I keep reading things that i agree with, Silk and Big G being the latest... although i hope they do decide to stay I know how they feel and i think a lot of other regulars are wondering if we are going to become the freak show to pull punters in.
I'm going to stick around and see how it goes, but personally i think there'll be a steady decline in posters of the calibre of S and G and others, or we'll be hamstrung by commercialism that makes certain topics forbidden or hard to post on.
There are loads of other concerns, but above and beyond everything I'd like to see this community stick together and as importantly the "spirit" remain... if either of those things go, then the decline will be inevitable and sharp and we'll all pretty much end up elsewhere i think.
Excellent post S n G ..... I'm going tohang around a while though.
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1 month ago
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( ok, off for a shag now!)bloody hell Choon! I have just been sitting here with another SH member discussing threads and stuff and I mentioned i was thinking of posting a "top 5 tunes for when you are dead" thread ..... freaky that it's here as i log on using her laptop!!!! She pointed it out and said it was weird too.. are you earwigging?
( i know - blatant i am out and about tarting it up post....
:D:D:D:D:D )
( i know - blatant i am out and about tarting it up post....
:D:D:D:D:D ) Quote by Jags
I'll simply say this... Mark is someone I had an awful lot of respect for. Please note the use of the past tense.
without knowing everything, i know Mark put a load of effort into this...and time and money. Without him we'd be elsewhere. And all of the good times you have had via this site would never have happened.
I think you are being a bit harsh.
Postie you get a
assionkiss: I'll hold you to that
:inlove:
( fuck it is late ! )
Quote by Elliot
By the way, you didn't answer my question from about 3pm this afternoon.... :lol2:
oops! bound to miss a few, can you re-iterate and ill answer now
OK :D
Quote by postie
Hello all,
My name is Elliot,
Would you mind if I fucked your partner? ( I am going to guess you would...
) Haven't the time to read all the replies, back to work in 2 secs, but I am guessing you aren't a swinger.......
there ya go!
Quote by Mister_Discreet
I'll simply say this... Mark is someone I had an awful lot of respect for. Please note the use of the past tense.
without knowing everything, i know Mark put a load of effort into this...and time and money. Without him we'd be elsewhere. And all of the good times you have had via this site would never have happened.
I think you are being a bit harsh.
Quote by Elliotso, the censorship of posts has begun in earnest now has it ?
Mod edit to remove offensive posting - and no, it's not a new owner doing this. Site AUP remains the same. Being abusive or unfriendly will still not be tolerated. Make your point with being offensive.
:roll: that didnt take you long did it, youve only been here a day
Removing of that post was by one of the existing mods, as it says, not to do with me or any of the 'new guys'. Thanks to the mod for that, and well within reason to do so. My reply still stands though, but please can we try to be a little more constuctive with the posts
Elliot -
you've got far more responses from people saying they'll suck it and see than you have negative. You have bought a very diverse bunch of people who live and breathe this site. Even telling people to be positive is wrong. This isn't some management team building excercise where you stress the importance of something and we'll all fall into line. Relax.
Sorry you lot feel a bit hurt, but c'mon, you wont be hurt when the £££'s come rolling in.
If you can't take the flak, as long as it is within AUP's, then you haven't done your homework on who we are. I suggest you do....
By the way, you didn't answer my question from about 3pm this afternoon.... :lol2:
A massive thank you to Helen and Mark.
I can't express enough my admiration and respect for the bloody genuis and patience you have.
Can't blame you in the least for the way it is, it just is, though I wish it wasn't.
Have fun you two... you deserve it, because you have certainly brought so much fun into thousands of other peoples lives...
And that offer still stands!!!!
I can't express enough my admiration and respect for the bloody genuis and patience you have.
Can't blame you in the least for the way it is, it just is, though I wish it wasn't.
Have fun you two... you deserve it, because you have certainly brought so much fun into thousands of other peoples lives...
And that offer still stands!!!!
Quote by Martin_M
Postie
We will not take the kind of crap that some of you are throwing around at the moment, you are not being fair on other members of this community. You are deliberately trying to be nasty towards us looking at your footer.
