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fabio
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 51
0 miles · Tyne and Wear

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The builders at chez "fabs" are too bloody efficent (thats proper Northern builders for ya)
anyway... so efficent that I had no electricity downstairs... no leccy... no tv, no internet....
so after day 1 of enjoying listening to the radio... and day 2 realising I could have no internet for another week...
I love it.. but not that much....
off to shop... pay as you go dongle (thanks 3!!) and back on the wagon.....I know how you ciggie smokers feel now!!!!
I am never leaving the site again.... so... what have i missed???
snog all of those going to leeds tomorrow!!!!!
since my b'day is in October 13th..... I should finally some down.....
any lovely people fancy a hotel share and it would make it a lot easier for me......
sean xxxxxxxxxxx
I am aiming to be in leeds for 1 so i would definatly be interested, the place where i am staying has a swanky bar attacted to it, but i am sure that most people decided on the "hotel" as opposed to the "appartments"..........
but if it is somewhere in the city centre i would be up for it....
Quote by kentswingers777
Here was a man who was chancellor for ten years yet could not foresee the biggest financial meltdown in history.

I'm not the greatest fan of brown.... but if you can tell me one person who did see the financial meltdown coming.... i'd love to know
I think the guy should not even be mentioned in the same breath as Maggie. He in my opinion is leaderless, clueless and completly useless. He will go down in Labout history as the man who sank Labour to it's lowest level ever, next year when election time comes around.

you mean just as major was seen on the tory side then... the thing that blair and thatcher both had was they were smart enough to go when they did... history tells you in most democracys that after 10-12 years most people want change if only to freshen things up......
As for Maggie well....in a recent poll she was voted the second greatest leader this country has seen. Only second behind Churchill who with his magnitude and leadership, helped to win over the Nazis in the second world war.
Maggie took this country from the gutter after a Labour Government and turned this country into a super power again. A country to be feared ( ask Argentina ) and a country envied.
that has more to do with argentian nationalism and she was smart enough to call a snap general election on the back of that victory and used it to her advantage, maybe a valid reason to bring in fixed terms goverenments... but moving on.....
A leader who was sick and tired of watching the unions destroy this country with their every day strikes. The winter of discontent brought about by Labours union side kicks. She smashed nutty Scargil and it's militant band of shirkers.
and basically killed off the uk manufacturing base...coal,steel,the car industry,ship building to name four... if the door of blame can be placed from the UK being turned from a manufacturing ecomony to a service ecomony it can be her
She enabled a few people to buy their own homes, under the right to buy scheme, where they would never been able to afford that.
But instead of ploughing that money back into rebuilding houses to replace the houses that were now sold, she decided to cut the taxes of those who were the richest......
Yes the poll tax was very unpopular but the thinking behind it was right. It was only the ammount to pay that angered people. It is people that use the amenities, not houses.

yes, she loved it so much, she decided to test it out on the scots first.... very fair indeed!!!
When Maggie goes to the Paliament in the sky there will be a full state funeral, and the only other PM to get that was Churchill.
A great leader and a great stateswoman, until those backstabbers knifed her in the back.
I love what frankie boyle said on "mock the week"... it may be the first time, that during the 21 gun salute, the guns may be pointed at the casket just to make sure shes dead!.....
A young Maggie would not tolerate half of this Liberal bollox this Government has allowed and openly encouraged. So for me Brown is not even fit to wipe her muddy shoes.
Any guesses who I voted for in the poll? lol

the bits in green redress the balance i think a bit.......
Right.... Ahem..... due to a circumstance beyond my control, I now find myself with 4 days free from today, friday 14th August till monday 17th august
Okay..Now I don't normally do this because I know that these:
a) Normally get the micky ripped out of them
b) They don't get looked at
c) Don't normally work (unless you happen to be a single fem, st8 or bi)
But hey.... Enough of the pessimism (feel free to rip the spelling!! smile ) think positive!!!
So here we go.......Do any couples or single fems fancy meeting up for a drink and then seeing if anything nice happens.........
A bit about the gobshite and sarcastic egg that is me......... :)
Well I am a lovely black guy, mid 30's and single in the truest sense of the word, I can accomodate as needed or since I have the trusty rail pass I can travel almost anywhere...
Hopefully a lot of people can vouch for me being a kind hearted, loveable bloke and all round good egg!!!! I come with references and they could even be good ones if I pay the right people enough money... :)
So if I have sparked anyone curiousity please read my profile and send me a PM
Look forward to hopefully getting at least one reply... God I am an enternal optimist......
Sean xxxxxxxx
P.s.. If you want to know more about me, then my advert number is 457087
lol :lol:
I think if I get another invite for Pirates,Mafia Wars,Farmville or the zoo thingey on facebook I might actually scream!!!..... and all the updates that come with them....
mind you... I play online poker so I suppose we all have to find something to occupy and stimulate the brain.... or I'd spend all my life on forums being addicted to them... oops!!!! wink
okay... some of that is good advice..... basically the way i work out chosing my plays falls into 4 categorys..without giving too much away
the general one! value for money...gerrard/lampard/rooney/torres, can you afford to splash out 15% on one player....
defenders.... who keeps clean sheets?, who gets goals/assists from corners?
midfielders.... who are the ones who take corners/free kicks/penalties? or put in loads of crosses...
Strikers... job is to score, but who takes penalites? or gets lots of assists...
there... giving away my secrets..... lol
Quote by markz
get a new partner.............. rolleyes

I am glad BIoke beat me to it.... because he is a lot calmer about it than I would have been and I am now
I hope for once you break "character" and send joy an unreserved and heartfelt apology..... because that was really... really uncalled for! mad
joy... we know you are hurting and it always takes time to adjust.... as most of the singles have said, between my freezer and my george foreman grill you do get there...
like other has said.. go and do things that interest you and will occupy your time... evening classes are fantastic.... book clubs at the library.. even support groups of people who have been thru the same thing so you know that you are not alone and support in numbers is not a bad thing...
Last of all.... your friends in the NE and BBW room will always be there for you hun no matter what, we will always be friends first and if there is anything you been help with, we will always be here...
sean xxx
Quote by Ms_Whips
All public site wide Avatars will soon need to be "non adult" in nature as they will be used in a lot more places across the site. Such as groups, events, as well as e-mails, and a wide range of other places. Members of course can continue to display their adult pictures in the gallery, and on their profiles and photo ads. We are also in the process of building an application that will allow members to block seeing certain types of content on the site if they want to such as genital shots.

well i logged in and didn't take any notice of the news letter thing either as i came straight in here. so having seen this thread i took a look.
now as for the above, sorry if i'm being thick but i thought this was an adult site? i also thought there are already rules in place about what sort of avatar we can have. i also thought that that was a little over policed as it is considering we are on an adult site. so exactly what consitutes as 'non adult'? coz frankly the most we get to see of an actual person in an avatar is the occassional nice arse or boobs. as for the other stuff, well i've seen far worse on 'non adult' sites! we are not children, we are part of a swinging site for crying out loud that dictates enough by saying no cock and pussy shots.
as for my avatar being used elsewhere on the site, i'm assuming i get an opt out option for that? i don't have pics in my profile for a reason. i also don't send pics to everyone who mails me either for the same reasons. choosing to have an avatar in the forum is one thing but i don't remember being asked if it could be used elsewhere!
whips
IN EDIT: so am i to asume that my original avatar (the one i have now put back in incase i can nolonger use it) is now too adult for this adults only site?
have to say i am in agreement here, I didn't see anything wrong with the rule as it is now.... in fact I would have gone in the other direction, and said that only "full members" should have access to pics and avatars......
and the varification thing... shame to see they are going to bring it in.... on all the other sites I have been on, it has ended up creating a two tier site.... i suppose this means varification by the back door (the leaving message this on the profiles) hasn't worked the way you wanted it to...
but heck... I am not bothered fighting it all anyone.... in the end you'll end up killing the golden goose and it will be a shame...
should be a good year.... at the moment still tinkering round with lokomotive low fell... and i am surprised at what i have managed to fit in so far... lol
its almost all made up of top 4.. lol
Quote by redwine_lover
in just three posts alone you have had three different recommendations.....basically all clubs have their attractions...its all down to your expectations...and what it is that you are looking for..
a club doesnt have to be busy for you to have a good time..its all down to the type of people in the club on the night you are there, and whether they fit yr criteria for fun company...
so basicaly,, its a bit of trial and error,i guess..until you find which club suits u best..
RWL
xx

