I might manage to pop by for a coffee. :shock:
Lots of love,hugs and kisses
Little
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Quote by JudyTV
Some of us have joked with Steve (me included) about this challenge and we have all seen that he was up for a laugh. However , I have to say that I am somewhat in sympathy with Stephanie and her concerns. Some of the less informed will say "How will anyone know that it is a guy dressed as a TV?" as opposed to the usual guy who is a Tranny. Believe me this is different to " a guy who is a TV " Its all about how a Tranny holds himself / herself when out and about en femme. Its about posture, the walk, the head held in a certain position and about being able to give a sweet smile in return to the nice boys who whistle at a Tranny in The Village and say "great legs honey" confidence and the authority to be who you are. When a new Tranny takes those first steps beyond the sanctuary of the hotel door or when he/she leaves the car to walk down Canal St. dressed is something that remains with you forever. Its the Tyranny's "Baptism of Fire" and it scares the crap out of you no matter who or what you are. You will perspire like a racehorse even if it is 5% below, you will shake like a Tesco trolley on cobbles and your sphincter will take on a mind of its own. I have seen many get 50yards and the proverbial bottle goes and they bolt like Rem Rum at the start of a race. Gibbering wrecks in a trembling mess is a regular occurrence.
There are a few ways to "Pass" in the village, some pass as a girl ( rare) some pass as a good looking Tranny ( quite a few ) , some just pass as Tranny's ( loads ) The key is they are all Tranny's. believe me you can spot a guy in drag taking the piss 20 yards away and it can go badly wrong.
You have to really want it to do it in a place like that because its a place where it means something to a lot of people. Its where a Tranny gets her wings and it sure as sugar isn't an easy thing to do. We all remember our first time out. So Stephanie honey, if you don't want to do it then we will understand, its fine. We realise with you it was just a laugh so don't feel you have to explain anything.
As you say you have already been to The Village several times with SH members, me included and enjoyed it for what it is, a great night out, so heres to the next time on a SH social in The Village.
Afterall none of us here have to do anything we feel uncomfortable about. It was just a giggle.
Judy
Quote by lucyweebaps
Bit of bad news I'm afraid peeps
Unfortunately because of personal circumstances I no longer will be able to continue organising the Edinburgh mini Munch.I'm sorry if this has caused any inconvenience or disappointment to any of you,
Lucy xxx
Lucy and Ken,
I'm really sorry to hear that Lucy. I hope whatever it is resolves itself quickly and without too much upset, to either of you.
Lots of love,hugs and kisses :therethere:
Little
XXX
Quote by HungryP
Oh yes, I'm aware of that, & for those who choose to believe, good luck to them. Its the poor & uneducated of the world who, because of the society in to which they are born, have no other option but to believe in Catholic doctrine. Because of the Catholic doctrine, they are much more likely to suffer from AIDS, or live in a country that suffers from a rapidly expanding population.
I don't get that
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
What have we got?
A guy who loves his wife, says everything is cool with there relationship, and there physical relationship is also okay.
Firstly, the fact that you are querying a part of your relationship suggests to me that there is something, somewhere wrong with your relationship.
So what do you want out of swinging?
The actual sex ? The physical reality of swinging ? or, are you looking for a touch of excitement? Is there an excitement in just BEING here? When you understand what it is you want from swinging, then you should also be able to see what is missing from the relationship you have with your wife.
If you DO ACTUALLY love your wife. Then ask yourself why it is that you don't feel able to confide in her. If you loved her, wouldn't/shouldn't you trust her enough to know that she will at least LISTEN to what you are saying. I'm not saying that she will agree, she might at least hear what you have to say.
The other alternative of not talking with her is that she will never know where you are at right now. You are ploughing your way into something and purposefully leaving her behind. Even if she were to accept that you might swing, and she won't swing, you will never again be in a position where you can reach her and communicate without having drama and life's shit to worry about first. Give the marriage that you have worked at for all that time, a chance to work, if not for yourself, then at least out of respect for the human being known as your wife.
Whats the worst that will happen ????? Whats the worst that could happen from either perspective ????? What HAVE you got to lose ??????
Where do i get all this from. From realising perhaps too late, that i did have the option of being HONEST. But never saw it. Its what real relationships are based on.
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
PS I couldn't give a shit which way you decide. I don't have an issue with married guys, but, the wives will always know.
A guy who loves his wife, says everything is cool with there relationship, and there physical relationship is also okay.
Firstly, the fact that you are querying a part of your relationship suggests to me that there is something, somewhere wrong with your relationship.
So what do you want out of swinging?
The actual sex ? The physical reality of swinging ? or, are you looking for a touch of excitement? Is there an excitement in just BEING here? When you understand what it is you want from swinging, then you should also be able to see what is missing from the relationship you have with your wife.
If you DO ACTUALLY love your wife. Then ask yourself why it is that you don't feel able to confide in her. If you loved her, wouldn't/shouldn't you trust her enough to know that she will at least LISTEN to what you are saying. I'm not saying that she will agree, she might at least hear what you have to say.
The other alternative of not talking with her is that she will never know where you are at right now. You are ploughing your way into something and purposefully leaving her behind. Even if she were to accept that you might swing, and she won't swing, you will never again be in a position where you can reach her and communicate without having drama and life's shit to worry about first. Give the marriage that you have worked at for all that time, a chance to work, if not for yourself, then at least out of respect for the human being known as your wife.
Whats the worst that will happen ????? Whats the worst that could happen from either perspective ????? What HAVE you got to lose ??????
Where do i get all this from. From realising perhaps too late, that i did have the option of being HONEST. But never saw it. Its what real relationships are based on.
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
PS I couldn't give a shit which way you decide. I don't have an issue with married guys, but, the wives will always know.
Quote by VenusnMars
It wasn`t so much a point than a question, which you answered. Conscience seems to come in to this quite a bit, in fact even more so than morality, since you are the only one who would be aware of the deceit. So I go back to my first response. :mrgreen:
As for whether it is immoral if you don`t get caught, the immorality exists before you get caught (says I, but this is possibly another `cat in a box debate
Venusxxx
I see your point about conscience actually having a role to play in it. Just made me wonder together with the last few posts though.
Our conscience is made up of little negative reasons as to why something is not a good idea/situation. A sort of perceived logical thinking.
If we come back to the fact that i WANT to do something, and calculatingly go through all the reasons why i WANT to do something in the first place, they are all very selfishly unselfish, in that there isn't anyone who could actually be hurt, by my DOING of the something, if i were to be in that position. - so thats okay ?
Morality, i see as existing within the confines of ourselves. Do i have morals etc I just try to live my life in a way towards others, in a similar way as i would have others deal with me. Quandry ?
The Quandry itself appeared solid ! Culum Struan hit the nail on the head by questioning who defined underhanded? What is the definition of being underhanded? Puts a slightly different angle to the initial question. :shock:
Quote by Culum Struan
Why is something called underhanded? If it doesn't hurt anyone, can it by definition be underhanded or "morally wrong"?
In that case, I'd imagine you could go for it. It depends on how bad you might feel afterwards, but often I've hesitated over things, and created reasons not to do something when I should have really gone for it..you don't want to fall into that trap either..
Touche !
Dilema United 1 - Quandry 0
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
Quote by VenusnMars
The fact that you started a thread about it suggests to me that you are too aware of the personal moral implications, and stand a good chance of beating yourself up afterward. My advice would be `not`.:
Venusxxx
I agree with Venus, your conscience could come back to haunt you....
Mike.
Not sure if conscience comes into it TBH ! :shock:
Conscience would only ever come into play if the scenario were such that i was morally aware of it being a "wrong" thing to do.
What of the situations? Do we have the right to decide which situations in life are morally wrong.
I could be talking about something like the kids easter eggs which i may, or may not have just eaten. :undecided: Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
You have asked whether you ought to do something underhand (immoral?) to get what you want. You`ve stated that this action could possibly be taken without ill effect to another (which *could* dismantle to morality aspect, pending on whether morality is determined by effect on others; enter unfaithfulness yadda yadda). If it`s not a question concerning concience, then what is the fuel to this thread?
Jesus Little, you don`t fuck around when you start a thread do you?! This has the makings of a scorcher!
BTW, If youhave consumed the kids Easter eggs, then you WILL burn in hell. No question. :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Since i would make a conscious decision to actually participate in the doing, it would only be becuase I wanted in the first place. All levels of consience would/should have been addressed prior to the activity being pursued. If i admit, that I actually WANT to do something, then the end result (whatever the consequences) have no effect on that initial decision, hence, there is no need to feel guilt or shame since i've done exactly what i have wanted to do. If there are consequences, then i'll put my hand up and take the shit, knowing that potentially, there was always a risk of it backfiring in the first place.
Having said all that, taking the first step into the actual doing something, aware of the fact, that there will be no hurtling consciounce to deal with, leaves me sitting with the initial quandry, of, does it make it right??????? Aware of the fact that potentially, no-one will ever know of the deceit, doesn't excuse the fact of its presence either.
Or have i missed your point ?
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
Quote by MikeNorth
The fact that you started a thread about it suggests to me that you are too aware of the personal moral implications, and stand a good chance of beating yourself up afterward. My advice would be `not`.:
Venusxxx
I agree with Venus, your conscience could come back to haunt you....
Mike.
Not sure if conscience comes into it TBH ! :shock:
Conscience would only ever come into play if the scenario were such that i was morally aware of it being a "wrong" thing to do.
What of the situations? Do we have the right to decide which situations in life are morally wrong.
I could be talking about something like the kids easter eggs which i may, or may not have just eaten. :undecided: Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: 
What this actually is about and the circumstances surrounding the dilema, aren't really of relevance, and may or may not having anything to do with this site. But,
I want to do something, as part of a bigger something else.
What i want to do, is unavailable in an equal to everyone sense, but is only a little part of the bigger something.
Do i ?
a) Make attempts at getting what i want knowing that it is underhanded, or
b) Not be underhanded, and not get what i want?
Sitting on a chair of anticipation. :swingingchair:
Lots of love hugs and kisses
Little
xxx
I want to do something, as part of a bigger something else.
What i want to do, is unavailable in an equal to everyone sense, but is only a little part of the bigger something.
Do i ?
a) Make attempts at getting what i want knowing that it is underhanded, or
b) Not be underhanded, and not get what i want?
Sitting on a chair of anticipation. :swingingchair:
Lots of love hugs and kisses
Little
xxx
:notes: Fantastic night ! :bounce:
Great music :happy:
Great company :boo:
Great food :mrgreen:
Thankyou very much to Ken and Lucy for all there hardwork and effort into making The Scottish Munch such a successful evening. Thanks also to CQ for the end of evening taxi service - love being the first.
It was so good to meet up with everyone again, meeting old friends and new. When is the next one Lucy? :giggle:
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
Great music :happy:
Great company :boo:
Great food :mrgreen:
Thankyou very much to Ken and Lucy for all there hardwork and effort into making The Scottish Munch such a successful evening. Thanks also to CQ for the end of evening taxi service - love being the first.
It was so good to meet up with everyone again, meeting old friends and new. When is the next one Lucy? :giggle:
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
I think having a day where the mods would just have a day off would be fantastic !!!!
Its a shame that it isn't possible to sort of "put the site on hold" for one day a month, whereby no new members were accepted etc.
A whole 24hours once a month to reek havoc. :twisted:
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
Its a shame that it isn't possible to sort of "put the site on hold" for one day a month, whereby no new members were accepted etc.
A whole 24hours once a month to reek havoc. :twisted:
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
Quote by da69ve
dear mr surreycouple, and mrs surreycouple . . . .
well . . . . we ain't always seen eye to eye have we . . . . <<< insert apologetichere >>>
Well done on the 99x / 1000 ;)
and i genuinely do mean that Most Sincerely! ;)
a 1000 posts is a milestone and a half . . . .
n x x x x ;)
Hi Neil
we have decided to use our 1001 Post to thank you for that post.
If we were playing a word association game then 'Eye to eye' certainly isnt the term that would spring to mind if the previous was 'Neil in Leeds'...!!
But we take what you said in all sincerity and hope you do the same of this post.
Thanks
D&Mxxx
Welcome to the God Squad !!
:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove:
Quality. :wink:
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
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:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
Guess what ????????????
:giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
:flipa: :flipa: :flipa: :flipa: :flipa: :flipa: :flipa: :flipa: :flipa: :flipa: :flipa:
:drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies:
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Its time :twisted:
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
Guess what ????????????
:giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
:flipa: :flipa: :flipa: :flipa: :flipa: :flipa: :flipa: :flipa: :flipa: :flipa: :flipa: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :drinkies: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Its time :twisted:
I'm home.
3 glasses of wine. I blame entirely a specific foucpl'e ( you know hwo you are), i'm slopshed, pished, pissed, had one too many. never claimed to be good on the old alcohole.
Gantastic night. Can;t wait till tomoroiw.
Tahnks for eveyrone who turned up. To those woh didn't bother, mised a good night out, with fantastic compenay.
Lots of lvoe, hugs and kises
Little bit pished
XXX
3 glasses of wine. I blame entirely a specific foucpl'e ( you know hwo you are), i'm slopshed, pished, pissed, had one too many. never claimed to be good on the old alcohole.
Gantastic night.
Can;t wait till tomoroiw. Tahnks for eveyrone who turned up. To those woh didn't bother, mised a good night out, with fantastic compenay.
Lots of lvoe, hugs and kises
Little bit pished
XXX
Quote by falkdogger
please please please can somebody invite me. i just got my computer 3 weeks ago and ive just found this site. i would love a chance to just even pop by and say hello. please somebody take pity on me.
You have already asked on the Scottish Munch thread, but as i'm not the organiser of that, i didn't want to tell you that you can't go.
But ...........................................
You can't come to this one since you aren't going to the munch on the Saturday.
Life can be such a bitch.
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
PS Don't bother with the "You don't have a heart" crap, like you did on the other thread either, listen to the advice already given, and we'll see you at the next munch.
I use the chatroom and the forum (although i don't post very often) When i'm in the chatroom i just talk pish and bollocks. Got chatting once to a guy from Leeds who communicated on the same wave length as me. When i'm in the forum, i just talk pish and bollocks too, but just go on a bit really.
All in all, i just talk pish and bollocks everywhere i go. Works for me.
Lots of love,hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
All in all, i just talk pish and bollocks everywhere i go. Works for me.
Lots of love,hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
Quote by dundeecpl
Guess what?
I don't think I can go!
:cry: I don't think I can get to Glasgow on Saturday :cry:
Lucy I'll let you know if it changes but it looks very unlikely at the moment
CQ
Really hope you can make it up. It has been soooooo long since we last met. We haven't been to a munch without you being there so far :cry:
Gill & Del x
Gill,
Maybe we could take some solace in each other if CQ isn't gonna be there. :twisted:
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
Okay i know i'm using this opportunity to get at the front of the nipple queue. But, so?
Quote by celticq
Guess what?
I don't think I can go!
:cry: I don't think I can get to Glasgow on Saturday :cry:
Lucy I'll let you know if it changes but it looks very unlikely at the moment
CQ
Don't you dare !!!!!!!!!!!!
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: How can we have a Scottish Munch without you ?
Would be such a shame. Was so looking forward to seeing you again and having SUCH a blether :twisted: Do hope you can make it, but if not, lets catch up soon.
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
Quote by lucyweebaps
Oiii Bobby .. don't you think I have enough work to do with organising the munch
:shock: Can't believe your adding more work to my list !! bloody true a woman's work is never done..
Ps we'll be out galavanting on Fri night :P
Sorry for the hijack Little :P
Lucy xxx
Hijack ! Ha !
I enjoy nothing better than seeing a man
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: Carry on Lucy. :lol:
Lots of love, hugs and kisses :twisted:
Little
XXX
