That's not racist at all. Each race, colour and creed has their own characteristics aesthetically - it's make diversity so interesting. While obviously a woman is a woman and a man is a man regardless of this, what are we supposed to do ignore them? There is a difference between racism and recognising someones, er, differences, just as long as we don't stereotype. My husband is a sucker for dark skinned latin types, but men are more visually turned on a guess. Have to admit though, have a bit of a softspot for the darker skinned male myself.. x
Like so many others have said, it depends entirely on the mood and setting. If we're making love (yes I know we're married, but we still do it sometimes) then all I want whispering in my ear are sweet nothings. If we're doing the nasty because we're hornier than a toad in mating season then no amount of dirty talk could make me blush. Sometimes I like acting slutty, so being told I am one is a natural extension.
As for doing it in public, if it's doing dicreetly, somewhere in public but just out of earshot of everyone else, then it's definately going to get the juices flowing enough to want to put it in practice when we get home - if we get that far.. x
I was a virgin when I met my (now) husband just before my 20th birthday - not completely inexperienced but a virgin none the less.. It was just before my 22nd birthday that we started swinging. Let's just say in about 20 months I made up for an awful lot of lost time! x
Not that we're sticking up for him, but haven't some of you been a bit harsh on Andy? Even over reacted a little? Just a thought...
Anyway to answer the question.. age gaps.. It was a couple - I was 29, she was 41. Large enough i guess but not massive. Then again, my partner was 22 and her partner was 43..
