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fem_4_taboo
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 56
Straight Male, 63
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i love dogs, but the down side is you have to walk them even when you dont want to, you have to pick up poo and i cant stand the smell or hairs.
also if you work full time i dont know if its fair to leave a dog at home alone all day.
i have two cats, they came as kittens for the kids, i wasnt that fussed. they have been here 5 years now and it has only been this last month that one of them has ment so much to me it brings tears to my eyes.
when we got them we were told they were a boy and girl, found out after naming them they were two girls , but still have their male and female names.
the male always seemed more aloof, wouldnt bother with the humans much, never came near me.
since i have been ill he has slept outside my bedroom door everynight. has woken me if i have been sleeping when its time to take my medication, sits beside me on the sofa when im feeling lonely.
this might not sound much, but this is from the most aloof cat ive met and needs nothing in return.
so my vote goes to cats, but only mine, i dont like other peoples lol
xx fem xx
also if you work full time i dont know if its fair to leave a dog at home alone all day.
i have two cats, they came as kittens for the kids, i wasnt that fussed. they have been here 5 years now and it has only been this last month that one of them has ment so much to me it brings tears to my eyes.
when we got them we were told they were a boy and girl, found out after naming them they were two girls , but still have their male and female names.
the male always seemed more aloof, wouldnt bother with the humans much, never came near me.
since i have been ill he has slept outside my bedroom door everynight. has woken me if i have been sleeping when its time to take my medication, sits beside me on the sofa when im feeling lonely.
this might not sound much, but this is from the most aloof cat ive met and needs nothing in return.
so my vote goes to cats, but only mine, i dont like other peoples lol
xx fem xx
oh i dont see it?? just a small swinging heaven tag at the top, no user id water mark through the middle.sorry if this has been covered, i havent been here as much lately, but just taking a look through the gallery and noticed the photos are no longer watermarked across the middle with the profile id's user name?
i know we should all accept that some people will lift and copy pics as theirs, but why has the water mark been removed?
xx fem xx
i know we should all accept that some people will lift and copy pics as theirs, but why has the water mark been removed?
xx fem xx
when i come in here i feel i have walked into a cafe, i read(listen) what people have said and if i feel i have a experience/opinion etc i will comment. sometimes its a light hearted thread and i will "chat" rather than debate.
i felt like i had walked into the cafe and wasnt being honest, like i was hiding in the corner, i felt i should at least explain i wasnt feeling well. and without bringing the place down just act as a gentle reminder to look out for your work mate, friend, lover, family etc its a very fine line between the stress that pushes us to do a good job and push us over the cliff.
i have never had an easy life, ive been living on my own since i was 15, raised my children on my own, put self through uni etc etc. so when these panic attacks started it wasnt rational and i believed they must be a real warning that something bad was going to happen, this black cloud grew and grew and i could no longer excape, i wasnt sleeping, it was there all the time, i was in a heightened anxious state 24/7 and at times it grew so big i was being sick etc.
i broke , im on several meds now, under the cirsis intervention mental health team and getting through each day, learning to cope with the side effects of all the meds, and trying to believe that it will get better and this black cloud will ease.
god this is the most ive said for ages, i was only going to post a thank you for everyones support.
please dont treat me any differently, if you hated me yesterday you dont have to liek me today lol
please take every bit of happiness you can and if you feel crap ask for help and ask again if people dont listen.
xxxxxx fem xxxxx
i felt like i had walked into the cafe and wasnt being honest, like i was hiding in the corner, i felt i should at least explain i wasnt feeling well. and without bringing the place down just act as a gentle reminder to look out for your work mate, friend, lover, family etc its a very fine line between the stress that pushes us to do a good job and push us over the cliff.
i have never had an easy life, ive been living on my own since i was 15, raised my children on my own, put self through uni etc etc. so when these panic attacks started it wasnt rational and i believed they must be a real warning that something bad was going to happen, this black cloud grew and grew and i could no longer excape, i wasnt sleeping, it was there all the time, i was in a heightened anxious state 24/7 and at times it grew so big i was being sick etc.
i broke , im on several meds now, under the cirsis intervention mental health team and getting through each day, learning to cope with the side effects of all the meds, and trying to believe that it will get better and this black cloud will ease.
god this is the most ive said for ages, i was only going to post a thank you for everyones support.
please dont treat me any differently, if you hated me yesterday you dont have to liek me today lol
please take every bit of happiness you can and if you feel crap ask for help and ask again if people dont listen.
xxxxxx fem xxxxx
i wasnt going to write this, i still dont know if i will hit the submit key.
i havent been about for a bit, this is not a sympathy thread.
something happened that took me by huge shock, last week i had a complete breckdown.
ive experienced depression in the past but never anything like this, it started with anxiety, progressed into panic attacks that started to last 4 hours and resulted in just being able to not cope imaganing living like this any more,with the heightened anxiety 24/7, 4 weeks of no sleep and i broke.
i am now under the home treatment team, rather than be sectioned and on a regime of drugs.
some which have benefits some that make me feel so terrible i dont know if its worth it at times.
im still here, through the huge work from the team.
i just wanted to say if anyone starts to feel like i did please get some help sooner rather than later.
and look out for your friends.
and sorry to those i have recently let down or disapeared mid conversation.
xx fem xx
i havent been about for a bit, this is not a sympathy thread.
something happened that took me by huge shock, last week i had a complete breckdown.
ive experienced depression in the past but never anything like this, it started with anxiety, progressed into panic attacks that started to last 4 hours and resulted in just being able to not cope imaganing living like this any more,with the heightened anxiety 24/7, 4 weeks of no sleep and i broke.
i am now under the home treatment team, rather than be sectioned and on a regime of drugs.
some which have benefits some that make me feel so terrible i dont know if its worth it at times.
im still here, through the huge work from the team.
i just wanted to say if anyone starts to feel like i did please get some help sooner rather than later.
and look out for your friends.
and sorry to those i have recently let down or disapeared mid conversation.
xx fem xx
from what you have said you made it clear you were cool with being on cam, but that you only meet as a couple.
however if this guy couldnt read what you were saying and understand no means no hes defo not the type of guy anyone wants to be meeting.
also while i think it may help to state in your profile you only ever play as a couple, i dont think this guy would have bothered to read that or understand it anyway.
and then you run the risk of being acused as having an agressive profile if you try and make it to clear lol
i suspect this guy from a couple isnt really part of a swinging couple.
deep breath and move on.
xx fem xx
however if this guy couldnt read what you were saying and understand no means no hes defo not the type of guy anyone wants to be meeting.
also while i think it may help to state in your profile you only ever play as a couple, i dont think this guy would have bothered to read that or understand it anyway.
and then you run the risk of being acused as having an agressive profile if you try and make it to clear lol
i suspect this guy from a couple isnt really part of a swinging couple.
deep breath and move on.
xx fem xx
i really hate birthdays, well mine anyway lol.
its not about gettin older, i just really hate them.
never had a good one as a child.
i just wish other people ( family and friends) would realise i actually mean this and stop trying to make them into some big event.
its my 40th next and im considering booking the time away just so i dont have to be around.
i dont mind a quick happy birthday i hate to be the centre of attendtion.
i book the day off work, not as a treat , but so i know they cant do anything.
xx fem xx
its not about gettin older, i just really hate them.
never had a good one as a child.
i just wish other people ( family and friends) would realise i actually mean this and stop trying to make them into some big event.
its my 40th next and im considering booking the time away just so i dont have to be around.
i dont mind a quick happy birthday i hate to be the centre of attendtion.
i book the day off work, not as a treat , but so i know they cant do anything.
xx fem xx
its been said before and i agree that if someone hosts a room then it should be clear that they are the host.
If they leave the room the room should close.
maybe there should be a mini quiz to show you know the answers to the aup and how to behave whilst hosting a room? if you dont pass you dont get to open a room.?
xx fem xx
If they leave the room the room should close.
maybe there should be a mini quiz to show you know the answers to the aup and how to behave whilst hosting a room? if you dont pass you dont get to open a room.?
xx fem xx
what do you consider success though?
i havent had lots of sex from this site, but i havent been looking for lots as i havent clicked with many in a sexual way who are close enough to me to consider doing anything about it.
i dont even get the sympathy shags for being fat.
but then i dont give sympathy shags to those who think beauty and attraction is based on what they only view as attractive.
some of the most stereotypical good looking on here have the uggliest attitude.
its not just sex to me, its swinging and that means sex with friends, so yes i have to actually like the person.
I also dont like to watch typical porn, i like amature stuff with real bodies that are different to each other, not your barbie or 6 pack models.
xx fem xx
i havent had lots of sex from this site, but i havent been looking for lots as i havent clicked with many in a sexual way who are close enough to me to consider doing anything about it.
i dont even get the sympathy shags for being fat.
but then i dont give sympathy shags to those who think beauty and attraction is based on what they only view as attractive.
some of the most stereotypical good looking on here have the uggliest attitude.
its not just sex to me, its swinging and that means sex with friends, so yes i have to actually like the person.
I also dont like to watch typical porn, i like amature stuff with real bodies that are different to each other, not your barbie or 6 pack models.
xx fem xx
if you are single parent with 2 children one who is disabled, work 16 + hours and claim dla for your disabled child (which is a presumption based on thinking if there is a requirement for 1-2-1 child care you would be) you could benefit hugely from working.
the web site link above can give you a idea about what you are entitled to.
x fem xx
ps cant remember who said it , but yes i will not get to retire till im 67.
i am worse off working financially,its a bloody juggling act with children completely on my own but i dont see why i shouldnt work. i chose to have children.
its always puzzled me that people get worked up when its a 40th birthday for instance, when i say worked up i meen depressed stressed at turning 40, what i think people fail to remember is you have not hit 40 as such , its more recognising you have already lived 40 years, you are actually now in your 41st year lol
xx fem xxx
sorry im bored and ramble when bored xx in fact i ramble all the time, just this evening the forums slow and im talking shit for the sake of talking lol
,,, see what i mean about rambling
xx fem xxx
sorry im bored and ramble when bored xx in fact i ramble all the time, just this evening the forums slow and im talking shit for the sake of talking lol
,,, see what i mean about rambling
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the profiles are not ads, some people consider if they havent placed a ad then they are not sat waiting for ppl to message them re swing meets. therfore they can say what they like in the profile as maybe they are sick of ppl messaging them based on their gender/ couple status and not what they are looking or not looking for?
i imagine those not seeking single men, will have not clicked seeking single men, so wont be expecting single men to be seeking them out?
i dunno?? lol
xx fem xx
that sounds like fighting talk, you wanna fight d'ya yokal burd? :boxing:
let me know if you do so i can get the paddling pool and jelly ready in time :rascal:
one day you will see my name on a munch list you are attending and
pmsl lol anyway i much prfer custard to jelly lol
xx fem xx
the profiles are not ads, some people consider if they havent placed a ad then they are not sat waiting for ppl to message them re swing meets. therfore they can say what they like in the profile as maybe they are sick of ppl messaging them based on their gender/ couple status and not what they are looking or not looking for?
i imagine those not seeking single men, will have not clicked seeking single men, so wont be expecting single men to be seeking them out?
i dunno?? lol
xx fem xx
i imagine those not seeking single men, will have not clicked seeking single men, so wont be expecting single men to be seeking them out?
i dunno?? lol
xx fem xx
you could always start a thread asking people what they would do.... Hope he sees it and realises its about him.. Hey presto jobs a goodun 
lol. Get the pm sent. Some of the loveliest pms ive had have been those off the cuff ones and somehow always come at the right time eg when im fed up or even considering leaving the site. Makes me remember why i never hit that cancel button
lol. Get the pm sent. Some of the loveliest pms ive had have been those off the cuff ones and somehow always come at the right time eg when im fed up or even considering leaving the site. Makes me remember why i never hit that cancel button 