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Over 90 days ago
Gay Female, 46
0 miles · South Yorkshire
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It strikes me that all you are saying (reading between the lines) is that you'd like to meet for a drink first and want to start with soft swing/play........... doesn't strike as unreasonable!! Anyone who thinks it is is definitely wrong for you as a couple.
Good luck with everything and anything you decide!
Good luck with everything and anything you decide!
Well good luck to you missus with everything, the most important thing is that what you are doing is making you happy and as long as that is the case then long may it continue :smile2: .
I think polyamory is fascinating, complicated and very liberated. I think I could deal with a relationship like that if the other people in the picture were like those in your case, but it would be the seperation from my partner that would cause me problems (nobody to warm my feet on
) Are the others in the US with your partner?? I imagine I would find that quite isolating but like you say, there is all the space that you want/need available to you and that in itself must be a good feeling.
I think polyamory is fascinating, complicated and very liberated. I think I could deal with a relationship like that if the other people in the picture were like those in your case, but it would be the seperation from my partner that would cause me problems (nobody to warm my feet on
) Are the others in the US with your partner?? I imagine I would find that quite isolating but like you say, there is all the space that you want/need available to you and that in itself must be a good feeling. I would love to have seen what the media would have continued to make of Princess Diana to be honest, would she ever have married Dodi etc etc Although she played to the media when it suited and berated it when it didn't I still had some sort of crazy soft spot for her and just wondered what she would have turned out like in old age - Honor Blackman of Barabara Cartland if you know what I mean!
WIth regards to people like Steve Irwin there is always a great deal of risk, its a wonder people like Red Adaire didn't end up the same way. It really is such a shame considering his age and the young family he leaves behind. Steve did a fantastic job of raising environmental awareness straight into the homes of all kinds of people and I know a lot of people will be driven to continue what he started just because of the genuine, affable (and insane) way he came across.
WIth regards to people like Steve Irwin there is always a great deal of risk, its a wonder people like Red Adaire didn't end up the same way. It really is such a shame considering his age and the young family he leaves behind. Steve did a fantastic job of raising environmental awareness straight into the homes of all kinds of people and I know a lot of people will be driven to continue what he started just because of the genuine, affable (and insane) way he came across.
Well we had a great time, there was so many lovely friendly people there (thanks to everyone who came and said hello and helped to make our first munch one of the best nights out we've ever had!!), a really buzzing atmosphere and lots and lots of laughs to be had. Thanks Dark for a fantastic munch and here's to many more.
My fave quote of the night has to be "For fuck's sake, will someone have a grape" :giggle:
And Earthy, you looked truly amazing and were worth all of the copper that Madammie was throwing at you
My fave quote of the night has to be "For fuck's sake, will someone have a grape" :giggle:
And Earthy, you looked truly amazing and were worth all of the copper that Madammie was throwing at you
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Well we are going to stay till the end of the party, not made any plans on being able to get to the after party (if Dark invited us lol) so will have to see how things go really, its a shame cos its harder to relax if you are clockwatching.
Well give me your watches when you get there. Problem solved !!!!
Well to be honest neither of us wear watches anyway but blindfolds are always an option :twisted:
OMG...................Does that mean I have to bring my "bag of tricks" along too then? :twisted: :twisted:
I bet you were bringing them anyway :twisted:
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So Abilene, are we gonna be falling asleep together in the corner seeing as we are still up at this ungodly hour??? Only half a sleep left for us now
I know. I am sooo not sleepy. I am actually getting angry about it as Ihave a long drive tomorrow. lol. You hold me up and I'll hold you up !!!
Its a deal, the first one to drop is a wuss :lol:
Does dropping to my knees count???
On that note I am going to bed.
Sleep well, see you soon and don't forget your knee pads :lol: x x x x
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Well we are going to stay till the end of the party, not made any plans on being able to get to the after party (if Dark invited us lol) so will have to see how things go really, its a shame cos its harder to relax if you are clockwatching.
Well give me your watches when you get there. Problem solved !!!!
Well to be honest neither of us wear watches anyway but blindfolds are always an option :twisted:
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So Abilene, are we gonna be falling asleep together in the corner seeing as we are still up at this ungodly hour??? Only half a sleep left for us now
I know. I am sooo not sleepy. I am actually getting angry about it as Ihave a long drive tomorrow. lol. You hold me up and I'll hold you up !!!
Its a deal, the first one to drop is a wuss :lol:
so think we will be heading straight to the venue. EEEWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!
No wonder I left Catholicism behind me, there is no way I could love all of God's creatures! Spiders are just awful, scary and menacing, and probably far more scared of me than I am of them (especially in a morning ) but that makes no difference. I am afriad our house policy is splat first and ask questions later - the Dubya technique
No wonder I left Catholicism behind me, there is no way I could love all of God's creatures! Spiders are just awful, scary and menacing, and probably far more scared of me than I am of them (especially in a morning
) but that makes no difference. I am afriad our house policy is splat first and ask questions later - the Dubya technique Quote by carpetfitter
hi folks , the other night i set about writing a bit of a comedy story using folks ID,s . it turned turned out pretty so i came across the idea why not have a go at doing using as many ids as i can , so if i can use your please add your id to my list , below is an example of what i mean , thanks again folks and happy swinging .
sample : there was an AIRMEDIC who was a bit of a CLOONY who one day was feeling kinda CHARANDY so he rang up some BIKER who said hed get a free ride on his CASSIE as long as he had a SASSY partner , then a CURVIERBUNNY appeared saying have me , have me !! so he took the CURVYMINX and got FRISKY with her on the CARPET in the LACASHIRELASS,S living room
Thats it, miss me and a few notable others out then
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Thanks twos-company for the advice. I will take it all into account. I am quite suprised at the amount of people who dont actually know people personally. You all seem to get on really well within the forum.
