Welcome shot :welcome:
Do like your avatar :rascal:
Warming the Bed
Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
Login
ted_byrnes
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 49
0 miles · South Yorkshire
Forum
Warming the Bed
Alright people I guess , it's time we chill out, step back and have another look at this.
I've always wanted to share my thoughts as a "newbie" and I feel the right opportunity has come.
I've only joined about 3 weeks ago but have been made welcome by the group after a reasonable introduction. I like the rest of us have our own reasons for joining this group. I just wanted to give a critique if that's ok .... pointing out the good points and the points that I have felt abit wary about. After all, we all know that this is a forum for which views can be aired freely wih the freedom of speech paramount.
I must admit that during my introduction, I felt very much welcomed. People took the trouble to say hello and this struck pretty immediatelt. The threads that were available looked interesting, topical and very honest about daily life.
However on further reading, I've noticed a few things that I did scare me abit. The p*@s taking for one ... I've however taken this with good humour as I haven't been at the wrong end of the stick ..... yet!!. Another, is that it can be quite "clique-ky" at times. I do know that most have been here for ages and that they've took all this time to get to know one another. This I feel is entirely normal. After all , it is like a good gossip session with good friends.
I guess to summarise , as a newbie .... ideally i would like to make more of a contribution without the fear for being pounced upon. This confidence I feel (hope!) will come about once people get to know me abit better (and viceversa) . I guess there will be some of us ( me like u foxy ) that won't be able to make it to the munches (trust me, it's not that I don't want to go ..... certain facts of life prevent me) and will have to get by getting to know people slowly.
I apologise if my views may be contradictory
I've always wanted to share my thoughts as a "newbie" and I feel the right opportunity has come.
I've only joined about 3 weeks ago but have been made welcome by the group after a reasonable introduction. I like the rest of us have our own reasons for joining this group. I just wanted to give a critique if that's ok .... pointing out the good points and the points that I have felt abit wary about. After all, we all know that this is a forum for which views can be aired freely wih the freedom of speech paramount.
I must admit that during my introduction, I felt very much welcomed. People took the trouble to say hello and this struck pretty immediatelt. The threads that were available looked interesting, topical and very honest about daily life.
However on further reading, I've noticed a few things that I did scare me abit. The p*@s taking for one ... I've however taken this with good humour as I haven't been at the wrong end of the stick ..... yet!!. Another, is that it can be quite "clique-ky" at times. I do know that most have been here for ages and that they've took all this time to get to know one another. This I feel is entirely normal. After all , it is like a good gossip session with good friends.
I guess to summarise , as a newbie .... ideally i would like to make more of a contribution without the fear for being pounced upon. This confidence I feel (hope!) will come about once people get to know me abit better (and viceversa) . I guess there will be some of us ( me like u foxy ) that won't be able to make it to the munches (trust me, it's not that I don't want to go ..... certain facts of life prevent me) and will have to get by getting to know people slowly.
I apologise if my views may be contradictory
Warming the Bed
I guess if u put it as "sexual partner" , I'm not too fussed. Mind u though, I've always learnt a thing or two from the older (ie. more experienced) lot 
Warming the Bed
Happy Birthday and may it be a good un'
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
Warming the Bed
Quote by MQ
Sorry I'm in a very silly mood tonightAnyone want to
me?
Me Me Me Me Me :taz: :taz: :taz: :taz: :taz:
Warming the Bed
Happy Birthday to You !
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
Warming the Bed
i might be wrong on this but it's sometimes quite easy to tell whether the person is m/f. I guess this is only from my brief/short experience. I honestly don't think it'll make that much of a difference but i get your point.
Warming the Bed
God, compared to u guys i must have a sex-drive of a panda! I just basically follow the urge 
Warming the Bed
Quote by niceguysdoexist
Now I am off in a minute to the first of my works xmas functions and there will be 16 men and one woman(bit like this site really).The lady in question has expressed a mild degree of anxiety at this ratio. One of the guys has commented that had it have been 16 women and him he wouldn't have complained in the slightest...
but would he ???
Err ... not really. Quite used to being outnumbered by women (on a professional basis though .... bummer
Warming the Bed
Quote by Wishmaster
Failing that, the entire Arsenal football team caught roasting by the NOTW and the girl having herpes (which she caught of Wenger) would come a close second on my wish list.
Ho ho bloody ho
:laughabove:
:x :x :x Hmmm ...don't get that one.
A lovely xmas meal will do me nicely :grin:
Warming the Bed
Anyways , needs to go now guys. off to brave another form of public transport .... the trains
Have a good w'kend
Have a good w'kend
Warming the Bed
i guess it helps when men use it to imagine the reported size :confused:
Warming the Bed
Quote by zootle
It's not so much the materialism, more that once you get used to having a car you take it for granted. So once you lose one you find you feel stranded and can't go anywhere (regardless of how much you really used it anyway). Or at least I do!
