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shynewbie
Over 90 days ago
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Judy - I've only been one here two days and I LOVE your posts!! Need to start a thread just called "Judy's Gems".
And yes - please do let me know about the spell checker :thrilled:
Ina rather similar vein - an ex GF of mine once had someone go down on her very soon after eating a chilli burger. A rather painful experience I believe!
Hey Sexyann,
Yip - you gotta enjoy that first time otherwise you come away thinking "hmm -what was all the fuss about?" lol It is interesting though that it does seem that women are a lot more open to at least experimenting with someone of their own sex. Or is it just that women are more open to verbalising that? And woudl more men be open to verbalising it if our society just got with it and actually started feeling comfortable with sexuality - homosexuality, bisexuality, heterosexuality (whatever sexuality) - instead of holding onto some outdated Victorian ethos?
(PS - please will someone invent a spell checker for this thing please! - my typing is terrible!)
Hi Steve,
There's alway sgoing to be a situation where I'm new and shy!! But yeah - I'm already starting to feel very comfortable in here and thinking perhaps it wasn't the best nick to choose. But it described how I felat at the time - BIG time!! biggrin
You should try the rock chick if you don't like the rabbit. It's a dildo - not a vibrator which is actually supposed to be better for you. No vibrator dependency stuff.
Got to say I get on very well with mine :smitten:
Hey - in my "world" straight sex is kinky.
Nah -seriously - it's only boring if you wanna fall asleep half way to an orgasm you kow just isn't coming - and I can assure you - I've been there before in non str8 sex!
We're al differnt - and I think that's great.
Personally - str8 vanilla sex isn't my first choice when making a sexual decision - but that's just me. :color:
But then I'm considered a little "out of the ordinary" in my circle 'cos I openly state that the best sex I've had has been in a 3-some (all women - sorry guys).
We are who we are. Thank god! hump
Also, I don't ever remember seeing someone like Suzi Quatro in feminine attire, but she was (is?) sex on a stick.

Aah - now there you go - bring on Suzi Q. Only watched Happy Days when Suzi was in it. And mum thought I was getting all gooey eyed over the Fonz wink
You do realise that most of you are strak raving mad - what I've seen so far don't you!? And I lurve it :!:
Hey - thanks guys biggrin You are right - I just wouldn't or couldn't be myself without being .. well..myself lol
Have ejoyed hanging around with you already.
Ciao for now :happy:
Ok - so I've got a question. Maybe you guys can help me out here.
I'm a bi-sexual woman right. Okay - I admit to leaning much more towards Lesbian - and because of the prejudices of the Lesbian community - identify and live my life as Lesbian. But I also enjoy sex with men - so that makes me bi-sexual. Oh my god I hate labels!!
Anyway - the thing is: - I don't wear dresses and heels. I HATE dresses and I have no idea HOW to walk in heels! I class myself as a jeans and T-shirt girl (almost always commando). But my general feeling that within the swinger network I would be "expected" to don the enticing mini skirt, heels and suspenders If I were meeting up with a couple or group (I'm new to swinging - I remind you here). but I wouldn't feel comfortable - and by not feeling comfortable I wouldn't feel sexy sad .
See my dilemma? any advice?
Hi - I didn't want to start a new thread, but wasn't sure if it was rude to jump in on someone elses! So - I apologise if I offend by jumping in and saying "Hello - I'm also new". Only - I'm not an experienced swinger and am vrey shy - BUT I have been reading bits of the forum for a coupla days now - so starting to feel a little more comfie smile
So hello Sammie - hello all - and I hope you won't mind me asking all manner of questions as ease myself comfortably in. :color:
And I'm already well respectful to you Blue lol
Ok, so I'm new here (& to swinging - and I will be posting a tad bit about that too - 'cos I've got tonnes of advice to ask for - but I shall do that separately), so excuse me please if I am very obviously a newbie.
I have to admit that I love gving blow jobs - but the climax for me is watching a bloke wank those final few minutes. Guess I'm a pearly necklace girl redface