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veejay
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 40
UK

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As said by someone earlier, you don't normally smoke when your asleep. Nicotine being a neurotransmitter, its not suprising that there would be such effects.
I was told by lecturers that wearing the patches while asleep gave people "nightmares". Nobody told me they would give me wet dreams mad . Right I'm off to buy myself some patches and hope your right :twisted:
Sounds like you could benefit from professional help.
I have the opposite problem to you which is delayed ejaculation. But still it was very rude of that lady to actually chuck you out. mad
I ike them curvy- in the right places that is biggrin
But anyone thats about normal is what I g for (nothing too skinny or obese).
Quote by sheffieldfun4two
What I love about this time of the year is getting out all my mini skirts and tight little tops that have been put away fro winter!
Why does sunny weather make me feels so bloody horny?

Maybe thats why- read your posts! :P
Not only do we feel bettre during sunny days, but women wear less. Perfect combination for horniness :twisted:
Aged 21 I had sex with a 39 year old. So that makes a gap of 18 years older.
Was amazing and is why I now prefer older ladies.
I think the best position would be you on top of a guy, face-to-face (vaginal penetration). While the second guy comes along from the rear (like doggy position).
Probably be the most comfortable for you.
Its either someone with with psychological issues, or some scumbag journalist lookng for the next story about sleaze and debauchery in the swinging community.
Partyman, some of your statements about Asians and Muslims sound very true- but only if you were saying them more than 30 yrs ago. You made some very generalised comments. I think as an outsider you fail to see the changes that have happened in the Asian community, especially within the last decade.
Isn't it the case with most other cpls that if on epartner doesnt like you- you don't play? Also there are plenty of cpls from an Islamic background who swing. It maybe that they don't necessarily label themselves as being from a particular religion. If you look on the ads, you will see that there are always Asian cpls on there.
Well I want to thank the starter of this thread. Because of him we all got to se some fine asses, all in one thread wink
Quote by JudyTV
Several Asian guys have replied to my ad so I get the impression there are plenty out there if you look for them. I know several within my lifestyle and just as many on the swinging scene, not all on SH however. All of life's varieties are here, I have heard there are one or two Trannys about as well wink .
Judy

Your right. I forgot what they're called, but In India theres an entire group of men who live/dress as women. This isn't something they do part-time or behind closed doors either. They live like this full-time and can be seen walking about on the streets etc. You'd feel right at home.
Quote by Maia
Hmmm nothing wrong with Asian men, just not sure about the zebra print bed covers tho.... wink

I agree. Those sheets look awful. Come to think of it, the whole room looks like a French....
Jokes biggrin
Quote by JudyTV

So until the cure all or a better solution comes along, slide a condom on your dong.
Judy

So true. But theres more out there than HIV, nasties like viral heptitis. And also theres always the possibility of newer diseases emerging.
Just to point out, some people may be thinking that circumcision may be of some protection against HIV.
This isn't the case whatsoever. Circumcision offers no protection against HIV and your risking yourself and others if you think it does.
Quote by ockysweeties
The U.S. sexual health education system is dismal and people in their 20's and younger, even when the know they have HIV, are not using condoms and no one knows what to do to punish these people, and yes anything like quarrentine or making them wear a badge is illegal and a human rights violation.

No offence, but since when did the u.s govt. ever care about human rights? I find it shocking what you said about infectd people knowingly spreading the disease.
In the U.K if they infect anyone knowingly, they get done for manslaughter. I think a Nigerian man living in the UK got prosecuted afew years back for infecting somebody knowingly.
So if it was discovered that individuals were knowingly trying to spread HIV, I say they need locking up. Or since the death penalty exists, send them to Texas biggrin
yeah... I know... the U.S. gov't sux. Why do you think we moved here? Besides, they are too busy over there preaching abstinence (which doesn't work) and ignoring the problem.
No point coming over, coz our govt just follows yours anyway. But since your here...... wink :P
Quote by beebeep

In the U.K if they infect anyone knowingly, they get done for manslaughter. I think a Nigerian man living in the UK got prosecuted afew years back for infecting somebody knowingly.

It was GBH, b meaning biological. See link below.

BB :twisted:
Thats awful. The piece of cr4p should have got life, meaning life. 4 yrs is nothing, he'll be out soon and be free to carry on infecting other women. What a disgrace the law is.
Quote by asaincplesurrey
mad hi peeps can any one help us we are cple looking for a light hearted introduction to bdsm please note this is our first time wifes feels the need to explore her dom side and like to slap some ones arse ,wont let her do mine so thinking of going to some club any addvice that would help thanx we are 30m 28f very sexy?

Quote by littlemee
You're in Surrey so there's a club not too far away in SW London you can try called Chelsea.
A bloke called Jose Mourinho needs his arse slapped IMO.
Could you also do his face while you're at it!!!

LOL.... I don't think thats quite what they had in mind.
Shame their so far away though.......... wink
Quote by hayleyw2
Does anyone else wank whilst driving then hit tree's or is it just me?
If so what excuse did you use? :!:

Oh no.
First we had the "Dont drink and drive" ads. Now we'll need the "Dont wank and drive" campaign. Its an accident waiting to happen,
If you cant resist, park and wank, get a vibrator or failing that give me a bell! smile
I've had emails similar to that.
Ignored them and hope everyone else is sensible enough to do so too.
Quote by Calista
hi u want fuckin?

This delightful invitation arrived in my pm just.
I'm a bit under the influence but he does deserve a reply ~ any witty suggestions!
Sorry I don't normally post my pm's etc but to have signed up today, made no posts and then be sending crap pm's like this!!!!!!!!
C x
Oooohhhh... what an eloquent man. You all must feel so lucky biggrin :D :D
I take it that you are going to be fighting amongst yourselves to have him? :D :D :D
Quote by Calista
Both. Oral to get warmed up, penetrative to finish off.
biggrin

Sounds perfect to me :twisted: :twisted:
C x
Oh it is wink
Quote by roger743
People need to appreciate; we're a national of office workers now. So the powerful pelvic muscles we developed from lugging great big sacks of corn up from the cellar every day just ain't there anymore. The sendantary lifestyle means that if us guys can manage any thrusting, we're doing bloody well and working bloody hard, and you should kiss the ground and praise Jesus that you've found such a tireless and studly beast. (Just wait until the thrusting ends, or you might spoil the moment...)

Quote by peenut
True!, an if your office is anything like mine, we are all expert ass lickers ! biggrin

Or should that be ass-kissers? :D
Quote by kazswallows
i find this thread really offensive ........pets are wonderful creatures why would anyone hate them
Pets have loaned their names to all sorts of wonderful fun things
you can stroke pussies
slide on snakes (the trouser variety)
doggie is a wonderful sexual position.
so come on peeps no more PET hates please
lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

I agree biggrin
( though I don't find this thread offensive)
Ofcourse there are people where you being Indian may be a problem.
But you also have to look at the fact that you being a single bloke here maybe also responsible for lack of feedback.
If you read enough threads, you'll see that there are plenty of White men who also complain that they are being ignored.
However if you were to get one of your gfs to come and join you, it may change your luck here? smile
I like being on top with the womans legs over my shoulders, or wrapped over my back. But having the woman on top is my favourite though, just love to be able to lie back and enjoy.
Quote by ockysweeties
The U.S. sexual health education system is dismal and people in their 20's and younger, even when the know they have HIV, are not using condoms and no one knows what to do to punish these people, and yes anything like quarrentine or making them wear a badge is illegal and a human rights violation.

No offence, but since when did the u.s govt. ever care about human rights? I find it shocking what you said about infectd people knowingly spreading the disease.
In the U.K if they infect anyone knowingly, they get done for manslaughter. I think a Nigerian man living in the UK got prosecuted afew years back for infecting somebody knowingly.
So if it was discovered that individuals were knowingly trying to spread HIV, I say they need locking up. Or since the death penalty exists, send them to Texas biggrin
Quote by BrightonGeezer
If every one of us practiced safe sex then the UK Aids problem would or could be under control but probably not eradicated completely. Not sure if I have explained this adequately but I'm sure most people will get the point. We really cant go on like we are doing.

An infection like HIV only spreads through intimate sources so can in fact be close to eradicated. Diseases like smallpox which was far more infectious has been eradicated. With stringent screening of blood/organs and safe sexual practices, then within 2-3 generation you could have a situation where all the infected people have passed away and left the population free of HIV. This is something which could be achieved, but I doubt it will.
Instead of it "slowly dying out" HIV is getting more and more deadly. Last month a new, stronger more virulent strain was discovered in a man in New York City. This strain of HIV is resistent to the current drug therapy treatements and the development to AIDS occurs more rapidly. you can read more here:
I for one don't like the sound of this, and although this won't be a popular theory, I still feel it is a valid one. What I'm talking about is a massive quarantine program. There must be a way of doing this in a way that is humane and doesn't degrade those who to all intense and purpose are already in the shit. This being the 21st century, and with all the technology, there must be a way of mass screening, and there must be a way to quarantine without causing misery. I dare say the only thing that stops our wonderful politicians from contemplating this is money, lets face it, we have wars to fight and other countries to invade!
If it could be done humanely, then it sounds like something I find acceptable. Like you said, "human rights" are ignored left right and centre when it suits govts. While the UN is just a sham, doesnt have any teeth or powers anyway.
Anybody who would object to such measures is very short-sighted or selfish. And what do you think will happen if the HIV was to ever cross with something like the common cold virus to produce a super HIV virus? We could potentially be in a situation where you could get HIV from just being in the same room as someone infected. Its well known that this process occurs in bacteria, but if it were to happen in virus? :shock:
Then we'd all be in the sh1t and the whole world will have to go into quarantine.
Quote by ockysweeties
Instead of it "slowly dying out" HIV is getting more and more deadly. Last month a new, stronger more virulent strain was discovered in a man in New York City. This strain of HIV is resistent to the current drug therapy treatements and the development to AIDS occurs more rapidly. you can read more here:

Even more reason to stop/control it while you are able to.
As time and generations of the virus come along, there will be a greater number of chances for mutation of the virus. So with each new person being newly infected, they could end up a vius which has come about through greater mutation.
Think about how long HIV has been around. 30, 40 or at most possible 50 years? Look at how far it has spread. I know air travel etc has contributed but still it is a pandemic which we have no real cure for. Yes drugs may reduce your viral load, but sooner or later it will kill you. Anti-retrovirals only buy you some extra time (a decade or two?)
Quote by JudyTV
If every one of us practiced safe sex then the UK Aids problem would or could be under control but probably not eradicated completely. Not sure if I have explained this adequately but I'm sure most people will get the point. We really cant go on like we are doing.

An infection like HIV only spreads through intimate sources so can in fact be close to eradicated. Diseases like smallpox which was far more infectious has been eradicated. With stringent screening of blood/organs and safe sexual practices, then within 2-3 generation you could have a situation where all the infected people have passed away and left the population free of HIV. This is something which could be achieved, but I doubt it will.