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fem_4_taboo
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 55
Straight Male, 62
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alot of people think of rural as quaint little villiages full of cottages etc etc.
th etruth is there is massive rural deprivation, the same proplems exist in rural locations as face those in urban locations, the difference being it takes twice as long and costs twice as much to access the help/ shops/ products etc than having to pop round the corner.
the transport is either infrequent, or non existant, the cost is unaffordable,
people have no choice to drive somewhere to access something, not becaus ethey prefer the drs 15 miles away , but because teh only drs is 15 miles away.
its not all high earners or retired gentry, there is poverty, low wages bad housing.
we pay the same road tax as those with moterways at their use, but have crap roads.
we pay on average £900 a year for water rates, but recieve the same service.
i am not saying rural areas should recieve the reduction in fuel duty, i think everyone should.
but ffs why are people letting the government start putting people up against each other.
we dont choose to live here, its where we are from. no need to become agressive and hostile saying its our choice. choices are for those rich enough to have them.
xx fem xx
th etruth is there is massive rural deprivation, the same proplems exist in rural locations as face those in urban locations, the difference being it takes twice as long and costs twice as much to access the help/ shops/ products etc than having to pop round the corner.
the transport is either infrequent, or non existant, the cost is unaffordable,
people have no choice to drive somewhere to access something, not becaus ethey prefer the drs 15 miles away , but because teh only drs is 15 miles away.
its not all high earners or retired gentry, there is poverty, low wages bad housing.
we pay the same road tax as those with moterways at their use, but have crap roads.
we pay on average £900 a year for water rates, but recieve the same service.
i am not saying rural areas should recieve the reduction in fuel duty, i think everyone should.
but ffs why are people letting the government start putting people up against each other.
we dont choose to live here, its where we are from. no need to become agressive and hostile saying its our choice. choices are for those rich enough to have them.
xx fem xx
:kiss:hi,
i have not read all of the thread, as i am presuming afetr reading 3-4 pages i get the jist.
i joined this site almost 8 years ago, now when i joined the site was small, non gadgety, no advertising etc. it was a small community, almost a co-operative.
yes it took someone ( praise be mark if ya reading lol) to set the site up, but i think anyone who was here at the time will agree it took the members to run the site, be that formally as a mod or op or by being a active site member.
it was always said the site will NEVER be sold or charge. it was through the support of the active members that made the site great and im sure a site that made it worth intrest to a company.
now we were all very happy with the site, then one day logged in and found this whirlwind going on and were informed the site had been sold and taken over???
i was most shocked that it was upsetting our community and the site would become too commercial and that we had lost mark.
we were promiced then , as we had been whne mark and the community owned the site that we would never be charged to come here etc. which seemed decent as the site would have collapsed if we had all at that point walked away, you might think that is extreem, and if we all left now that would not happen, but it really would have then.
so i understand you paying members may feel agreeved by this status, and that we get to use all these great new facilities, but we were happy the way we were,
its like we all lived on lovely community island and now all the torists have started comming here and big slides and clubs have been build the torists are asking us to now pay to live in the community we were already at before it got taken over.
xx fem xx
i have not read all of the thread, as i am presuming afetr reading 3-4 pages i get the jist.
i joined this site almost 8 years ago, now when i joined the site was small, non gadgety, no advertising etc. it was a small community, almost a co-operative.
yes it took someone ( praise be mark if ya reading lol) to set the site up, but i think anyone who was here at the time will agree it took the members to run the site, be that formally as a mod or op or by being a active site member.
it was always said the site will NEVER be sold or charge. it was through the support of the active members that made the site great and im sure a site that made it worth intrest to a company.
now we were all very happy with the site, then one day logged in and found this whirlwind going on and were informed the site had been sold and taken over???
i was most shocked that it was upsetting our community and the site would become too commercial and that we had lost mark.
we were promiced then , as we had been whne mark and the community owned the site that we would never be charged to come here etc. which seemed decent as the site would have collapsed if we had all at that point walked away, you might think that is extreem, and if we all left now that would not happen, but it really would have then.
so i understand you paying members may feel agreeved by this status, and that we get to use all these great new facilities, but we were happy the way we were,
its like we all lived on lovely community island and now all the torists have started comming here and big slides and clubs have been build the torists are asking us to now pay to live in the community we were already at before it got taken over.
xx fem xx
when i see that on a profile i think several things...
this is only based on my experience and not to say everyone i mention is like this ...
ok i work in a job that if i were to be outed as a swinger i would lose my job, and if i didnt lose my job i would probally have to leave it.
say what you like people who are not aware of swinging do judge it and those connected to it.
yes you could argue the toss if they sacked you, but i would still hate having to have people talk about me.
i have met people who are long term unemployed and they have no working reputation to protect. they actually woudl get a kick out of pointing you out and saying see her well shes a swinger.
they dont care if anyone knows they are a swinger, its a badge of honner.
ok i know this can be the attitude of anyone, but i have found that if someone has as much to risk as you by being outed then they will keep quiet.
another thing, swinging to me is more about sex, its about having conversation etc, i like this to be on an equal level of interest. im not saying long term unemployed wouldnt have good conversation, but in my experience i have found myself frustrated.
i also think some people really only wish to meet men who have soft hands etc and maybe manual workers dont have this.
