mmmmm.....
I've just noticed a lot of adverts sudenly poping up with older start dates....
However, the "groups" of adverts are being updated within a 1-2 min period and each one has exactly the same style of editing on the photographs (eg, 4 adverts all with a white square removed (the other groups are the black spray paint and the blue spray paint), update times 23:21, 23:21, 23:21, ) all joined jan 2005.
Perhaps im being overly paranoid, but it might be worth a purge on all "users" on the advert system with no log in for the last say 2 or 3 months... after all if they are legit they can always set up a new "user" account with the same email as before.
Mine is a very simple one....
To find someone I can fall in love with who shares my love of swinging, BDSM, and erotic photography but most importantly... if not all of the above, loves me enough to understand and allow me to still explore the bits she does not..
A friend and I had just been having pashionate sex to a rock album on random play and had "finished" (so to speak) when that song by aerosmith came on (the one from armageddon) so we stood up naked and started dacing to it... I got hard again so with a little wiggiling we then carried on dancing to it with my dick now being back inside her pussy which was quite a bizare yet very erotic both for the physical aspect of it and also the fact that it kind of wasnt sexual.
They are as far as I know... I believe it may have changed hands a while back, but I did a shoot there in the "dungion" a couple of months back and found the place to be clean and tidy.... I had to laugh at the stan-colimore room downstairs (a camper van in a darkend room, lol)
I don't know what its like during its swinging hours though.
I just give the person my number and explain that they are welcome to withold the number and don't have to speak long if they don't want to as its no more than a "hello" call to prove i'm genuine....
If they don't after a week or so then they are probably fakes... especially if we've been talking quite a lot.
Likewise if someone starts saying how horny they are feeling and look as though they want to cyber... I just say I don't I only do real life sex (actually I do cyber, but only with people I've already slept (or met) with as part of the ongoing sexual play, it can be great to come up with fantasy ideas to then try out on the next meet!) if they get huffy or go off line... they are probably fake.
Exactly wolvie... we dont watch it to see the good ones (tho occoasionally we are plesently supprised) we watch it for the freaks, no hopers, and total idiots... with a little ry thought to ourselves "god they are nutts" while secretly wondering if (or worse thinking) we would be better, lol.
The little shy lad who was all nervious and talked in a high squeeky voice... then sang almost as good as good pro... if he doesnt do well on x-factor then I do hope he manages to get formal voice training as I think he has potential as a real singer if not as a "pop star"
I "did" watch big brother... but lets face it... now its just lets get the biggest misfits and most socialy inept twats together who know its about money and will do anything including fucking or taking a bottle up the pussy to win...
The jungle thing was ok the first time.. but once was enough... its b-lists getting a little revival so they can get a show on sky.
The farm was interesting... especially the fact they had 2 porn stars on it, lol, but there was no sex and fucking... so i think i'll give it a miss next time, lmao, but I still feel sorry that that bird that fucked becham got so slated for waking the pig... its what happens on a farm... its not her fault that she did it before the program so she could get on the program ;-)
While a paper might get a "couple" in a club, the couple is probably on the team... the club its self is open to anyone taking photos of the facilities as there is no HR, sexual offences act, etc. in place... its a building and cannot complain and cannot have prepresentation.
The papers taking ilicit photos of a "famous" person in a club might get away with "in the public eye," especially if they had publically stated a high moral ground, they now would be hard pressed to publish photos of mr and misses jo blogs from 22 acacia avenue.
The papers know that while doing an "expose" will sell (and lets face it be good publicity for the club) to out a normal couple/person would actually do them more harm than good as it would have implications on just what they could do and get away with in the name of "reporting."
With a negative court case with "normal people" they would be truely screwed in what they could do... which is why you never see any legal action from either the clubs nor suposedly "mr and mrs average in the street" caught in the club having sex with multiple people as it would impact on privacy (HR) laws with celebs.
and lets face it.... "we made our excuses and left" like would some scotch sozzled reporters walk out of a swingers club without trying to get a shag? bolocks would they...
(even less likely in the context of research of a brothel... some 40 year old fart with trilby saying "I just want to talk", lmao) all they really do is get people interested in doing something they always wondered about... not up in arms... except mr & misses disgusted of highbrow avenue, lol.
A couple of other tricks to see if an advert is "real" is checking the msn or profile...
<<< then the address "minus the @ ....."
and
<<<<then the msn/ account including the @ /@msn.... (co or com)
While some people do set up accounts speciafically for swinging and a non-mesenger account, a good give away is an account set up the same date as the advert, or dont have a msn profile set up.
Its not fool proof, but tis a start...
On the few adverts I do reply to when there is that something... I tend to go on how many times i've seen it refreshed... if its about after a month then its potentially real, or they never reply and just enjoy the photos that come in, lol.
The funny thing is after 4 emails directing me to another site.... I dont get them any more... I guess i'm on the "dont even bother" list as I dont pay for the posibility of sex on the web as I never signed up, lol, if I was going to pay... i'd rather pay directly to a real person!
Now taking this even more off track....
There are a lot of suposedly non-sanctioned adverts for products that only get released on the net (basically they are done by the ad merchents but released un-officially and get around the rules) like the ford car advert where the car chops the head of the cat and the other one where the cat gets caught in a cieling fan, lol.
No one every blody rings me and talks dirty on the phone... and i've been giving my number out of the internet for the past 20 years, lmao
IRON MAIDEN at the nec with anthrax as support in the late 90's... anthrax are so much better live than their records!
The old god of rock, Alice Cooper at the nec on the poison tour.
I never did get to see queen live... something I always regret.
OGM I really should not get the big heavy dictionary out, lmao
Swingle,
1 A flat-bladed wooden instrument used for beating and scraping flax or hemp to remove coarse matter from it.
2 to use a swingle on. old english verb.
Swing,
16 slang, to swap partners in a group, esp. habitually.
Swinger only has "dancer" and "modern person"
The problem with a dictionary is its only as good as the understanding of the researchers and writers and none of us totally fit in the nice neat little discriptions.
To me a swinger is someone (couple or single) that can understand, enjoy, and accept non relationship sex and who is open about this both to prospective partners and others they play with either on a 1-1 basis or 3 or more situations... a non swinger is someone that either lies about the situation or who becomes emotionally attatched to the detriment or one or other party.
You could argue that someone that only does 1-1's is a serial manogomist and not a swinger but I do feel that its more to do with the honisty and mind set and not who you play with or the combinations.
I know I probably would not enter into a relationship that didnt involve swinging (I use probably as there is now telling how emotions can work) but I do talk about my being a swinger and also into the bdsm/fetish scenes at a very early stage... infact usualy as part of the initial chat... if they are freaked then they are not for me as I know I would find it hard to give up either lifestyle especially as my photography takes me into direct contact with both scenes... I would rather go for years without a partner, than find one and fall inlove yet always hanker after and mis the scenes which would probably result in festering unrest. Quite frankly im old enough and self aware enough to be happily single and swing with people I find sexually attractive and not be out for a fuck and to hurt people by telling lies and just having sex for the sake of it.
A bit late, but here at last, lol.
Was great meeting up with everyone on friday both thoes I knew already and also some new faces i'd not met before :-)
A speciall thanks goes to Moribus and Calista for giving me a lift back to Ilkeston *hugs*
We shall have to have more of these mini socials as they make for a great evening out.
Jon
The best pub is probably going to either be a "rock" pub, or a gay bar... both are far more toerant of us strange people...
I do know that the bar opersite drinks in there :-) or we need to go for one of the very large pubs which are kind of set into areas.
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