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curvynjackb

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Bi-curious Male, 56

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8 Jan 2007

Quote by Freckledbird

Thank you for your help,much appreciated unlike some people that seem to go outta their way to be sarky.

You're not exactly ingratiating yourself in here with comments like that.
They were just trying to get some info, go easy, we're all new sometimes, all make mistakes smile

smile

Absolutely, we all were. But Blonde was only saying hello and welcome. Why should people bother, if they're going to get a shitty response?
And I was going easy.
I better remember not too upset you then :scared: biggrin

biggrin

If you're very new here (and we still class ourselves as new, just not very anymore) I think it can be a bit scary and the responses can be off.
There is a rapport between the frequent posters that can seem hard to get into at times and people won't always know posters personality until they've been lurking a while.
And I think I'd have been a bit worried to have this sort of response to an early post. Maybe their initial repsonse was slightly off I agree, but I also think they were jumped on from a great height fairly quickly too for a faux pas, probably forgivable for a newbie poster.
I think we just all need a group SH hug now, and we all know where that can lead passionkiss

passionkiss

tc h & c

kiss

8 Jan 2007

Quote by Freckledbird

Thank you for your help,much appreciated unlike some people that seem to go outta their way to be sarky.

You're not exactly ingratiating yourself in here with comments like that.
They were just trying to get some info, go easy, we're all new sometimes, all make mistakes smile

smile

8 Jan 2007

We haven't done any meets yet but have been to a club a few times, seemed less scary than a meet.
From our limited experience the club was non-pushy and there was no pressure to do anything but we did :mrgreen:. Even if you decide not to do anything there's usually something to watch silly

silly

hwoar: and that has usually been enough to get rid of any inhibitions we might have had , it's hard to be scared when your so so so turned on passionkiss

passionkiss

You are in charge, if you say no, people listen, in all situations
We don't know how a meet would compare as we haven't had one yet (but we are looking for the right couple :shock: ), advice we've had is that again you should feel no pressure to make things happen. If it doesn't feel right, don't do it. It's supposed to be fun :grin:
We just felt a club suited us better at the time as we could go at short notice if we got a babysitter, nothing to arrange (or fail to arrange).
Good luck and most importantly - have fun
h & c kiss

kiss

8 Jan 2007

We generally do it from forum posts or whilst in a chat room to get a picture (pun intended confused

confused

) of the people posting or who we're chatting to.
It just gives a more rounded feel to the whole thing.
Oh and of course we may accidentally hit the photos button whilst we're in there redface

redface

h

8 Jan 2007

Quote by Laff_n_Chilli
I have bought the dress!! (this time I’m not going in jeans and a nice top - its PVC all the way)

sorry to cut your post so short but i am interested in what peopele wore to the munch.
we're going to our first one in march and want to be suitable attired :smile2:
curvy x

7 Jan 2007

hi there,
we're quite new here too. we've been made to feel very welcome. it hasn'tt taken us long to feel like we've been here for ages :rose:
horny n curvy
xx

7 Jan 2007

We've played a rude version of mr & mrs in a vanilla party a couple of times.
Even then it was very rude redface

redface

example question - do you spit or swallow innocent

innocent

I can only imagine what it would be like with more sexually enlightened people :shock:
hope to try it one day
h

7 Jan 2007

her eyes, which sparkle when she's happy. :love:
her curvy figure (hence the name smile

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)
her gorgeous boobs silly

silly

hwoar:
the way she makes me feel when we're together :love:

passionkiss

:love: :passionkiss: :love: :passionkiss: :love: :passionkiss: :love: :passionkiss: :love:
h

6 Jan 2007

Quote by louise_and_joe
I have been more and more intrigued lately by the Bi side of life. The only problem is where to start. Im wondering is it a good idea to have this experience with a single Bi fem ( although lack of experience in this field may put them off), or to meet with a couple where there is a bit of something i know there too and my attentions can be split between the two, maybe taking the pressure off of the situation. I really cant decide which way would be best. I dont want to make the wrong choice. Thats if it really does matter how different the choices are. If you would like to give me the benefit of your knowledge and experience, how was your first time, was it with a couple or a single bi female/male, or more than one female/male. Did you, like me only realise your bi side later on in life and how did you feel about potentially exploring it?
ps this is not a thread looking for offers( although all gratefully recieved) :twisted:
Louise xx

hi lousie,
i am in a similar position, having finally being able to accept that i am curious about all aspects of my sexuality. i feel excited about exploring it and believe that the opportunity will come along when i am ready to deal with it.
i'm hoping to learn lots from this thread and hope people send in their experiences for me to consider,
curvy XX

5 Jan 2007

ty slags

wink

5 Jan 2007

having been around for a few weeks now and tried my best I still can't work out what a couple of the thread symbols mean on the forum listing page banghead

banghead

I've figured out sticky and locked but what's the difference betwen the white background and the blue background and what does the little arrow pointing to a page mean,:doh: , just had a play with that, it means go to latest post in thread, :thumbup: .
ok, just the difference between blue and white background in the little circle thingy then please biggrin

biggrin

cheers
h

5 Jan 2007

But seriously folks rolleyes

rolleyes

it does make you think twice about a profile of a couple that only has pictures of the lady up.
Curvy might be interested in some lady-lurve passionkiss

passionkiss

, but she still wants to see the gentleman involved as we're sure he'll play a part too if he's interested.
Not as bad as a couple ad where only the man has some pics up, bargepole and don't touch come to mind more often than not.
But the worse has to be a profile which has no photos and no profile to speak of.
If you're on here, show off silly

silly

hwoar: and tell us a bit about yourselves.
h

5 Jan 2007

Quote by blonde
We would like to see more pics of the guys....but not of their wangers.

