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Xdionysusx
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 51
UK

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Just out of curiosity........
I only used to drink Red wine, insisting only that will do, but now in this heat i have swung to a nicely chilled Rose or white...
So whats your preference??????????
And does it have to have a cork in it!!!!!!
dunno
Quote by ricky13
i love having sex in the shower but i have just done this in the bath very messy but there is somthing about it.
any comments confused

Shower definately.... unless its a hot tub.. then WOW!!!!!
wink
Quote by ricky13
i love having sex in the shower but i have just done this in the bath very messy but there is somthing about it.
any comments confused

Shower definately.... unless its a hot tub.. then WOW!!!!!
wink
Quote by vdub
Night owl - I spend all day just wanting to go bed and then it comes to around 7-8:00 and I suddenly wake up!

Sounds to me like you have a sexy fille waiting in it!!! wink
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
A night owl here also.
The thing is also, i only really like to post on the forum at night when our son is in bed as its a little more peaceful then lol
Tony wink

Oh god tell us about it, thats a whole new post to come yet!!!
" how long does it take your kids to go to sleep on the summer nights"
rotflmao :rotflmao: :doh: banghead
Quote by winchwench
I am most definately a night owl...........its been known for me to stay up all night just nattering.
Mr W is an early bird- and a saint, I get a cuppa in bed almost every morning passionkiss
So we work kinda well together!
Apart from the fact that when one of us wants a shag- the other ones asleep! mad

I can stay up all night nattering too!!!!
Whether on the phone or Beasty and I sometimes lay there giggling and chatting!!!! lol
Quote by Iceraider
Night owl normally, I can easily stay up till silly oclock on the net and farting about, i just don't do mornings.

Just likeBeasty!!! biggrin
Quote by DeeCee
no............
im exactly the same........
fancy a shag?

Errrmmm rolleyes Sorry no...
You got a bi missus though?? rotflmao :rotflmao:
Just a thought, but wouldn't it be fun to try and make alias profile names for people you have met!!!!!!!!!!!!!
lol
In a totally flattering nice way of course!!!!
dunno
It has become increasing apparent that contarary to my own belief and that of others.. that i actually dont mind mornings AND i'm a night person!!!
Is it possible to be both are people generally only one or the other???
In the summer.. i.e.. now.. i dont mind getting up @ 7am.. :shock:
But i also dont mind going to bed REALLY late!!! :twisted:
But like most i HATE the winter when i can't wait to go to bed and can't stand getting up!!! :sad:
Saying that i do feel a bit like an OAP mid afternoon feeling like a kip needed after lunch!!! rotflmao :rotflmao:
Is it just me??????
Foxy lol
Quote by splendid33
someone (who shall remain nameless) told me I was "absolutely splendid" when I undressed in front of them...... it made me laugh till I cried and we couldn't have sex as I was laughing so much....... now I use the word when i am taking the mick.... and when I logged in here I wanted something that would make me giggle... so splendid it was.. the 33 is my age.
lol :lol: :lol:

MMMMMMM i bet babes :lol:
Quote by Steve_Mids
Erm.........
Aint got a clue :rascal:

rotflmao
Hmmmm let me think now. rolleyes
Quote by browning
Pulled into a country park car park to have a wee, interior light goes on in a car about 10 feet away, woman in car waves me over, so I wonder over(thinking i'm gonna get mugged or something!) she's starker's sitting next to hubby and I ended up shagging both of them!!

Oh my God!!!!!! :shock:
Quote by Dollyminx
My nickname is Missy and has been for years but there's already a Missy here! Dollyminx... I just like word play... oh and I'm sweet as candy!
Rammy Ram... bit obvious... Derby Rams FC.
cool

HeHe Dolly you are a minx lol
And i bet you taste sweet too! :twisted:
We always consider changing it.. but then change our minds again!! lol
They have sort of become our mascot!!!!! rotflmao :rotflmao:
Quote by seemorbutz
mine came about when me and the wife were on a beach in majorca,with a few bottles of wine consumed i stated there were bums everywhere...all i can see is butts,look over there i seemorbutts...and the nickname has stuck ever since

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Quote by kittysin
Totally random.......wanted something totally different to anything I use in other forums, which are generally based on my real name.
So.....I used a porn name generator website :happy:

OOOOOOOOOh how coolio!!! :grin:
Whats the link to that then?????
Quote by redangel
I'm Redangel.
Cause I have dyed reddish hair, and I'm a little angel!!!!!
:angel:

Hence thats a descriptive profile. Awwwwww bless lol
I bet the devil lurks occasionly though!!! :twisted:
Quote by Freckledbird
Is there a particular 'type' of username that puts you off or makes you think 'no way would I meet them' ?
Just had a look at the list of users online. There's one that stands out, for me anyway. I won't mention the actual name as that would be unfair - but I'd hesitate to talk to them. confused
What are your thoughts?

We dont tend to think too much about the name of a profile.. its more about the pictures, description and simularities in the fun sought. Then the chats or meet that follows seems to cloud the profile name as irrelevant!!!
Although you have just inspired me to ask why some profiles are so called!!!!
:lol2:
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
If i was to become single now (sure i wouldn't) then i think when the time came to find another partner i would look for someone thats not in the swinging scene, i need to really be able to trust my partner to be in this scene and i don't think (for me) the trust could be there that early in a relationship, I would be on edge all the while wondering if she would stop with me or find another.
Tony wink

A valid point but if it came to it " trust" is there in any relationship swinging or not babes...
I have been in non scene relationships but fell in love with a fellow scene player...
Happier now then ever and no issues of trust on either part as we have the choice and the pleasure of play at any time. Plus the nature of our choice of play differs from some.
lol
Pondering on the post from Frecklebird.... rolleyes
I just wondered.. what is the reason for your profile name!!???
Do you pick one randomly... describing a trait..... or just the quickest thing that came into your minds???
We would love to know as some of them are great!!!
Having met and chatted to quite a few of you now, i always try to work out how the profile name reflected on the couple!!!
Knowing that some couples or even singles have many user names is even more intriguing dont you think???
dunno
Quote by corriefem
Well we have just had the most amazing weekends curtosy of SH friends ( chams and birthday parties etc etc ) .
Anyway Friday night at Chams we had taken ID with us and I wanted to see what MartellNotts middle name was on his passport which he sulkily showed me - wont tell you what it was but he did not want me to know what is was :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: lol :lol:
So now I always wanted a middle name but no one gave me one :cry: ( well they have but not a middle name ) :lol:
So have you got a problem with people klnowing your middle name? is it an embarrassment to you or is it just that MartellNotts is an embarrassment lol lol lol

Mine is Ann which is ok i guess! Beasty does not have one!
Quote by corriefem
Well we have just had the most amazing weekends curtosy of SH friends ( chams and birthday parties etc etc ) .
Anyway Friday night at Chams we had taken ID with us and I wanted to see what MartellNotts middle name was on his passport which he sulkily showed me - wont tell you what it was but he did not want me to know what is was :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: lol :lol:
So now I always wanted a middle name but no one gave me one :cry: ( well they have but not a middle name ) :lol:
So have you got a problem with people klnowing your middle name? is it an embarrassment to you or is it just that MartellNotts is an embarrassment lol lol lol

Mine is Ann which is ok i guess! Beasty does not have one!
Quote by winchwench
I'd scratch my arse, leave the loo seat up and ....er.....
wank. Always wanted to know if thats any different for a bloke! :confused:

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Well i always leave it down.. doesthat piss you guys off???
As for wanking... I'm a little bit nympho so no change there if i were a bloke!!!! redface
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
Just wondering how important swinging is to you?
Could you just stop and never look back, would you miss it?
Also, if your single... would any future partner you get have to be either a swinger or be happy for just yourself to swing?
For us, its became quite a fun part of our lifes, we could give it up but it would be missed to quite a high degree.
We are very happy with each other sexually but the bit of extra fun you get with swinging makes us even more horny.. and normally after we have played with someone we have quite a long passionate night when were on our own again.
If i was to be single now and meet a new partner then i could go without the swinging but i would try my hardest to convince him otherwise first :twisted: lol
Not that me and Tony would brake up... hopefully!
So come on guys, whats your thoughts on this?
Shaz x

We both come from relationships "on the scene" and are happiest with the choice to play or not to play.
We have participated in a few meets together now but find we are happy to leave it for a while also.
We will never give up nor pursue it as a weekly " sport", but just as and when we feel like it.
We have met some great couples to be friends with and/or play with.
(Hi to you all x x)
Quote by kcharry
i like my women to dress in sexy clothes and very sexy underwear, but most of all to know that they look sexy and that the guy they are with just cant wait to undress her and make love!
Thats what turns me on.

Me too!!!! :twisted: Apart from they'd be with me!!
Quote by DANEM
I have spent over 18hours in the past 2 days ironing for the entire house (there is only 4 of us!)
I have just discovered muscles in my arms I never knew existed! biggrin
Any one else hate ironing or any tips on how to get it done without it taking half of the week?

Awwwwwww babes... I pay someone to do mine x
Quote by Darkfire
fook me I'm lost already lol
but, from my own perspective, I've played with women, and am attracted to women as well as blokes, therefore in my own mind, I'm bi, because i've 'done it' and liked it and want to do it again :lol:
Bi-curious, to me, is thinking about it, fantasising about it, and kinda being attracted to other fems but wont be 100% sure til you've tried it, as in played with, not just snogged dunno
I like 1:1 with another fem, not just to play as part of a 3some.... but I like (shock horror :shocksmile blokes far too much to want a relationship exclusively with another fem (cant call it lesbian, cos I like blokes too much, even though I rarely play with blokes from here ) - does that make any sense? :lol:
but here's where I get confused :huh: - I'm only 'bi' - as in full on fancying another fem if they 'fit ' a particular type. I'm not attracted to all women, just as i'm not attracted to all blokes, she has to 'fit' :dunno:

Totally agree babes.... after 10 (not that i'm counting) fantastic experiences.. alone, as a couple and as a 3 some i do not consider myself curious in the slightest!
It has been a journey from thinking about it.. to kisses... to fondling and exploring... as bi-curious.....
To the now fully fledged Bi sexpot happy to pleasure a sexy lady completely and as successfully as any man could.
And yes not just "any" lady, in fact Beasty and i have the same taste in women!!!
But i am happy to be in a straight relationship and always will be.
kiss
Quote by Dollyminx
The swollen throbbing little pink bump that's aching to be scratched....
... of course lol

Mmmmmmmmm Dolly... Anytime babes x x :twisted:
Quote by Kiss_Me
Its my birthday - honest officer!

I hope it's quick as your profile says 35 now... ageing fast there - it's like Dorian Grey syndrome ;)
Who is that in your atavar? whip
Are you getting the gist yet? I'm not going to stop til I get the truth.... :twisted:
The Bloke Minci Code is my new mission..
It's Beasty......we just Lent Bloke the picture!! wink rolleyes innocent