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AtomCom2001
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 52
0 miles · Northamptonshire

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Hi,
I have just read an interesting article

I know it is a subject we all sometimes try not to think about, but lets try and have fun, but lets be safe smile
Andy
Well you could always take a big hammer to the mac and do the right thing and buy a proper PC smile
After seeing this advert, I wish I had invented it!

It is so funny, would love to watch a whole group of women use them at the sametime .. hehehe
On the new site this has been slightly changed.. You forum status is now always visable and you need to have more posts to get up the levels.. lol
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not had it yet doin a late lunch as dinner will b late was having ham cheese n pickle roll but bamger in a bun is tempting me wink

You can have my ham in your bun anytime . hehe
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Not sure if it was brunch or lunch, but I missed breakfast so I've already had a smoked salmon and cucumber sandwich at my keyboard.

Make sure you shake the keyboard after, you do not want it smelling all day of fish.. hehe
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Those people that know me will tell you I have lost loads of weights in the past couple of months.
I have done this by doing lots of walking. This is the only real change I have made and it has been such a big difference.
So I was wondering what small chance other people have made in the life that has made a major difference?

well done hun :rose:
i really do mean to do more walking not for weight loss as you will know i really am not bothered by my size but for my back i have found that weeks where i do a lot of walking my back is much less painfull than the weeks where i don't do any but finding the time is so hard i mean there is just too much good tv to watch for this couch potato :giggle: but seriously i have gotta drag my arse off the sofa more regularly its amazing how much peeps spend on gym membership when something as free and enjoyable as walking can make such a huge difference
Thank you babes smile
You know I think you look great as you are, but if you are feeling health benefits then you should go for it.
Those people that know me will tell you I have lost loads of weights in the past couple of months.
I have done this by doing lots of walking. This is the only real change I have made and it has been such a big difference.
So I was wondering what small chance other people have made in the life that has made a major difference?
All these groups that the goverment has put in place has to be seen to be doing something. If they just sat there going everything is great then people would wonder why are they employed.
You find this sort of rubbish thoughout business as well, middle management jumping up and down now and again, as if to say, look I am here, I am important and to prove it I am going to make chances for chances sake.
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Just lately, I've really been getting into cartoon porn - both as pictures and movies. Does anyone know of a good source either online or as regular paper publications?

I do actually.. but I just have to remember where it is.. I will pm you when I find the info again..
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filthy
and before anyone comments i spent the day in the forest ,al right!

Those woodsmen are dirty buggers ;)
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Hi can some tell me what it means when a person in there car flashs their headlights at sat next to you in a well known dogging spot?

What ?? lol
Are you just bored, wanted to say something, but could not think of anything so just had a quick wink .. hehe
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You might feel that sometimes there are swinging police. People that have such strong views on the scene that they try and stop anyone doing anything that they feel does not match there views. Be assured though, that even though there are these sort of people about, their oppion has the same weight as everyone else.

Ok....
So in your view is it fair and right to charge one gender one price and another gender a different price to go to the same social ?
No-one is acting like "Swinging Police" at all......We are asking a question......
And while we're here....There are other socials organised here where an entrance fee is charged yet the overheads are virtually zero.......
Surely the "Swinging Police" would have something to say about those if they were here dunno
A question was asked (and as yet has not been answered unless I missed it).....
The social will go ahead and everyone will have a great time ,of that I'm sure , and I hope there is surplus in the kitty so a charity can benefit as well....
Are you insinuating that there might be sexism in the world of swinging ;)
Hi,
I would not take things too personally. People will always moan what every it is. As long as you are able to make more people happy than you do sad then you must be doing something right.
You might feel that sometimes there are swinging police. People that have such strong views on the scene that they try and stop anyone doing anything that they feel does not match there views. Be assured though, that even though there are these sort of people about, their oppion has the same weight as everyone else.
Not that I know about such stuff .. rolleyes hehe
But I have heard of a couple of sites.. lol

Well my faith in the british has been restored. We still seem to be a nation of tea drinkers smile
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stressed :twisted:

Poor you sad Anything we can do to help you relieve some stress lol ?
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If I want to label myself as a "swinger"... then I will...
If I don't want to label myself as a "swinger"... then I won't...
I get to decide what I label myself as... no one else
heck... I can label myself as a "professional stunt idiot" if I want....but again that is MY decision.... no one elses.....

But you can not do that .. It is for other people to label you .. You can not label yourself a doctor and walking to to hospital calling yourself a doctor.
Labels are there to indentify people as different things. When you walk into a shop, you expect all the cans to have labels on.. ?
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This question always annoys me when it comes up.....
Who has the right to "label" anyone as anything... for a community that is supposed to be open-minded, there are a lot people who don't display it....
I'll come back later when i have calmed down a little....

Everything has to have a label, that is how things are indentified and seperated for one another.
You label someone as a nurse, as they are a nurse. You label a doctor as a doctor.
The label swinger is the same, it does have a meaning .. When someone states that they are a swinger you understand what they do. Instead of being angry because of the label being used, you maybe should understand what the label is.
In general the term swinger means
A person who has sexual encounters with numerous people who they are not dating and do not intend to date.
So using that term then a single male, single female or couple can be label a swinger
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How do you get into it? I saw it on the first screen when I logged on - now I have no way to get back to it. Can't see it when I close SH and reopen it. Have I lost my only chance to get into it?

Can you not logout and then back in again .. ?
If not then it must store your choice somewhere, so either on there site or in your local cookie.
Logging out did it - how wierd. You'd think it would be on the screen somewhere.
Glad to be of some help smile and I do agree would be nice to have a toogle option, so you can go to old or new site..
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How do you get into it? I saw it on the first screen when I logged on - now I have no way to get back to it. Can't see it when I close SH and reopen it. Have I lost my only chance to get into it?

Can you not logout and then back in again .. ?
If not then it must store your choice somewhere, so either on there site or in your local cookie.
!!! I really hate the ad searching !!!
I find it almost unusable ...
I would like to do something like look for ads from woman or couples, looking for single males or groups with 35 miles of my location. Was so easy to do on the old system .
Very very very frustrated!!
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^This^. The site seems to assume you're running a 1024x768 display, which means I have massive blue and grey borders either side of the 'actual' page, and the actual content within forum posts takes up less than half my screen width and looks completely lost? confused
Is there / will there be a tweak for this to tell the site to use all available screen width?
Neil x x x ;)

Good point Neil......It all looks a little lost on my monitor as well....
I am assuming you are using wide screen monitors?