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bigben169
2 months ago
Straight Male, 62
0 miles · Essex

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I wouldnt leave it at that, firstly isnt statutary rights one year gurantee from dealer. second, there is an insurance ombustman, who I believe will assist you should you have good grounds, sounds like you do to me...goggle them and send and email, you never know!
Good luck
Ben
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Sorry to bump this but I have only just found out. Complete state of shock and now know why her little fraggle rock msn hasnt been flashing, I can only assume I'd skipped this thread before after thinking it could not be my Debbs they are talking about.
Not really sure what to add to all the tributes, only to say I lost my late night company and a good mate.
I really miss you hun...xxxx
Ben
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A friend of mine sent me this link, its a long download but stay with it...VERY thought provoking.
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your adware sweep probably deleted a boot file that the machine needs.
If you can get your hands on an old win 98 boot disk, start it with that in and use the boot repair program.
I'm no expert but I think its C:/bootfix or something. Try searching goole on another pc on how exactly to do it.
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I gotta say I thought she was a stunner before her new look. Cant wait to see the results.. lol
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Quote by essex-couple
brand new gloryhole found in essex......pm for details surprised

Hi Guys.
Is it anywhere near us?
Ben
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Hmmm..I reckon I could be persuaded into losing my cherry to a curious lady.. lol Any girls got a thin little starter pack strappy drop me a line...lol
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Check out the CSA web site hun, they have an online calculator that will help establish what you should be paying by law...
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Quote by freckledbird
I think you might find it's now too late to give him the benefit of the doubt. confused
PS, what's attractived?

