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Longleat put on 'dogging map'
Officials at Lord Bath's Longleat residence in Wiltshire, want police to take action over 'dogging' sessions which occur in the grounds.
The sprawling estate, which attracts thousands of genuine tourists each year, is being advertised on a website as a venue for couples to have sex in cars while others watch.
Sky News Online says former footballer Stan Collymore put "dogging" in the headlines after he was caught at a session.
The website lures people to drive to scenic locations where people in cars begin having sex while spectators crowd around.
One Longleat aide told the Western Daily Press: "We are concerned to hear of this and will not tolerate it. It is now in the hands of the police."
Managers of the dogging site have pulled Longleat from its list of hotspots.
Passionate reunion sparks police alert
Police were called to the home of a German couple enjoying a passionate reunion after neighbours complained about the noise.
Police in Essen received a call around midnight from neighbours who thought a television had been left on at full volume.
A crowd of people had gathered outside the house in which they believed somebody was watching a porn film.
When police arrived, they went straight to the house the noise was coming from and rang the door bell.
"There was no film, the TV was off. It was a live performance," the police report states.
The embarassed couple, who hadn't seen each other for a long time, promised to shut the window and continue what they were doing more quietly.
Quote by WibblyWobbly
Ask your friend what he feels when he looks deep into his girlfriends eyes... Has he or does he ever feel his insides melting? If he has never felt that for her then he should do both him and her a favour and and move on because he will be ultimately blighting her life too. She'll thank him in years to come when she has found her true love. Deep down she'll know that something is wrong from observing other couples and comparing relationships and she will feel a failure... When you have a relationship where everything is reciprocated 100% it is everything... believe me... and thank goodness it found me!
Thanks WW, for taking the time to write this.
I think you're dead right, and I think that whilst as a couple they have a lot going for them, without that "X" factor it'll never be what it should be...
I wonder how many other people are in similar relationships? I know of several I can think of where the the relationship seems based more on compatibility than real deep down love, at least in the case of one of the couple...
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Am the same more I gte more I want and its still never enough no matter how bloody great it is all I need is a few hours recuperation then Im off again any more than 7 days and im starting to go mental and get really crabbit.
7 days?! Jees, 7 hours and im climbing the walls at the moment!! Definately a bit of a drug for me!
Its all right for you lot - you have men on tap at home ---- I dont - I have to trawl the streets / car parks of the northwest for them to satisfy my desires
Mel, with breasts like that surely all you have to do is whistle and they come running, I know I would if I was more local to you!!!
I find it interesting that in books or films whenever for example someone has a new girlfriend the approving comments from family, friends or whatever are always "wow, she's really beautiful", never, "wow she's really smart" or "wow she's really caring".
Appreciate this is the movies but it does seem that physical attraction plays a bigger part in relationships, love etc than perhaps we care to admit?
I've talked before about my desire for fuller figure women, and I have to say that no matter how great a girl was, I really don't believe I could truely fall for a slim woman. It has less to do with how "pretty" they are, and more to do with "my type", and in women my "type" is big and curvy!
I once went out with an older lady who was a great person but if I'm honest not especially pretty at all. But she just had a body that so did it for me, all voluptuous curves and hips and thighs and breasts. I couldn't keep my hands off her! But I've been out with more conventionally "pretty" girls that just leave me a bit cold...
Maybe this whole "type" thing has more importance than we admit to.
And maybe it extends further than just "the look". Maybe for instance there is a smell compatibility thing that we're not even conciously aware of?
Appreciate this is the movies but it does seem that physical attraction plays a bigger part in relationships, love etc than perhaps we care to admit?
I've talked before about my desire for fuller figure women, and I have to say that no matter how great a girl was, I really don't believe I could truely fall for a slim woman. It has less to do with how "pretty" they are, and more to do with "my type", and in women my "type" is big and curvy!
I once went out with an older lady who was a great person but if I'm honest not especially pretty at all. But she just had a body that so did it for me, all voluptuous curves and hips and thighs and breasts. I couldn't keep my hands off her! But I've been out with more conventionally "pretty" girls that just leave me a bit cold...
Maybe this whole "type" thing has more importance than we admit to.
And maybe it extends further than just "the look". Maybe for instance there is a smell compatibility thing that we're not even conciously aware of?
Interested in your thoughts, comments on this one.
A friend of mine has always gone out with slim "model type" women, and frankly not had much luck with them (an understatement to be honest!!)
About a year ago he met a very nice girl who he gets on well with, she's got a good sense of humour, clearly worships the ground he walks on (strangely), is independant, successful, charasmatic, pretty, all the things he's always wanted.
But he's into thin women and she's not. If he's being honest with me he'll admit that she has (in his eyes, can't see it myself) quite a large bottom and thick thighs.
Now he'll be the first to admit that to criticise her for these things given all her good points is pretty damn shallow, and to be fair he doesn't, he accepts that she's not perfect as indeed he isn't, and as I say he's been seeing her for a year, still is.
But I sense, I know in fact that whilst he's very fond of her, cares deeply about her, loves her in fact, he's not really in love with her, do you know what I mean?
So how important is looks to true love? Are (some of, most of?) us men just really really shallow? As a woman, could you fall in love with a man you didn't really fancy (not necessarily ugly, just not your type)?
It strikes me that whenever the subject of intense love crops up, looks is always not far behind. Do you believe in love at first sight? I didn't until I saw someone one day and fell instantly in love. I never spoke to her and I didn't see her for a year but never stopped thinking about her. A year later I saw her again at the same annual event and this time spoke to her. We met up afterwards and almost immediately struck up a full passionate and intense love affair which very sadly ended because despite her many good points and her undoubted beauty in my eyes, she was uncontrollably neurotic and jealous and I couldn't stand or live with the constant accusations, tears and recrimminations from someone I loved so much for no reason. But that "love at first sight" thing, that was, must have been, based just purely on her appearance, right? So does that make me very shallow, or is phsical attraction the most (or one of the most) important ingredience of true love?
And my friend, should he stay with this woman that he gets on so well with, or should the fact that she (rightly or wrongly) isn't his type physically mean that despite how well they get on he really ought to be looking for someone who "really does it for him"?
I think he's having half a relationship. He's got all the true friendship stuff and couple stuff going on, but he's not in love. Is he just a shallow man or is this normal and should he find someone he can be in love with even if that person isn't as "nice" as his current lady?
How much does looks matter in the serious business of being seriously in love?
A friend of mine has always gone out with slim "model type" women, and frankly not had much luck with them (an understatement to be honest!!)
About a year ago he met a very nice girl who he gets on well with, she's got a good sense of humour, clearly worships the ground he walks on (strangely), is independant, successful, charasmatic, pretty, all the things he's always wanted.
But he's into thin women and she's not. If he's being honest with me he'll admit that she has (in his eyes, can't see it myself) quite a large bottom and thick thighs.
Now he'll be the first to admit that to criticise her for these things given all her good points is pretty damn shallow, and to be fair he doesn't, he accepts that she's not perfect as indeed he isn't, and as I say he's been seeing her for a year, still is.
But I sense, I know in fact that whilst he's very fond of her, cares deeply about her, loves her in fact, he's not really in love with her, do you know what I mean?
So how important is looks to true love? Are (some of, most of?) us men just really really shallow? As a woman, could you fall in love with a man you didn't really fancy (not necessarily ugly, just not your type)?
It strikes me that whenever the subject of intense love crops up, looks is always not far behind. Do you believe in love at first sight? I didn't until I saw someone one day and fell instantly in love. I never spoke to her and I didn't see her for a year but never stopped thinking about her. A year later I saw her again at the same annual event and this time spoke to her. We met up afterwards and almost immediately struck up a full passionate and intense love affair which very sadly ended because despite her many good points and her undoubted beauty in my eyes, she was uncontrollably neurotic and jealous and I couldn't stand or live with the constant accusations, tears and recrimminations from someone I loved so much for no reason. But that "love at first sight" thing, that was, must have been, based just purely on her appearance, right? So does that make me very shallow, or is phsical attraction the most (or one of the most) important ingredience of true love?
And my friend, should he stay with this woman that he gets on so well with, or should the fact that she (rightly or wrongly) isn't his type physically mean that despite how well they get on he really ought to be looking for someone who "really does it for him"?
I think he's having half a relationship. He's got all the true friendship stuff and couple stuff going on, but he's not in love. Is he just a shallow man or is this normal and should he find someone he can be in love with even if that person isn't as "nice" as his current lady?
How much does looks matter in the serious business of being seriously in love?
Someone I know whenever she gets cold called always says "ooohh how lovely, we were only talking about double glazing (or whatever it is that they're trying to sell) the other day, hang on, I'll go and fetch my husband, he's in the garden"
Then she just puts the phone down on the side and leaves them there waiting. They're usually so amazed to finally find someone who appears to be interested in talking to them that they'll wait for ages sometimes!
If only everyone would do this then niusance cold sales calls would stop as it would become impossible to actually operate a cold calling scheme efficiently with all the operators sat patiently waiting for "the husband to come in from the garden".
Then she just puts the phone down on the side and leaves them there waiting. They're usually so amazed to finally find someone who appears to be interested in talking to them that they'll wait for ages sometimes!
If only everyone would do this then niusance cold sales calls would stop as it would become impossible to actually operate a cold calling scheme efficiently with all the operators sat patiently waiting for "the husband to come in from the garden".
Well I personally am absolutely appalled at Judy's decision!! :jagsatwork:
A Ford Focus for goodness sake? Have you seen the depreciation!! :haha: :haha: :haha:
Oh I'm sorry, but it made me chuckle.
Judy, only you know exactly what was said, I think gut instinct has as much to do with this as actual rules, sounds a little to me like you already had alarm bells ringing softly...
Always go with your instincts, I suspect if you'd felt happier about things then you would have been more inclined to gently bend your rules.
Also think a "person to person" mobile phone chat is probably as good a way of finding out as much as possible with as little risk as possible personally.
Good luck with it all anyway, if it was meant to be then it still will be. :thumbup:
A Ford Focus for goodness sake? Have you seen the depreciation!! :haha: :haha: :haha:
Oh I'm sorry, but it made me chuckle.
Judy, only you know exactly what was said, I think gut instinct has as much to do with this as actual rules, sounds a little to me like you already had alarm bells ringing softly...
Always go with your instincts, I suspect if you'd felt happier about things then you would have been more inclined to gently bend your rules.
Also think a "person to person" mobile phone chat is probably as good a way of finding out as much as possible with as little risk as possible personally.
Good luck with it all anyway, if it was meant to be then it still will be. :thumbup: