...try the webcam forum next door!!
good luck
sorry to hear that Rainbows...I guess your friend's reaction is a typical one from people not involved in this kind of community. 'Normal' folks often feel threatened by swingers, as they think that we have rejected 'conventional' lifestyles in order to pursue something better, so they feel when we make such a confession that we're saying 'monogamy is boring' and they take it as a personal crticism of how they live. I found a similar situation after my divorce, my 'friends' were fine when I was unhappy and living in restricted circumstances, but once I'd got myself sorted and found fresh and new happiness, their attitudes towards me changed negatively.
Hope your friend comes to realise that you are not a different person or advocating swinging as suitable for everyone..or even worse going to try and nick her husband!!
:P :P :P