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1 day ago
Straight Male, 54
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Quote by MidsCouple24
Why isnt this guy being charged with fraud, it is claimed that he had business cards printed and presented claiming to represent the Government and the Defence Department
If I did that I would be charged with fraud ?
Not exactly true.
The cards as shown in the media stated: "Adam Werrity Advisor to Dr. Liam Fox MP"
Unless there are others I didn't know about.
Quote by fishnchips
Have done that, but they still come through. An example is a guy who saw another one of our posts, who pm'd us. He was a single guy, listed as a single guy (We didnt mind his PM, he was making a genuine offer).
So what makes you think that a single guy asking for sex on a swinging site isn't making a genuine offer?
A bit of consistency from people would go some way to helping the situation.
Quote by bell412
Just to change the angle a little,
Us single guys get a hell of a bad bad press!
We are called "desperate" and just after a shag.
We don't fit the criteria of those seeking couple to couple.
When we reach a certain age, we are considered past it!
We are often cited as being a problem because we are single!!
If I were to scour the ads for hours and hours and hours on SH, I would find that, as a 39 year old single bloke has no chance, zero chance and naff all chance.
It's true.
When you are 39 and single, life is, in effect, over.
It is also around this time, that a single man realises that there is no chance of becoming an astronaut.
Oh, and for those who think it's weird that a bloke can be single at 39, I'm divorced, enjoying life, earning loads and supporting my kids through their schooling. I travel internationally and live the life most dream of.
I hate being single!!!
Bell x
As a single guy who turned 40 this year, you have filled me with much hope.
Quote by amatuerman
what has that gotr to do with anything
Gotr?
some how i do not think you are clever enough to be a smart arse.
in fact from what i have red you are certainly not.
Lmfao....
Red or Read...... :wink:
Why don't you grow up?
You have commented in the past at the negative aspects of the forum, and yet all you can do is childishly laugh at someone's spelling. I take it you are aware this is an adult site?
Try acting like one.
Not a huge step, in terms of region or distance, but yesterday, I moved into my new home, 60 miles from where I used to live, having spent 3 and a half months being of 'no fixed abode'.
I have long said, the more I work in London, the more I want to live in the country, and yesterday, I made that happen. I now live in an area that I want to live in, as opposed to being dictated to by circumstance or through not making the effort to come out of my comfort zone.
It's not a huge change, but it is significant enough for me to feel relaxed and happy. Job done.
I have long said, the more I work in London, the more I want to live in the country, and yesterday, I made that happen. I now live in an area that I want to live in, as opposed to being dictated to by circumstance or through not making the effort to come out of my comfort zone.
It's not a huge change, but it is significant enough for me to feel relaxed and happy. Job done.
Quote by Phoenixcouple
Ooo yeah, something that you can check in with and it tells you when you have selected user groups ehich you select within a given range, say 1 mile. Then you get the option to msg them through the app...
Imagine that when your out in a 'nilla nightclub... Could be useful lol.
I'd rather they tried getting the simple things right first. Like the search facility in the ads for instance, if I put in age ranges with 30 being the lower limit, i get far too many below the age of 25, which is not featured in my search.
Quote by neilinleeds
It's properly starting to piss me right off so it is. Thing is, like everyone else, I don't know how to direct that anger either?
N x x x ;)
As a simple country boy, my view is that people disliked/hated/spat blood at the Thatcher years, Major took over, not a lot changed. So a number of people decided that Blair was saying all the right things (education education education?) so let's teach those self serving Tories a lesson, let's get Labour in.
After 13 years, people disliked/hated/spat blood at the Blair years, Brown took over, not a lot changed, so a number of people decided that it was time for change, however, there was no obvious or credible option, so we had our first coalition Government since the 1940's.
People are disliking/hating/spitting blood at the decisions the Tories are making, some of them borne out of necessity, many of them made without thinking of any alternatives. We have seen student demo's, NHS cuts marches etc, but no real display of feeling, the last time anything like that of any note has bee done, was the Poll tax riots.
So what will happen now? People will decide they have had enough of disliking/hating/spitting blood, and decide they will vote this current Government out, Clegg and the Liberals will never happen, Cameron and the Tories are making too many unpopular and ill thought out decisions, and Milliband and Labour are not seizing the chance they have to make a case for themselves.
But due to the feeling toward current Government, people will vote in Labour at the next election. Not because they want Labour, but because they don't want Cameron.
No anger will be directed, just walking to the ballot box staring at feet as they do, and so all the above continues, with different names eating out of the Downing Street trough.
Quote by foxylady2209
What about them?
People who work outside are less likely to pass on or catch much as they are in the fresh air. Being out in 'weather' doesn't make you ill if you have warm clothes and food - they worked that out about a hundred years ago. Warm clothing and waterproofs prevent getting too cold/wet (not that either of them will ever give you a cold but they are unpleasant and theoretically could lead to hyperthermia) and otherwise being outside is much much healthier than being inside.
