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Quote by goose35
Hmm - I dunno, doesn't sound like rocket science to me ... and hasn't this design been in use for decades?

mmmm
Technology eh lol
Don't it move so fast these days.
Mind thats the best instruction manual ive ever seen Jas-Tim
I must agree with that sentiment 100% ... cool
Hmm - I dunno, doesn't sound like rocket science to me ... and hasn't this design been in use for decades?
Quote by Minx_N_BigDanny
Hi,
joined the site after finding out that my other half has been on here for a while. Would love to meet up with some of you guy's on my own at the next munch in essex so that i can feel my way on my own terms.
Thanks,
Minx

Would love to meet you too if you're going to be out and about. Do let me know, am not far from you I think. Welcome to the site btw. cool
If only you were closer or I was closer ... have visited Townhouse though as I head back to the Wirral once in a while so who knows, could bump into there one of these days cool
Yep, it was a fantastic episode last night and very sad at the end ... what a way to end the series - wow!
As an aside - must admit - I do find Tracey Ann Oberman quite sexy ... especially with straight hair ... though she does have quite big hands for a woman ... lol
Quote by Jags
Good try - but just getting in the same room would have been easier and more honest!!

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sexy sue
toolman

rolleyes :roll: :roll:
Wow! That's clever ... can't beat a good bit of programming cool
Quote by cockslut
... you cant have dozens of passwords for diferent sites you use ...

Not sure I understood this part of your post. Can't have dozens of passwords ?
I would NOT suggest using the same password on all your accounts - that's very insecure and basically means anyone who discovers one password, knows them all.
It'd be like having all the locks on your house the same so you only need one key to access all areas.
I must admit that I use the same password for unimportant sites - chat forums for example, where there is no personal detail of a financial nature or any address/phone numbers - I even register those against a non-essential email address. Anything financial or where I buy things, I have different passwords for.
Quote by mazandden
Right this is a lot more condensed than my original attempt at this thread which i managed to delete - grrr!
Anyway we're feeling very stupid right now following a chat with a girl in the chatroom last night, which lead to us giving her our msn.
Anyway, she invited us to join some group thing with her, which i was a bit suspicious about, given that we didn't know her at all and she was soooo keen for us to do so.
Den was not so skeptical and proceded to type in our details (thankfully of our joint email account that we rarely use) including address and password. (this was different from the msn account we were talking to her on.)
Stupid - I know, but we were both MORE than a tad tipsy after an entire day and night celebrating my graduation( which was briliiant by the way!)
Anyway, as we were on a different account, we then noticed the one we had just typed in, being signed into! :shock: :shock: :shock:
And the 'girl' kept asking why we had not accepted her invitation with the address we were on just then. She was very pushy and really wanted us to sign up.
We noticed our other account being signed in and out of and when we quizzed her, guess what? she logged off!!
So my question is, HOW BIG A PAIR OF NUMPTIES DO YOU THINK WE ARE?! (please take into account the drunkeness!)
mad redface :doh: banghead
Anyway, we have since deleted all emails and changed password in that account.....
But think this takes this biscuit for weirdos on here! lol
from the numpties xx

Er, you asked so ... HUMUNGOUS NUMPTIES ... cool
These people prey on decent peoples willingness to see the good in others. If you haven't done so already - I would change the passwd of the joint email account set up a new account to replace it and no longer use the old account - email addies are a dime a dozen after all.
As a Rule ... genuine sites should never ask you to tell them your account details - they own the site so they don't need your password to access the information if they want to.
It's like banks asking you for your bank card number and pin number! They don't need to know that.
Once bitten, twice shy ... treat this as a learning experience.
8-)
Quote by Mal
Kentgreg
I've removed your avatar - cockshots are not allowed.
By the way, are you 46 or 50?
Mal
PS - remember who you log in as next time!!

LOL - you have a thing about checking people ages Mal!
Maintain self respect!
Think you're sounding desperate, you're better than that man!
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Might do as I like a bit of fetish ... but will decide nearer the time ... and yes, the Halloween TG usually does sell out.
I have to be honest, I find it ridiculous that people are complaining about the fact that it's such a long wait or hard slog to get an appt at a GUM clinic as an excuse for not bothering to do so!
FFS, yes, it can be a MAJOR pain in the arse trying to get an appt but don't you think you SHOULD? There are a few - few - clinics that do a walk in service and whilst you'll have a few hours wait to see someone, if you have one in your area I think it's worth it. That's what I do and I'm with PoloLady on this - people will spend hours going to meets or spend hours in an empty car park hoping for a meet so put the same effort into getting checked up!
Quote by foxylady2209
It usually stops conversations - but I make stained glass windows.

Really? I think that's brilliant ... could come in handy cool
Me - Martial arts at the Bob Breen Academy in London, enjoying the gardening experience at the moment as only have had a garden since November last year, Star Wars obviously , built my own website a while back in HTML and keep meaning to upgrade to Flash, helping little old ladies to cross the road ... general stuff like everyone else.
Well, I had to vote '1' as it was closest to being accurate for me. I'm straight, not bi-curious in the least but I wouldn't say I freak out at accidental contact either.
It's not for me but I don't have issues about other people's interests - we're all different etc.
Database Admin ... cleaning up after end users fuck things up! cool
Jedi, cunning Linguist and none too shabby at massage either ...
Question is - how many people actually DO get regular checks? I asked this a while back and whereas everyone talks the talk - my suspicion is that not many do ... mine was 2.5 months ago ... and no, nobody actually responded to the question.
Now I see what you mean ... thanks kiss_me ... and I certainly would love to sometime wink
Quote by lookingforfun1
I have just started to look at some of the chatrooms and noticed how many guys there are on web cams and all seem to be wanking off. Does this really get the women going?
Why dont as many women do it on Cam

... because not many women have knobs to wank off? cool
Anyway, just want to say that I enjoyed chatting to THE Fabio yesterday along with blkkojak, 'twos', foxy and some others yesterday. Had some good humoured banter going on.
Pssst ... you might want to tell people where you're doing this ... general location that is lol
In the bin I guess - I've seen a few quite raggedy looking ones around so it's fair to say they weren't made to last. They'll be replaced with new ones come Euro 2008.
Got to say, it's been nice seeing people fly the flag recently. Nothing wrong with that at all.
It exists but it does require a lot of patience and an acceptance that most nights will/could be 'wasted' ... keep your eyes open for possible locations and check them out but keep a mind on the safety aspect of this activity. You won't get people telling you where the 'best' places are though ...
Check out the sticky at the top for good general advice.
Quote by sheddy
... we are at the same flat (luxury apartment) ...

Like it ... thought I was reading something on Rightmove for a split second ... ;-)
I'm absolutely amazed that you guys can access sites like this from work ... it'll be blocked where I work and if it isn't, monitored and subject to the old bollox about appropriate use of work equipment/time etc.
All sounds very complicated to me!
All the talk about people who don't want to pay for buffet because they're not eating and don't want the left over money going to this or that charity or any charity or I'm teetotal so should pay less etc etc sounds like a horrendous group of peeps ... sort of "I paid £x so must be sure I get £x worth of food/drink and he drank more than me so should pay £x+ etc etc" ... creepy!
It's all swings and roundabouts, some will get less and some will get more so evens out overall!
I think that unless it looks like the organiser is ripping people off - and I don't think that's the case here - once the initial opinion gathering has been done, it has to be a case of the organiser making an 'executive decision' really and telling people "This is what the cost will be because it cost £x for the room, £x for the buffet and I'm expecting around this many people attending. Any money left over will go to staff as tips or to this charity" ... then people who are interested will go and those who object to something or other won't.
You can't meet everyones requirements all the time no matter how hard you try - and if you keep trying to, nothing will happen.
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I don't know about people being born confident because I think a lot of that comes from your upbringing and your surroundings - but I believe even people who are 'shy' can learn to be confident in certain types of situation through experience/familiarity ... and to some extent by 'acting that way'.
In certain circles, it's often stated that It's not WHAT you say but HOW you say it ...

If experience gives you confidence, how many times must you do something well to be confident in doing it?
Depends on the individual surely? Some people take longer than others but it's still experience that grows and with it the confidence - the self belief.
I would hazard a guess that most or all of the sites mentioned in the dogging locations section will be either no longer used or far too well known for anything much to be happening at them.
Other people can correct me if I'm wrong of course - I checked out a couple places off the A1M that are mentioned on a couple nights a few months back and whilst there were a lot of cars there, there was nothing going on and certainly no couples there. Got to admit, I didn't feel too safe there so not surprised no couples appeared.