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29 Jan 2005

CQ,
I think in hindsight it was a bit like how Dave_notts described it really :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
:beer: :happy: :boo: :evil2: :giggle: :smug: :boo: :beer: :smile2: :smoke: :wave2: :giggle: :boo: :happy:
Wasn't quite the same on the way home though. confused

confused

:yawn: :crazy: blink

blink

Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX

26 Jan 2005

:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
I'm horrified that 65 % of you say share it, or no !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Of course she should get the money. Without a doubt. Its definately Alex_Fems !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXXX
PS PPPPPSSSSTTTT Alex !!! If you do get it, mines a nice Australian. wink

wink

26 Jan 2005

I know where Stones Cafe is ...............................................erm.........................erm
The rest is a bit hazy cool

cool

Little :smoke:

26 Jan 2005

Quote by alspals
I'm probably not the first to say this, but it must be nearly time that the ad posts on the main site are moderated and edited to some extent...
I've been responding ( and placing) ads and am very careful to fully comply with the posters requirements. Many of the posters say they are looking for something, then if you get a reply suddenly the goal posts have moved..for example, I'm a black guy and many of the posters say thats what rocks thierboat (fair enough)..so I send the pic..along with a detailed description of myself and what I enjoy and am looking for...invariably no reply, even a courtesy 'no thanks' is ever received...just bad bloody manners in my humble opinion!
I've also noticed a proliferation of out & out 'fake' posts..accompanied by a pic of some bollock naked super model clipped from the www and usually accompanied by some salacious line about how much outrageous shagging the poster enjoys seeing his wife engaged in, or funnier still thanking some fictitious conquest(s) for the gangbang the previous Sunday, you know the sort of thing...'thanks to John, Paul, George & Ringo for the fuck outside the chippy'..come off it!!
Rant over!
Peace & Love...
PS...if there are any genuine peeps out there looking for fun with a 25st, 5ft 2", 3 inch dicked, cross eyed black bloke..please get in touch )

:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove:
I thought this was hysterical when i read it. :shock:
The PS at the end did it for me !!!!!
Lots of love, hugs and kisses wink

wink

Little
XXX

25 Jan 2005

innocent

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rotflmao

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25 Jan 2005

Quote by dundeecpl
Not worried about what to wear yet.
Worrying about us both getting time off work as we have used all our holidays up
G & D x

Plan a sicky ! :grin:
bolt

bolt

25 Jan 2005

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Are you ready to :karaoke: ? I am :giggle:
Are you ready to :beer: ? I am :giggle:
I can't wait. I'm all excited :bounce:
Oh :shock:
It isn't this weekend :doh:
:sticky: bolt

bolt

25 Jan 2005

:shock: Venus,
I'm waiting for the conclusions to begin. :twisted:
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX

25 Jan 2005

Hey hon,
This friend of yours obviously isn't really one of your friends. If he was, you really wouldn't be thinking about the actual possibility of shagging your mates girlfriend.
Its your life. Shit happens every day round about us. Make some of that shit your own shit and not other people's. You want her. Have the arrogance to go for her. When you are ready, ifever, whenever, come back and show us a bit of your personality.
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX

24 Jan 2005

Quote by little gem
OOOOooooo, do spank me!
Naughty? Me???
I think you have the wrong little gem! ;) :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

rotflmao

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: innocent

innocent

:whistling:

24 Jan 2005

Quote by JudyTV
GEM :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
:crazy: :crazy: :crazy: .... :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
I am really going to smack your arse very very hard at the next party, just you wait girl.
Judy

The power of women ! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Little wink

wink

XXX

24 Jan 2005

Quote by VenusnMars
Just to annoy the snot out of those who hate armchair psychology :twisted: , let`s bounce a few theories around on how people interact on here, and further afield.
Serious question. Not an opportunity for people to complain of cliques, and mob mentality etc, although I`m happy to hear theories on how these are seen to be formed and why, if at all. Keep it general please, I`m genuinely interested and if barely disguised specifics arise I will ask for the thread to be locked! :P
One sentiment I try to maintain personally, is that my opinions stand in their own right. However, how many of us can truely say that, myself included, in an environment which depends upon people bouncing posts off of one another? I mean, how immune are we really from being influenced by a common opinion? If a sentiment comes up on a thread, and is echoed by others, why does it need to be said again and again? Is it a personal need to voice the same opinion but in your own words, or perhaps some feel a little braver once someone has stepped forward first. Is it possible that once everyone has had this opportunity a `bandwagon` is seen?
This isn`t influenced by any one thing, but from a general observation......and the fact I think too much! :mrgreen:
That`s just one line of discussion....I have loooooooads more! :bounce:
mods: I need something to keep my brain ticking and to keep me out of trouble! :giggle:
Venusxxx

Venus
What a great thread and for what its worth, i have chosen to jump on the bandwagon with a reply or not as the case may be after reading the reply. When i write, i write very much from my own life experiences and my own thoughts, observations and realisations on life. I always try to write with an open mind.
My perspective on something, is very much my perspective, and i have found that through interaction with others, different perspectives can be found, which i had perhaps overlooked, or, as in most cases, the open minded mentality which i thought i had, wasn't quite as openminded. This does not mean that i shouldn't think, nor does it mean that i would accept anyone telling me that i shouldn't. If my perspective is different to someone elses' it means either one of two things.
Either, i know something they don't, or they know something i don't. If i don't understand someone, it simply means that i don't understand someone. This is of course worked in both directions and recognising this, means that i really will never actively disagree with someone or end up in a heated argument. If the argument is becoming heated wether on the forum, or in real life, i will back off, since there is no way that whilst frustration and anger have a place, will any movement in thought or perspective actually take place.
This doesn't mean that i am not a strong individual. If i genuinely don't understand someones perspective, i would rather back off, take time, assimilate the information they have provided and perhaps i will see from where they are coming from. They could very well be right, and if a continuation of an argument were to proceed, human nature being as it is, suggests that i would be pulled into an emotional anger towards this person whereby everything they say, would be just pish. If i take the time, i might learn something and then the whole debate was worthwhile.
As for the dynamics on this site, its very interesting. I now no longer believe there to be anything more than groups of friends. This change in perspective came about again, through interaction with someone of a different perspective. They were absolutely right in what they said. What i did have to do though, was be open enough in my own mind for that very possibility, and since i have learned something, i really don't mind admitting when i was wrong.
So, have i jumped on the bandwagon of this discussion? Or, have i provided a different perpective? At the end of the day, i couldn't give a shit what anybody thinks about me or about what i say. You can agree, or disagree with me. It matters to me not. If you agree with me, it means that we have perhaps clicked on a similar wavelength. If you don't agree with me, but instead choose to point out all of my shortcomings, then fine. If the person pointing out my shortcomings is closed minded, then i have no need to feel that i have to justify myself. They themselves aren't open to learning, so why should i be affected in any shape or form. What is my issue, is the fact that i remain open minded to differing perspectives. And you only get differing perspectives when you think. biggrin

biggrin

Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX

23 Jan 2005

Quote by bluexxx
Just a quick party update...
I've been in discussions with the Gamesmaster and we are working on some naughty games based on a sub/dom theme :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: .
If you are on the gues list, please let me know ASAP if you are planning to stay over. As I said, we have enough room for 6-8 people. Two places for sleeps have gone already so be quick. If you need B&B details, let me know too!
Satin says I make a crap sub, as I'm rubbish at doing what I'm told :shock: , so looks like I'll be domming (is that a real word???) for most of the night :twisted:

Blue,
Would it be cool for me and my guest to have some floor space to stay overnight? A bit of carpet and i'll bring a duvet. :twisted:
If the spaces are already taken up, then details of b&b's in the area would be cool.
Lots of love,hugs and kisses
Little
XXX

21 Jan 2005

Quote by Sexysteph
lol
Marya sure honey no problem - on list for afters
Tbone & Babe yummmmmmmmmmmmyyyyyyyyyyy
Little Ohhhhhhhh Yes babes you are on the list honey. Most definitely bring a friend
Just waiting on final editing on pm and they will all be out hopefully over the weekend.
Little will pm you the hotel details hon or you can just sleep over after the afters party if you have an airbed/bedding full details will be in the pm

Cool, got the pm. I'm kipping on the floor !!!!
:twisted: :twisted:
Little
XXX

21 Jan 2005

Love the new avatar Lucy !
:shock:
x

21 Jan 2005

Steph,
Is it too late for me to put my name down for this munch? wave

wave

I would also like to bring a guest with me. After munch would be great to. lol

lol

Can i have the info on the hotel where everyone will be staying also.
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
Assuming its cool for me to come -
PS Gill and Del - do you want to car share on this one? We would be happy to share the driving with you both from Glasgow.

21 Jan 2005

Quote by MQ
For anyone who has ever had a bad day on the Tube

Haven't had a bad day with the tube, but :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

20 Jan 2005

Quote by Ice Pie
Speaking as someone who has never met his father (although I do know who the bastard is) I have to say I do not find this in the least offensive, but, in the spirit of political correctness, I'm going to pretend that I do, so.... How DARE you!!! This is grossly offensive and prejudical to millions of innocent children who, through no fault of their own, etc etc yak yak yak... ;)

:shock: Can't believe you have taken offense to that. Should have been a bit more specific with the play on bold words, and said
Icepie,
You are such a bastard !!!!
Okay, i never said i was any good at giving compliments !!!!
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
PS Also think that political correctness is pish, so quite frankly, i couldn't care less !!!!! lol

lol

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20 Jan 2005

IcePie !
You are such a bastard !!!!!!!!!!!!!

rotflmao

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Lots of love, hugs and kisses
passionkiss

passionkiss

Little
XXX

20 Jan 2005

All,
Yet another interesting post. Lots of comments, opinions and diverse views. What is apparent to me is the link between those who have felt a deep link with the disaster and those who haven't. I personally found the joke funny, and yes, i did laugh. I laughed at the thougt of Santa and his Elves giving them a wave. This doesn't make me an unsympathetic or an unemotional individual, nor am i sick. The tears have tripped down my cheeks seeing the plight, the misery and the sheer devastation of this disaster. But, this was the times when i could see and relate to the situation on an emotional level. On an emotional level, the tragedy affects my soul, and i can empathise with the horrors on that emotional level.
Bringing it back to purely mind/physical the thought of Santa Claus, (a fictisious character) with his elves having this discussion is funny to me, as were the other *sick* jokes. To me, its the difference between identifying with the situation on an emotional level or a mind/physical level.
This is my way of thinking with all humour. The twin towers, Diana, race, ethnicity etc. It either emotional and you get pulled into being offended, or it isn't emotional, and you can see the quite ridiculous scenario's of the joke themselves.
I will not claim that at times, i do not find something to be offensive. But, i have learned, that at these times, i am in some way in my real life, in an emotional attachment or am directly emtionally involved. For example - both my kids have dyslexia. These jokes were for a time, offensive to me, until i looked at why i found them offensive in the first place. They were offensive, since i was, as part of human nature, looking at the person with dyslexia as one of my own two. The joke itself had the immediate impact of being personal to me, when in fact, in never was meant to, or intended as such.
This becomes apparent when i then would go into a huge big schpeel about how offended i was, and how that joke just wasn't funny. Without exception, the people telling the joke, apologised for the non intended offense ! Which made me think, if they weren't being intentionally offensive in the first place, then perhaps it was me who took on board the non intended, as an offensive joke.
Therefor, if anyone is still with me, being offended by someone is not logical. Our offense is somehting which is harboured deeper within ourselves and is an emotional part of us. I can recall a similar discussion when i went a bit mad at the fact that people found it amusing to laugh at my Heritage. It was personal, and it was emotional. What i learned from that experience, is that when someone is feeling in some way different, in any situation in life, a simple joke, laugh, and leave the joking, is probably the most appropriate way to behave. The same sort of parallels apply here with humour. This is of course only going to work if we as individuals see ourselves being pulled into the emotional offense in the first place.
Now, if i am being offended in some way, it no longer is fun, I am no longer enjoying myself, i simply remove myself from the situation, and make no apologies for it. I am offended in some way, and will only learn if i work out why.
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX
The above is a personal expression and in no way is meant or intended to cause offense. wink

wink

19 Jan 2005

What a great thread. Okay, so the chap in question seems to have gone underground on the topic, but, non the less, the topic has certainly caused me to think, and has been an education.
I didn't see the programme with Lorraine Kelly, but I'm wondering if we can't all ultimately learn from the child. The acceptance the child has about her parents is based upon her knowing her parents. To the child it doesn't matter if they dress as women/men, if they anatomically have male/female bits, or if they are straight/bi/gay. The child looks only at the parent as the person who is within and leaves all the other crap where it should be. She is quite obviously loved and cared for, and this will always shine out and produce such fantastic individuals.
A child now perhaps, but the acceptance of all sorts of people into her adult life will be something which she will treasure as an adult. Due to her being in an unusual family unit really does mean unfortunately that as she matures, she will be likely to have to question her own views and reach some conclusions of her own, but they will have no choice but to be based upon acceptance.
I cannot speak with any knowledge of the subject of transgender/sexuals/vestities etc, i am ignorant to the ins and outs within the bigger picture, but I do try to be accepting of all individuals based upon nothing more or less than the fact that they are individuals. I will be honest however and say that there are times when i miss the point, cause offense, am ignorant to anothers plight etc.
Through this site, i have met people who are diverse in all directions. For this i will always be grateful since they have made me look at people as individuals outside the bigotry, race and prejudices of society and indeed (from the sound of it) perhaps some communities. Each of us have the right to our individuality and through discussions like this thread, i am finding myself reconciling parts of my own self which have been denied.
I'm not sure if this adds anything to the thread apart from a thankyou all for your frank and open honesty on such intimate and individual matters. I must apologise if i have said anything which is politically incorrect or causes offense, it isn't intended.
Lots of love,hugs and kisses
Little
XXX

18 Jan 2005

Quote by bluexxx
Great news Venus :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Little, I'll put you and your guest down on the list as maybes
Only a couple of places left now folks!
:shock:
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Thankyou. Not that i'm overly excited, in anticipation, looking forward to it, yearning to come, up for it, raring to go, or anything. :shock:
I gotta ask permission first. :twisted:
Little
XXX

18 Jan 2005

Quote by DreamerHelen
Bad Bad boy KitKat!!! Just you wait until I get my hands on you...... :twisted:

I'm sure i was first :twisted: :twisted: wink

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Little
XXX

18 Jan 2005

wave

:welcome:
Little passionkiss

passionkiss

18 Jan 2005

Quote by mal609
THIS ONE!!!
Why look anywhere else? :shock:
Mal

Can't believe you told him so quickly !!!!! We could have had some fun with this one. lol

lol

Okay. I'll hang my head.

smackbottom

:smackbottom: :smackbottom:
:twisted:

18 Jan 2005

Quote by Rabbit69
hey everyone
im a newbie and i have a question, so i thought this would be the best place to get help on the matter.
I am interested in meeting ppl for fun etc and have tried all kinds of contacts websites with no luck ( and wasted money). Which website is a good website and a genuine one for meeting contacts, preferably a free one but i dont mind paying. THere are a lot of scammers out there who just want your money, i just want a real service. ( literally!)
Cheers everyone xx

Errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr,
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm,
dunno

dunno

:dunno: :dunno: :dunno: :dunno: :dunno: :dunno:
:doh: Nope, can't think of any.
Lots of love hugs and kisses
Little wink

wink

PS By the way. wave

wave

:welcome:

18 Jan 2005

Quote by blueis
get a parmo on the way home.

Enlighten me please Marya... presumably a parmo is some sort of takeaway, but what kind ??
I thought it was a spelling error and she really meant porno. :shock: redface

redface

Was going to ask which video chain she was with. wink

wink

Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX

18 Jan 2005

wave

:welcome:
JiGgLe,
Have fun, get to know people. We are all a bit mad in here. loon

loon

But we are all a friendly bunch, and only ever bite when invited. redface

redface

surprised

ops: :oops: :oops: :oops:
Lots of love, hugs and kisses passionkiss

passionkiss

Little
XXX

18 Jan 2005

:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Can i please put my name down for this party as a possible with a guest. Either the Friday or the Saturday is great!!!!!
I'm not always an :angel: , in fact it has been said that i can be :evil2:
Lots of love, hugs and kisses passionkiss

passionkiss

Little
XXX

16 Jan 2005

Well done you lot. :bounce: The whole thing has been brought together sooooooo well, and I for one, think it is superb. :thumbup:
A big CONGRATULATIONS for all your hard work and efforts.
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little
XXX