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neilinleeds
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 55
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Just some n00b HnS. Ignore him, he might go away. Don't want anything to disturb the equilibrium now, do we?
Can tell you're playing catch-up Trev. Not seen so many threads bumped all ay once in ages. The forum's a veritable hive of activity! lol
So, come on then. Whatcha been up to?
If George Galloway didn't exist it would be necessary to invent him. Say what you like about the man's politics, he is one of the very few MPs in Westminster prepared to offer a counter-narrative to the heavily whipped line of the three main parties, parties that have become almost indistinguishable as far as what they stand for and what they say goes. Unfortunately he's not a very good MP, putting his own agenda first quite often gadding about internationally and speaking on international issues that matter to him without being all that available to his constituents or speaking on their behalves about local issues that matter to them. And his comments on the Julian Assange case asserting that sex with an unconscious woman who by definition cannot consent is not cos she's previously consented when awake were beyond the pale really. You could get away with that line where two parties know each other well enough to have given each other permission for 'surprise sex', but not a one-night stand where nothing of the sort's even come up. Stupid. And in UK law consent must be made clear every time, there's no conception of ongoing, standing consent for sexual acts in the future so the position is wrong-headed anyway
A lot on the left fucking cringed at that, it's one of his most bizarre pronouncements, feeds into the perception that the left are loonies and with that undoing a lot of his efforts to push a more left-leaning agenda. He doesn't do credible very well. Though he is quite often bang on the money with a lot of what he says he is too easily dismissed as a loon, and his arguments with it. Still, he was probably the most watchable of the panel and got some of the loudest cheers, he clearly struck a chord with the young on a lot of issues.
Oh, and Too Hot, the 'kids' in the audience did pretty well for me. Better informed and than quite a few of the 'adults' I come across here and there. ;)
Hahaaaaa, but you fail to understand the cunning of yer alien mind Rob. When you're submitting your subject to the old anal probing you don't really care what they've got in the cranial department, do you? You only care that when they're dropped off half-naked and hemorrhaging from a prolapsed rectum outside an all-night service station they are dismissed as complete bleedin' fruitloops when they start banging on about UFOs and shit. Devious buggers yer reptilian shapeshifters so they are, oh yeah.
*scrunches down tin-foil hat*
Mind you, saying that it is all complete bollox though, innit? Over a billion smartphones with mega-pixel cameras out there across the globe, best anyone can do is a blurred, shaky shot of a string of chinese lanterns half the time.
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
The poor, poor fool. Did he learn nothing from THE single best ever review on Amazon?
Being a loose cannon who does not play by the rules the first thing I did was ignore the warning and smear this all over my knob and bollocks. The bollocks I knew and loved are gone now. In their place is a maroon coloured bag of agony which sends stabs of pain up my body every time it grazes against my thigh or an article of clothing. I am suffering so that you don't have to. Heed my lesson. DO NOT PUT ON KNOB AND BOLLOCKS.
(I am giving this product a 5 because despite the fact that I think my bollocks might fall off, they are now completely hairless.)

I feel his pain. I've been that spectacularly stupid too. Never again. Razor sharp pieces of steel in close proximity to yer nads are wince inducing enough but Veet is genital armageddon. Be afraid. Be very, very afraid. Veet = Chemical weapons of testicular mass destruction.
In the news today, Milliband confounds those who thought his 'Red Ed' moniker at all deserved by being every bit as blue as the Tories. FFS, he's as good as repeated their lie about generations of the workless, something already found to be complete bollox and utter shite by the Joseph Rowntree Foundation study. Labour peddling scrounger narratives to middle England to try and secure an election win. Jesus, what is the point of 'em? How about, and I know this must sound dangerously radical, you get some policies of your own Ed and at least make a stab at effective opposition, cos if you're gonna accept the Tory benefit cap, and ATOS assessments, and the bedroom tax, the breaking of the link between benefit rate and inflation, an end to universality in favour of expensive to administer means testing, yadda, yadda, ya the electorate might well conclude they're as well with the devil they know come next election, who can at least say that they weren't in charge when it all went tits up in 2008. FFS.
. Hahahahahaha. Quite. Except of course it ain't fucking funny.
Oh well, best get on with trying to build a genuinely radical party of the left I s'pose then, eh, cos three main parties all being right of centre does not a democracy make.
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this is how you deal with the EDL

i cant believe no one else spotted it :sad:

Was being shared widely on my Facebook on Tuesday that Rob. Think it great that members of the mosque engaged with them like that, but that only happened because so many turned out against them to defend it. Gestures like that are a whole lot easier when you outnumber the opposition 20 to 1, suspect it would have been a very different story if numbers were more even, or the EDL were in the majority. They must have shit themselves! smile
So yeah, counter-protests. Usually I'd probably agree with you that groups like these are best ignored altogether and left to wither away. They were in absolute terminal decline, the less committed were just drifting off but Woolwich has boosted their confidence, they're doing much better at getting activists and hangers on out this last week. Hundreds were meant to be going to the last Leeds demo according to the Facebook event page for it, they managed less than 150, we outnumbered them nearly 2 to 1. Newcastle and London this week they managed over 1000 at both. They can't be allowed to build on it. Counter protests are about ruining what they hope will be a fun day out, and making their attempt at a protest as pointless and as frustrating as possible, showing them up for what they are and achieving nothing because we know already that helps lose them the hangers on, the less committed types who'll not bother turning out for shit days out in future.
Quote by Max777
The lack of information about the death of Mohammed Saleem simply proves the point that a seemingly grotesque racist attack on an innocent 75 year I'd goes largely unreported albeit you can find details if you dig deep enough.
The reporting on the equally hideous death of Lee Rigby has opened wounds in the British psyche that have been closed for decades and the hysterical media coverage is creating division where there need not be division. These two murderers were demented criminals and not representative of the Muslim community. By focusing the nations attention on the racial and religious aspect of this crime we are at risk of alienating the vast majority of Muslims who are fully integrated into our society and who have contributed greatly to our society. We need mainstream Islam to fight radical Islam - attacking Islam generally will not help.

I didn't have to dig at all to find any details regarding the murder of Mohammed Saleem. It would appear that most mainstream newspapers reported it on their websites. I can't say whether it was reported in the actual newspapers as I don't read them.
Murders are an all too common occurrence, most of which do not receive national news coverage. The difference with the murder of Lee Rigby was that it was carried out in full public view, by people who claimed to have committed the murder for political reasons and who obviously wanted to attract as much publicity as possible.
I'm sure that had Mr Saleem been murdered in similar circumstances to Lee Rigby by two members of the EDL, the media coverage would have been just as extensive and and the focus would equally have been on the racial aspect of the crime.
Couple of excellent posts. Too Hot, of course the idea that Muslims or Islam are generally responsible for the murder is every bit as wrong-headed as blaming white christians for Anders Brevik running amok in Norway. Noone tries to blame an entire ethnic group or religion for that, it's nonsense. Lots of Muslim groups, mosques, whatever have spoken out against it, but why should they be expected to? Wasn't them killed Lee Rigby, they've got nothing to apologise for. Max, yes, the killers themselves made it clear the murder was politically motivated, done for effect. That makes it terrorism. Can't be anything but, the reporting was accurate. Mohammed Saleem's death might well be a hate crime, hate crimes are in my view mostly political themselves, they're ideologically driven, but the two murders aren't quite the same.
I'm concerned at the revitalisation of the EDL since Woolwich. EDL Leeds Division are planning a little get together in the city this coming Saturday, 1st June. Mainly involves them getting pissed to fuck at the train station pubs before staggering off chanting obscenities making nazi salutes and generally being offensive to all decent people to get to the Cenotaph at Leeds Art Gallery, where they will lay a wreath with a minute of swaying silence before carrying on again no doubt with the mindless chanting and nazi saluting. They seem to think that's honouring the war dead and being respectful, or something, I dunno? Will be out at the counter-demo, need as many out as poss to show just how laughable their claim to be somehow speaking on our behalves is, and demonstrating what solidarity looks like.
The EDL have been absolutely imploding in recent months, massive fallouts within the organisation, splinter groups forming that can't be doing with each other, bleeding what little support it had at a ferocious pace. Fast going the way of the BNP before them, soon to be an irrelevance. And then Woolwich. They've had big days in Newcastle and London on the back of it, it's given a boost to the commitment levels getting more EDLers out to them than would probably have been the case a fortnight ago. I don't think the numbers indicate any increase in support for them as yet, but it's important they're denied opportunities to exploit and capitalise on the Woolwich murder as much as possible. The EDL as an organisation, and their narrative have to be challenged.
Sorry John, got sidetracked, as usual. ;) I'd be surprised now you mention it if it's not occurred to someone in UKIP already. Like GnV said at the minute we can't even have that kinda discussion because forbids capital punishment for signatories to it. No point in a referendum unless we withdraw from the Council of Europe, we couldn't implement it. It would be an excellent propaganda tool for them in the current climate, I'm sure they'll seek to exploit it.
I would not be more likely to vote for them, in fact I would find the strategy even more cynical than usual, and would have even less respect for them for trying to make political capital of the murder this week when emotions are high and reasoned, balanced arguments hard to find amid some heavily polarised, overly emotive positions.
Quote by Lizaleanrob
i think the gravity of this crime has made so many angry Neil and you are of course right (save that bit for future use against me if wish lol )
the outrage at this crime i fear is festering and living local to woolwich i fear things could escalate this coming weekend

Course I understand that Rob, I know where responses like the above come from. It is playing the terrorist's game precisely though, allowing them to set the agenda and tone. If terrorism is an attempt to promote division, fear and hatred in the hope a completely irrational, excessive over-reaction to the act helps radicalise others to the cause in response then it seems lots have been reeled in like fish in the last couple of days. I despair of it, it's such sheep-like behaviour.
How do we counter extremists who according to all the rhetoric would like us to lower our standards to those they would apparently like to impose, except by maintaining our standards in defiance of them? The minute we toss out our own long-established values in response to a terrorist threat we lose, cos at that point we will have done exactly what they're trying to achieve all by ourselves. A return to capital punishment I would tend to include there, just to answer John's question. The only appropriate response to acts of this kind is to refuse to play along with the extremists' agenda and stand united against it as an attack on us all, Muslim and none-Muslim alike. All of us need to resist simplistic responses and simplistic 'solutions'.
Quote by funswing92
Those 2 scum bags should be given to the Regiment that the innocent soldier came from and say here lads do as you will. No date , no time, no cameras, no media , No martyrdom , let them just dissapear. No tax payers money keeping this shit of society alive !

Generally I don't really go in for abandoning all rational thought in the face of criminal acts against us, I tend to favour that whole rule of law thing. It can be so very tiresome though so I am leaning towards giving in to the dark, visceral side of human nature with an emotional over-reaction. I mean, that's the last thing a terrorist would want, isn't it?
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Super. I wonder what their thoughts are on the Tory bill on Gay marriage? innocent
You do? Why, you're a curious soul Star. Always good to see people taking an interest. Maybe they have a website, something like that you could read and stuff to see if they take a position on it or not? Organisations like this quite often do you know. Modern technology, wonders never cease.
Just a thought. HTH?
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It's the International Day Against Homophobia day today so if anyone has a problem with homosexuality then its time too grow up.

Losty, I'd downloaded my IDAHO avatar and banner weeks ago all ready for Facebook purposes and stuff. So bloody busy at work never even clicked the date to change it yesterday to show my support. Bugger! Oh well, at least I've got it for next year.
Quote by flower411
Seem like such a good idea for all sorts of reasons.
Can someone remind me why the whole idea got shelved?