Yep ................... down with the wangers!!! :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
There's only one good way to get a wanger down once it's up innocent

innocent

5 Jan 2007

Quote by louise_and_joe
We too have used up all of our excuses. In the past few months weve been to an engagement party, stag do and hen night and a wedding. I suppose i will have to wait a while before i announce that were going to a christening. ( i have to give the married couple a chance). :giggle:
Louise xx

hi louise and joe,
great ideas, ty.
thought of another couple you could add
1. funeral
2. divorce party
the next two we are goijng to use for nights away are
1. valentines
2. anniversary dinner
curvy x

5 Jan 2007

earth child, don't think the pink woolly beret type thingy your mam bought you for xmas in some mad fit of delerium would match with the lovely long dark hair,
curvy xxxxx

3 Jan 2007

ty everyone,
some great ideas.
i can find u all now (evil laugh),
horny x

3 Jan 2007

what a group of amazing good looking guys with the ability to take pics of something other than their cocks - wow.
more bum shots would be greatly appreciated redface

redface

curvy

3 Jan 2007

Quote by hisandhers
awwwhhh well done curvy
:thumbup: thanks for passing on that tip hun

it's taken me a while but i've finally got here and what a bloody fantastic place to be :smile2:
let me know how you get on with the tip. hisandhers,
anyone with any good tips out there please pass them on :wink: :wink:
curvy

3 Jan 2007

well, i have realised that it's more than okay to be sexy. (i've needed a lot of convincing with this).
i enjoy being a tart, redface

redface

still a bit scary to say it!!
i have learned sucking a cock sideways stops the gagging reflex, so it goes into the cheek rather than down the throat, great tip from a great girlfriend.
i've already done my new year's resolution which was to appear on cam in the chatroom,
already got my first munch sorted,
so what next for the rest of the year --- the sky's the limit !!!!!!!!!!!! yipppeeee
curvy

2 Jan 2007

Does anyone know if it's possible to either
1. search for ads by member name
or
2. bring up a member profile by name
I know how to find a member forum search but this member has never posted.
Anyone?
h & c

31 Dec 2006

Quote by Laff_n_Chilli
We have nothing planned and looks like its gonna be a quiet night in
Unless you have any suggestions??
feel free to PM us

cant believe no one has replied - god we must be ugly fekkers!!!
Well having perved :grin: your profile pics I can definitely say that's not true - looking gorgeous. Shame we're so far away and are already booked up tonight sad

sad

.
Hope you find some fun somewhere and have a good time whatever.
I must admit one of the best new years we had was on our own one year, couldn't keep our hands off each other passionkiss

passionkiss

have fun
h

31 Dec 2006

i know this isn't quite the same as being found out but .... i have chosen to tell two close friends cos i hate keeping secrets.
they have both been very accepting and curious.
not quite sure what other friends might think. redface

redface

curvy

31 Dec 2006

well my new years resolution is to do something i haven't had the courage to do yet .....
get my tits out on cam in the chatroom.
silly

silly

hwoar:
watch this space!!!
curvy

31 Dec 2006

well my new years resolution is to do something i haven't had the courage to do yet .....
get my tits out on cam in the chatroom.
silly

silly

hwoar:
watch this space!!!
curvy

30 Dec 2006

hi there.
hope you won't fel new for too long. just jump straight in and get on with it.
we did and it's working for us.
h & c

30 Dec 2006

we've got our first one lined up for march. already nervous, excited and really looking forward to it.
it's a big step to take. it's all well and good writing posts and flirting in the chat room but to meet REAL swingers well that's some thing else!!!!
so for those of you going to the bristol munch - please be kind to us,,
h & c

28 Dec 2006

how about this one, I like it innocent

innocent

26 Dec 2006

364 sleeps to go ! :confused2:

26 Dec 2006

Having friends round, we've all got kids so it means we don't have the hassle of finding sitters, they just congregate in another room most of the evening.

24 Dec 2006

Quote by Shireen
We always use Steve's hobby :lol2: We just say that we are going to a motor sport dinner or it's a motor racing friends party..... The only problem is that as my mum will only have the kids a couple of times a year we have to pick and choose where we go very carefully

We think that's going to be our prob too, although we have told a couple of friends we can trust and they have offered to sit for us so there's hope we may manage more than a couple of club visits/meets a year