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Hi James from Bournemouth here . although Ive been a member here for a while I have not yet fully explored this site as I have been getting quite a bit of one to one action from another site, but I really want to get some threesome action with a couple particularly where the male of the couple has a cuckold fantasy he wants to act out. So if there are any likely couples in the Poole / Bournemouth area who would like to explore the possibilities look me up and send me a message. Have fun everyone!
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WOH! am a newby but like to keep an eye on forums, ya seem a bit hard on yourselves here (spesh girlies). Have had loads of emails to answer (as you do as a newby single, now dropped to 5 a day), have been offered money and a free indian meal for life! No judgements, all looking for want and heads up to them for not trying to con (okay, maybe as a single girl it is apparent from the 1st/2nd text contact that a 'pretend' genuine may not be) - is that what I want yes/no? Having said that a message/chat comes through and I play 'swingers or swankers' and maybe I am wrong but from the interaction they are in the box - thats my judgement, not on what you do/want but personality.
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too hot
too light
too many gnats
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Hi Atom
I am black – ( in fact dual heritage. Mum is Brazilian – black - and dad is English - white) my guy is Danish and white. Personally I feel there is absolutely nothing wrong with what you have suggested and well done you for raising your head above the parapet and making the suggestion.
I don’t know how many black women use SH but regardless of this, the suggestion is perfectly viable. Although I’m here for the social side only and absolutely nothing else, I do feel that if there are enough people interested in this type of event then you have every right to arrange one.
Perhaps by placing the thread in the cafe section has lead for some people to feel you are being disingenuous/provocative though I would like to hope not. Duncan’s suggestion with regard to advertising in the Lets Meet Up section is one you may wish to consider, that is really the only way you would be able to measure its popularity.
Good luck
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That is the very reason I though a event might be a good idea..
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I have made an edit to add another option but I really wasn't too sure what you wanted to say. Drop me a PM if you want me to add/change the poll and I can try
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That is the very reason I though a event might be a good idea..
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Four big blokes kicked the sh#t out of me. Against all odds I managed to knock one out...
Probably not the best time for a wank, but I thought, 'sod it... it could be my last!"
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because there are lots of black guys on site and far less black ladies thats the difference- now be honest about your posting and don't try leading me into grey areas of debate.
Get some black ladies and some white males that like them together :) Quote by Lost
Why don't you ask as many black women you know in/on SH to at least give their opinion?
I still would love to know if you were serious about this or whether you were trying to start a debate on the differences, if any, between lots of black guys on site with an availability to white women and the seemingly lack of available black women on site for white men?
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I wouldn't have thought that go getter black women would need to have things arranged for them. they do okay as they are. but a considerate idea.
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Watching my wife behave as a total slut is one of the things that really turns me on
hwoar::rascal: Quote by Lost
Well there does not seem to be much interest at the moment
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Well there does not seem to be much interest at the moment
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We used to use another site that had a verification system, you know the one that SH said they would never employ.
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from page2 of the pdf
Is Shrep a verification system?
No. It is a unique and complete reputation system with three parts based on how
members conduct themselves with others. It will also help new users generate a positive Shrep even if they have not met anyone yet or just choose to use the site socially
providing their conduct is satisfactory towards others. This could subsequently help new members to secure a face-to-face meeting based on their site conduct, even if they have had no previous meets. It also gives people that you actually do know away from the site the opportunity to check your profile details and “Vouch” they are correct.
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We're all Judgey McJudgerson!
There are very few exceptions.
This is life.
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I am one that strongly advocates safe sex and the use of condoms especially in a threesome or group sex situation. In will say in defense of the story it does highlight that it is important in a threesome or group sex situation to use a condom because the risk of STDS / STIS exist. Nonetheless I am not thrilled about how the media has picked on it and the story I see has been picked up by non-EU countries. What the media neglects to highlight the study is a historical study looking at infection rates in three town in Holland. This means the results are limited to Holland and depending on the cities may not even be representative of Holland.
There are several question that sits in the "back of my mind." First is if this was a historical study done by picking more cities would the rates for swingers be lower than using prostitutes or male on male contact in Holland? What are the rates for STDS / STIS for swingers in other European countries like the UK or Spain? Finally what is the reason for the higher incidence in this age group? Is this because people in the 40+ crowd view sexually transmitted infections as being something for younger people? Do they see using condoms as a way of preventing pregnancy and not preventing infections? Maybe there is a willingness to trust statements made and not protect against possible risks? In any event, without knowing how can the issue be addressed?
