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apey_kinks
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 52
Bisexual Female, 43
0 miles · Warwickshire

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I appologise. Yes flower, you did answer the question (although quoting kinks to answer kinda made it out of context, hense my appology), most people however just put that most of the internet is like that. Agreed it is. However I'm sure people who post on here don't realise that it's as publicaly available as it is.
Shant bother again, I was just curious is all, I shall go sit in the corner and shut up.
Quote by flower411
To be fair I didn't realise the forum was visible 2 just anyone. I think some have kinda missed the point ?? Think Apey was just curious as to how many people knew this was possible. Call me blonde because I didn't

We knew
Yeah, 'we' may have known, but I bet that a good 90% of people on here don't I was just curious, but people seem to have got a defensive nature on... oh well, shant bother again
WTF was defensive about my answer ?
You asked the question twice so we answered ....... What is your problem with that ?
We knew ...you didn`t ....you are the one getting all arsey about not getting the answer you expected ! rolleyes
Sorry, it was out of context because you had quoted Kinks post is all, I appologise. Thought u were saying that we knew kinks didnt know... if that makes sense.
Quote by Cubes
To be honest I've always assumed that people would have had a good nosey round the site before commiting to a membership. I know I did. In fact, it was the temptation of wanting to reply to a forum thread that made me sign up! :thumbup:

The problem is Cubes that like everything else, people don't read Tees and Cees... Simple as that, I know this for a fact as I've writen some....
I bet most people here have no idea about the terms of their Sky/BT/Virgin/Mobile contract, and I bet if people read them they would be shocked by some of it.
All I was asking was how many people knew, as almost everyone I've asked did'nt, and I thought it was amusing.
I was curious, and most people (besides SinSi) seemed to have completely missed the point of the post.
Quote by flower411
To be fair I didn't realise the forum was visible 2 just anyone. I think some have kinda missed the point ?? Think Apey was just curious as to how many people knew this was possible. Call me blonde because I didn't

We knew
Yeah, 'we' may have known, but I bet that a good 90% of people on here don't I was just curious, but people seem to have got a defensive nature on... oh well, shant bother again
Wasn't saying that its wrong or unlike other sites, I was just curious how many people realised, think people are under the impression that most of this site is 'protected' behind username and password. Just wondered how many didn't know it wasn't.
I work in the industry and know nothing on the net is private, no matter what.
just a lot of people tend to use the same images, names and taglines on all forums, same way as people tend to use the same password for everything. Just human nature, and thought id mention it as was suprised that kinks and another member had no idea ut was not a private forum.
Only a quick question to ask how many people know that the forum pages are not private and you don't have to be logged (or even have an SH account) in to read them?
Only reason I ask is because Kinks didn't realise. It is in the information about the forums, but thought I'd ask to see, more out of curiosity than anything?
Just for a laugh, why not try going to google, typing
site:www.swingingheaven.co.uk "YourUserNameHere"
and pressing enter.... See what I mean ;)
(I have tried to setup a poll, but the site seems to have farked.... Kinda setup a half poll..... Admins... Help.... think summin's broken... When I click add to add a option field, it unticks the poll option, then just errors when I click apply.. Oh another bug while I'm thinking, goto the playroom, there is a button top right says report a bug, its busted ;)
Anyhow... just reply, I give up with setting it up as a Poll....
Quote by kinks_apey
Mmmmmm Apey cooked a really yummy dinner yesterday, pasta and meatballs. It was all very lovely he even made some home made bread. We had a very nice evening too caught up on some telly, showered and just snuggled till bed time..........We are getting there honest.
Well......as I was saying......we had a nice chilled out evening. By the time we got to bed Mr Apey was a little bit horny his roaming hands kinda gave that away and well normally its a case I never complain only moan (((blush))) except Apey being a plonker really made me moan for the wrong reasons!!! He only forgot to scrub his fingers after chopping chillies that went in the dinner!!!!!!!!!!! I went from moaning rather nicely to moaning and saying ouch in less than 5 mins!!! so if you want a passion killer slap some chillies on your bits lol

Soweeeeey x x x x x
Quote by foxylady2209
Am I good at them? Yes. As it happens I'm damned good at them.
I know that cos people have said so. biggrin
I think being good at something is often about really enjoying doing it.

