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neilinleeds
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Me too Onthebeach, but then Labour always tend to do better in local elections than they do in a general so not getting too excited at the gains they've made. Still up only 3 points on 2008 and if anything Labour should be concerned that they only managed 39% of the vote even with the help of PR disasters like the last budget. Milliband should be worried that he's not been able to turn recent criticism of the alliance into anything more substantial than that, probably because no matter what he says and does he just doesn't look like a credible future PM to most people.
Nick Clegg must be worried. He's staked the entire future of his party on the gamble that economic recovery will kick in just in time for the next general election, hopefully allowing him to take credit for restraining the worst inclinations of the Tory right and yet still managing to deliver an upturn. Not looking good for him that one. Voters don't seem convinced anyways, the LibDems losing a full third of their 2008 share. Gonna find it hard to leave that whole betrayal thing behind him without some serious good news to vindicate his support for the Tories. I can see them being good as wiped out as a party at the next election at this rate. Probably deserve to be.
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The theory behind CO2 causing climate change never made sense to me. The UV rays get in, but don't get out. Why not? I vividly remember asking my secondary school science teacher this, to which he had no answer. Next year when science was split up I asked the physics and chemistry teachers the same. No answer.

You must have had very poor teachers Gee_Whizz. What are they teaching in these schools these days? dunno lol
Atmospheric CO2 is effectively transparent as far as solar radiation is concerned, that radiation being mainly at the short wavelengths of ultraviolet and visible light. Most of that energy makes it through to the earth's surface as heat which is then re-radiated, but at longer wavelengths, mainly as infrared. CO2 is opaque for longer wavelengths, absorbing that infrared energy and re-radiating it as heat. Some of that heat makes it back out into space but the best part of it goes back into warming the surface of the earth and the lower atmosphere. Simple. ;)
A sorry tale indeed Flower. On the plus side if things really do come in threes you've got the bad luck out of the way now and should be due a good run. Maybe not so good your woeful attempt at garnering a sympathy shag will actually work, obviously, but better than endocarditis at least. ;)
Ummmmm . . . Star, I may be wrong on this, but I kind of get the feeling that perhaps Robert400 was being a tad facetious there, tongue firmly wedged in cheek. Don't think you were meant to take him at his word? confused
Anyways, I'd have got 50 / 50 if it hadn't been for the bloody geocaching. It's a dirty little trick sneaking that in. I mean, it hadn't even been bleedin' invented back when I were a nipper. mad Alright, can't say as I remember bringing up a butterfly or racing snails now I think on it, so maybe 47 / 50, but it's still a dirty trick. The canal and ponds just across the slag heaps by the pit were our playground and we'd spend whole days down there adventuring around. It's all been landscaped now and turned into a 'country park' type thing, and I can't remember the last time I saw any kids playing down there. Maybe making it safe has taken all the fun out of it, who knows? Sad.
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in a nut shell we have to abide by the rulings of unelected peeple in europe to dictate our laws. blame tony bliar for that one mids

Star, I know Tony Blair was in power a good few years but I'm pretty sure he wasn't in power in the 1950s, which is when the ECtHR was created, Britain being a prime mover of the treaty that created it. You seem to constantly labour under the misapprehension that had it not been for the Human Rights Act we would not now be bound by a treaty that gives a European Court final authority. That is wrong. We would still be bound by the 1950s treaty even if the HRA had never existed. All the HRA does is bring the rights you enjoy under the original convention more properly into British Law so a UK court can settle disputes more readily without the need for the European Court's involvement unless an appeal is allowed. Overturn the HRA tomorrow and your rights under the EHCR would remain.
Pebble, I wasn't sure if they still did that, but yeah, certain URLs ( mainly to other swinging sites ) at least did used to get auto-filtered out for a time. Didn't think they still did that as including phone numbers or email addresses in PMs is not a breach of the AUP:
Non Acceptable Behaviour.
Posting a telephone number, email address or other contact information anywhere in any public area (use private messages).

Tells you quite categorically to swap contact details in PM. No other way to read it. ;)
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So new unpaid members cannot initiate contact because they cannot give out their email address, all they can do is wink, and presumably they are not allowed to have an "about me" section on their profile where they could put their email?

Correct. Up to the person receiving a wink to include some means of contacting them back if they choose to reply, yes. Openly displayed email addresses aren't allowed anywhere on the site. That rule's always been there, even pre-takeover IIRC.
"Pre-takeover" Did the site go commercial at some point then? When I started it was run by a couple in their spare time.
What date would a user have to be registered from in order to know they can reply to messages?

WhereTF have you been, living in a cave? lol ;) Yes, the site was taken over in November 2005. Accounts registered before then are free memberships with full access rights, everything after is either a free limited membership, or a paid one. For accounts registered post-takeover, don't think there's any way to tell what kind of membership someone has from their profile. Someone will no doubt correct me there if I've missed something.
You're not a free member with a limited account, you're a free member with a full account because although your forum join date says March 2008, looking at your profile your join date there is May 2004, which is pre-takeover. So, you have the same access rights as a paid full member. You wouldn't have forum posting rights for instance as a free member with a limited account who signed up post-takeover, nor would you be able to send PMs. Free members can't reply to any messages you send them unless you include an off-site method of contacting you in the PM. You will be able to reply to the one I just sent you to confirm the kind of account you have. ;)
The differences between free, paid, and paid with extras accounts are available here: http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/help-centre/article.html?id=40 Not sure on the unlimited messages thing in extras as it's not explained there. Does that relate to the size of your inbox / sent items, as I think my non-extras account has an upper limit to the total number of messages stored there?
As for searching, when you click into search towards the top right of the page there should be a drop down giving you the option to 'Only show members within:' so many miles of your postcode, just to the right of the big bold 1,368,917 results or whatever the current count is. Default distance is national, so you'll get everybody, but you can select searches down to within 3 miles of your postcode.
Welsh Assembly overturn previous decision to introduce culling:
Interesting that one of the reasons given is that a cull would be open to a legal challenge under the Animal Health Act 1981, I think on the grounds that as per Section 21 of the Act the Govt have to demonstrate that a cull is necessary in order to 'eliminate, or substantially reduce' incidence of TB in cattle. I think the Wesh Assembly might be right on that now that there's a licensed vaccine available that could be said to make a cull unnecessary, and right to be concerned that even if no vaccine was available a cull would quite probably fail the 'eliminate, or substantially reduce' test. Gonna be interesting to see if this leads to further developments on the plans for a cull in England.
I love nuddy beaches. Anyone who knows me will probably tell you I'll get naked at the drop of a hat, any excuse, but only went to a naturist beach for the first time a couple of years ago, dragging G along to Slapton Sands in Devon. She was less keen than me, and had a bit of an issue getting her white bits ( or more accurately, blue bits ) out but felt very natural. Like being a small child again when I could get away with running about nekkid on a beach with noone batting an eyelid and me being innocent enough not to care if they did. Something strangely liberating about staring out to sea and discussing the waves with a 70 odd year old bloke, the both of us with our tadgers out like it was the most natural thing in the world. I like it. smile
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They are not dictating though are they, I am not religious so have not been dictated to, have you?

Oh yes they are. They're trying to influence Govt policy that affects believers and none-believers alike cos they don't like the idea of gay marriage. How is that not trying to dictate? They're free to believe what they like, as are those who subscribe to similar beliefs, but this goes beyond an expression of belief. It's aiming to impose that belief on others whether they share it or not by seeking to deny gay couples a right that heterosexual couples enjoy.
Star, the argument in the Mail article linked to is coming from C of E lawyers. There's definitely a 'well they would say that, wouldn't they' tinge to that argument. They've got an axe to grind on this, of course they're gonna interpret the legislation that way. The Govt's own lawyers seem to think they can introduce gay marriage and still offer an opt out to religious institutions. The relevance of Catholic adoption agencies referenced in that article as some kind of argument by example doesn't really hold water. I doubt the legalities are quite the same?
it infuriates me where a few dictate to the masses, as to what they think is best for them.

What, like self-appointed authorities who claim to be channelling the thoughts of an imaginary being in some sense you mean? That sort of a few dictating to the masses about what's best for them? How about letting people decide what's best for themselves, and giving them the right to do so, so long as that doesn't infringe on anyone else's liberty. What harm does it cause anyone? None. Who's liberties would it infringe? Noones.
stonewall as i have already mentioned, will never be happy in just having equal rights, no they want society to think it is the norm for gay marriages and the notion that it is cool to teech it in schools, as the norm. it is not the norm.

You betray a great deal here. Homosexuality is normal. It is common to pretty much all of the higher functioning species, and prevalent enough in humans statistically as to fall well within the bounds of what could only be classed as a normal variation. To argue otherwise is ludicrous. That you or others don't see it as normal has more to do with distorted perceptions based on out-moded ways of thinking than it has to do with a real abnormality, your definition of normal seeming to be simply 'what has been said and done in the past', and says more about the subject than it does about the object. Whatever, gay marriage will rapidly become normal once it's been in place long enough for a new paradigm to take root.
No Star. I don't think anyone's suggesting Churches should be forced to marry a same sex couple. Churches have their own requirements for people wanting the religious ceremony, the Catholic Church refusing marriage to divorcees or some orthodox Rabbis refusing to marry Jew to gentile for instance and they're quite within their rights to do that. We're talking marriage as a civil contract conferring a certain legal status and certain rights and responsibilities on those who enter into it, not marriage as a religious ceremony. The two things are completely distinct, a religious ceremony being nothing but a ceremony prior to the registration of the civil contract at which point your actual marriage takes place.
Section 202 of the Equality Act already makes provision for civil partnerships on religious premises and is clear that that's opt-in, entirely voluntary, no compulsion on religious institutions whatsoever to offer registration of civil partnerships. That permissive aspect will probably be retained in any legislation making same-sex marriages legal. It's possible there could be a legal challenge to that at some point, and possible a European directive will trump UK law, but a similar legal challenge could I think be made to the existing legislation on civil partnership registration on religious premises but as yet noone seems to think there's an issue there, and no suggestion that any institutions so far have been compelled to offer civil partnerships against their own wishes.
The Church has no say in this. Not the Catholic Church, not the C of E, not Jews or Muslims, not any one other of the religious institutions recognised in this country, because marriage is not ordained by God. Partly cos God doesn't exist, no matter what you imagine He / She / It to be, so has no say whatsoever in the laws of a secular democracy, but mainly because marriage is not a religious institution in the first place.
Marriage is licensed and supervised by The State, not The Church, because The State knows full well that there are huge social and economic advantages in doing so . . . so it reciprocates, and confers advantages on those who opt into it. Marriage is not a religious institution, it is a social contract that in all probability pre-dates any single one of the organised religious institutions out there. It's a two-way street between citizen and state that's designed to be mutually advantageous.
If The State recognises the social good of marriage enough to confer those advantages on some, The State, being an equal opportunity, impartial arbiter who's role according to the libertarian definition is to moderate competing interests in a democracy, has to confer those advantages on ALL those who opt for marriage, otherwise they are creating an inequality, which is something they cannot forever tolerate because equality under the law is meant to be guaranteed, if not by what passes for a Constitution in this country but by Treaties we have signed.
I was referring to recent practice where banks have been unwilling to lend anything near asking price, 20% deposits being quite typical because they've had their fingers burned once already with the most recent 'correction' and know prices are still over-inflated. That's what the scheme's trying to address: their reluctance to lend. The Govt guarantees up to 5.5% of a 95% mortgage, the building firm puts in 3.5%, making a 9% contribution, so the bank is effectively left with a liability amounting to 86% of the asking price in the event of a default. In practice the bank is stumping more than 86% of the money up front but its exposure is effectively the same as asking for a 14% deposit. ( Ok, some small improvement on them asking for 20% but lets not quibble. ;) ) I think that's how it works as I understand it.
The effect must be to keep prices inflated above their 'true' value to the house builder's benefit and theirs alone, when what should be happening is that prices for 'starter' homes come down to a level that more accurately reflects their value, making them more affordable for first-time buyers, making banks more willing to lend against them. For free-market advocates like the Tories to be propping up the inflated housing market with tax-payers' money don't seem all that free-market to me, and hardly in buyers best interests?
Especially as the scheme applies only to the insanely over-priced new-build properties thrown up by some of the lowest quality building firms out there. In the event of even another small dip the mortgage holder is likely to be plunged into immediate negative equity, but the building firms care not because the 3.5% contribution they've paid into the scheme is only a small portion of their total profit, and a small price to pay for a scheme that helps keep prices where they want them to be for some of the smallest footprint, most cheaply built, lowest quality housing produced anywhere in Europe.
The reason the banks are insisting on 20% deposits is because, having being party to the most recent inflationary spiral they know that property in this country is massively over-priced. What is really needed is a genuine correction that values property properly. That's what will help first time buyers the most. The Govt OTOH seems to prefer price-inflation, which can only be to the detriment of first-time buyers, at the tax-payers expense. That they're trying to spin this as a helping hand to anyone but the building industry is truly dishonest.confused
I've got no axe to grind with Amnesty International any which way Starlight. I ignored the link because it's completely irrelevant to the ridiculous false argument you made in your previous post where you expressed your support for the persecution of people solely for their beliefs, that's all.
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supporting the right of everyone everywhere to hold whatever beliefs they wish and not be imprisoned and persecuted for them does seem quite a good idea don't you think

