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m1970
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 55
0 miles · Swansea
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What do you like doing with your spare time, if you have spare time, Ill start.
Going to the gym is my fave, surfing the internet, forums and bargains. I watch the swans down at their new stadium. Like watching TV especially programs like The apprentice, the sopranos, live football, documentries etc..
I like cooking, I am a bit of a dab hand, love mushroom omelettes, crusty bread, bagels, pizza, infact I love food.
Going to the gym is my fave, surfing the internet, forums and bargains. I watch the swans down at their new stadium. Like watching TV especially programs like The apprentice, the sopranos, live football, documentries etc..
I like cooking, I am a bit of a dab hand, love mushroom omelettes, crusty bread, bagels, pizza, infact I love food.
Quote by H-x
yes, I have been in love. I don't see how it's relavent though. The guy I was in love with was quite happy that I didn't want kids, although he said if he'd been in a different relationship he may have had some.
Everyone tells me, when I say I don't want any, that I'd feel differently if I had my own. The thing is that the idea of having any is as alien to me as say, living under water, or on the moon. I have nieces and nephews who I love to bits, but could never comprehend the idea of wanting one myself. Some people find this offencive, which I don't understand.
H.x
I am not here to offend you by any means, you have made the choice not to have kids, that is totally in your control and you are not alone, I know a few women in the same situtation. Some people don't want kids cos of genetic illnesses, some don't want kids because they have never experienced love before, and there is no point getting up the duff for the sake of things, although in this sad world people get pregnant to get an house, lazy phuckers if you ask me.
People on here say you need a personality to have sex with them, well I must be the minority because I would rather have it with someone with a nice shape regardless of their personality, it's not like your going to live with them. Surely you must have to be attracted to someone before bedding them?
Quote by H-x
I was on a bus yesterday and got chatting to a woman who sat next to me, she must have been in her sixties, and the conversation got round to children. She asked if I had any and I said 'No', she replied, 'oh well dear, you still have time'. She looked a bit taken aback when I said I didn't want any.
I know quite a lot of you have kids and I was wondering, was it an active decision on your part to have them? When you were young. did you automatically know that you were one day going to have some?
I've never wanted any and I wonder if that's odd for a woman, seeing as thats the ultimate 'survival of the species' role for the female of any animal.
Just musing, should be working but any excuse.
H.x
I have 2 kids, 8+6 and they are brilliant
, although you do get stressed at times 
, h-x it's upto you if you want kids, you really don't know what you are missing (shouting,screaming,crying,stamping feet,accidents,cobbing,giggling,laughing etc...). Have you been in love before? Rather than people respond to creampies and the dangers of, they are responding to you are married, you have gang bang in your profile, totally off the point of the subject, basically you are picking holes, I have found the place to very cliiquey, some of the posters seem to know what they are talking about and there the ones I would listen too.
In the 21st century STD are everywhere and people still ignore the facts, if I did meet someone on here they would have to be like me and play things safe, there is no way in the world I would meet a cum slut purely for saftey reasons. This is ( Mods edit to remove ad number, not fair to talk about others on a public forum ) what I am on about, both man and woman are playing with fire, and yes I know it's upto them.
BTW I have visited the GUM clinic for tests and will continue to do so.
if people want telephone numbers for GUM clinics I can post a list of them.
In the 21st century STD are everywhere and people still ignore the facts, if I did meet someone on here they would have to be like me and play things safe, there is no way in the world I would meet a cum slut purely for saftey reasons. This is ( Mods edit to remove ad number, not fair to talk about others on a public forum ) what I am on about, both man and woman are playing with fire, and yes I know it's upto them.
BTW I have visited the GUM clinic for tests and will continue to do so.
if people want telephone numbers for GUM clinics I can post a list of them.
I will not link to any ads but some of the ads are borderline, example, cum slut loves creampie no condom fun, gang bangs etc, fill me up with cum etc...
I find these to be disgusting TBH, all the disese's about and people carry on doing things like this, surely their playing with fire?
It's upto them, it's just my opinion
I find these to be disgusting TBH, all the disese's about and people carry on doing things like this, surely their playing with fire?
It's upto them, it's just my opinion
Quote by mdr2000
m1970........
Something isn't right with you matey...... not sure what it is but from the sounds of things you have a problem with women.. This one in this post obviously doesn't like you... your wife doesn't sleep with you...... Mmmmm Ever thought its maybe you with the problem??
Might be wrong buddy but you seem just a tad self assured for most! Or your taking the pis* out of us?? This isn't the place to look for quick shags anyway.... try the 'lets meet up' bit and like you said tidy up your ad.
Mike
I knew I would get a knee jerk reaction, it does sound like i am a complete tosser, but you have come to the wrong conclusuion, my wife does not and never will like sex, understand. And yes I was a complete twat with this girl, but as others have said, everyone will make a complete tvvat of themselves at some point.
twos_company
Could you imagine!
OK this problem is my own fault, but! >>>>>>>read on
Works xmas party 2004, having great time, about 12 people out enjoying ourselves, me my work mats, chris and helen go on to clubs. Now me tanked up with booze and I mean I was slaughtered and tried to snog helen (30 yrs old)
(I cringe thinking about it as it was out of order). I apologised but she is stubborn and quite rightly so. We had to go to birmingham together in january this year and I thought now is my chance to get friendly (and i don't mean touchy touchy friendly), we had a laugh, had a couple of meals on the works cash. Get back from birmingham thinking great at least I can try and talk to her. So I tried conversation a few days later and she was very abrupt, ok I get the hint and haven't tried since, only talk work related, very little.
Now I have joined a gym and guess what she is also a member there, just went into the gym onto the cross trainer and started to work out, now she was on the treadmill in front of me (I wasn't go to talk to her), she gets off the treadmill and basically storms out. Now I feel pretty bad, but should I?
What i done was wrong, but that was 18 months ago.
Any advice?
should i approach her and try and go seperate times to her to the gym, don't bother and carry on going, personally I think she should grow up, what do you think
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I do feel bad but 18 moths
Works xmas party 2004, having great time, about 12 people out enjoying ourselves, me my work mats, chris and helen go on to clubs. Now me tanked up with booze and I mean I was slaughtered and tried to snog helen (30 yrs old)
(I cringe thinking about it as it was out of order). I apologised but she is stubborn and quite rightly so. We had to go to birmingham together in january this year and I thought now is my chance to get friendly (and i don't mean touchy touchy friendly), we had a laugh, had a couple of meals on the works cash. Get back from birmingham thinking great at least I can try and talk to her. So I tried conversation a few days later and she was very abrupt, ok I get the hint and haven't tried since, only talk work related, very little.Now I have joined a gym and guess what she is also a member there, just went into the gym onto the cross trainer and started to work out, now she was on the treadmill in front of me (I wasn't go to talk to her), she gets off the treadmill and basically storms out. Now I feel pretty bad, but should I?
What i done was wrong, but that was 18 months ago.
Any advice?
should i approach her and try and go seperate times to her to the gym, don't bother and carry on going, personally I think she should grow up, what do you think
: I do feel bad but 18 moths
Quote by JandPUK
So what dieses could be picked up by not using a rubber
I suppose to cut down the risk you don't have to swallow :?:
There are a whole bunch of things that you can potentially get from unprotected oral sex. These include, but are not limited to:
HIV (though this is extremely rare)
Gonorrhoea, a common form of VD, can be transmitted to the throat during oral sex, especially fellatio.
Syphilis. The lesions of syphilis usually appear on the genitals or the anus – and very rarely on the nipple. But they do occasionally appear on the lips, probably as a result of oral sex.
Chlamydia trachomatis - this little genital bug has become almost epidemic among sexually active young people during the early years of the 21st century.
Herpes simplex virus, one of the most common of all the STDs out there.