Hiya tis kinks,
I would have to agree with the above quote. I must say i do really enjoy giving blow jobs. I think a good mixture of techniques, deep throat, teasing and general sexy kinkiness make it more fun and more of a turn on to add to the wow factor rather than same old, same old till jobs done, but i would say that.... they are a turn on for me too!! and well apey never complains........... moans yes lol
Also a friend once told me no matter how late it makes you, never leave the house after an argument without sorting it out because,l if you have an accident you will leave your loved ones with bad memories. Leave telling them you love them.
well said, smile lots spread your love its yours to spread.. Life really is to short to hold grudges. Kinks x x x
For those interested,
Cancelation template -
Ofcom number to complain to
and Twitter hastag -
Which and Ofcom both say that you should be able to get out of your current contract with no penalties, also lots of people have not even been notified of this change yet, and T-Mobile have to give at least 30 days notice.
Might be worth getting out and finding a better contract if you can.
EDIT - Seems T-Mobile have backed down under pressure from the customer,
Yay tis a definate YES and i've found an out fit too will order it on pay day, bring on chams tis looooong over due see u all there kinks and apey x x x x
T-Mobile announced that it's changing it's FUP (Fair Usage Policy) for Data (see If you were on most smartphone contracts it used to be 3Gb, it's now been reduced to 500mb. This is obviously a big concern for a fair few users that use more that 500mb a month (me for example).
Which seem to think it's breaking your contract terms, so keep an eye on and cancel/get discount if you can smile
Go on then, I'll say yes for now.... be rude not to and all ;) Although Kinks isnt sure about the date, so have to check on that
Apey and Kinks
Only affects people that use the GAP (Google App) messaging, this means only if you are using a Nexus or Nexus/S running an original rom (I.E. hardly anyone), if you have a HTC/Sony/LG/Samsung phone, or are using Handcent/Go then there's no issues.
In other words, hardly anyone is affected by the issue. But if you are running an original firmware on a Nexus then you have bigger issues ;)
Quote by john469
a VOLUME slider/control for the cams would be nice.
The current 'audio on/audio off' choice really isn't dynamic enough.

yup i think this a good suggestion sometimes if you watching more than 1 cam and 2 people have the audio on it might be a case that one has really bad taste in music and the other sound rather good a erm... getting naughty ((blush)) not that i ever perv its apey that does that honest lol
confirming on here we couldnt confirm with the shrep thingy as our name was wrong woo hoo bring on the social x x x x
Apey just mentioned a suggestion that isn't half bad...............
Naughty and 40
he said people could let their imaginations run awaywith them, with it just being a 'naughty' theme it can be as cheap or as expensive as you want to make it.
Which ever theme you go with we are looking forward to it as we missed the last one so hopefully make it a good one x x x x x x x x
sorry but can't make the party later hope you all have a fab time, and i hope you all have a splish splash in the jacuzzi for me too x x x x x x x
Quote by kinks_apey
yay i'm packing my case later ooooooooow excited. Early night for me got to be at work for 6am boooooooooooooo x x x x

Which means muggins here will be up too ;) but hey I don't mind smile
coming from the one that says i will take u to work in the morning tut and i cnt sleep boooo x x x
I know...... but hey you can nap in the car later ;) x x x x
Quote by kinks_apey
yay i'm packing my case later ooooooooow excited. Early night for me got to be at work for 6am boooooooooooooo x x x x

Which means muggins here will be up too ;) but hey I don't mind smile
Quote by kinks_apey
oooow yay monster we can do that naughty moment again ;) but erm properly this time yay x x x x x x x x

Hmmm... me naughty?.........
Nope.... can't remem.....
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHHH! ok remembered smile YIPEEEE!!!!
Hiya Sheer,
Not yet recieved e mail although most definatley attending yay party time soon x x x x xx x
Guess what................ 18 days to go oooooooooooow im excitied yay x x x x
Quote by Upferritxxx
dont wanna cause a stampede but just booked hotel
foooooooooookin bargain 15 quid :bounce::bounce::bounce:
more money fer ale now drinkies

ooooow guess what upfer ours was only 9 quid thats what u call a bargain woo hoo x x x
Quote by Tigerfluff
Right who's birthdays is it, so I can make a list lol

tis mine Tigs dunno about a drink but we will have choccy cake with willy candles that apey got yay gettin excited..........so if u wanna blow anything will light the candles 4 u he he kinks x x x x x x
pretty please can u add me and apey but just one problem we dont like ikkle ones x x x x x x
oooooow i'm getting excited now yay party time soon, looking forward to bonfire night too ooow the fun times ahead bring them on x x x x x
Quote by bouncy332
well we finally paid :grin:

I bet you got a lovely dinner too if you went to visit Sheer?? Mmmm I when me and Apey went to visit she was making pork and cider sauce for Sassi it smelt so yummy I was tempted to stay he he.
Bring on the party not long now woo hoo x x x x x << kinks typing btw
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whilst there are several others available, we've usually found trying the speed test a useful excercised every now and again.
amazing how things vary at different times of day
As for moving to mobile 3g sessions, have a look at
or have a look at their latest issue re the 2010 Readers Awards Results in connection with Mobile Broadband, some quite revealing results

Lag and ping times on a mobile connection are just plane unacceptable for most stuff other than browsing and emails, don't try VPN stuff through it, it's horific! If it's your only possibility then hey, needs must, but I for one cannot wait to get back to a real connection on a piece of copper/fibre/coax!