That's true. I don't know about u lot but my schedule goes into turmoil if I've got to bring the car in to the garage to have anything done
Warming the Bed
Quote by glamourgirl
I feel so liberated.
Good on ya GG :happy: :happy: :happy:
Warming the Bed
Gem
well, i guess it feels like losing part the family eh ? i don't know whether this is too early but have u started to think about looking for a possible replacement ?
it'll be an interesting thread
well, i guess it feels like losing part the family eh ?
i don't know whether this is too early but have u started to think about looking for a possible replacement ?it'll be an interesting thread
Warming the Bed
Quote by glamourgirl
Briefly, Proper Lover and I have been together for more than eleven years and about three months ago we started a threesome with another man. There must have been some affection to start with or it wouldn't have started at all but over this short time it has grown into an emotional relationship as well as the obvious which I will keep to myself. We haven't had problems with, for example, jealousy but we are aware that we might have and we have prepared ourselves for it.
x x x
I guess three months is still pretty early on ..... whadya think folks ?
Warming the Bed
God I'm so envious of u lot. I've gotta work 
. To top it all off it's gonna b extended shifts as well ..... all weekend :cry:
Not even started xmas shopping as well
Well , I guess I've got next weekend to look forward to
. To top it all off it's gonna b extended shifts as well ..... all weekend :cry: Not even started xmas shopping as well
Well , I guess I've got next weekend to look forward to
Warming the Bed
GG
Well in that case, I'm honestly happy for you. May the good times last (on n on n on n on). I wish that my situation was better Anyways , is there any more juicy gossip that u wish to disclose 
Well in that case, I'm honestly happy for you. May the good times last (on n on n on n on). I wish that my situation was better
Anyways , is there any more juicy gossip that u wish to disclose Warming the Bed
Good mornin all
It seems like everybody has their own point of view. I personally say that u do what u feel is right. After all we only live once. About your previous identity thingy, i guess it's normal human nature to be curious. After all this, i suspect u'll end up without having the answer u seek.
It seems like everybody has their own point of view. I personally say that u do what u feel is right. After all we only live once. About your previous identity thingy, i guess it's normal human nature to be curious. After all this, i suspect u'll end up without having the answer u seek.
Warming the Bed
Quote by Re-Lapse
Clare- I bet that when you have a go at Steve or the kids, you go..................
On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and On and and and.
HEHE
:laughabove:
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Warming the Bed
Another thing u could do if u were getting unwanted mail was to "block" them or label them as "spam". Works for me.
p.s : though i've never had a reply from any of my ads
p.s : though i've never had a reply from any of my ads
Warming the Bed
it was a nightmare initially :doh:
Got it in the end like everyone else :shock:
U'll soon get it
Got it in the end like everyone else :shock:
U'll soon get it
Warming the Bed
Oh .... so sorry
Me brains and eyes have go face-on with each other. ignore me
U can tell us anything u want . As u can tell , there's always somebody with a different opinion. :silly:
Me brains and eyes have go face-on with each other. ignore me
U can tell us anything u want . As u can tell , there's always somebody with a different opinion. :silly:
Warming the Bed
Do what i do matt .... i don't give a bloody toss about the WE/VWE/VVVWE statement. I'd normally just reply. Albeit never got a bloody reply !! Mayb they want a pic next to a ruler
Mayb they want a pic next to a ruler Warming the Bed
Quote by Horndog
hate'em.... always try to let the train take the strain........
Now that u've mentioned it .... TRAINS !!!
. Been having shite luck with them as well recently. Maybe it's god's way of telling me to stay away from travel. Having said that I've got a train journey to London t'row . All 3 and a half hours ....wish me luck Warming the Bed
GG
Your thread sounds pretty reasonable to me. Having said that I'm sort - of a newbie as well so who am I to say what's reasonable or not. I guess it's not the most pleasant to be in ur situation. I guess u need to talk to people but hey ...that's what were here for
Your thread sounds pretty reasonable to me. Having said that I'm sort - of a newbie as well so who am I to say what's reasonable or not.
I guess it's not the most pleasant to be in ur situation. I guess u need to talk to people but hey ...that's what were here for Warming the Bed
Hello uni lad !
Ahh ...those days of being in uni. Twas a long time ago. Even so , couldn't remember much of it even when I was there .... it was all a haze ........... :shock:
Ahh ...those days of being in uni. Twas a long time ago. Even so , couldn't remember much of it even when I was there .... it was all a haze ........... :shock:
