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packard69
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 55

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We have (in Hull) just freezing although it's been snowing in York. Work... well I finish Thursday although i'll be on call Xmas eve and working New Years day :cry:
J
Without a doubt Rainbow keep to your rules. Don't feel guilty, if they would of cared about having it Xmas day they would of paid by Bankers Draft/Transfere or even a post office thingy (sorry can't remember what they are called). You do right, no guilt, as you'd be doubly pissed off if you sent it and the cheque bounced. Wait for the cheque to clear bounce the guilt back to them
J
Thanks for the replies very welcoming and one of the reasons i'll stick around more
if you don't mind. I could easily sit in a cafe/Pub with quite a number of you all and
feel comfortable, always a good indication i think of people. If i waffle on at all just
nudge me
Have a good one
(I usualy sign off, Jas, but as the forum has one already i'll just put J
J
Well, I'm new to this forum although I have visited a few times and enjoyed the banter. I'm a male in my 30's who lives in Hull, East Yorkshire. I love, as may end up being obvious, the Philosophy of life. I enjoy finding a new self, if that makes sense, whilst carrying on with my old self smile I also enjoy, another obvious i suppose, female company. Don't get me wrong i enjoy being in the compnay of men but not in an intimate way. Why am I on this particular Forum, because the forum is very different to similar 'Swinging Forums' People/Members seem to not only be Sex mad, at times, but also quite deep in terms of the meening of life. They don't put up with the 'I want a shag' mentality but would rather know the person first and then ask :)
Enough waffle from me
You know, So many factors in life change how we feel and, to a point, who we are. Even the weather can change our mood and the touch of a person can create a negative or positive reaction. My philosophy is always try to do at least one thing a day that will bring a smile to your face. Sounds to simple, it is, think of the times you have been satisfied with life. Generaly we are satisfied because we are happy, obvious, but we don't tend to search out for those special moments of happiness. That satisfaction of laughter, or incredible joy because you have acheived. Some find eternal happiness in sex alone but, to many others, that is just one third of their life. What happens, as some do, you go off of Sex!! is chocalate going to give that thrill or would it be riding your Motorbike as fast as possible down the M1? Getting drunk or smoking, seeing a comedy or spending time with a soul mate. We all have basic needs: Love, Sex and Laughter! we have to have at least one a day to find happiness - That to me is our fix
A bit of waffle there with a touch of philosophy, I'm only trying to say persue Joy and being content just for that space of time will bring survival, i think smile
What would we do without it, sex, well the obvious is we wouldn't exist LOL but just think if you had to go without it, how your personality would alter.
I am sure, as a human being, I wouldn't be the same without sex, as I wouldn't be the same without conversation. Sex, Eating, Drinking and Breathing are all a part of me i can't imagine life without them. You hear some say sex is overrated but to me, enjoying yourself with another person can never be overrated - it's lifes Soul
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I think with swinging it's always been the norm and now, the media, are trying
to paint a very different picture of what it's all about. To me, it's a party with
adults who have mutual respect for each other. No is a No and yes becomes
a very exciting phrase although th eword yes is not often spoken with the mouth
but rather with thebody language. Let's face it the press are all in on it and that's
why. at times, they like to paint a bad oicture so there is more for them - a selfish
act but one you can understand biggrin