Quote by Lost
Know what your saying about pigeonholing and labeling Essex, and for the most part I agree, although there has to be some sort of distinctions made in some areas of life so as to be able to know how to approach people and situations in an appropriate way.
We definitely approach swingers in a different way to our non swinging friends but how we do can vary very much, obviously as people and attitudes and vales they and we hold vary greatly. For instance. My oldest and closest pal is a church minister so to be too open to him would not be fair on either of us yet I value his friendship massively. He would be appalled at what we do so I label him as a non-swinger, seems a fair label to me lol. It is difficult though as I'd love to share that part of our lives with him but i'm not going to compromise his position and our friendship
I totally see what you are saying, it is, to a certain degree, certain friends for certain discussions/situations.
No one single friend knows each aspect of my life, yet put 10 of them together, they could put quite a jigsaw together. I have friends from the hobby side of my life, who know nothing of my deviance, there are people from scenes such as this, that know nothing of my hobby. In some instances I choose not to tell, in some it is a case of that particular topic has never arisen.
Friends are friends, labels are something I find in my clothing.