BUT.... at the end of the day everyone is allowed to put what they want in their profile AUP permitting.
if someone who consideres them self professional is not your bag, then dont contact them.
sorry bit of a ramble.
xx fem xx
edited as i seem to have typing deylexia so hope fully most errors have been corrected.
this is only based on my experience and not to say everyone i mention is like this ...
ok i work in a job that if i were to be outed as a swinger i would lose my job, and if i didnt lose my job i would probally have to leave it.
say what you like people who are not aware of swinging do judge it and those connected to it.
yes you could argue the toss if they sacked you, but i would still hate having to have people talk about me.
i have met people who are long term unemployed and they have no working reputation to protect. they actually woudl get a kick out of pointing you out and saying see her well shes a swinger.
they dont care if anyone knows they are a swinger, its a badge of honner.
ok i know this can be the attitude of anyone, but i have found that if someone has as much to risk as you by being outed then they will keep quiet.
another thing, swinging to me is more about sex, its about having conversation etc, i like this to be on an equal level of interest. im not saying long term unemployed wouldnt have good conversation, but in my experience i have found myself frustrated.
i also think some people really only wish to meet men who have soft hands etc and maybe manual workers dont have this.
BUT.... at the end of the day everyone is allowed to put what they want in their profile AUP permitting.
if someone who consideres them self professional is not your bag, then dont contact them.
sorry bit of a ramble.
xx fem xx
edited as i seem to have typing deylexia so hope fully most errors have been corrected.
driving home from an early evening out to celebrate my daughters 11 a-b GCSE's i was pulled over for speeding. :sad: sad at myself for even bloody speeding in the first place.
it was actually being distracted by people flasing their lights at me i thought something was wrong with my car , got distracted and didnt notice my spead had crept up.
knew the copper thought it was a line.
:sad: hate feeling like a criminal
xx fem xx
it was actually being distracted by people flasing their lights at me i thought something was wrong with my car , got distracted and didnt notice my spead had crept up.
knew the copper thought it was a line.
:sad: hate feeling like a criminal
xx fem xx
i dont have shrep acctivated, nor will i ever do so.
does this mean i will not get people messaging me for meets? i dont care as if im looking "Im" looking im not the hunted i prefer to be the hunter lol
would shrep influence my desision on meeting someone or not? nope. why not well because i would have to get a feeling for someone , not rely on what could be someone elses judgement.
in fact if i look at the quickies etc and see lots of comments i actually dont like it. i prefer discretion.
if not having shrep means people will not reply to my message to meet etc then fair enough.
as long as the not having shrep does not influence if i can attend socials etc then i dont care.
people whated this, some pointed out the pointlessness of it, and i feel what we have now are peopel just with another feature to complain about.
you wanted it, you got it, dont moan if no one wants to use it use the best tool you have , common sense.
xx fem xxx
does this mean i will not get people messaging me for meets? i dont care as if im looking "Im" looking im not the hunted i prefer to be the hunter lol
would shrep influence my desision on meeting someone or not? nope. why not well because i would have to get a feeling for someone , not rely on what could be someone elses judgement.
in fact if i look at the quickies etc and see lots of comments i actually dont like it. i prefer discretion.
if not having shrep means people will not reply to my message to meet etc then fair enough.
as long as the not having shrep does not influence if i can attend socials etc then i dont care.
people whated this, some pointed out the pointlessness of it, and i feel what we have now are peopel just with another feature to complain about.
you wanted it, you got it, dont moan if no one wants to use it use the best tool you have , common sense.
xx fem xxx
what about day time clubs ? Or tell a half truth and tell the family you have both decided you need to vaule each other and set aside at least 1 night a month to each other. But this can only be done if you have a reguler offer of overnight sitter. It is also the oppertunity for grandparents to bond with grandchild. X x
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OI once you saw my name why did you need to look any further ???
lol
Not really no ;-)
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oh and very clever
It looks clever but it's not difficult just time consuming :-)
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oh and ty for the invite
xx fem xx
Your welcome :rascal:
This could be your luck day Steve....
its friday 13th lol
xx fem xx
I have my name down for a social/ munch and i was looking through the list of confirmed attendies to see who/ how many were going.
my question is... i was thinking it would be good that within the list of names how i would like it if you could click on a individuals user name and it took you straight to their profile.
i wondered .....
a)if anyone else had thought of this,
b)if its possible to be done
c)i am just very type lazy ( but in my defence i do have carpel tunnel at the moment so try to minimise my typing) (( people are now probally thinking well stop posting ya bint lol))
d)or does no one care? and is it just me who wants to check out the attendies prior to the meet?
xx fem xxx
my question is... i was thinking it would be good that within the list of names how i would like it if you could click on a individuals user name and it took you straight to their profile.
i wondered .....
a)if anyone else had thought of this,
b)if its possible to be done
c)i am just very type lazy ( but in my defence i do have carpel tunnel at the moment so try to minimise my typing) (( people are now probally thinking well stop posting ya bint lol))
d)or does no one care? and is it just me who wants to check out the attendies prior to the meet?
xx fem xxx
maybe the truckers were gay so were not interested?
or maybe they see so much of it they dont even blink?
I have to agree with people that i think its a very dangerous activity. I understand if your feeling sexy and want to flaunt/flash, i understand the giggle at watching some ones face when they get this surprise, but considering the risk of distraction and potential accident then i would have to say keep it covered up.
as for liability if there was an acident due to flashing i dont see how the flashed person could be held responsible for the accident, they didnt go out with the intention of seeing this, where as the flasher does have the intention of causing shock, etc.
from another aspect what about minors that could be traveling in other cars and witness this?
i suspect people will say young boys would love it on a boring journey, but change your imediate thought to that of a old man flashing his cock when minor aged girls are to witness it?
all in all, i think acts of sexual exhibisionism should be left for those who actually want to see it. take it doggin or to a club or wait till your home and go on cam.
xx fem xx
or maybe they see so much of it they dont even blink?
I have to agree with people that i think its a very dangerous activity. I understand if your feeling sexy and want to flaunt/flash, i understand the giggle at watching some ones face when they get this surprise, but considering the risk of distraction and potential accident then i would have to say keep it covered up.
as for liability if there was an acident due to flashing i dont see how the flashed person could be held responsible for the accident, they didnt go out with the intention of seeing this, where as the flasher does have the intention of causing shock, etc.
from another aspect what about minors that could be traveling in other cars and witness this?
i suspect people will say young boys would love it on a boring journey, but change your imediate thought to that of a old man flashing his cock when minor aged girls are to witness it?
all in all, i think acts of sexual exhibisionism should be left for those who actually want to see it. take it doggin or to a club or wait till your home and go on cam.
xx fem xx
i think all of the activities mentioned are horrible,
but then i would never pay to watch any of them, with no money the "sport" would die out.
just because something has a tradtion or been that way for years does not make it right.
i do not feel strong enough about this topic to actually campaign etc as i feel stronger about other things, which i support.
but as i said i would not condon it nor pay towards it. I think its the entertainment part that disgusts me.
xx fem xx
but then i would never pay to watch any of them, with no money the "sport" would die out.
just because something has a tradtion or been that way for years does not make it right.
i do not feel strong enough about this topic to actually campaign etc as i feel stronger about other things, which i support.
but as i said i would not condon it nor pay towards it. I think its the entertainment part that disgusts me.
xx fem xx
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I've just started wearing leggings but I wear them with a skirt. I've never been comfortable in a short skirt but now that my legs are actually taking shape I quite like the leggings/skirt combo.
I suspect I'm probably too old for it but I'm really not caring!! :giggle:
Trainers or stilettos?
Flip flops! :giggle:
i was thinking before your reply " daft bugger whats he mean trainers or stilettos its flip flops surely lol "
xx fem xx
Quote by Don_draper
C'mon though, are there really sweaty, dirty, unshaven single blokes with foul smelling cocks turning up to meets the length and breadth of the country?
We're all pretty well groomed chaps here aren't we? Aren't we?????
nope you aint lol
wont go itto graphic details, but met a guy and when it came down to it my face went towards his crutch and the smell drove me away FAST. i declined to carry on saying id changed my mind, he got a bit huffy saying i fucking knew you were full of shit.
he left
about a week later he asked for another meet, i declined, he replied i never found you attractive anyway, i replied and you should go see a dr your cock fucking stank which is why i declined.
xx fem xx
it happened when i was younger and to be honest it was not taken as a compliment or sarcasam but as quite intimidating. does any single female walking along the road enjoy having strangers/ men making lued gestures at her?
its very uncomfortable, you ignore it and may be seen as a up your own arse or snob, and had that shouted back afterwards, you smile and appear big headed or could be acussed as leading someone on.
you dont know what that female has experienced in life or that day, the last thing she may need is a stranger harrasing her.
maybe some women like it, i think its crude and i dont like it.
xx fem xx
its very uncomfortable, you ignore it and may be seen as a up your own arse or snob, and had that shouted back afterwards, you smile and appear big headed or could be acussed as leading someone on.
you dont know what that female has experienced in life or that day, the last thing she may need is a stranger harrasing her.
maybe some women like it, i think its crude and i dont like it.
xx fem xx
