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4 May 2008

Quote by annejohn
you having a laugh?
the only difference is that the abuser has a willing victim. does that make it right ?

i'd say that makes it right yes, its two consenting adult and in a dom/sub relationship the dom isn't really an abuser, in my opinion, its a life style choice that the BOTH of them has made and the 'willing victim' will know what kind of relationship they are getting into rather than starting of in a loving relationship where the abuser turns nasty after a while, as HJ said in the dom/sub situation they have safe words and the dom will respect that in the other situation the abuser, in many cases, will not stop the abuse till real damage, mentally and pysically, is done

4 May 2008

Quote by flower411
Over the years I`ve met all sorts of people who appear to enjoy their sex with a bit of added pain..
I have also been in situations where I have become very concerned about a persons safety in a relationship that seems to be abusive.
Is it possible that some people actually enjoy being on the abused end of an abusive relationship ?

im not quite sure where the commection between domestic violance and kinky sex it?? confused

confused

4 May 2008

To me it depends how/where i meet, if its at a club chatting/building up a friendship isn't really a option, people (including me) go to clubs for sex not to chat for 4 weeks before going to a room lol so in that situation i'm happy to just chat for a small while to someone i feel attracted to then play, sometime i don't even chat at all redface

redface

if i see them again another time i go them chatting to me or wanting to have sex with me again isn't really expected, altho i go to clubs as a single female so most men do lol
If i'm looking to meet off here then i like social meets first, if i'm going to be honest i think thats because i don't want to commit myself to sex with someone i havn't see in the flesh, when your at a club you can see them and know what they look like on here you can't, pics may not be of them or old and even if you see them on cam sometimes people look diffarent in real life, i don't mind one off meets, i only meet single men and in my experiance they not really looking for anything regular, i'd say about 99% of the guys i've met off here havn't been interested in meeting me again, i would have no problem with re meets tho i can't honestly say i'd want anything to regular with the same person.

3 May 2008

i dont think theres such a thing as a bad kisser its just whos compatible with you passionkiss

passionkiss

3 May 2008

ohh i love marmite and i love rice cakes so these are ace lol

29 Apr 2008

Quote by Jacob_swings
Count me in mids
I know this is a bloody cheek but does anyone know if there is a train station near by or is willing to give a strainger a lift back to stourbridge afterwards (hopefully can get there by train and bus but dont want to be stranded)?
cheers

Avatar removed, no cock shots please :thumbup:

club closes at 1am so unless you leave early you'll have missed the last train/bus lol theres no train station close enough to walk to tho bus access is easy :)

28 Apr 2008

Quote by midsprincess
The deatails are as follows and only for those whos name are on my list
Date May 15th Thursday
Time 7 pm onwards
Cost couples £ 10 per couple
single fem £ 5
Single guy £20 ( thats a £10 reduction)
Membership not required but must be on list
If not a member you will need ID for insurance purposes.
If this is sucessfull there will be more socials in the future.
A small buffet will be provided.
Bring your own alcohol, can purchase soft drinks.
Dress code - Chams usual towel ( provided) or sexies.
Please remember this is first time we have been invited to hold social at club so be respectfull, follow the rules and have fun and we may get invited again.

pah i'm putting a complaint in, how comes its cheaper for couples and single men but its the same price for women? lol

26 Apr 2008

there was a couple in the chat room about a hour ago asking if anyone was going wednesday, can't remember their name now tho lol

lol

not very helpful am i? confused

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24 Apr 2008

I think sex would be expected, in my experiance of swinging if i met a guy and he didn't like me sexually then its a quick drink in a pub, excuses made, usually something to do with work, gone and never spoken to again, so why would someone who didn't want sex off you ask you back for a coffee?
Again in my experience there are two types of swingers those wo want to be friends and those who want sex and the two don't usually mix smile

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24 Apr 2008

Quote by Tiger_25
I know I should be greatful for any bj, but I find it a real turn off when a woman gives me a bj and I can tell that they are not really enjoying it, but doing it more out of duty. It's like after I've given them copious amounts of oral they then decide it's time they returned the favour...On the otherhand when a woman is doing it because they actually enjoy it, that's obvoiusly a big turn on. I always wash down below before any conclusions are reached!

i always though the whole point of giving a bj was for the mans pleasure confused

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i'm not saying i don't like giving bj's, to me, like most things, its a turn on because you know its turning the other person on but i don't get any pysical pleasure out of giving a bj, same as i don't suppose men get any real pleasure out of going down on a woman other than knowing they giving the woman pleasure.

24 Apr 2008

Quote by Sassy-Seren
I find really hairy men a turn off

I forgot that one rolleyes

rolleyes

Not so much a hairy chest but when it starts to spread to his back! :scared: It's like Gorillas In The Mist!
yep thats the one, when they look like they have a mo hair jumper on when they naked, its just very wrong, wax man wax we have to lol

24 Apr 2008

My first reaction was he did sleep with another woman but didn't want to admit it, even tho she didn't mind, because he didn't want her sleeping with another man dunno

dunno

If i was her first thing i would do was find out if my hubby to be and said 'friend' had had a fall out or any other reason why he'd feel the need to lie, if not i'd assum he was telling truth

24 Apr 2008

Quote by anais
People I dont know well invading my personal my space.

oh god i hate that, men who feel they have to touch you to talk to you drive me mad, everyone should stand at least arms lenth away unless invited closer lol

24 Apr 2008

I find really hairy men a turn off confused

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22 Apr 2008

Quote by markz
That's bad luck.
3 no-shows from here and another 3 no-shows from another site all on the same night.

What?
OK now I'm confused - in the LMU post about last night, you said you had no replies, so how can you have had any timewasters anyway?
let me know when you've sorted this problem out cause its confusing me too lol
thats 3 confused people
all women
says it all.......... rolleyes

rolleyes

oi

smackbottom

22 Apr 2008

If you wanted a diffarent sig for all topics you'd have to go into settings and change it every time you posted confused

confused

22 Apr 2008

Quote by Heaven1970
hell1970 in the shed with a golf club

think you mean a hot tub lol

lol

22 Apr 2008

Quote by Freckledbird
That's bad luck.
3 no-shows from here and another 3 no-shows from another site all on the same night.

What?
OK now I'm confused - in the LMU post about last night, you said you had no replies, so how can you have had any timewasters anyway?
let me know when you've sorted this problem out cause its confusing me too lol

22 Apr 2008

I think animals should be treat as such, a dog eats off a bowl on the floor, walks on a lead an sleeps on the bloody floor and i don't think it makes you a bad owner for doing such, how anyone can have a animal that has dirty feet and licks its own arse sleeping in bed with them is beyond me confused

confused

22 Apr 2008

Quote by Unc

Third dig... :roll:

Mar, it wasn't a dig, though I can see why you think it is. Just as you feet strongly about the issues in this thread, I feel strongly about freedom of speech, and what appear to be attempts to stifle it. I never argued with your opinion on the thread subject, just with the fact that more than once you said those who believe 'cheating' is wrong shouldn't say so.

well i think cheating is wrong and i openly and shamelessly admit that and nothing anyone can say will change my opinion on that lol

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22 Apr 2008

there are none, i'll measure my nipples for you instead, where do i start? from the arm pit? lol

22 Apr 2008

Quote by Freckledbird
Oh, and Bob:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/stories/index.html

PMSL i was soooooooooo close to putting something like that myself lol

22 Apr 2008

never really understood what it matter how long it is on a tape measure, surly if it looks ok thats all that matters? lol

22 Apr 2008

i have looked into this as i could not believe it was happening in this country, how its allowed god only knows, there was one instance where a little girl of 5 was crying trying to get the ring and her father was shouting at her pushing her back into the ring to carry on getting hit by a girl almost 3 years oler than her and that a hell of a age gap when your 5, some of the footage of these fights that are in U tube and such sites are just appalling, and they are perfectly legal and happening in this country, i saw another clip where a child was walking upto the ring crying befor she even got in because she knew what was comeing, its illigal to fight dogs but not children, how can that be dunno

dunno

22 Apr 2008

Quote by Phuckers
i had to drive over 100miles to meet up with a couple,they volunteered to pay half the cost on fuel...was that paying for sex or just the cost of living?
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hey Gordon whats this 10% tax all about!

I reckon that was simply being polite and possibly more sensible than trying to manage a meet at a hotel somewhere in between.
is that you foxlady havent seen you in ages,but tell me something foxlady...if the couple gave me more than the total cost of fuel,lets say £50 extra would you say thats paying for sex
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dont tempt me i dont want to sign on,i love the people i work with.
if you find such a couple send them me i could do with a extra £50 at mo lol

lol

22 Apr 2008

blimey your a confusing one :shock: you say single male yet your detales are filled in as a gay/str8 male couple confused

confused

yet you text says your a male/female couple? :shock: :shock: oh i've got a head ache now lol

21 Apr 2008

Quote by de_sade
OK...But I wear the gimp mask this time...OK?

:scared: :scared:
be gone oh nasty man :lol:

21 Apr 2008

there's a echo in here lol

lol

i hate self righteous people on this forum who feel the way they swing is right and everyone else is doing it wrong and their opinion on anything else is final confused

confused

21 Apr 2008

i only ever done it once, i called a guy up i know while i was playing with myself and his responce was.....what are you doing? confused

confused

ohh your not!! :uhoh: im shopping pack it in :shock: .....and he put the phone down on me :shock: never bothered again after that rotflmao

rotflmao

21 Apr 2008

There are plenty of adult courses to help with reading and writing, not meaning to be rude but wouldn't she be better going to a professional person whos qualified in this kind of thing? most collages run courses now smile

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