Is that in never give a sucker another chance... lol
Thanks for the correction, its been correctived now!!
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OMG what trouble Nick has got himself in... lol ...I just had take another look at his original post...
If we deal with the transgender issue first. I think he has based his opinions on limited expereince of meeting such people, indeed I would probably have said a similar thing myself years ago had I not been fortunate to met a truely stunning (IMO) transgendered girl, who was also delightful company, I have learnt much and now see trangendered people in a totally different light.
Point two. As I have always been more attracted to Asian girls maybe I could be accused discriminating towards blondes.. :lol: ...just a thought!!
Anyways in my opinion for what its worth, the guy is new here and judging by his responses probably really did'nt intend to offend anyone...Maybe we could on this occasion give him the benefit of doubt...
Ben
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What an interesting post. I had no idea 50% of transgendered people dont make it past 30, hopefully this is only due to the dark past days when it was considered wrong to be gay, bi or different.
Well I personally value your difference, it probably makes you one of the most unique and interesting girls on here...Good luck with your appointment hun...
Ben...xx
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Good luck with your application, in my opinion you are approuching things in the correct way. I'm sure you wont have any problems. Just a pain that you have to travel all that way for a visa.
As far as I'm aware you cannot gain the spouse visa you require retrespectively in country, meaning according to the rules you must travel outside the uk to gain pre entry clearance.
Ben
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If yourve got a water butt in the garden, try filling with raining water, some fish prefer this acidic water. certainly better then tap water that is filled with chemicals..
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I used to be a member of a sprirital group, after having pre visions of my mums death. (to personal to mention here) PM me if you wish and I'll tell you about it. Anyway the people I met in my particular the group were kind and genuine.
Although I stopped going years ago, it did make me look at life in a different perspective.
Ben
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Just to clear things up...You can apply for indefinate leave to remain after 4 years resident LEGALLY in the uk...ie, someone on a long work permit, ETC...This is not citizenship.
The rules are, you must seek pre entry clearance after marraige outside the UK before starting to live here, this is normally a 4 year marraige visa. Which leads to ILR.
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Reading Dirtys thread had me thinking of my own first interest into voyueristic situations. I recall my awakening from about 6 years ago, which places me as a late starter I guess.
Anyhow we lived in London at the time and my gf had gone out for the evening with her friends, knowing she would be home late I went to bed about 11pm, I recall it was a hot summers night so we had the bedroom window wide open.
About 30 minutes later I heared a group of girls shouting and singing further down the road obviously the worst for a few drinks, thinking my gf was on her way home I looked out of the window just to see if she was ok.
On looking around the surrounding flats that backed onto our house the voices just became more distant so obviously this was not my gf and friends. Suddenly a lighted bedroom window from one of the flats about 50 feet away caught my eye. There on the bed were two naked bodies, the girls head bobbing up and down on the guys shaft.
I to had that perculier feeling in my stomach that has been described by others. I watched a little longer feeling slightly guilty that I was behaving like a peeping tom, until one thing changed this guilty feeling. The girl goes to the window pulling the nets aside standing naked while the guy takes her from behind, the penny then dropped, they wanted to be seen and I was happy to oblige!...
Obvioulsy the window position was the last scene for this couple as they must have been going for ages before I joined the audience. the girl ended up spreadeagle up against the window with the guy thrusting so hard that her tits were performing a circular dance to his motions.
I never told my gf until the following day as I still needed to be sure I wasnt behaving like a perv!...She said I thought you had been up to something as her window nets were all missarranged.. lol
She then said make sure you wake me up if you see them again as I want to watch... :lol:
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Ok, I'll try and explain how it is for newbies!
During sex we regulary tell each our fantasys, the one fantasy we both share is being found naked in the back of the car while having sex. We both agreed that once at this point of sexual arousel our inhibitions would go out the window as fast as we opened it for someone to grope.
We have spoken at length about spicing up our sex but both agreed it didnt feel right, to us anyway, to arrange meets in the traditional way with other couples. We both prefer the possible incidental meetings through carparks. My partner has also said that she may be interested to experience another girl but for the same reason this should also be an incidental meeting.
So what did we expect on the night..Well having been to the same place once before, where it seemed we parked at the wrong place, on the second occasion we hoped after parking in the correct place we would find other couples that would enlighten us on the way things worked etc, this possibily taking some pressure off us..
As things transpired we we're the only couple there, which was fine by us, although in retrespect we were after all nebies. But having read on this site how once we were comfortable we would send a signal to others to approach, we honestly felt the guys there would respect this.
Maybe in hindsight I should have simlpy told the guys to back off until we were ready, but by this point my partner was genuinly scared....She remarked after it was like a scene from the zoombie films...lol
Our ideal scenario would have been to find, spoken and maybe played with another more experienced couple there, which would hve eased my partners nerves, they may have also passed on our rules to the guys.
What would have happened on the night in question had the guys played the rules. They certainly could have watched us with our light on fcuking naked, possibily groped my partner through the window to increase her orgasim, to have done this they must be clean..(my partners top priority)..Maybe received a wank!...They would not have been allowed to fcuk my partner as we both agree this is something that we dont wish to happen...
Any thoughts?
Ben
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Just to put everyone in the picture...yes we are a REAL couple!!...Not experienced mind..My PM was sent as I was away on business 2 days alone in Oxford area...Simple really!!..
As to a report to what we expected, well lets just say once my partner is warmed up she likes to have lots of varied fun...Unfortunately 2 guys faces pressed at the window like mad axe men didnt set the scene for her...
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Thank you for the advice, you offer some interesting perceptions to mind reading...lol
W'e're away for a few day but will be in touch through pm about other locations...
Thanks again..Ben
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As posted in the dogging section....
We went to the well known lay bye in Essex last Friday. This was our second ever time out. Pulled up about 8ish, lights off, a few other cars were already parked up..
We start to kiss and generally get warmed up, a guy passes the car as close as a roller in a car wash..My partner is slightlyl spooked by this.
I say dont worry he's just checking things out.
We continue kissing and I'm stroking her breast etc, barely 2 minutes later 2 guys appear noses pressed on both windows.
This time she is so spooked by things she says, she cant relax here and its not how she hoped it would be..to be honest I felt put off by there lack of manners...We decide to leave straight away. Back home both feeling frustrated we agreed that as we were new to this it may have been better to have arranged a meet with another couple....Or maybe carpark fun is not for us....
If only the 2 guys would have waited for a signal from us I'm sure they would have been in for a real treat.....Guess we need to assess other forms of meeting others!!
Any suggestions???
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My g/f and I went to the well known ly by in Essex, Once there she found being fucked naked on the back seat quite a thrill...Only problem to many cars circling around looking it would seem for other guys!!
Do any couples or straight guys use this place?...My g/f was so hot a one point she would have got up to all sorts of things!
Ben
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Quote by Silk and Big G
So if you see a gorgeous blonde in about Half an hour at somewhere near Bicester that'll be Silky. xxx

Interesting...I'm working in Bicester next week, staying at a local hotel...
Any plans to be out next weekend??
Ben