size as HPV, a condom that can stop one should be able to stop the other.
Of course, since HPV can colonise pretty much any part of the body (it being the cause of normal warts as well as genital ones), the danger of infection comes from contact with bits that aren't covered by condoms (like fingers, etc).

I must admit to being puzzled too... I phoned the offices of Cancer Screening but no idea as to whom I conversed...
Apparently this PDF document about The Aetiology of Cervical Cancer is full of interesting stuff that your wife might be interested in...
Quote by Angel Chat
Even so condoms are still a good idea.

I don't for a second think that WW was advocating not using condoms rolleyes
Errr quite so... rolleyes
Learnt a scary thing yesterday regarding the Human Papilloma Virus which is responsible for cervical cancer...
A website said that 'Using a condom offers only very limited protection from transmission of HPV.'... so I queried it... and was told it was because the HPV is so small it passes through! :shock: (gulp)...
So make sure you attend your cervical smear sessions ladies!
Quote by treasurechest
Of course you know him better than anyone, but could it be that he might be interested in swinging and not necessarily negatively?

Of course, you could be completely right... and in a weeks time hopefully I am laughing this off as one of life's curve balls...
WW
Quote by DreamerHelen
I don't think he should be banned, after all having seen whats on your computer it may have awoken something in him and he may be genuinely interested in joining in.....however if he's just here to cause trouble then a ban would be in order or a sharp talking to from the Mods.....
But I DO think you should talk to him and make it clear that it is your life and what you choose to do is up to you and that you're very upset with him for abusing your trust.....
Feel free to PM me if you need to.

Thanks Helen... well firstly I don't know for sure if it is him or not... I've emailed the account asking them to call me... You are right... he shouldn't be banned... and myself and GT were just talking that it may be that he is curious about the site... but he should have checked with me first really and that doesn't excuse the sarcastic 'orgy' comment with a guest in our house. My brother wouldn't cause trouble here... he would just be being nosy...
I will talk to him about him abusing my trust... however even if it is him and he denies it... I cannot prove it one way or the other... this is a potential lose lose situation for me sadly...
Quote by cc_7up
If he turns out to be your Bro, and won't see reason then reach back in your mind,and maybe you will remember something on him that will ensure his compliance, but only as a last resort.
cc_7up

Cor blimey... remind me not to get get on the wrong side of you... LOL... regardless of what he may or may not have done... I still love my brother... I couldn't do something like that... rolleyes
Cheers
WW
Quote by postie
Personally if it was my brother, I'd be after a ban as he'd only be here causing trouble, either that or I'd have to ask for a name change and that would be a pain in the arse.
Hope it sorts out for you WW.