no i do not on some occasions, and of course mr staggers it would be dictated by who is doing the persecution and the imprisonment, but more importantly than that, the reesons as to why those peeple have been persecuted and imprisoned. dont you think dunno
i certainly do not think that some peeples beliefs are correct. so you are possibly saying as an example that the taliban should not be persecuted or imprisoned for there beliefs? because those beliefs kill peeple on a regular basis. many peeple would say they are not persecuted enough.
that is why sometimes it can be dangerous for us all to join amnesty. would the taliban be in the queue to join up? rolleyes
Rubbish. Beliefs are incapable of harming anyone. They exist only as chemical / electrical patterns in the brain. Persecuting someone for those beliefs is persecution plain and simple. It's actions that harm, and though those actions are often informed by belief generally speaking individuals should be free to believe what they like, whether we like it or not. Even so far as allowing a Taliban member to believe that adulterers should be stoned or apostates beheaded, so long as they don't try to impose that belief on others. It's when they actually start chopping people's heads off that the time has come to get properly involved. Up until then the only appropriate course of action is rational debate as regards whether the belief is a valid one, or a complete load of self-deluded shite.
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It's always very difficult trying to compare current and past sportspeople but Bobby Moore would have have had no problem in playing in the current England team. He played in the back four and was far superior to any of the current incumbents, not to mention his captaincy skills. Both Banks and Hurst at their peaks would give any of the current players some stiff competition and no one would be able to afford to buy Pele at today's values!

The entire classic Leeds team probably got paid less than a single player gets these days in the Premiership. Peter Lorimer had to buy a pub to earn him a living once he'd retired.

Check 1:18 and on. Poor Southampton just don't know what day it is. It's almost cruel! lol
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surely anyone with an ounce of maths logic will be able to convert 81 mpg into mpl in a fraction of a second? loon rotflmao

Who exactly d'you think you're arguing with Star, cos reading back through the thread it now looks like you're arguing with yourself? I sometimes talk to meself too, but I don't generally start threads only to demolish them later. confused Even I'm not that argumentative? rolleyes
I checked and I think a 'cup' is about 8 fluid ounces

You're not helping. For one 8 fluid ounces is a liquid measure ( the fluid thing is a hint! ) and for two I need it in grams.
ever held a firkin in your hands?

72 pints? Are you mad? Is it possible to get ale in a glass that big though? I'd have a good go at it if it is. :lickface:
Still don't see a 'con' as such. A con would be an illegal activity with the intention of defrauding people by giving them false information. Just a disagreement over what units petrol should be sold in.

I blame the Americans, being quite a large target market even the Frenchies wanna sell to. The Yanks still measure solids in cups, never mind fluids in ounces, pints and gallons. They really do need to catch up with the rest of the world and get with the Metric. WTF is a cup FFS? Big one, small one, pint pot? dunno
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Poor old Public sector workers eh rolleyes
It's no different down here in the private sector either...

The difference is that we ALL rely on public services to some degree.
And the public services I "use" I pay for every month via my taxes....
And people rely on private sector services just as much...
Just take my particular job as an example....
If no-one maintains the HGV's that deliver the goods to the stores/warehouses etc how they be able to sell them and us be able to buy them dunno
That's just one example.....There are ,doubtless, many others.....
Thanks for your input Steve. Once the race to the bottom has been achieved remind me to ask you how you like it down there.
I cannot for the life of me understand why private sector workers wanna drag everyone down to their level. Surely anyone with half a brain in their head should be clamouring for the working conditions they're so jealous of? Not the other way round?
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Hang on, I thought you were "Neilinleeds"..............not "Naiveinleeds" !!
John

Wot? Are you suggesting I've been lied to? They wouldn't do that, would they? confused
Anyways, I've had a few variations on Neilinleeds now. Naiveinleeds is no worse than some of the others, and probably quite accurate. I've said as much meself before now so I'll allow that and add it to the list. lol ;)
Signed up. I'll show my arse on the Town Hall steps if this results in anything significant, but I'm willing to put my name to it anyways. Interesting that the Govt has said it will look at energy costs and put pressure on the suppliers to give customers a better deal. I thought the whole point of privatisation and a free market was precisely that in the first place? Odd. confused
Cat hairs between one's teeth or at the back of one's throat ( *coughs* ) aren't something I'd go out of me way for, but not sure bald pussies are a great look either?

would be good, and a useful way of finding your way in the dark?
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And no, I haven't seen what they charge, not tried it.

Ah, well, I tried that water sports thing once in Norfolk. Didn't seem all that deviant if you ask me, and weren't nearly so exciting as is sometimes made out, but I did quite enjoy meself all the same? confused
I'll forgive your outburst over a cup of tea that you make when I see you in April

Piss off. Whaddya think I am, some kind of You've been misinformed Essex. I bet I can guess who by as well! mad
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Go fuck yourself.

OoooOOOOOoooo, check you out with the butthurt!
Look, have you seen what they charge down your way for water sports? Stupid money, that's what. Don't be thinking you'll get any sympathy from me when the watery boot's on the other foot. Suck it up!*
*Or not, as the case may be. Sucking on a pebble's meant to be a good alternative though?
Suffolk Broads and The Thames FFS? How much water do these southerners want? I might let Norfolk have a bit seeing as they're verging Midlands, but Suffolk can fook right off.
Anyways, they're having none of mine. I send all our rain westwards so we can get some sun and take the piss out of Mancunians.
You make a good point, some charity's will help. But they will be small and isolated.

The National Trust of Ireland is small and isolated? You sure about that? Figures would be helpful. What about the National Parks and Wildlife Service? Are they small? What about all the other land in State ownership? Is that small?
I have discovered, through debating and discussing this subject over the years, many who call for the banning of country pursuits are ruled by emotion rather than logic, by ignorance rather than knowledge, and by bigotry rather than understanding.

And ya see, this is what I have discovered about the pro-hunting lobby over the years. They resort to piss poor arguments like the one above. It's called ad hominem Blue. That they resort to it is a sign of someone who knows damn well their argument is weak, IMO? Not someone possessed of logic, knowledge and understanding