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Quote by bonnienclyde
I agree that it should be taught within a historical context though - although to what degree/depth I'm unsure of.

I think it should be taught in some depth but age appropriately. Tell a kid millions of jews, gypsies, Russians, disabled died it can be just a number to them. Genocide and ethnic cleansing isn't just a thing of history books, it still happens take Rwanda and Bosnia in recent years for example and sadly it will probably happen again somewhere, maybe not on the holocaust scale but it can still happen.
Yes I agree too..although it seems impossible to believe that one human can behave in that way to another it's still happening as you point out. Our cultured, 'civilised' lives somehow breed complacency...but it is supposed intelligent, sophisticated people in power or the power to change things that let things like this happen. Don't want to get party political or sectarian on this one, as the left can be as bad as the right, Christians as bad as Catholics, Muslims as bad as Jews..but Farenheit 911 is on tonight..just illustrates and proves the saying 'power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely'
I think 'we' all have it in us to behave abhorrently, how abhorrent I guess depends ultimately on the likelihood of getting away with it, self control and the containment of our own demons...hope that's not too much of an indictment on the Human Race
Quote by blueis
I didn't see it but let me guess, they paired up the family of 9 with a couple with just one or two kids. I was going to say 'no kids' but somehow that wouldn't make such good tv would it.
Anyway, how was it?

Yes that's absolutely right Blueis. Father of the 7 kids was a right lazy bstrd...however by the end he'd undergone a Road to Damascus conversion...mind you , if he'd been my partner he would have been on the road a long time ago!! For once though I didn't hate all the parties concerned...the 'straight' wife was a teacher and really nice..did her best and even praised the 'hubby' at the end of it...always compulsive viewing lol
Quote by Calista
whats the term for one who likes to drink piss?

a southerner judging by the state of their beer
bolt
pmsl @ Calista..hope your frm north Derbyshire hun..you might enjoy a nice pint of Stones's!
Derby itself ... but we have a great independent brewery here smile smile
cool...I hope you they give good head! lol
Christ fancy taking on somebody else's SEVEN kids (eight including the hubby!) for a week...can see some verbal rage coming!
Quote by Ice Pie
My question is, do you think you could persuade a gay man (or a lesbian, for the men) to have sex? And if so, how?

If you turned someone down and then they tried to "persuade" you to go against your nature, how would you feel?
Personally I'd be grossly offended.
with you on that one Ice...poor bloke must hyper-ventilate when Helen (innocently) asks him round for coffee lol
...what about this..T A D G E-A-P H O B I A...a bloke shy of wanking!! lol
Quote by Calista
whats the term for one who likes to drink piss?

a southerner judging by the state of their beer
bolt
pmsl @ Calista..hope your frm north Derbyshire hun..you might enjoy a nice pint of Stones's!
Quote by johnneuk1
I was just wondering, one of my best friend's is gay....and I would seriously love to have sex with him......I HAVE asked him but his usual response is 'Ewww that's gross' LoL.....I've even offered him my arse......
My question is, do you think you could persuade a gay man (or a lesbian, for the men) to have sex? And if so, how?
DISCLAIMER: I'm not trying to say that if someone is gay that they're deluded or need to be 'turned' to the other side.....it's just a simple question.

smile
living in a dream world WAKE UP! :shock:
guess it depends on the individual Helen..many gay folks experimented with the hetero stuff when they were younger, so some may not be totally averse to it....he's probably more pissed off that as a friend, you keep hitting on him!! Go steady or find someone who's available smile
Northen Monkey?? I fancied myself as a rather refined dandy marmoset..wot hoh!!
Quote by Silk and Big G
This new scam is being pulled mainly on older men.
What happens is that when you stop for a red light, a young
nude woman comes up and pretends to be washing your
windshield.
While she is doing this, another person opens your back
door and steals anything in the car.
They are very good at this.
They got me 7 times Thursday and 5 times Friday. I wasn't
able to find them on Saturday.

..nice one..up here in sth yorkshire they'd nick the car as well as any children of pit working age!!! lol
Quote by freckledbird
Definitely fantasies based on what could actually happen :twisted:
Bev
xx

Yes me too Bev...best fantasy to bump into a beautiful girl on Fargate..she has long red hair...and freckles redface
Ps..I've always been a dreamer..someone turn the lights out!!
Quote by freckledbird
Read the information and the AUP

..thanks Freckledbird, was really looking for a mod to tell me if they applied rigid rules for pulling an ad or whether they would do it on the basis of a 'bad' feeling or a number of things just not adding up??
Ps..is that really you in the Avatar??! lol :shock:
Quote by little
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PS...if there are any genuine peeps out there looking for fun with a 25st, 5ft 2", 3 inch dicked, cross eyed black bloke..please get in touch surprised)

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I thought this was hysterical when i read it. :shock:
The PS at the end did it for me !!!!!
Lots of love, hugs and kisses wink
Little
XXX
apologises Little cocked up my last post in your message doh!
PS...if there are any genuine peeps out there looking for fun with a 25st, 5ft 2", 3 inch dicked, cross eyed black bloke..please get in touch surprised)
:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove:
I thought this was hysterical when i read it. :shock:
The PS at the end did it for me !!!!!
..thanks Little...all meant as a bit of fun...I was probably exaggerating about the dick size!
Lots of love, hugs and kisses wink
Little
XXX
Quote by bluexxx
I would be interested to learn what criteria is used to pull an ad or censor it?

If you had read the site rules, as you should have done before you ever posted anything or placed an ad, you wouldn't need to ask. I suggest you go and read the rules before you post again. OK. Bored with this tosser now rolleyes
hmmm..have just read them..with your last comment your maybe in violation of point 3 of the AUP of the site you moderate..I havent been abusive towards you personally or the moderators generally.
Quote by Ice Pie

Thanks Iceman (really) for taking the time to reply to my posts..I'm only trying to start a (light-hearted) debate /discussion about this issue...some of the fakers post the most hilarious adverts..long may they reign! But not withstanding my occasional amusement, in the long run these members will lose the site it's credibility amongst genuine posters. I have no beef with moderators, I dont know them... I would be interested to learn what criteria is used to pull an ad or censor it?
Quote by VenusnMars
Blue - I don’t see how alspals comment you have quoted, is amid at administers or moderators at all,
He is pointing out some members and not moderators

..thank you James02...my point exactly. I had assumed because there were so many 'fake' ads that they wern't moderated at all..I was not criticising the moderation team. I've now been made aware they are moderated which illustrates how siginificant the problem must be...not that moderation is ineffective.....phew..got it out at last!
Damn! Even I couldn`t have rescued myself from that...........but that was a bloody good attempt! lol
Venusxxx
lol...sorry Venus I should have told you...I'm really Bill Clinton, enjoying 'sexual relations' in a south yorkshire pit village!!
Peace & Love
Quote by james02
Blue - I don’t see how alspals comment you have quoted, is amid at administers or moderators at all,
He is pointing out some members and not moderators

..thank you James02...my point exactly. I had assumed because there were so many 'fake' ads that they wern't moderated at all..I was not criticising the moderation team. I've now been made aware they are moderated which illustrates how siginificant the problem must be...not that moderation is ineffective.....phew..got it out at last!
Quote by Rainbows

wow..some people here aren't very welcoming or friendly. I was just intending to open up into discussion the subject of fake posts...don't want to start a cold war over it!! And certainly don't believe there's much can be done about it. In honesty some of these posts are so bad they produce their own amusement.

Psst - word in your ear aspals - don't piss Blue off!!!! confused wink
I've been here three months and I'm STILL scared of her.
Okay Blue - I'm off now bolt
Thanks for the advice Rainbows...don't you be scared of no-one :P
On that high note..I will retrieve my coat and withdraw graciously....
Peace & Love to all...even Blue
Quote by bluexxx
Pardon me..Ice Man..I'm a relatively new poster. Dont think I ws flaming anyone blaming anyone or being critical of anyone other than the 'fake' posters. Was certainly not being critical of the moderators (see my later post confirming that)..maybe you you didnt detect the tongue-in -cheek tone to my original post??

So, you're now saying there are no problems with the moderation of the ads? If so, why the whining post?
you probably didnt read all my posts..the third one says that I was not criticising the moderators...just the peeps that continually post fake ads...
if you read the last sentence in my first one, you'll see I'm quite happy taking the piss out of myself...and have a laugh..isnt that what this what this is all about? smile
Quote by bluexxx
Well I just didnt know!! lol Do the Mods take a cursory looks at the ads themselves?! Have a quick look in the Women seeking men/couples/women sections...and take a random selection, probably 25% can be sussed as 'fake'..thought I'd seen a pic of my mom in there...mind you, you never can tell!
Ps..my original contribution was not intended as a criticism of the site itself or the moderators..but like the idiots that have spoilt dogging fun, 'fake' posters will have the same effect in the ads section, where no-one will trust anybody. What do you think?

So... you want us to ban people just cos their ads "look" fake to you? Well, without proper evidence, we ain't gonna be that harsh. If you have real evidence a particular ad is fake, let us have the evidence and we will deal with it. Otherwise, live with the fact that you aren't getting any!
It could be said that maybe you are just bitter cos you ain't got laid, but hey, would I think such a thing, I think not!!! cool
wow..some people here aren't very welcoming or friendly. I was just intending to open up into discussion the subject of fake posts...don't want to start a cold war over it!! And certainly don't believe there's much can be done about it. In honesty some of these posts are so bad they produce their own amusement.
As I keep saying in my posts...Peace & Love
By the way I'm not at all bitter..maybe a little mal-adjusted!
Quote by Ice Pie
I'm probably not the first to say this, but it must be nearly time that the ad posts on the main site are moderated and edited to some extent...

What makes you think they're not?
I've been responding ( and placing) ads and am very careful to fully comply with the posters requirements. Many of the posters say they are looking for something, then if you get a reply suddenly the goal posts have moved..for example, I'm a black guy and many of the posters say thats what rocks thierboat (fair enough)..so I send the pic..along with a detailed description of myself and what I enjoy and am looking for...invariably no reply, even a courtesy 'no thanks' is ever received...just bad bloody manners in my humble opinion!

How are the mods responsible for other people's bad manners?
I've also noticed a proliferation of out & out 'fake' posts..accompanied by a pic of some bollock naked super model clipped from the www and usually accompanied by some salacious line about how much outrageous shagging the poster enjoys seeing his wife engaged in, or funnier still thanking some fictitious conquest(s) for the gangbang the previous Sunday, you know the sort of thing...'thanks to John, Paul, George & Ringo for the fuck outside the chippy'..come off it!!

Have you reported any fake ads to the mods, or do you think the mods are just there to be flamed?
Rant over!

TFFT
Pardon me..Ice Man..I'm a relatively new poster. Dont think I ws flaming anyone blaming anyone or being critical of anyone other than the 'fake' posters. Was certainly not being critical of the moderators (see my later post confirming that)..maybe you you didnt detect the tongue-in -cheek tone to my original post??
Quote by freckledbird
Hi and welcome Al.
try not to think too much, eh?
Bev

...thanks Bev...no danger of me thinking too much..have to be lying down to do that hun smile
Quote by cu3b4ll
lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol
:welcome: to the Cafe!

Thank you too for your welcome cu3b4ll surprised
Quote by VenusnMars
Definately alone in thinking. Noone here ever thinks. If I find myself thinking I run out into the garden and hit myself over the head with a large object.
That normally sorts me out :mrgreen:
Venusxxx

Thanks Venus....when I said thinking, I wasnt seeking to elevate myself...my usual state of mental consciousness is a little above (and often below) that of a rutting slug! redface
Peace & Love
Mine too at the mo, so I`ll aplogise in advance for.......anything
Welcome to SH btw!
Venusxxx
Thank you for your warm welcome Venus, pleased to meet you smile
Quote by Jags
You think they AREN'T moderated???
If you come across any which are fake then tell us - we haven't got second sight, ESP or foresight and can only respond to reports (use the cunningly disguised link called 'report this ad') from users about problems.
Don't react - proact!
:shock:

Well I just didnt know!! lol Do the Mods take a cursory looks at the ads themselves?! Have a quick look in the Women seeking men/couples/women sections...and take a random selection, probably 25% can be sussed as 'fake'..thought I'd seen a pic of my mom in there...mind you, you never can tell!
Ps..my original contribution was not intended as a criticism of the site itself or the moderators..but like the idiots that have spoilt dogging fun, 'fake' posters will have the same effect in the ads section, where no-one will trust anybody. What do you think?
Quote by VenusnMars
Definately alone in thinking. Noone here ever thinks. If I find myself thinking I run out into the garden and hit myself over the head with a large object.
That normally sorts me out :mrgreen:
Venusxxx

Thanks Venus....when I said thinking, I wasnt seeking to elevate myself...my usual state of mental consciousness is a little above (and often below) that of a rutting slug! redface
Peace & Love
I'm probably not the first to say this, but it must be nearly time that the ad posts on the main site are moderated and edited to some extent...
I've been responding ( and placing) ads and am very careful to fully comply with the posters requirements. Many of the posters say they are looking for something, then if you get a reply suddenly the goal posts have moved..for example, I'm a black guy and many of the posters say thats what rocks thierboat (fair enough)..so I send the pic..along with a detailed description of myself and what I enjoy and am looking for...invariably no reply, even a courtesy 'no thanks' is ever received...just bad bloody manners in my humble opinion!
I've also noticed a proliferation of out & out 'fake' posts..accompanied by a pic of some bollock naked super model clipped from the www and usually accompanied by some salacious line about how much outrageous shagging the poster enjoys seeing his wife engaged in, or funnier still thanking some fictitious conquest(s) for the gangbang the previous Sunday, you know the sort of thing...'thanks to John, Paul, George & Ringo for the fuck outside the chippy'..come off it!!
Rant over!
Peace & Love...
PS...if there are any genuine peeps out there looking for fun with a 25st, 5ft 2", 3 inch dicked, cross eyed black bloke..please get in touch surprised)
Thnx for dropping by...any members looking for discreet, passionate action with a sensitive, conisderate, imaginative good looking sth yorks black guy? (wow..all those superlatives..sorry lol!!)
Can accom tonight in discreet comfortable surroundings..dont be afraid..get in touch..please! Al