Doubt you're gonna have any problems there livelife_cpl! ;)
I've enjoyed MMF and very rarely FFM in the past, though most of the scenarios I've experienced have involved more bodies than that most often. :mrgreen: I think generally they work much better every which way if all parties are bi. I get that being pretty much the focus of attention for two others to go at you can just surrender yourself to is great, very horny, no question, but even better if you can switch up which of you is gonna be that individual as things develop. More possibilities aren't there. Gives everyone a bite of the same cherry, chance to experience both the physical aspects and the differences in headspace as to whether you're playing a more active or passive role, attender or attendee so to speak. Happy days.
UN Security Council resolution isn't it Star, would be quite remiss of us as Security Council members to vote through an intervention and then refuse to chuck some personnel and hardware at it. None-combat role, though I suspect that might well change. For the moment though we're content to wheel out a couple of the usual big guns, see if they can't sort it out. I hear Bono and Bob Geldof are already selecting their hats in readiness for their photo ops. Shame they've just missed their slot for a Xmas single. Still, there's always next Xmas, time enough yet. ;)
Exactly my difficulty Pebbles, nail meets head moment right there. I would want to feel this raw. Common sense tells me that's not a good idea, hence it remains a fantasy.
Losty, I think that would only increase the horn factor for me. ;) Something I've yet to do, still very much on my to-do list. Nearest I've got is wearing a strap-on so I could DP / DV someone all by me little self. Very bloody horny it was too but it's not the same as having another live, warm body alongside you by a long way.
They've had a lot less appeal for me Lost as the site's grown. In the old days when we had really big munches a couple of times a year and the site consisted of only a few hundred core regulars I'd go to a munch knowing I'd know nearly everyone there, would spend all night bouncing around trying to catch up with everyone. That changed to the point that at Wigan munches I might be lucky to know a dozen people. There'd be a few from the forum, a few from this regular chatroom, or that regular chatroom, etc. It's become splintered. Much less point going when you don't hardly know anyone.
That splintering seems evident still further when you look at the smaller, more local socials that are put on these days. Mostly chatroom types that I don't know, seemingly regs from this chatroom or that again. IMO, much as it pains me to say this, the social thing has at last become cliquey. Didn't used to be the case. Again, what's the point in me going to them?
Yeah, the headspace is very interesting Andy, worth exploring all by itself. Total role reversal isn't it, being on the passive, receiving end with your partner adopting the more active, dominant role. The sub / dom thing adds greatly to the experience, above and beyond the merely physical.
Don't even need the bullet with a good quality leather harness and dildo. Helps your partner feel more in control, and gives her some pleasurable feedback all by itself cos the base of the dildo is gonna put pressure on her clit as she thrusts. Good times man, good times. ;)
Me too Magik. Discovering new forms of pleasure hitherto unexplored and unavailable any other way is all part of the fun, and boy, it can be a LOT of fun. Takes some getting used to certainly but the first time you have a prostate orgasm from anal stimulation alone all that time and energy spent getting used to the sensation suddenly seems to have been very much worthwhile. As with most things in life, I'm firmly in the 'don't knock it until you've tried it' camp. Best try it more than once actually, just to make sure something wasn't amiss the first time if you didn't enjoy it, or it wasn't just a one off if you did. ;)
I was going to say ( Om nom nom nom. :lickface: ) but reading up on it seems she's not an alien at all. She's from earth in the future. Bugger! So, as is my wont I'm gonna go off on a slight tangent and I'm gonna be the alien. One possessed of the kind of DNA a snail has been blessed with ( hermaphroditic ain't they, both sex organs, yer snail ). And tentacles. Lots and lots of tentacles. And a big long tongue. Think that'll do me nicely. Hopefully Jane'll be mightily impressed with it too.
Too Hot, exactly. It may be true that the majority of people in this country want a referendum on our continuing membership ( though I suspect that claim, like any poll is based on a tiny sample not at all representative of the national demographic ) but how many of those could claim to really understand the ins and outs of it all. Every single one of us gets our information from partial sources with an agenda, the kind of spin the likes of the Daily Mail etc put on this question mostly pandering to petty prejudices and a Little England mentality that I actually fear. The thought that your average Sun reader is gonna be given the chance to take us out of Europe cos of the kind of human rights gone maaaaad bullshit they're often presented with and do not fully understand, at all, fills me with dread.
That may be patronising, that may be me denying my fellow citizen's ability to properly take part in the democratic process but on this issue the whole thing is so spun to death it's hard for any of us to know what the real truth of the matter is, myself included. For that reason I'm happy to leave well alone, knowing my understanding is limited. I know what the benefits are, they in my view outweigh any downsides to membership, and certainly outweigh what is in the main the unknown quantity that is full withdrawal from the EU, and whatever consequences might follow from that.
Well Minxy . . . .
Oh, never mind, it's really complicated and probably wouldn't make any sense, I wouldn't want to bore the forum with it . . .
Get rid of the Godlike for me Losty, I wouldn't bat an eyelid. I see it in a completely ironic way anyways, I know damn well I'm anything but. It always was meant to be viewed through the lens of irony I think, but hey, I don't give a flying one about my forum rank, or the prospect of not having one. I'd be stunned if it changed anything whatsoever as far as how n00bs approach the forum though, I think the argument that was made there on the other thread was largely bullshit.
Post counts though, along with join dates can be useful I think. A join date on its own means nothing. There will be account holders out there who've barely set foot in forum or chat since registering their account years ago. At least the post count is an indication of which of us has actually been active to some degree on the site over the years. I accept there are other ways of checking like a search on forum posts but the post count is there at a glance. It doesn't necessarily indicate a genuine member, but it gives an idea who might be worth looking at in more depth for new users perhaps, IMO. It's not an ego thing at all I assure you.
Having said all that if the majority view was get rid of it I really couldn't give a rat's ass mate.
Oddly, as I remember it far from stirring the forums up in a positive way Kent contributed greatly to a somewhat poisonous atmosphere. Lots found him offensive, plain and simple as far as I could see from the conversations that took place in PM and elsewhere, were a little pissed off he'd not been banned sooner. Trouble was he couldn't take criticism, resorting to personal abuse all too often when he'd run out of actual argument, such as those arguments were to begin with. Often that would spill over into other threads to the point the whole forum was infected by it and other regs just stopped posting cos they were sick of bloody seeing it.
It's my feeling the CA forum was hived off from the Cafe in the first place to try and contain that kinda thing a little more, parking the kind of controversial threads he delighted in starting, sometimes by way of simple trolling for a reaction in my view off somewhere by themselves. I highly doubt a mod here would ever confirm that, if true, but that's my take it on it anyways, so no, no amnesty for Mr Kent thanks. Ta.
No need to be so defensive Robbo. Maybe 20 different posters on this thread, you've taken umbrage with one of them who questioned what you were driving at and whether your argument was valid, but you've had responses from what, another four of us engaging in the discussion with you in a way that there would be little to take issue with, surely? What does that tell you? That on balance those who chose to respond did so because they acknowledged your right to hold your opinion, the exact opposite of what you suggest, and felt something you said was worth responding to? You're saying people will be intimidated by something as inconsequential as a forum rank, we've just demonstrated that there is no reason for that, it's you who chooses to be intimidated by it. Why? We can't do much about that Robbo if you're gonna insist on it, can we?
Noone wants to feel small when they join the forum? Every single one of us started on the forum with a single post and went from there. We all felt small when we started to engage with those who'd preceded us. We all had to work at acceptance carving out our own personal niche testing what worked for us, and what didn't. If ever we made spectacular twats of ourselves I can guarantee you we'd have been told to wind our fucking necks in and have a word with ourselves, some being more or less polite about that than others. To imagine that things are somehow sooooo different for new users than they were for every single one of us in terms of how to approach the forum is just plain wrongheaded.
There is sometimes a difficulty new users face in that others have to learn to read them. It takes time for a poster to establish something of their character, and takes time for others to get where someone might be coming from. It can often cause misunderstanding. Again, we've all been there, the only way to get past that is to keep revealing more of your personality and help others read you as you intend. If you don't put the effort in you'll never get there. Not much anyone can do about either, it's entirely up to you.
It just wouldn't work these days a thread like that, not for 30 pages of it from loads of regs but 
all over again at it. Cheers. 