Im afraid only you know the answer to this question, but the fact that you are asking for advice shows that you must be having quite big doubts. Please speak to your partner somemore and decide together where you go next because only you two can decide what goes on in your lives/sex lives.
Good luck with whatever you decide oh and :welcome: to the forums xxx
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Bi-curious Female, 44
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and :welcome: xxQuote by anais
I used to have terrible nightmares for many years, always on the same theme. It was after a traumatic and extremely distressing event and was certainly linked to that. I still have the same dreams but they arent as often as they were in the begining.
Basically, the nightmares are about one of my biggest fears that could happen in life.
xAnaisx
Mine to anais
I suffer from a reacuring nightmare quite frequently, I did read somewhere that it could be something in your subconsious that causes it.
Have you ever tried to get the nightmare read so you can figure out what it means??
I can`t really be much help im afraid but I really feel for for you.
Lyns x
Have you ever tried to get the nightmare read so you can figure out what it means??
I can`t really be much help im afraid but I really feel for for you.
Lyns x
but if I was choosing certain voices it would have to be the sound of Morgan Freemans 
Me and mr Lyns were talking about this last night and he said his instincs would probably have made him jump in and try to save him, but after I mrs lyns re read the article and realised the child couldnt be seen from the bank of the pond, I re thought it through. I will be totally honest and say I probably wouldn`t have jumped in either !!. If it was one of mine I would have without a shadow of doubt, but given that in most cases you read in similar circumstances the rescuer perishes also, I would have to think of my own children! would I want them to grow up without a mother?. I appreciate that some will call me selfish for this view point and it is a selfish view but my children would come first.
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Do you know, it's really odd, men advertise on here for sex. A woman or couple answer quite swiftly and the response is always the same..........."thank you, I would have met up but I'm in Scotlandat a funeralin bed with plague" etc. etc.
We assume that the buzz comes from getting the reply.....do they masterbate all day on the stregth of the sex they could have had if the wife wouldn't have found out?????????????
Maybe some of them are genuinely ill, car broken down or got the plague etc, sometimes I think you do have to give some the benefit of the doubt!. I do however appreciate there are timewasters on this site as there will be on many other sites but I think you just have to move on and forget about them its their loss.
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Grown ups are worse than children sometimes.....
It is sad though that they are members who won't post for the fear of ridicule, harsh criticism, having their gramma or spelling corrected, cyber bullying, or whatever.
Ive seen so many new members posting in this forum for the first time, never to be seen again because of being flamed!! It takes a big step to make that first post! Anyone remember their first post??
I didn't post here for a year not because I was worried so much about being flamed etc more because I didnt feel I could post as I wasn't a swinger with a cream leather sofa
We are all human and that person on the other side of the computer screen has feelings. Treat others how you want to be treated, with respect......even if they are a muppet! Cos muppets got feelings too!!
Well said anais :thumbup:
I generally don`t get involved in the threads which look like they get heated only because I find it hard to get my point across in text and don`t want to be ridiculed if I haven`t managed to do it that well.