I think it may have been because rather a lot of people who have passports, credit cards, driving licenses and online profiles thought it was going to be an invasion of privacy ! rolleyes
All of which are voluntary schemes you choose to opt into in return for certain benefits, access to the data being strictly limited, the uses to which that data may be put being rigidly controlled. Apples and oranges. When ID cards were last being seriously mooted under the Labour govt the number of governmental and non-governmental depts and organisations who might have been granted access to your data was proliferating at a ferocious pace. We were talking biometric ID's last time round. To what uses could such data be put? Who knows? Once accepted in principle and implemented it takes only baby steps to progressively extend the scope of the system, and add more and more data to it. We cannot know what the final shape of that database might one day be, how that data might be used, or to who the most personal, private details would be made available.
There was talk that initially the cards would be voluntary. What purpose does a voluntary scheme serve? None. To be any use whatsoever as far as their stated purpose goes they have to be compulsory else there is no logic to them. Of course you can effectively introduce an element of compulsion even within a voluntary scheme simply by making it problematic in small ways not to possess one, but once in place they will inevitably become compulsory. Not possessing the kinds of IDs currently in circulation does not criminalise you. Not being able to produce one when required under a compulsory scheme does. You only have to look at how sus laws and stop and search have been applied to know that they disproportionately affect certain sections of society. ID cards would similiarly have a greater impact on ethnic communities and the poor, particularly in the current climate. Those who argue that the law abiding have nothing to fear and it's a price worth paying typically do not bear the brunt of invasive policing and infringements on their liberty.
No thanks!
Not just big Rob, though they are big, yeah. Sharp too. Wilkinson Sword have got nothing on these bad boys, could have your face off with 'em if I wanted. Probably wouldn't even know I'd done anything to you till the whole thing just slid off yer 'ead. Luckily I don't have much need of the freeform surgery skills these days, I've gone all lovely, fluffy, bunny rabbit. Obviously. Hence the big, daft pink ears. Lulls people into a false sense of security see, they'll never see me next stealth attack coming. :mrgreen:
No elections in Leeds / West Yorkshire which I didn't realise till I started digging wondering where my polling card had got to. Quite pleased. Will save me having to drag myself down the sports club just to spoil my ballot paper. Finding someone standing I can actually put my name to has been something of a rarity this last decade or so, the shining moment in recent years was putting my cross down for the We Beat The Scum One Nil candidate. Only one of 'em said anything I could really support. lol
Shhh. Not so loud Flower. She might hear you and come back and then where will we be? N00bs ((( Well, might as well be a n00b with twelve posts in six years. It's a shockingly poor effort Gerty, what d'you think you're playing at!? Eh? ))), posting in the forum and wanting to join in, upsetting the equilibrium and glacial pace we've come to expect and everything, that's where, you mark my words! Steady on son, steady.
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I am surprised that in these times of real austerity that a similarly left of New Labour political party has not evolved to fill the shoes of traditional labour. Whatever Trade Unions there are remaining would surely support such a traditional Socialist manifesto.

Funny you should say that Too Hot, that's exactly what some of us have decided we need to try and build in recent weeks. is aiming at a new party for the left leaning with members drawn from a number of disparate groups / traditions: disaffected Labour Party members, trade unionists, single issue campaign groups like Hands Off Our Homes, Keep Our NHS Public, current and ex-members of the usual suspects as far as activist parties of the left are concerned, and those with no real or recent history of activism but perhaps feeling that desperate times call for desperate measures like myself.
I was at the first planning meeting of my local group in Leeds a couple of weeks back, second planning meeting next week, we're launching publicly with an open meeting at Leeds Met with guest speaker ( children's author, teacher, Save Our Libraries campaign organiser, etc ) May 22nd. It will probably all come to nothing of course but I think the attempt to build something that might help push Labour leftward is desperately needed so that's me in for the duration. smile
Quote by Geordiecpl2001
All you people are missing the point about this Thursdays vote !!
It does not matter that UKIP only have credible policies about Europe and immigration.
If they do well in local elections and come a credible second in South Shields, it will not change ANYTHING in this Country as regards immigration and Europe.
But what it will do is demonstrate that a large proportion of the UK voters think that the two issues above are very important !! The other Parties will HAVE to come up with policies before the next election to show that they have taken those concerns on board. Weasel words and vague promises won't do it again, they will have to have concrete, cast iron guarantees. Such as "We promise to deport any non UK nationals who break our criminal laws".
So to change the topic slightly, how do you think each Party will address the above issues in the run up to the next Election?
John

