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Cheetah
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 64
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Sexlightened
It was in some changing rooms and Sophie asked me for my opinion - well she looked really hot and I could not resist so dropped my pants and we were into having doggy when the assistant opened the curtain - she smiled and stood, hard nipples poking through her blouse whilst we finished.....
Sexlightened
Sophie is Bi curious, Blond,Gorgeous, 43 and size 18 with great tits. I am a straight guy of 47 with an average build. We are looking mostly for a woman for Sophie and that will be the main event however we want to widen that into a threesome and enjoys all that can offer.
We are both intelligent and professionals who enjoy good chats and fun as well as great sex. We need and give total discretion at all times.
If you may ne interesyed an have compatible desires please conatc us, Thanks, Ben
We are both intelligent and professionals who enjoy good chats and fun as well as great sex. We need and give total discretion at all times.
If you may ne interesyed an have compatible desires please conatc us, Thanks, Ben
Sexlightened
We are looking for a woman who enjoys women as much as men and would like to join us for a threesome and all the permutations and fun that can offer. My girlfriend is a very attractive blond 43 years young sex goddess with 38E breasts and I am an above average in many ways horny guy. We both have high sex drives and believe that life is for living to the full and both would like to share some fun with a sexy woman who is up for exploring all that threesomes have to offer to all involved. We both like intelligent and fun chats as well as great nsa discreet sexy fun. We are not interested in single guys or other couples. Saturday 14th April at Cupids would be good for us or elsewhere and/or other days. We can travel and have our own accomdation. If you may be interested let us know for more, Ben
Sexlightened
I still use Cheetah as my nickname from my days towards the end of my last relationship but I am now very single, have my own place and happy about it! I am 46 and have the expereince that the years have fortunately brought me but the passion and energy of someone younger. My profile gives you a photo but I will give more if you are also genuine and reply. I like great sex but also the intimacy that goes with it - I am not looking for a quick one off and would like something better. I am looking for a woman who enjoys chats, likes going to the theatre, may be artistic, will like a good read as well as a good fuck - Am I being too ambitious? who cares? I have met some great woman in my time and savour quality when it comes. I am not looking for anything serious just great fun - the best two people can enjoy if both are interested. Look forward to a reply if you may be interested, Ben
Sexlightened
Cheetah is now single and has his own lair. Would like to entice a female who naturally likes great sex but I really get off with women who are independent, are intelligent and enjoy stimulating the mind as well as the obvious. Cheetahs have great appetites but wait for the right moment until they satiate themselves. If you have caught my scent and want to know more follow the trail.....................Ben
Sexlightened
Hi, I am an intelligent guy who likes to get to know a woman, some drinks, perhaps a meal, good conversation, laughs and fun. Go dancing , theatre, cinema, whatever you fancy. I'm not a wham bang thank you mam sort of guy. I like the full performance not just a quickie which has its place of course at times because I do enjoy sex, well actually more than a bit. I have this 7 inch thick cock which keeps making these appeals to me and just stands to attention in that really hard way that cocks do. He is not satisfied with a single outing either he likes to go again and again trying to find that time when he feels totally satiated. I remind him he there for my benefit as well and of course that we give full consideration first to the lady we meet. I have this fight with his carnal side as I find that developing the chemistry allows everyone to have a much better time. I sometimes go to Cupids but as I dont have accom its either a hotel or round to yours. I have met some wonderful ladies before and if you were one of them or if we have never met please contact me. Ben x
Sexlightened
I will be in Devon from Sunday 11th June staying near Okehampton. I will have my evenings free if there are any women in that area who could find an opening for me to fill to their satisfaction. They say us northern lads are better than average in so many ways but why not find out - its all true! I like fun and laughs - enjoying everything else as well as a really good shag or 2, 3 and so on. Also if anyone knows where swingers hang out down there please let me know. Thanks, Ben
Sexlightened
Hi, I am Ben who normally lives in the Preston area. From Sunday 11th June for a week I will be working in the Devon and Dartmoor area and will have my evenings free. I know the chances of finding a woman who wants some no strings fun is probably not good but if you don't ask you never find out! I have a high sex drive and enjoy laughs, fun and sharing good sex so staying in a hotel on my own and just going to local pubs will not be as much fun as if someone replies to this! If you may be interested in a single straight guy of 46 for a weeek of passion then contact me for more information. Thanks
Sexlightened
I live in Preston but will be in the Dartmoor and Devon area from Sunday 11th June for a week. Can anyone suggest any clubs etc in that area? I will be free from late Sunday afternoon and every evening and would like to find local contacts etc. I don't know the area and would welcome any suggestions from people living in that area of any good places where a single straight guy can go to liven up his stay. Thanks, Ben
Sexlightened
I am a genuine straight decent guy who likes to enjoy female company and have fun, laughs, some interesting chats, develop the chemistry, the sexual tension then back to yours for that cup of coffee or take a bottle of wine to bed as we ride the passions of really getting to know each other in a deeper and more satisfying way. I like to talk but actions can say a lot more particularly when you are like me above average in so many ways. Any ladies available in Lancashire / Manchester/ Cheshire tonight who want to act like real women later? Ben
Sexlightened
I think its a great place - the staff are really good - like all places it depends who else turns up - Ben
Quote by dianedave
Hi folks,
just wondering as we go regularly to Cupids, Is this place frowned upon?
a) It's been removed from the Clubs and Parties index
b) Any posts we've put in the "let's meet" section have recieved few replies
c) The last post we recieved slagged it off to high heaven
Sexlightened
Hey, If you are one of those elusive Lancashire / North West intelligent women who is looking for a more expereinced mature guy who likes smart women then " Hello"
and please read on........
I am 46 and whilst I have gained a lot of expereince of life I have have not lost my youthful zest for life and still feel in my prime!
I enjoy all sorts of music, theatre, cinema, the arts , lively conversations and feel that boring is something other people must do.
I am above average in many ways and really enjoy sex when the chemistry works.
I give a good massage as well and have my own essentail oils!
I like a good laugh, lots of fun and enjoying life - its too short if you don't
Thanks for reading this - but will you reply? Ben
and please read on........
I am 46 and whilst I have gained a lot of expereince of life I have have not lost my youthful zest for life and still feel in my prime!
I enjoy all sorts of music, theatre, cinema, the arts , lively conversations and feel that boring is something other people must do.
I am above average in many ways and really enjoy sex when the chemistry works.
I give a good massage as well and have my own essentail oils!
I like a good laugh, lots of fun and enjoying life - its too short if you don't
Thanks for reading this - but will you reply? Ben
Sexlightened
>
>>> A woman sitting in an restaurant suddenly began to cough.
>>
>>>
>>> After a few seconds it became apparent that she was in real distress,
>>> and two locals, Licker and Looker, sitting at the next table turned to
>> look at her.
>>>
>>> Do you swallow? asked Looker
>>>
>>> The woman signalled 'No!', desperately shaking her head.
>>>
>>> Can you breathe ok " asked Licker. The woman shook her head No!!!
>>>
>>> With that, Licker walked behind her, lifted up the back of her dress,
>>> yanked down her knickers and ran his tongue up and down the crack of
>> her arse.
>>>
>>> This shocked the woman into such a violent spasm that the obstruction
>>> flew out of her mouth and she began to breathe again.
>>>
>>> Liicker swaggered back to his table and took a deep swig of his beer.
>>>
>>> Looker said in admiration "You know what Licker, I'd heard of that bloody
>>> Hind Lick Manoeuvre, but that's the first time I ever seen somebody do
>> it!
>
>>> A woman sitting in an restaurant suddenly began to cough.
>>
>>>
>>> After a few seconds it became apparent that she was in real distress,
>>> and two locals, Licker and Looker, sitting at the next table turned to
>> look at her.
>>>
>>> Do you swallow? asked Looker
>>>
>>> The woman signalled 'No!', desperately shaking her head.
>>>
>>> Can you breathe ok " asked Licker. The woman shook her head No!!!
>>>
>>> With that, Licker walked behind her, lifted up the back of her dress,
>>> yanked down her knickers and ran his tongue up and down the crack of
>> her arse.
>>>
>>> This shocked the woman into such a violent spasm that the obstruction
>>> flew out of her mouth and she began to breathe again.
>>>
>>> Liicker swaggered back to his table and took a deep swig of his beer.
>>>
>>> Looker said in admiration "You know what Licker, I'd heard of that bloody
>>> Hind Lick Manoeuvre, but that's the first time I ever seen somebody do
>> it!