We are new to this and have been to a social and another meetup and are about to go to our first munch. I can honestly say that the folks we met at the social/meetup were all absolutely great, very friendly and talkative. From what we can gather from the forums you can guarantee that a percentage of the attendees at most of the events are newbies and even if you end up just talking to the other newbies then you'll have a great night anyway!
At the end of the day, as is suggested in a lot of threads and in a variety of circumstances, if you can string a sentence together and don't think that everyone there is after shagging you then everthing will be just fine
Just be yourself and remember, if you are really finding it too much then you can always make your excuses and leave!
Good luck,
Lava x x
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Right, this whole outfit thing!
Neither me or the missus do girly, so trousers are deffo the order of the day. We both plan on wearing smart trousers and shirts (NOT blouses
That'll be me then
:lol:time's running out and i have no dress - even if I 'did' dresses :giggle:
I am sure you will find something suitably fabulous hun, however, we will keep a seat warm for you just in case
can you keep a seat warm for me too please hun?
as it looks like i will be wearing jeans and that means im in for a spanking off earthy my twin.....so i might need a comfy seat :lol:
Space reserved for hfx along with her army of admirers and seat warmers :P
I think that the Underdressed corner is going to be very full and have a bit of an S&M slant with the way things are going, looking forward to it already :lol:
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Right, this whole outfit thing
Neither me or the missus do girly, so trousers are deffo the order of the day. We both plan on wearing smart trousers and shirts (NOT blouses
That'll be me then
:lol:time's running out and i have no dress - even if I 'did' dresses :giggle:
I am sure you will find something suitably fabulous hun, however, we will keep a seat warm for you just in case
You lot should think yourselves lucky, imagine what its like to have two wives in the relationship like me and the missus
Anyway, I have a feeling that the ladies would see it a bit more like this (for all the people that have made such nicecomments about their good ladies!!!)
Moaning
Incessantly?
Sex
Stops
Until
Shopping
Anyway, I have a feeling that the ladies would see it a bit more like this (for all the people that have made such nicecomments about their good ladies!!!)
Moaning
Incessantly?
Sex
Stops
Until
Shopping
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I have and it still makes me laugh !
I have recruited two Fun Buddies from this site , and there was a period of time when they overlapped.
FB No. 1 had been letting me down quite a bit and I was on the verge of calling off our arrangement, so we had arranged to meet for a drink and spend a bit of "quality" time, however he was held up at home when a friend turned up unexpectedly. To make up time he up his foot down a little but, yep you guessed it he got stopped by the police who held him up further. He turned up 2 hours late, I was fuming because he let me down again and he was fuming as the police had given him a hard time. All night he went on about this idiot policeman and the more he told me the more familar this man was sounding
Yes, FB 1 had been stopped by FB 2 and they didn't have a clue who the other was !!
Needless to say, they now absolutely hate each other and my chances of a threesome have gone out the window !!!! :cry: :cry: :cry:
There are 600,000 people living in Liverpool and 4000 police, What are the chances !!!!
It could have been worse though, they could have taken a liking to each other and run off into the sunset together
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Recipe for revenge
1...Take 4 large pickled onions, and prior to going to bed, ingest.
2....Leave to ferment overnight in upper/lower colon. Allow time for produced gases to warm thoroughly.
3....Release gases silently under quilt in morning.
4....Whilst still sleeping, sprinkle her face with cold water.
5.....Try to suppress your mirth as you watch her dive under the covers.
6.....Remove yourself from the country
Remember. Revenge is a dish best served anytime.
:laughabove: - Just caught up on this post - LMAO
What a cruel bunch, but armed with all the above info from the 'SH Dirty Tricks' book - I'll be sure I tread carefully and sleep with one eye open.
An alternative is to cover any sensitive or 'fluffy' areas with sticky back plastic and watch the drama unfold
Another option is to make sure the plastic is in a very visible place and write your pet name for your beloved on it which ensures confinement in the house or a definite removal of the plastic. Wonder where I got that idea from...........................
???? Right, this whole outfit thing !
Neither me or the missus do girly, so trousers are deffo the order of the day. We both plan on wearing smart trousers and shirts (NOT blouses ) and although we are aware that the Decadence and Debauchery is only a theme, we would like to state that we will be found in 'Underdressed Corner' (sic) should anyone else who doesn't look like Ginger Rogers or Fred Astaire care to come and join us :D :lol: :D :D
But apart from outfit drama, all we've got to say is:
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
:beer: :beer: :beer: :beer: :beer: :beer: :beer:
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
:thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:
! Neither me or the missus do girly, so trousers are deffo the order of the day. We both plan on wearing smart trousers and shirts (NOT blouses
) and although we are aware that the Decadence and Debauchery is only a theme, we would like to state that we will be found in 'Underdressed Corner' (sic) should anyone else who doesn't look like Ginger Rogers or Fred Astaire care to come and join us :D :lol: :D :D But apart from outfit drama, all we've got to say is:
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
:beer: :beer: :beer: :beer: :beer: :beer: :beer:
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
:thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:
