if you are a full member here you can create a private room and invite your 'playmate' into the room for private fun. They want to play with you so you get to set the rules etc, if they are from the site then a private room is prob the best way to go. Mask as suggested above can add a sexy element whilst keeping you 'covered' against showing your face

a very appealing view

think you're earlier post got shunted out of the way, have to say she doesn't appear to be that shy 😜

always seems to be a Saturday with a major problem 😒

Quote by Hotwifekat

Every guy i've done it to has loved it big time, isn't it where your g-spot is?....lolx

Receiving it is ok but much more fun giving it & watching you groan...lolx

Kx

You can do mine any day

server blown by Amy? 🤣

same here, been showing 0 in chat for a number of days now even when there have been folks in there

Hi Sarah, just tried this and it does seem to work and is quite easy to do

Quote by AdminSarah

Are you using an incognito or private browser when you go to look at something else? For example, you are going to view a profile from the chatroom?

just clicking on the profile tab from the persons profile card in chat so not incognito

Quote by Woohoo

Just a thought, but is this just an issue with one member or are there multiple members having the same issues.

Rather than just the one member?

it might help the backroom boys get to the route of the problem if there are multiple members having the same above issues and they were either to report it in this post or alternatively log a support ticket.

certainly if I leave the SH chat tab and go to another open window on my browser and come there is a blank white screen which can take a minute or more to return to showing the chat screen. This is on a laptop and running Edge with windows 11

Quote by Wetrock

A beta version is where you iron out some of the bugs, listen to feedback and performance test. You've done none of these things.

Lush stories chat works perfectly, why not reuse that code in the swinging heaven chat. It's still crap but at least it's accessible. Can't get into any chat rooms. And I've paid for Lifetime membership... Useless developers.

I brought up the fact that Lush chat works perfectly (didn't realise you were there too) apparently part of the issue with comparing the two is SH has 10 times as many chatters (terms used loosely) so there is a user volume issue. Speaking with various people on various platforms phone / ipad / laptop all are having different issues. I've found it better on chrome than Edge, someone I know has safari on her phone and no issues. Some have labelled it as teething issues but then they were having issues last night in pool so maybe more understanding than they were. Those having issues have been dubbed a 'vocal minority' but visit other non pic rooms and the chat is the same. It did take Lush about 2 weeks to get everything ironed out so hopefully SH will too but its def not a good look and does question how reliable the beta testing was. The site owners must be in despair with all the complaints if they are monitoring it.

Quote by hornydilf2014

Hey, did this ever get off the ground? Got a single women who's interested and I'd be keen to join the fun too...

Sadly never happened, but if you have an interested party so to speak then I'd still be interested. What would this lady be up for. Ur welcome to DM if you prefer

Wednesday night and mini profiles and emoji's not working, pic rooms yes they have pics but the non pic rooms are either quiet or full of discontent. Admins admitting during the day there are problems which they are trying to fix, surely the sensible thing is to return to the old chat while they investigate everything that has gone wrong. People are saying they will vote with their feet and wallets / purses

You've been running beta on **** for months now and its fairly smooth - so no excuses for it not to work properly here now we are all having to use it. Yet its slow, emoji's not loading up correctly slow to display messages once typed, seems like the system can't cope with the volume of chatters using it

with the international rooms it would be much easier on the eye if the country flags were used rather the country abbreviations and quicker to check if someone was close enough to be of interest

Quote by gustavv

It's not working for me either.

likewise @

Quote by ColinT1961

How do I remove someone that I have blocked or has blocked me from my profile views so I don’t click on them again?

I don't think you can, you just get a message saying they are blocked and not to ask why etc

With a decent smart phone you can get a good quality video which can then be editted on a laptop if required depending on your requirements, so much depends how long your clips are. I believe there are limits on the file size which can be uploaded here. If you are looking to do longer videos then camcorder probably becomes a better option. Great pics btw, wish I was a little younger

Quote by med31p

You could always try the Mecca Bingo 🤣

So its not the pub bar your propping up of an evening then!! 🤣🤣

believe me it does happen, don't even need to cam and it can get messy

Quote by Alfie69N

Hi new here, hope to message or see you soon

great profile wud love to chat sometime

been worked on it for 6 months now, have messaged the guy but got no reply so sadly no longer holding my breathe that anything might happen

Quote by area71

So we only had 4 couples turn up for this; they seemed to have an okay time and we didn't charge any of them, but we need more people attending to make it viable for us and more fun for you guys

What do you guys need and want in an event like this? Is daylight or darkness preferred? Can we do events in winter?

Your constructive comments would be appreciated

In all fairness its hardly dogging, more like an outdoor club

Quote by area71

Location Use What Three Words

///diver. tonal. bulletins

Gate opens at 4pm

wonder if anyone actually went to this?

posted a message to one admin who eventually came back saying 'we don't know what causes the crashing' gives little grounds for hope really

Quote by _loz_

Yes it is very frustrating we have asked till we are blue in the face how much longer this is going to go on for It is killing the site and the community.

Hi

I popped after the post I put in pool to Danadmin - noticeable there was no reply which I imagine is as frustrating for the mods as for the rest of us. I'll try and remember to post a ticket if the site goes down when I'm on but sometimes you get tiddled off and leave anyway

Quote by Griff

Hi all,

Deepest apologies, we're just as frustrated. We've been keeping tabs on the server after some anomalies kept happening and despite our efforts to increase resources and a few other things to help bring back some stability, regrettably the same issues returned over the weekend and multiple times just earlier today.

We've applied software updates and rebooted the server and the team will continue to monitor.

Its been happening for weeks now, you can almost set your watch by the time it happens on a Saturday night, - 11pm seems the favoured time to eject everyone

crashing each of the last 3 nights, repeatedly on Saturday

Quote by hugecockcouple

Sounds great

sadly doesn't seem to be a flier - cracking pics, guessing mr is big or are you seeking Mr Big?

Quote by RandyPeep

WOW.... again tonight the whole chat just reset booting everyone and ending all chats..... As a paying member this is completely unacceptable!!! the site is unusable of late and I will NOT be renewing!!

Seems to happen most Saturday nights about 11pm, not sure if its the server can't cope (never an issue in the 'old days' with loads more people on) as they have downgraded bandwidth or whether the techies think Sat night is a good time to do 'upgrade' work either way its just another reason why people are leaving. Even when it reloaded Sat night it wasn't working properly as people were posting who were not showing on my chatroom member list, nor were they showing on one of the Mods list either as he confirmed to me in chat