I hate ringtones. I don't even have a mobile phone...
If I am a bad apple then so be it. Nice to be told by the new boss on day one. But believe it or not, even though i hate that the ethos of this site has been ripped out for profit, I hope this community carries on.
You Lording it though isn't going to make you popular.
And a point of clarification. What isn't allowed insignatures now?
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Quote by Martin_M
Thanks Osmosis, lets get on with this rather than just being negative, there is no going back now change is on the cards one way or another.
We dont want this community to poisoned by a few bad apples so if you want to be a bad apple please pack up before you are asked to leave. If you have constructive points them bring them up for the new build!.
WE built this community so give us some time to get used to YOU.... because as far as I can see it is a free site being taken over by grubby profiteers who have no interest in our lives except to make a profit. Any other newbie who showed such disrespect would be given very short shrift.... and rightly so.
It is day one. Bite it and see what happens. I know I am.
Quote by Martin_M
The Mods and OOPS have done a great job with this site so far!!!, We want them involved in its future, we want there voice and their views. There will be a munch at our office for them in the next few weeks to work out the details.
Martin
Shows how little you know about the site, Martin, because a "munch" is open to all members and you can't exclude anyone.....only "newbies" make the mistake of calling a social a munch. And seeing as you know so little about us, I do presume you'll all only be wearing a towel until the real fun and frolics kick off??
Have you asked Ice Pie to make the badges for the munch? As I'd love to see those.... perhaps I can swap mine with yours.... the after munch should be fun, that's when it gets really hardcore...
:doh: I forgot the sandwich
oh yeah.. I'd like to think you'll improve the site.
But i don't think you can.
prove me wrong...
Quote by Elliot
Hello all,
My name is Elliot,
Would you mind if I fucked your partner? ( I am going to guess you would...
) Haven't the time to read all the replies, back to work in 2 secs, but I am guessing you aren't a swinger.......
more later
bolloxbolloxbolloxbolloxbolloxbolloxbolloxbolloxbolloxbolloxbolloxbolloxbollox
bolloxbolloxbolloxbolloxbolloxbolloxbollox
Quote by LadyFeeBee
We had a couple of people to "hold our hand" at our first munch and it really did make a difference. I wasn't nervous at all (once I got in the door
Went on to have a brilliant time and realised what a great bunch of people all the SH'ers are and that some of them were actually "normal" :shock:
I think Postie's 'hand-holding' idea is great, and works very well.
Even though I'm not a munch "virgin"
, I'd like to try out Postie's hand holding idea so....................POSTIE will you hold my erm.........................hand at the munch please? :wink: :twisted:
Fee
XX
:rascal: Ladyfeebee, it'd be a pleasure..... :love:
( i think i have just blushed)
and i think you are about to get a pm too !
( don't burn your belly 
Man points out to woman.... that HIS car is on the correct side of the road, her tyre tracks veer onto his side of road, and then points out to cops when they arrive her masscara is only applied on one set of eyelashes... and there is a copy of Bella open on the front seat...
moral of the story....
men are observant and.....
.... women should get the bus...
moral of the story....
men are observant and.....
.... women should get the bus...
Quote by Fallen Angel
Generally prefer to be on the receiving end actually
But spelling and grammar are a bit of a thing with me - just don't go using apostrophes in the wrong place, OK? then we'll get along fine x
I'm currently barred from pointing out spelling mistakes but .... and even though you are very very lovely Fallen Angel... I noticed something lurking in your signature...and you can point out as many errors on my part as you like... I know my grammar is rubbish. :D
"Be who you are and say what you think, because those who matter don';t mind, and those who mind don't matter"
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: 
:whistling: :whistling: :whistling: Quote by Jags
I blame Happy Cats....
he's lost his music now he's losing SH
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/63481.html
I was trying to ban Postie (again) and managed to break the site... he just didn't want to go!!
:wink: :wink:WHY??????? What did I do this time?
(or were you trying to block Postie from your life!) :shock:
