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hisandhers
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 61
Bisexual Female, 57
0 miles · West Yorkshire

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:doh: always the last one!! I've only just seen this redface
here's to another 20 fantastic years together :inlove:
Quote by Freckledbird
I can actually see this beginning post being locked or removed.. Far to detailed and plaes being named!!!!

I have done a little edit to remove the Dogging location! wink
Its still in the Lets Meet Up thread they have posted :shock:
I said that earlier! biggrin
:doh: had a hard day hun, only read to sarge lol
Quote by Sgt Bilko
I can actually see this beginning post being locked or removed.. Far to detailed and plaes being named!!!!

I have done a little edit to remove the Dogging location! wink
Its still in the Lets Meet Up thread they have posted :shock:
Quote by Steve

just give me another hour with him then I'll pass him over lol

Is it possible for one mere man to cope with an hour of pleasure with you ;-)
if you can take the pace hun :lol:
Quote by jaymar
right folks after the events of this weekend I fancy a good old flirt with some one wink Any takers

innocent
Steve.. you're just a tart :silly:
just give me another hour with him then I'll pass him over lol
Quote by Steve

now how did I guess you would come along & put a smile on my face sweet lips lol

I'm more than a willing participant in the joy that is putting a smile on your face ;-)
And if I dont manage it first time I will be forced to keep trying till I do :rascal:
so how can you see if I'm smiling like this hump rotflmao
Quote by Steve
right folks after the events of this weekend I fancy a good old flirt with some one wink Any takers

innocent
now how did I guess you would come along & put a smile on my face sweet lips lol
right folks after the events of this weekend I fancy a good old flirt with some one wink Any takers
Quote by rcsepel
Splendid responded to my posting in an aggressive manner telling me that is all about power, I agree it is quite often (BUT NOT ALWAYS !!)
He / she states that I should "read up on a subject before posting crap", I have read about the subject & have also spent 26 years working with rapists & sex offenders, many of whom categorically deny it being a power issue but will admit openly that they felt like sex & took it much like a thief takes property because they want it (or is that a power issue also ??)
In closing, thanks for making my first posting so pleasant, don't think I'll bother again if this is indicative of the forum !!

welcome to the site rcsepel. I didn't want to do this here however I feel I must. Yes, you may have worked with rapists for all these years but have you ever worked with the victims?
I was at the age of 19yrs as I was walking home from work at tea time. I was pulled over a wall & visciously with a knife at my throat. You have to admit that this was all about power. He chose to attack me & he chose how violent he was with me. If anyone has no control about what is happening to them then isn't that power? is not just about sex hun.
In my opinion.
swinging to me, is a meeting of people who enjoy good conversation, socialising and safe, sexual pleasure with others without any commitment or judgement.
think thats right?
Quote by flower411
A friend of mine disclosed to me that she could not read the other day & has asked if I could help her learn to read.
I feel honoured in helping her however I 'm a bit stuck as to where to start. Do I start with the ABC's? I've been looking online for some good exercises that I could print & use however they all seem to be based around children.
So my question is folks, can anyone help with some links or any advice would be very welcome
awaiting to take :notes:

I had a labourer working for me for a while who said that he couldn`t read.
The longer we worked together the more evident it became that his reading skills were a little bit better than he had made out. He was able to work out warning signs and slogans on the backs of cars etc etc.
What was lacking was the confidence to actually say out loud the words and he was also worried about making mistakes.
The longer we worked together the more confident he became and less worried about looking stupid when he made mistakes.
I`m taking a wild guess that this is why you`re friend has asked you to help her, she feels comfortable with you and knows that you won`t take the piss.
So I`d start by gently finding out what level of reading skills she already has.
Hope that makes sense.
thanks flower. This is the reason why she has not approached anyone before in fear of being judged as being stupid. Year after year she has wanted to learn however not found the help - she is now 35.
I feel quite priviledged that she has been able to ask me It may help me with my bad spelling as well :giggle:
Quote by Freckledbird
A friend of mine disclosed to me that she could not read the other day & has asked if I could help her learn to read.
I feel honoured in helping her however I 'm a bit stuck as to where to start. Do I start with the ABC's? I've been looking online for some good exercises that I could print & use however they all seem to be based around children.
So my question is folks, can anyone help with some links or any advice would be very welcome
awaiting to take :notes:

I'll send you a PM with some links, Hers. They are for children but it matters not - the principle is the same for any age learning to read.
:happy: just seen you in here & I was hoping you could help kiss thank you hun
A friend of mine disclosed to me that she could not read the other day & has asked if I could help her learn to read.
I feel honoured in helping her however I 'm a bit stuck as to where to start. Do I start with the ABC's? I've been looking online for some good exercises that I could print & use however they all seem to be based around children.
So my question is folks, can anyone help with some links or any advice would be very welcome
awaiting to take :notes:
well I am so unorganised was going to say happy aniversary the other day but forgot rolleyes sorry
I'll save the passionkiss till next year!!
Quote by Steve

Now talking of who I fancy.... :grin:

redface
Quote by hisandhers
in edit where's the adurable shireen? I've not seen her around for ages n I want to give her a passionkiss

Give it to me and I'll see if I can remember to pass it on :rascal:
one for each of you
sillyassionkiss: :passionkiss:
Quote by Phuckers
figure this out two married guys went to american for three months on work assignment,on their first nightout one met a girl(clubber) and the other picked up a hooker...after the three months who will have paid more for sex?????