It's a bit of a dangerous strategy isn't it though John? What if enough people go down the protest vote route to actually elect one of these clowns to office, either in this weeks local elections, or G*d forbid, a parliamentary seat at the next election? I wouldn't say UKIP is a bigotted, racist party in and of itself but enough reports on some of their candidates to know it has a tendency to attract complete bleedin' fruitloops who are racist bigots, xenophobes, misogynists, homophobes, you name it. Not the kind of people that would usually make good bed fellows for traditional Labour voters. article is old news but there's been plenty to add to it that backs up its central thrust in recent days and weeks.
Even if they get nowhere near a win anywhere in voting for them you legitimise them and give them credibility that they do not deserve. That makes the prospect of them winning seats and entering into some kind of power sharing deal with a more right-leaning Tory party come the next election more likely. Is that really what people want? You also send a message to Labour that you want them to move even further to the right of centre, the last thing traditional Labour voters would want I think, we need some effective opposition from them, not even more of this Tory-lite crap they've been peddling lately as One Nation New New Labour. Law of unintended consequences applies here I think. Again, be careful what you wish for. You might not like the results.
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I cannot understand for the life of me how anyone could seriously think of voting for those clowns. Apart from their anti-immigrant, anti-EU stance does anyone even know what they stand for? Really? I don't see how they can,

But these are the two main concerns for the electorate Neil, and you wonder why UKIP are taking votes? When people were asked about their concerns these two examples came up time and time again, can you not see that?
I can see you are a bit confused Neil so for your benefit and anyone else.

Seems there are a few others who actually think the opposite of you Neil it would seem.

Thanks for the UKIP link Star. I'd never have found their website without it, or the pages I linked to in my previous post! lol
What I find difficult to believe is that people could contemplate giving political power to a party on the twin issue of immigration and EU membership, without having a fucking scooby what else they stand for. We know what some of their candidates believe in reading recent reports, these are people who should be kept as far away from political office as bloody possible but no, they could advocate just about anything it seems and people will overlook it so long as they promise to keep out the Romanian hordes. It's not just short-sighted and stupid, it's positively bloody dangerous. Be careful what you wish for Star.
I cannot understand for the life of me how anyone could seriously think of voting for those clowns. Apart from their anti-immigrant, anti-EU stance does anyone even know what they stand for? Really? I don't see how they can, even UKIP don't bloody know. Emails between Farage, Godfrey Bloom et al talk about buying policy off the shelf from right-wing think tanks to flesh out their manifesto and save them the trouble of having to work out what they think between them themselves. The flat tax rate they've been banging on about so much seems now in doubt, with Farage apparently distancing himself from it as policy on last week's Question Time, and talking now about a two-tier flat tax in recent days. WTF is a two-tier flat tax? It's an oxymoron, that's what it is. These guys are making it up on the bag of a bloody fag-packet as they go, what they have put forward do not a program of government make.
'Ah but Neil, we're not expecting them to form a government. It's a protest vote against the three main parties', I hear you cry. Well fair enough, but what message does that send to government? That a large chunk of the electorate want an even sharper turn to the right than we've had under this government already? Seriously? After seeing the impact of this government's austerity measures on public services, not to mention on their own pockets and those of the working poor that's what people want? They are even further to the right than the bloody Tories, you only have to look at their proposals on , etc to know that. Members of the disaffected Tory right, and those still further to the right of them, fair enough, that I can understand, but how anyone who previously voted Labour, presumably cos they believed in social justice could even think of voting for them is beyond me. Madness. Absolute madness.
^Hahahaha! That took me a minute. I'm not sure crossing the streams is the major issue Staggers? It seems to me it would be more a synchronisation issue ensuring both streams fire at the correct moment. Stream one fires too early it's all over isn't it, which could lead to some frustration for both stream two and the streamee.
A disgusting indictment of just how low our social standards have dropped when protest is even considered at a funeral of a former Prime Minister of the United Kingdom.