Of course, none of these diseases can necessarily be seen from a visual examination or inspection, so it's most definately NOT a case of 'if it looks ok, go for it'. You can't 'cut down the risk' by not swallowing semen. By the time it gets into the stomach, stomach acids will destroy anything anyway. The danger comes from semen in the mouth, specifically if you have an ulcer, or any split in the gums, allowing one of the nasties to get into the blood stream. That's why you don't want to clean your teeth before oral sex, since vigorous brushing may cause the gums to bleed.
It is of course, down to individual choice, but if someone chooses not to have protected oral sex and they catch something as a result it's entirely their own fault. Bukkakke for example is very erotic to watch, but in my opinion (and it is just that - my opinion) anyone who engages in it is being bloody stupid, and I wouldn't touch them with a bargepole. Ditto anyone who said that they didn't want to use protection for oral sex.
J&P
great post
Quote by PoloLady
my god you must be good :P
I think 2 hours is enough
and I think your question is one of the stupidest I have heard for a while.
Why is it a stupid question, I only have a limited amount of time, wheras you probably have all night, I was just trying to get a few thoughts on the matter.
Quote by Darkfire
I think 2 hours is enough
there's no feckin wonder your Mrs doesnt want it
somewhere in my head there's a little phrase thats just popped up to say hello - it says ' if he cant do the job properly, do the fucker yourself'
she's probably got shares in Ann Summers hun and you wouldnt have the first clue :doh:
I haven't had sex in probably 2 years, she is not interested in sex one bit, and no it's not me, it's her choice, some people like it, some people don't.
Do you think Id be looking for a playmate otherwise?
Quote by Darkfire
Hun, listen to yourself for just one minute will ya?
you are in the wrong place.
IMO, 1.5 hours max aint worth it - to you in terms of risk of being caught out or to us in terms of taking our knickers off.
sorry, but its true
I kniw what you aresaying, and yes you are correct, but if i can meet someone in my area who is happy with meets 1-5---2hrs long meets that suits me, although my chances have been reduced.
Quote by flidais-media
OK, you asked and I'm in that kind of mood today
IMHO - having 3 ads. with little/the same information in them makes you look desperate - why not do one with some quality information in it or 3 that appeal to each of the different 'markets' you are 'selling' yourself to - after all, that's what an ad. does - it sell's things. These will sell you. There is also an insinuation that you are cheating - i.e. 'woman in the same situation as me'... that's a whole different can of worms and won't go down well here... and on a purely aesthetic note, lose the hi-lights or post the different picture - they are way too 80's
Hope this helps. Just my opinion but you asked for just that. Good luck :thumbup:
Yes, we agree about the 'bit on the side' thing. Personally it's never been an issue for us BUT we all know that for many people on here someone screwing around without his/her partner's permission is not going to go down to well.
Yes I took the hint the other night, rather not explain all over again, perhaps I might put in my ad why.
Quote by mdr2000
Ok.........
I did say it was an opinion. Your the one saying its done you no good so far. There are a million threads on here asking the same thing. The thing is your a big fish in your own pond...... there is so much competition out there, try making friends and getting to know people?? You have a face pic on your profile so why not ad it to your ads...... say a bit more about yourself........
I wasn't having a pop, hence the smilie, sometimes you think something looks ok when another person can see different. I will add a photo of myself in due course.
Alot of the ads i see on here require most of these
black man
VWE
heavy cummer
repeater
experinced
single
own house
I have no chance competing
Can you nice bunch of people have a look at my profile and ad and tell me what you think, I aint having much luck at the moment :cry: and just wondering if it's anything in my profile or ad that can be affecting my sucess.
Is there anything I can add to any of them?
I was thinking of lying :twisted: , but im to honest :D
have a look at my profile and ad and tell me what you think, I aint having much luck at the moment :cry: and just wondering if it's anything in my profile or ad that can be affecting my sucess. Is there anything I can add to any of them?
I was thinking of lying :twisted: , but im to honest :D
