It is an interesting topic.... for example the local club I go to charges different prices for different nights...
If I wanted to go on a greedy girls night... the couples and single guys get for cheaper, than if i or a couple go on a mixed night....
now i suppose that encourages guys to go on greedy girl night,but I am not really a greedy guy person, so i pay more to feel more comfortable
do i feel like sometimes i am subsidising others to go... sure.... but it is like a double edged sword... if no couples/ girls go.. then no single guys would.... on greedy girl nights its the opposite....
I suppose it is swings and roundabouts....
the biggest bugbare for me is that most clubs make people pay entry and membership the first night they go.... and they is the biggest thing that stops me going to more clubs, it can turn into a bloody expensive night, especially if you find you don't like, or for newbies new to the scene trying clubs for the first time....
for me... the split was the thing that took the steam out of the cafe...... rather than having one really busy forum, now you have 4 not so busy ones...
I wish they would put them back together... but they won't so no point in argueing about it
but it isn't the same site as the one I originally joined, where there was advanced by swingers for swingers now it the about a sex site and "the bottom line"
it doesn't have that feel for me anymore...
so I have changed my attitude accordingly... I am not here as much, it isn't the first place i now visit when i go home or get up.....
would be helpful if you had a possible date in mind first... then people could see if it would be yey or a ney....
if you mean munch as in food.... then i hope you find what you are looking for..
if you actually mean one of these....
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/terminology/munch.html
then... bit more awkward... but i hope you find a meet anyway
right.... here is one... help guys because my eyesight don't think can cope with this for much longer...
i use firefox as a browser and all of my browsers open up and the text is all the same size (1024x768)... but somehow i have done something... not sure what... and one side that i use now has text much smaller than the others.....
help... i am squinting like mad.....
frustrated of tyneside...
I wasn't trying to patronise at all.... if that was the way it came across, then i'll hold up my hand and apologise....
what i was trying to get across was notice (which i thought was very valid), cost (which i know is know is a very valid concern in these times), and trust in the organisor.... and that is why i suggested going to one of the bigger ones first.... get your name out there, as good as golds room is, you'll hopefully remember i have been in there once or twice not everyone knows about it or will know about it...
would i have had 120 mad people turn up in newcastle twice for munches and taken that chance on me without the support of loads of different people giving me advice..... no...
like i said, I hope your socials do go well, and without the people who organise them, the site wouldn't be half what it is......
there are no such thing as a bad donuts....
sound like lost matey you make have had one of the best things on the planet
A Krispy Kreme Donut....
even as a adopted northerner... i'd consider moving back south for one of them....
(krispy kreme haven't discovered that the world doesn't end north of manchester/leeds yet!!! loads of shops down south and we can no get one up here within 75 miles!!!!!)
:lol: 
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