What's more disgusting, the cost to the tax-payer of the state-sponsored official period of mourning for St Margaret Hilda of Grantham, or the protest against it? I'm going with the 10 million plus. Sorry. BTW, the protest is nationwide. It's not at anyone's funeral. It's not like we're lining up alongside the bloody grave as she's lowered into it, is it?
Just out of common respect could this protest not be made after she has been laid to rest.

Protesting about the cost of the funeral after the funeral would hardly make for an effective protest, would it? When would you have us do it? Next week?
Not a celebration as such, but a peaceful protest for those who'd like to make their disgust at the 10m cost of her not-State funeral ( plus policing and clean-up of course ) known on Wednesday:

Me, I'll be marking her funeral by going to the first planning meeting of my local group to see if the time might be ripe for the formation of a true consensus party of the broad left seeing as there's no opposition whatsoever any more to the neo-liberalism of Tory, Lib-Dem and Labour alike.
Was discussing this with someone on FB last night. Never mind street parties, we're both expecting something much more serious to kick off next week. The funeral's going two ways: pageant by day, riot by night I have no fucking doubt. I think the 10m cos of the funeral is gonna pale into insignificance alongside the policing and cleaning up bill for afters, small potatoes really. I hope the Met are ready for it.
The anger has been coming anyway with this current administration, bedroom tax and the like, the funeral is just perfect timing to light the blue touch paper. What a class bitch, kicking off riots and burning streets even in death! Part of me thinks it's a good thing if the anger does come, but for the sensible humanitarian in me that recognises it will be a world of pain for some of it does.
Sounds like a wonderful adventure for the both of you, I hope it brings the rewards you anticipate and more! smile
I'll miss you while you're gone Trev. You're a voice of reason on here most often, and whether I agree with you or not on any given subject what you say makes me think. That is the whole point really, isn't it?
Enjoy your travels, see you in August I hope.
Best,
Neil x
Aye, an increasingly common scam. The Windows-R just opens the Run dialog, they'll quite often ask you to key eventvwr here by all accounts which opens your Windows system logs. There are ALWAYS warnings and errors in Event Viewer, my Administrative Events is full of 'em, just the nature of the beast, which provides the 'proof' of the problems they're supposedly calling to fix.
I don't know they necessarily install trojans, key-loggers and the like, though they could as seems they usually ask you to start a remote session so they can 'fix' them, first asking for your credit card details of course, going rate reading around on this seems to be around the £75 quid mark. Nice little earner, even if only one out of every hundred falls for it. rolleyes Microsoft will never ring on a tech support issue without you instigating it first, and when they do they'll have your details from your support ticket. If they don't know to call you by your name it's a dead give away.
Not as easily confused as me this evening Mids, obviously. I knew I shoulda stuck to Facebook just clicking on pictures of kittens, it's all in one place there, I don't have to think about WhereTF I am when I post summat! lol
I was almost waiting for it, it had been up literally . . . oh . . seconds before I realised my mistake. Time enough for your trigger finger anyways. And that's why you're a twat Flower!*

*Tiny text for purposes of hiding what I called you from . . . . erm . . . you know . . . . the easily offended.
/Double standards type blog lol ;)
I was gonna say, tell you what, you delete yours then I can delete mine but it's ruined now, ruined I tell you! And it's all . . . . all . . . . all my fault. confused
Bollox! :doh:
Oh well, back on topic . . . . . What is the topic of this thread again BTW, I haven't even read the damn thing yet?
Piss off it's been a long day! lol Might have known you wouldn't let me get away with a swift delete you fuck! Every bloody time! :P
Been thinking about this thread again today. Hey, I was bored at work knee-deep in spreadsheets and had exhausted my usual fantasies so for some reason this popped into my head. Go figure!? Anyways, what I was wondering was . . . how many of those who so often vehemently proclaim their opposition to speed cameras on threads like this would be first in the queue to endorse CCTV cameras in our city centres for the prevention / detection of other kinds of criminal offences?
I'm guesstimating it would be a rather large proportion, which strikes me as odd. You know, that motorists seem not to view their own criminal behaviour in quite the same light as they would view the criminal behaviour of others, the risk of causing injury or death being equal in some circumstances depending on the behaviour engaged in.
Just sayin'.