No I couldn't ask for a ban... we live in a free society after all... he is free to choose who, where and what he wants to do. I have considered a name change and have sent PMs to a couple of mods asking their advice... thanks for your concern.
Hiya peeps...
:cry:
My quandry... last night my brother came round to see me on my birthday. GT, myself and he were talking downstairs in the kitchen and while I nipped to the loo he shot upstairs, quick as a flash, to my office to use my computer, which he didn't ask permission to use. Open on my PC is a window to this forum... plus a lovely long PM from someone to which I was constructing a reply to in my head...
Our PCs are in our home office upstairs... out of the way... naturally if they were in public view downstairs then I would not have left any windows open. What I didn't expect is that someone, even a family member, would shoot upstairs and use my computer without first asking... PC's are private things... and I am annoyed with my brother for abusing his position. GT could hardly stop him from rushing upstairs... it is his brother in law when all is said and done.
What made matters worse is that a friend from SH called round just prior to my brother leaving to have a chinese with us... we hadn't seen her for ages and it was great to touch base with her again... completely vanilla and friendly... He left... but forgot his jacket and rang the door bell... as I opened it to let him in he made a supposedly humerous comment... 'oh have you started the orgy already'... kinda confirming that he had seen the open windows on my browser... That comment was sneaky and hurtful because it felt like he was sneering or laughing at me...
You may wonder why I am bringing this up here... well I am fully aware that my brother is not stupid and he will have made a mental note of this website's URL... So I checked who joined yesterday and lo and behold someone joined with the name of my brother's and sister in law's name, the right age and location. Naturally I am not going to publicise that name but the coincidence is too great and I feel rather sick...
On the other hand there is the slight chance that it isn't him so I cannot confront the issue unless I know for sure... but right now I am very much in a quandry and need a bit of moral support on how to handle this... If it is you brother... please do the honourable thing and leave this forum... or if you choose not to then please treat my choices with respect and keep whatever you learn about me to yourself and please talk to me...
:cry:
Wibbly
xxx
It was lovely to see Marcuso wandering around with a glowing and bemused expression on his face basking in the affection from his friends... It was great to see your true friends helping with all the hard work necessary in creating in a successful birthday party... you should all be very proud of yourselves in making an old man very happy!.. yeah, yeah I know... I'm five years older...
Thank you Marc... for allowing us to join in at such short notice... and we both wish you a very happy and relaxed birthday on Wednesday... biggrin
it was lovely, finally... getting to properly make the aquaintance of Vix and Reese, Sexy Steph and Kaz... we had our own party going off downstairs... much to the goggle eyed looks from the bartender downstairs... I had my first experience of stroking a pair of augmented breasts and I could not really tell the difference. Just a very, very fine pair of breasts... hmmmm... :twisted:
To Sarah... thank you for asking me twice if I was okay... I said I was was but I think you were perceptive to recognise that something was up but you left it... thank you... you are a 'one in a million' lady.
Thanks for the snuggle David48... thanks to CorrieFem for the compliments on my hair... I must do that style more often... that is... going to bed with damp hair with GT joining me... :twisted:
Thanks to all that I had a natter with (however brief)... Calista, Drifter, Mr Horny, cc-7up, Julie1964, Tanina, redgirlmanc, nomadsoul ( I will remember you live in Clowne one day), rogerthedragon, tattyxpx and the many others I waved hello to!..
Hugggggggggggggggggggs Wendy
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Quote by Vix
I bet you'd object to fried locusts, snails AND Witchetty grubs

No no, I am partial to snails and frogs legs (you missed them off the list) but I really am not a fish lover.
Especially molluscs, erm but not snails, and crusteaceans. Prawns? Fuckin sea maggotts.
Tsk, tsk... your eyesight... I do admit to missing off frogs legs though and that is purely because I like the taste... tastes just like chicken!
Sea maggots! rotflmao
From henceforth it is decreed that 'sea maggot cocktail' is the official name...
I really must get on with some work...
Hugggggggggggs
Wibbly
Quote by Vix
If you find anything that even closely resembles sushi here, hun, then you're welcome to it!
Happy Birthday, y'all.

rolleyes Just no taste some people... I bet you'd object to fried locusts, snails AND Witchetty grubs... actually I just made myself feel sick... couldn't remember how to spell Witchetty grubs so I Googled... and felt faintly nautious at this...
Serving suggestion
Witchetty grubs are traditionally eaten live and raw. Their meat is rich in protein and makes for a highly nutritious snack if you’re tramping through the bush. Raw witchetties have a subtle, slightly sweet flavour and a liquid centre.
It was the 'liquid centre' that had me running for the bathroom...
I think this post could be described as a 'home goal' redface
Huggggggggs Mrs...
Quote by Reese
P.S. to WW: ...I'd gladly attempt to order you in some sushi as a birthday prezzie, but, of course, you'd have to come to Glastonbury to collect it. ;)

Woooo hoooooooooo a sushi birthday cake...
:bounce:
with Wasabi frosting? :P
Purlease remember though... no orange egg things, not even for decoration... (shudder)... just raw, extremely fresh and extremely dead fish! :twisted:
Thank you very much for your birthday greetings biggrin passionkiss
Quote by Alexandra
Happy Birthday To:
and the utterly Gorgeous very delightful Site's own WIBBLYWOBBLY according to Marcuso's Party thread.

redface Awwwwwwwwwwwww... thank you! Mine is on the 14th... and I'm FIVE years older than Marcuso... cya later dudes and dudettes! cool
Wow W - same as my Dad's!
You know they put the flags up for your birthday!!!!!!
Are you two doing anything special on Monday????

Yep and they used to play the national anthem at on Radio4 but not sure if they still do that... standards are dropping! smile
Nope... was planning on just having a takeaway but do you wanna meet up for a chinese instead? Go on say yes... you know you want to! smile
Muah!