spot on dad..... I do hate seeing this kind of thread and people suggesting their local club when they live round the corner, and the people asking live up the other end of the country...
Right being in that part of the world there aren't a lot of clubs...and if you are going to be practical then your closest club to Carlisle may end up being on this side of the country just outside of newcastle which would be club f,
have a read up on them as see if that would be a place that may be suited to what you after...
other than that you closest bets may be blackpool
can i ask if this is actually on or off.....it is my b'day that week and debating what to do.....
if it is on..can some please claify this...
if it is off... could a mod lock it to stop confusion...
tas....
I am so there....!!!!!
even got my hotel booked already...... smile :)
I took a massage and aeromatherepy course........
Comes in handy... and it is actually really interesting...
like earthy... oooh.. i do fancy learning sign language, and as for learning a foreign language, I can point in you the direction of a few podcasts that are fantastic for that
Quote by noladreams
BBC News 24
The Independent (paper and web)
BBC News website
The Huffington Post (US news website)
The Observer
The Guardian (paper and web)
The Telegraph (for the sports pages)
redface I'm kinda a news junkie.

So am I... My Name is Sean, I am a New Junkie lol
Huffington Post and the Drudge Report are great......
Sky News when i get home is the first thing I put on...
MSNBC if i am on the internet at home browsing
BBC website when I am at work.....
Also listen to a few news podcasts....
Countdown with Keith Olberman
The Rachel Maddow Show
NPR's Voice of the Nation
Sky News' Foreign Matters
okay... I'll go now..
Quote by fem_4_taboo
hi,
sorry this may only be relevent to those in cornwall at the moment.
we had the digital switchover take place this week.
prior to the full switch over i had normal tv and the free view with digital ariel.
normal tv was ok, freeview was alot clearer but sometimes would go sticky (?) especially if a bloody moped went by.
well since the switch over the freeview picture is bloody crap. its fuzzy. much much worse than any previous normal tv picture.
ive emailed the digital people, but no reply.
i wondered is it just me experiencing this? is it likely to get better? if not why all the fecking switchover if the picture is crappier than before?
sorry to bore those this does not effect.
xx fem xx

It could be the fact that you make need a new aeriel or like foxy suggested... a booster aerial, they only cost 10-15 quid........
if you go onto to teletext on any of the 4 major channels and type page 284 they can do an aeriel test.....
hope it helps......
Quote by Bifemcouple2009
we are wanting to meet locally to us in filey and after couple only munches,we are shy but ok when beer starts flowing lol

http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/terminology/munch.html
hopefully the link will help you understand what a munch is.... suffice to say they are open to everyone
if you are in Filey... then the closest munch to you is the one being currently advertised for Leeds... and you might be a tiny bit late for that.... It might be worth having a word with the organisor to see what the situation is....
sean xxxx
if you love the wire.... you have to get into "entourage" which is on ITV2.... and absolutely fantastic!!!!
also another brilliant show to watch is "curb your enthusiasm" which is on E4 here.......
both of these are brilliant comedy drama's....
Quote by Kink81
I know that the rule was put in place to stop overabuse of the whisper function from taking over a users screen, I'm totally 100% behind people being able to log-on, chat without getting millions of messages from one muppet spamming the same sentence.
But I do also think that some of the responses to whispers and the way that we conduct ourselves online isn't exactly setting a good trend either. I myself had a whisper sent earlier just saying hi because there were 70 users in the room, all talking and it was easier and more noticeable to see said whisper.
Perfectly reasonable and not covered by the suggested rule, reasonable being something that I think is eluding a fair number of users at the moment sad

but with the greatest respect..... if you then had everyone whisper... thats would be 69 whispers that you would have to deal with..and then you have ever people coming in and leaving again.. would that be any better??? I think not.... I think i would be pissed off by it as well....
also by whispering in a room that states "no whispers without asking first" aren't you in effect disregarding the room owners wishes? after all.. you are better and know better than then... right???
I don't see what the problem with saying "can i whisper you" in public is.... if they say yes... do it, if they say no then dont.
I would love it if SH would finally put up a disclaimer saying you had read the rules before entering the chatroom, something like a pop up.. and you actually had to tick it.... too many people use ignorance as an excuse.......
Quote by Mr-cream123
phone numbers aren't allowed any where on the site ....i'd remove it ...before it's removed for you

ssssssh... don't say that..... if someone is silly enough to put there number on an open forum then they are stupid enough for it to end up in for example on toilet walls around ever major city........ wink
I've done my bit with newcastle!!!! lol
I suppose I am a semi booze snob.... Won't touch lager, but are more than happy to drink bitter, sorry.. that makes me northern!!! lol :lol:
more of a booze snob but some of the beside wines are supermarkets own... for champagne, try Asda's or Tesco's own... if you find the right one they are fantastic....
Quote by charleym4
thanks to all who came last night - cples from here like urrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr non existant - thank goodness for other sites,nooooooooooooooo that's a lie - gr8 cple from here (but we already know them mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm)
won;'t bother again putting a party on here cos no one bothers
Harry hun, u always do xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

no offence.... but you did only give people on this site all of 5 days notice.....
not everyone can do stuff like this on short notice....real life gets in the way, sometimes it does that planning, childcare, hotels, transport ect ect.....
I think this snipe is actually just a bit out of order...
harry will tell you from having been all over the country that these things are well supported as long as you give people notice......
maybe thats the lesson you should learn and i am disappointed that you felt you had to do something like this....
I am really a member of two others..... one i am a lurker unless i really am angry!!!
the other i am addicted to... but it is linked to my old american university..... it is the biggest of its type and they talk about anything!!! that one is safe for work so i can use it when i am going thru the 12-8 grind.....
is there any chance that I could get my name down for this...... about time i met some of the bbw crew......
Quote by flower411
I`m of the opinion that the people who keep saying ...
"I don`t care what you or anybody else thinks about me"
....actually DO care quite a lot what people think about them. People who carry on regardless are the ones who really don`t care lol

For the sake of honesty.... if I did say that I cares at one point.... but now really couldn't give a flying F*** would that be better??? :lol:
I can't be arsed playing to the crowds... if people like me, cool.... if they don't, fine! flip floping to please people does nothing for me
you are not going to able to please everyone.... so I'd rather concentrate on those that I call friends and I respect, than those I don't.........
it took a while to get there..... i think this is the mature me
hows that???? wink
I can only tell you what it means to me.....this is what i ended up putting in my ad
"Age-wise, for me age is nothing but a number (although some peoples may be larger than others)
Look-wise, again doesn't mean a great deal to me and I am more attracted to personality than looks...and nothing is sexier than brains, intellect and personality
I know that lot about doesn't really give much away, but it doesn't also mean that age/looks unimportant... it just means that i don't really have a type and therefore open to suggestion/corrupting"
I can imagine that there those people that don't care, and you are probably right, however after all the times on the site that we talk about labelling and pigeon-holing people then it still sad that people do make gross-generalisations
If you have a set type... then good for you, stick with it!!!, but there are those that don't, if someones ad doesn't do anything for you... move on, I think that is a lesson we would have all learnt by now.....
Quote by ScarletTheHarlot
Keep the confirmations coming - you're all doing wonderfully, and I'm so looking forward to this night!!! How we all doing with costume planning??? I'm still stuck with about 3 options - and leaving it right to the last minute, which is never a good thing.
See you on 22nd xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

how about you come down to my hotel in the afternoon... try them all on... and i'll give you an honest opinion.... lol :lol: :lol:
it was just a suggestion!!!! wink
bloody hell harry...... might have created a swinging shagging monster now!!!!! lol :lol: :lol:
seriously mate... best of luck to ya!!!!