Well it depends how many times the one guy met the hooker and to be honest the other guy isnt paying for sex in the accepted sense is he...
He is spending time with the girl,going on dates,going for meals,walks in the park, all that kind of jazz so the two cannot be compared...
the bottom line is they are both spending money to be with the girls...dates,meal,jazz are all quality life which cannot be compared but MUST be paid for
time is money
this makes me :scared: to think that you would class buying a woman a meal or a few drinks with paying a prostitute for sex :shock:
Quote by Steve

I couldn't remember her name (its an age thingy!! redface )

Yes it is.....
Your waaaaay too young to know who she is ;-)
bless ya you are a sweaty kiss
Now talking of who I fancy.... :grin:
in edit where's the adurable shireen? I've not seen her around for ages n I want to give her a passionkiss
Quote by winchwench
that lady from the flake advert is so sillyhwoar: I'll get back to you for the men there's so many lol

Isn't Joss Stone the new Flake lady? dunno Not seen the ad yet though!
:happy: thats her thank you hun kiss
I couldn't remember her name (its an age thingy!! redface )
Quote by flower411
anyone opening up a room tonight? I'll bring a big bottle of wine :beer: :giggle:

Kent room social tonight and we ain`t goin. So if nobodies opened up by I`ll do it lol
opening in 4 ....in case anybodies about
:doh: missed you again
Quote by jaymar
I used to be pretty vitriolic about "cheating" (for wont of a better word) partners......
then I saw the "greyscale"
something that also changed my viewpoint occurred the last time this question was raised. I recieved a lengthy PM from a forumite who felt they wanted to explain their situation.
It moved me to tears.
So as I said- whilst I choose not to get involved, I also choose not to pass judgement. Whilst there are, undoubtedly some arseholes out there with devoted partners who are just out for extra pussy/cock, there are, equally, people living in situations we could not imagine.
Live & let live.

Very well said
:thumbup: from me too
that lady from the flake advert is so sillyhwoar: I'll get back to you for the men there's so many lol
Quote by flower411
We also suspected that she wasn`t entirely happy about being there and that it was all the boyfriends idea.
Did she say she wasn't entirely happy & it was all her boyfriends idea?

Yes , I suppose I should have made this bit clearer !!
I said "supected" because it was very difficult at some points to make out what she was saying. In hindsight, I suppose it worries me that she could have been under the influence of more than alcohol.
He did mention her reluctance to come to the party as well !
Sometimes it`s difficult do guage a situation when you are in completely alien surroundings wink
I would hasten to add that I`m not in the habit of refusing the advances of beautiful women just because I think they`ve had a couple of drinks !! lol
thanks for clearing that up hun & I quite agree now why you did. I would have done the same. kiss
Quote by flower411
Some time ago Mrs f and myself went to party local to me.
There is a weekly party held in a fairly large private house.
We got chatting to a young couple and it quickly became obvious that the young lady was VERY drunk and that she had started drinking early in the evening at home simply to pluck up the courage to come to the party !! :shock:
I tend to get very nervous before we have a meet & I tend to have a few drinks before I go out just to calm my nerves
We also suspected that she wasn`t entirely happy about being there and that it was all the boyfriends idea.
Did she say she wasn't entirely happy & it was all her boyfriends idea?
However, after we had chatted for a while she became much less agitated and stated quite clearly that she wasn`t so nervous now because we were such nice people and did we want to join them in the jacuzzi !!
Again, I start to relax more after a chat
This was our first visit to any form of party or club and in the circumstances, I quickly declined,despite the fact that she was very attractive to me and I suspected that Mrs f was liking the young man rolleyes
Do you think that this could have been your vulnerable side coming accross as a kind gentleman protecting a young lady dunno
Now ..I hadn`t realised just how attractive Mrs f had found the young man and when I later said to her
" If I`d realised, I would have said yes to going to the jacuzzi with them "
She said that I wouldn`t have because I`m too much of a gentleman lol
Anyway .... what do you think ?? Should we have stayed with them to keep her out of trouble or informed the hosts that we thought she was vunerable ?? :dunno:
I don't think that you were there to keep her out of trouble. It would have been her desicion to stay or leave/ play or not to play. If however she couldn't ie: stand up being so drunk then that would have been different. For me I would have spoke to the hosts. Good thought prokoking thread though hun
breakfast :shock: I was always told sex was always a cure for hangovers :shock: :giggle:
how innocent am I :giggle: