I don't want verified.
I don't want to do any verifying.
Already in conversation, this has had to be explained and my reasons for it, i am finding i have to justify.
Why should i ?
Why should i have to justify anthing to anybody?
I am discrete.
I want discretion.
Thats it.
I will tolerate others. I will have respect for others.
Break discretion, tolleration or respect and you are leaving yourself wide open to others treating you in the same manner.
Okay so the system needs to have opinions involved. Wether that be from initial validation or from the disciplinary process. I don't know who you are, for me to allow you to have an opinion on my behalf.
Either do one of two things.
1. Make yourselves known, answer the questions which have been raised.
or
2. Scrap the system which IS going to bring a huge gulf becuase people are people wether verified, unverified, tollerant, respectful or discrete.
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
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Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 55
0 miles · Falkirk
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What can i say that hasn't already been said previously by people who have very strong, real and now feelings about something which is being slated by others.
The going round in circles of the why's, who's what for's, is just that - a circle. There is no way forward, back or side motion.
So here is my take on this, how i feel about it.
Swinging heaven has given me the courage to look at my life in a different way. You have in a way enabled me to look at my physical self without disgust, shame or lack of self worth. I have laughed along this road, being amongst cyber people, with all there little faults, wether that be, timewasters, idiots on a saturday night, drunks, abusives, whoever !!!!! Weedling those, is how to truly identify a timewaster, an idiot etc. Without them, you COULDN'T identify the genuine ones. They have each had there part to play in this journey.
The room is without distinction in its nature. There are rules, which are adhered to, or not, administered by the ops. There are no real names identifying an individaul in real life. There is nothing which distinguishes individuals. They each have the power to be who they want to be. Because this is cyber. These rooms have allowed me to be the parts of me which i have never been allowed to be before.
So, I could be horny. It is allowed. Its not nasty, disgusting, vile or anything which i had never allowed it to be before. For the first time, i was enjoying my body. In real life too. It wasn't just all in my head. You lot taught me my physical freedom. Something which some may, or may not, have more reason to understand than others. Does it matter?
Could i ever, ever ever, have had the same experience in a room where distinctions were made from the onset? The little "+", might be representative of stuff, or not, it might have been brought into effect in a bad way or not. The point is, it represents something. It represents that in some way, that individual is someone different.
The problem - trying to fix something, when you can't identify the exact problem.
The solution - The whole ethos of this site, is about respect, and tolleration of others. Who are we to not tollerate. When someone is disrespectful, we do not tollerate them, and they are removed. Until they do the thing which is not tollerated, then we should be respectful. So the timewasters, the drunks, the idiots, have the same rights and priviledge of individuality as the couple, the single female, the bifem, the single male, whoever !!!!
To the people on high, who have remained anonymous throughout, please please, remove the verification. You are anonymous. No one will ever know.
With all my love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
The going round in circles of the why's, who's what for's, is just that - a circle. There is no way forward, back or side motion.
So here is my take on this, how i feel about it.
Swinging heaven has given me the courage to look at my life in a different way. You have in a way enabled me to look at my physical self without disgust, shame or lack of self worth. I have laughed along this road, being amongst cyber people, with all there little faults, wether that be, timewasters, idiots on a saturday night, drunks, abusives, whoever !!!!! Weedling those, is how to truly identify a timewaster, an idiot etc. Without them, you COULDN'T identify the genuine ones. They have each had there part to play in this journey.
The room is without distinction in its nature. There are rules, which are adhered to, or not, administered by the ops. There are no real names identifying an individaul in real life. There is nothing which distinguishes individuals. They each have the power to be who they want to be. Because this is cyber. These rooms have allowed me to be the parts of me which i have never been allowed to be before.
So, I could be horny. It is allowed. Its not nasty, disgusting, vile or anything which i had never allowed it to be before. For the first time, i was enjoying my body. In real life too. It wasn't just all in my head. You lot taught me my physical freedom. Something which some may, or may not, have more reason to understand than others. Does it matter?
Could i ever, ever ever, have had the same experience in a room where distinctions were made from the onset? The little "+", might be representative of stuff, or not, it might have been brought into effect in a bad way or not. The point is, it represents something. It represents that in some way, that individual is someone different.
The problem - trying to fix something, when you can't identify the exact problem.
The solution - The whole ethos of this site, is about respect, and tolleration of others. Who are we to not tollerate. When someone is disrespectful, we do not tollerate them, and they are removed. Until they do the thing which is not tollerated, then we should be respectful. So the timewasters, the drunks, the idiots, have the same rights and priviledge of individuality as the couple, the single female, the bifem, the single male, whoever !!!!
To the people on high, who have remained anonymous throughout, please please, remove the verification. You are anonymous. No one will ever know.
With all my love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
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Round 2 :happy:
Hi All,
I am looking for a straight single male to join myself and another guy on Thursday night, in Central Scotland for mfm fun.
If you aren't available on Thursday night then please don't give us a shout. The meet will be thursday night, evening, after work, in Central Scotland.
Single guys only please as I intend to keep you up late.
PM if you are interested. :small-print:
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
Round 2 :happy:
Hi All,
I am looking for a straight single male to join myself and another guy on Thursday night, in Central Scotland for mfm fun.
If you aren't available on Thursday night then please don't give us a shout. The meet will be thursday night, evening, after work, in Central Scotland.
Single guys only please as I intend to keep you up late.
PM if you are interested. :small-print:
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
The whole topic of verification has really got me thinking, which i'm sure, will piss some of you off. I'll try to be as brief as i can.
1 I am a genuine person, i am a genuine person who seeks little additional amusements to fulfill some of my sexual fantasies.
2 I don't want verified, because it would remove one of the basic principles of my lifestyle, which is discretion.
3 I will not verify anyone else, because it will remove one of the basic principles of my lifestyle, which is discretion.
This is how i feel about the verification system but from it, there comes a whole host of issues with regards to the chatroom. Will people continue to talk with me becuase i am not verified? Will people talk to me because i'm not verified? Will newbies ignore me? Will newbies see me as a triumph? Will i now have to make sure, that if i meet up with someone, that i will not be verified from it? (sexysteph) Will it be assumed that i will verify someone else, if we meet up?
Verification is here, and its only time which will tell if its going to work and stay, or not work and go. Good luck to the mods anyway. They ultimately are trying to find a solution to an annoying problem. I just hope that the system does not become corrupt in its nature, since it then defeats the purpose of trying anything at all.
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Unverified and happy Little
XXX
I'll try to be as brief as i can.1 I am a genuine person, i am a genuine person who seeks little additional amusements to fulfill some of my sexual fantasies.
2 I don't want verified, because it would remove one of the basic principles of my lifestyle, which is discretion.
3 I will not verify anyone else, because it will remove one of the basic principles of my lifestyle, which is discretion.
This is how i feel about the verification system but from it, there comes a whole host of issues with regards to the chatroom. Will people continue to talk with me becuase i am not verified? Will people talk to me because i'm not verified? Will newbies ignore me? Will newbies see me as a triumph? Will i now have to make sure, that if i meet up with someone, that i will not be verified from it? (sexysteph) Will it be assumed that i will verify someone else, if we meet up?
Verification is here, and its only time which will tell if its going to work and stay, or not work and go. Good luck to the mods anyway. They ultimately are trying to find a solution to an annoying problem. I just hope that the system does not become corrupt in its nature, since it then defeats the purpose of trying anything at all.
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Unverified and happy Little
XXX
I totally agree with everything that has been said above.
I just feel about me, (since i can't talk for everyone else) that my sexuality, is mine.
Absolutely, no-one elses. To the point where, I really don't give a shit what anyone, whether individual or a "society" thinks of it.
If there is something I want to do. Then there will be someone else out there who wants to do it to. If there are lots of things I want to do, then there will be lots of different people who will want that also. They don't have to be the same people.
By concluding that sexuality is in itself unique, then you have complete freedom.
Hope this helps, or not.
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
I just feel about me, (since i can't talk for everyone else) that my sexuality, is mine.
Absolutely, no-one elses. To the point where, I really don't give a shit what anyone, whether individual or a "society" thinks of it.
If there is something I want to do. Then there will be someone else out there who wants to do it to. If there are lots of things I want to do, then there will be lots of different people who will want that also. They don't have to be the same people.
By concluding that sexuality is in itself unique, then you have complete freedom.
Hope this helps, or not.
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
Quote by rick49
ok i accept that i have done this the wrong way.
But as i said i didnt expect any replies and as it happens it now seems i have upset a few people, if i have then im sorry.
Maybe i should have worded it a bit better. I have taken onboard what some of you guys have said and would like to thank you for it
Rick
In that case Rick49
:welcome:
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
Quote by warwick
I think Ian might have something to say about being left on his own with the kids all weekend and no Dawn to play with
and hes a very nice man so I couldnt do that to him
nevertheless Ill have something to fantasize over now
:cry:
:upset: :upset: :violin: You mean there really isn't going to be a party then?
Lots of love hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
Away to unpack her suitcase
Quote by hayleyw2
...I drive to the junction at the end of my road and stop-It doesn't matter about other motorists at this point, they'd understand anyway- now, feel the pull! Its like there is a little magnet in your heart, the flutters and tickles are directionall, trust them.
Use same method for everything. Won't always bring the money but will allways bring the happiness and... will allways be right for you.
The data base of logistical and practical knowlege you have in you head is a mere enhancement to the above.
I got it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
Quote by neilinleeds
well, kissings the best bit i reckon.
the tenderest brushing together at first, soft little sucks on warm lips, a gentle nibble on the lower lip followed by the slightest probe with a tippy tongue, teasing with parted lips and soft warm breath, running fingers through long hair, lightly stroking the back of the neck and tracing the outline of ear and jaw, cupping a soft face gently, firmer pressure and more tippy tongues and nibbles giving way to rising passion and hands wandering along the spine and caressing the gentle curve of hip and bum, breathing quickening and passion growing and kissing harder, feeling each others tongue and teeth, bodies pressed together and . . . erm . . . . . .
bugger hang on a minute i need a lie down . . . .
neil x x x x
Bloody hell !
Little
XXX
Quote by neilinleeds
little! :shock: not you as well!
what with all the comings and goings dunno if i'm coming or going! ((( yes i know no change there then!)))
aww come 'ere
now sit yer bum back down, though to be fair with the state of your sticky chair surprised you could pry yourself off it anyways? ;)
neil x x x x ;)
How do you know about my chair
: I knew that my partner had the fantasy about fmf for ever and ever. One day, i decided "what the hell, you only live once" and placed an ad.
Some time later, and his fantasy fulfilled, i began to look at some of my own. So now, i have a list, which saves on having to remember them all !!!!!
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
Some time later, and his fantasy fulfilled, i began to look at some of my own. So now, i have a list, which saves on having to remember them all !!!!!
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
If the truth be told, I have been checking you lot out every day, just not posting to you cause i'd left.
:doh: :doh: :doh: You bet i missed you.
Glad to see that folks have gotten back together, that the human race is being multiplied with 2 additions in one go, and that some who have left, have come back quicker than i did.
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
Where have all the single men gone???????????????????
You can't seriously be telling me that there isn't a single Scottish man available for some fun and frollicks <tuts> <ffs> (something is rubbing off somewhere i think!)
Still don't have another male yet. Bloody hell, i knew i should have hung on to that guy in Safeways. :angel:
Where are all my PM's?
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
