Personally? No. I like an older man, one who I feel is in charge and can teach me things. I have never slept with a man younger than myself. Ever. But that's just me.
Of course everyone is different and there will be women who prefer younger men.
Good luck in finding what you're looking for.
*Her*
The only issue I see with it is you could have undesirables hanging around your street to try and figure out who you are. That really wouldn't be cool.
We have enough pictures on our profile to be able to work out who we are I guess, even though there are no face pics. Our street isn't all that big so someone could figure out where we live.
I'd guess that could be the reason it's not allowed?
*Her*
So we're dipping our toe a bit now and got to thinking about all the possibilities.
We placed an ad and had some replies, selected someone and took it from there. In conversation with a friend, it came up that they think we're being very brave attempting it with a stranger rather than the safety of friends.
Which got me thinking. I'm of the belief that surely it's easier with a stranger? No friendship to mess up, if it doesn't work it really doesn't matter all that much, if it does, great. Then I was talking to *Him* and we talked our way round to the fact that we have friends who for us, the friendship started out purely based around swinging. They're friends now, but in the beginning it was purely about the sex. For us, it wouldn't be difficult to swing with them as thats how the friendship started.
We also have many friends from here and other places, who although we met on here, haven't swung with and now can't see that ever happening just because they're "real" friends rather than swinging friends.
Do you think theres a point you get to like we have, where you just go past it? A point right at the beginning, where if you don't do it then, you probably never will?
*Her*
In swinging, unless you shag anything that moves, you will always be predjudiced or discriminatory to some degree. Islandcouple - tell me you have never turned anyone down who has approached you for any reason? Were they too young, too old, too thin, too fat, too ginger (or blonde or brunette), not ginger (or blonde or brunette) enough, you didn't like their personality, their looks etc, etc? Was that not discriminatory in some form?
I completely fail to see your arguement. It's as if we must have sex with any and everyone who approaches us for fear of offending and in what universe is that right or correct?
I have never dated nor wanted to, a man of colour. I have never met one I found attractive. Likewise, a man with ginger hair. Or one over the age of 50. Does this mean I was being discriminatory or that I have preferences? Where would you draw the line?
Was I being predjudiced? Slightly I guess, but completely without malice. It's my choice and last time I looked, I was free to make it.
I think whoever mentioned political correctness gone wrong had it spot on. There's really no need to make this about something that for most people, it's not.
*Her*
At the moment we are liking Russell Howard. I've always found Lenny Henry, Jack Dee and Peter Kaye funny too.
Harry Enfield & Chums was genius as was Catherine Tate. QI and Have I got News For You hot the spot sometimes too.
*Her*
We bought a 15ft swimming pool for our garden today :-D:-D:-D
Tomorrow I shall be mostly bobbing around in it on a lilo with a beer in one hand and a book in the other in the sun.
*Her*
Waking up to the bluest sky and it's already 20 degrees in our garden.
Today I shall be mostly naked sunbathing. Please do not disturb :-D
*Her*
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