Lived there (in Bremen) about 30 years ago and had a great time. Contrary to people's perceptions I found the German people to be a lot of fun and very polite. Good luck anyway.

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I think one has to bear in mind that not everyone who is listed as straight is actually straight!

Indeed. You only have to look in the Bi Married Chatroom to see the number of "straight" men visiting.

It happened to me - sort of. The guy did all the running, with a purpose in mind. I re-tell it in the story which is as accurate as I believe it happened.

https://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/stories/threesome/the-odd-couple

I’d have a wild guess at about 20% of women like or accept anal sex. I had a girlfriend many years back who only liked anal sex. I think in the 3 or 4 months I went out with her we had “traditional” sex only three or four times. A rarity I think. My wife likes it (or used to) but the opportunities for any playtime have rescinded quite a bit. With guys I love it and have had many great times over the years with a couple of lovely cocks.

Some ladies just don’t like it (sucking cock) and I guess there are some who feel “obliged” to do it. I love to lick pussy and have always found it makes a girl cum quite quickly and strong but there are also some girls who don’t like you doing it either. My wife loves having her pussy licked - I think she would love another woman to do it. And - strange as though it may seem - I rarely cum if she sucks my cock and she’s very good it at it! As a youngster I would cum in a girls mouth quite quickly but something happened when I turned 40 and now although it’s fun and horny I just can’t cum like that. Another guy sucking my cock is the same. Now wanking me off and then sucking it when I cum is a different matter!

All very true. Once you realise who are (and block) all the cranks, dreamers and some quite vulgar individuals - it’s not any different to ordinary life - you can strike up conversations with some very interesting and decent people, some of whom share your likes and wishes. Time is the key - you may need plenty of it to achieve what you’re looking for.

I was 42 when I was circumcised. Personally I like it but I used to have a friend with quite a long foreskin (which did pull back) and it was kind nice getting your tongue in there and swirling it around...

I've done it quite a few times but sadly not for a long time. I used to watch a couple fuck and if I ate her out afterwards my reward was to fuck her and add to it. We also did double vaginal with her a couple of times which was mind-blowing.