I'm concerned about the privacy issue... it is one thing putting your trust in fellow swingers but quite another when a commercial entity becomes involved. Do we have your word that you will not sell our email addresses to marketeers for instance?
Learnt a scary thing yesterday regarding the Human Papilloma Virus which is responsible for cervical cancer...
A website said that 'Using a condom offers only very limited protection from transmission of HPV.'... so I queried it... and was told it was because the HPV is so small it passes through! :shock: (gulp)...
So make sure you attend your cervical smear sessions ladies!
Hiya peeps...
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My quandry... last night my brother came round to see me on my birthday. GT, myself and he were talking downstairs in the kitchen and while I nipped to the loo he shot upstairs, quick as a flash, to my office to use my computer, which he didn't ask permission to use. Open on my PC is a window to this forum... plus a lovely long PM from someone to which I was constructing a reply to in my head...
Our PCs are in our home office upstairs... out of the way... naturally if they were in public view downstairs then I would not have left any windows open. What I didn't expect is that someone, even a family member, would shoot upstairs and use my computer without first asking... PC's are private things... and I am annoyed with my brother for abusing his position. GT could hardly stop him from rushing upstairs... it is his brother in law when all is said and done.
What made matters worse is that a friend from SH called round just prior to my brother leaving to have a chinese with us... we hadn't seen her for ages and it was great to touch base with her again... completely vanilla and friendly... He left... but forgot his jacket and rang the door bell... as I opened it to let him in he made a supposedly humerous comment... 'oh have you started the orgy already'... kinda confirming that he had seen the open windows on my browser... That comment was sneaky and hurtful because it felt like he was sneering or laughing at me...
You may wonder why I am bringing this up here... well I am fully aware that my brother is not stupid and he will have made a mental note of this website's URL... So I checked who joined yesterday and lo and behold someone joined with the name of my brother's and sister in law's name, the right age and location. Naturally I am not going to publicise that name but the coincidence is too great and I feel rather sick...
On the other hand there is the slight chance that it isn't him so I cannot confront the issue unless I know for sure... but right now I am very much in a quandry and need a bit of moral support on how to handle this... If it is you brother... please do the honourable thing and leave this forum... or if you choose not to then please treat my choices with respect and keep whatever you learn about me to yourself and please talk to me...
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Wibbly
xxx