The self-employed are in a different situation - no sick pay. But that is exactly the same whether they work indoors or outside.
My question was more in response to:
Quote by neilinleeds
There's always one person though who'll insist on playing the bloody martyr isn't there, who'll drag themselves in no matter what, and then pointedly cough and splutter every few minutes all bloody day.
Sometimes being a 'bloody martyr' is not about getting brownie points from the boss, but it is a necessity.
Quote by neilinleeds
In schools if you puke you have to stay off (I think) 48 hours after the last puke. That helps to prevent the spread of Winter Vomitting Virus - I wish there was something simliar for 'graveyard cough'. I really don't need their illness, especially as the 'few days' generally takes it into my precious weekend.
If I have a cold I go in, if I am coughing my guts up or a total snot-monster I stay off - not because I necessarilly feel worse, but to avoid infecting my colleagues, and possibly 8 other departments in one virus-loaded cough.
^This^. There's always one person though who'll insist on playing the bloody martyr isn't there, who'll drag themselves in no matter what, and then pointedly cough and splutter every few minutes all bloody day. There's one in our place who's not yet managed to work out that while we could cover for one person no problem, and noone would think any the less of them, if they manage to infect two people who are subsequently genuinely sick, it really does leave everyone else knee deep in the proverbial trying to cover, at which point their name is mud. It's a simple equation really, and speaks volumes about their insecure need for recognition from the boss.
N x x x ;)
What about those who are self-employed and work outside in all weathers?
Quote by meat2pleaseu
It was nice today to see a forum locked.
I for one have of late not posted purely down to some self righteous people that jump in on a whim and try to do as they always do, try ridicule and dominate!
I have no doubt in my mind these same people will respond to this post.
But in reality, you are effectively not only killing the forum, but putting people off posting.
:thumbup:
after 6 years coming in here almost every day, i'm at the point where i really can't be arsed with it and spend my time on other, less bitchy sites
Shut it you northern monkey.
Quote by meat2pleaseu
Sarah,
they'll only send another one.
So, if using Microsoft Outlook, next time they send one
- open it
- look on menu bar at the top of the message for "Block Sender"
- click it
This will make Outlook look at all future emails from the same sender and 'bin it' for you.
or just randomly make up a bank account number and sort code and send it to them- should waste a bit of their time
If these spam emails are replied to, whether genuinely, or to waste their time, it tells the sender that the email account is live and active, and more emails follow.
Quote by Serendipity
Oh yes, the right combination of words via PM or email can set me off mentally and physically. In the right frame of mind, I can be rather good at reciprocating too, especially if it's someone I know well enough to know what their triggers are. Love a good mindf*ck now and then :twisted:
Same applies to me, this has happened to me on occasion, but only a couple of people have ever found the right triggers, they have set the benchmark, or ruined me for others, depending on your point of view.
In addition to that, I have nothing to hide on there, those that aren't swingers, either know, or I would have no problem knowing. But the friends from swinging that I have on there, know the value of discretion, and my private life is not plastered for all to see.
And also, whether I have played with anyone, or would like to, the friendship is most prominent, the swinging makes no difference whatsoever.
And also, whether I have played with anyone, or would like to, the friendship is most prominent, the swinging makes no difference whatsoever.
Quote by foxylady2209
To be honest, if this is real, it's a bit shitty for you, I'm sure. However, your whole posting history screams 'drama queens' as I read through it. There always seem to be something not going right or that you don't like.
You announced to the site you were retiring from Dogging in March 2009 and yet you where still advertising for meets in May that year. You're still here now and yet claimed you were going yesterday around 6pm. If you really considered this a serious threat, you'd have deleted the account and it would have been removed overnight as the servers do their updatey-thingy.
All a bit confused and strange.
It would be interesting to see your simple answers to some of the simple questions members like Sarah and others have asked above - especially as you posted this across at least three Forum sections!
Reading between the lines, is this not not an overreaction to a meet or something that hasn't quite gone as planned and this post is the net, emotional result?
I burned one of my lovely, homemade quiches this morning and was totally devasted but I'm over it now... I nearly posted on every 'how to be a good gay cook' forum at the time though I can tell you.
Fraser... where's that 'drama queen-o-meter' you posted a couple of weeks back mister?
I read the word Quiche and ignored the rest of the post. Do you blind bake first or go straight in with the wet stuff? What about the bacon - smoked or plain? Fried to brown first or just stiffened up in the frying pan before going in? And what about the slices of tomato on top - a waste of time or a delicious addition?
You really are a class act!!!
He said very clearly he was devastated, and yet all you can do is post innuendo, I bet you laughed while typing it. This is not some victimless situation, he didn't just burn a quiche, it was one of his own homemade quiches, do you have any idea how much pride he puts into his role as a Stepford mincer?
You should feel ashamed of yourself.