>
Sexlightened
Its complex and multidimensional. For me its about a mix of intelligence, personality, attractivenes, sexinesss and that unquantifiable element of I dont know why but this person make me feel as horney as hell. I like it when the full orchestra is playing and you forgey all the elements as they merge in surround sound! But some duets and other combinations just work. But then its the variations that add zest isnt it. Those people we dont normally get on with but the sexual relationship is out of the world - wonderful surprises. Not forgetting the fun and laughs - the social lubricant both before, after and sometimes between.
But then in the real world its - I fancy her/him - its intuitive - its chemistry and if the dice has rolled well this time all the other factors are there.
Ben
But then in the real world its - I fancy her/him - its intuitive - its chemistry and if the dice has rolled well this time all the other factors are there.
Ben
Quote by Andromeda
Always an interesting one for me, and I'm sure the most obvious respose is "both"... that said. which do you go for???? brains or beauty??? ..... if you really cant have both.. just for the sake of this thread, which would do it for you?
Sexlightened
I have had a Ipaq PDA for a few years and about 9 months ago installed Tom Tom Sat Nav working with a bluetooth GPS receiver from Ebay at about £50. - fantastic and has that 'how did I manage without it feelings'. I travel a lot with work as well as socailly and it is great going to new places. But another surprise is about better local routes I had not though about before Sat Nav.
I use my PDA all the time. Word/Powerpoint/Excel for work. Pocket Media Player. Music player. Links to my PC. So many uses.
You can of course buy the whole lot from Ebay and it works out well.
You can obtain new voices for Sat Nav - Mine is John Cleese at present but I have a choice of over a dozen new ones.
Speed cameras - some sites provide both the fixed one and ones that identify all the usual mobile ones as well.
Car thieves are targetting Sat Nav big time - so you need not only to remove the gadget that fixes to your windscreen when you leave the car but also wipe the glass afterwards as well as the sods look for tell tale sucker marks. This is a drag and causes me to only set it up on unfamiliar routes.
I like gadgets/ IT/ techincal stuff anyway but mine is a good combination. Ben
That reminds of another one of my purchases that I get hours of fun from !
:D :twisted: :twisted:
I use my PDA all the time. Word/Powerpoint/Excel for work. Pocket Media Player. Music player. Links to my PC. So many uses.
You can of course buy the whole lot from Ebay and it works out well.
You can obtain new voices for Sat Nav - Mine is John Cleese at present but I have a choice of over a dozen new ones.
Speed cameras - some sites provide both the fixed one and ones that identify all the usual mobile ones as well.
Car thieves are targetting Sat Nav big time - so you need not only to remove the gadget that fixes to your windscreen when you leave the car but also wipe the glass afterwards as well as the sods look for tell tale sucker marks. This is a drag and causes me to only set it up on unfamiliar routes.
I like gadgets/ IT/ techincal stuff anyway but mine is a good combination. Ben
Quote by Velvet Lips
Batteries aren't that expensive are they?
H.x
That reminds of another one of my purchases that I get hours of fun from !
:D :twisted: :twisted:
Sexlightened
I have had a Ipaq PDA for a few years and about 9 months ago installed Tom Tom Sat Nav working with a bluetooth GPS receiver from Ebay at about £50. - fantastic and has that 'how did I manage without it feelings'. I travel a lot with work as well as socailly and it is great going to new places. But another surprise is about better local routes I had not though about before Sat Nav.
I use my PDA all the time. Word/Powerpoint/Excel for work. Pocket Media Player. Music player. Links to my PC. So many uses.
You can of course buy the whole lot from Ebay and it works out well.
You can obtain new voices for Sat Nav - Mine is John Cleese at present but I have a choice of over a dozen new ones.
Speed cameras - some sites provide both the fixed one and ones that identify all the usual mobile ones as well.
Car thieves are targetting Sat Nav big time - so you need not only to remove the gadget that fixes to your windscreen when you leave the car but also wipe the glass afterwards as well as the sods look for tell tale sucker marks. This is a drag and causes me to only set it up on unfamiliar routes.
I like gadgets/ IT/ techincal stuff anyway but mine is a good combination. Ben
That reminds of another one of my purchases that I get hours of fun from ! :D :twisted: :twisted:
I use my PDA all the time. Word/Powerpoint/Excel for work. Pocket Media Player. Music player. Links to my PC. So many uses.
You can of course buy the whole lot from Ebay and it works out well.
You can obtain new voices for Sat Nav - Mine is John Cleese at present but I have a choice of over a dozen new ones.
Speed cameras - some sites provide both the fixed one and ones that identify all the usual mobile ones as well.
Car thieves are targetting Sat Nav big time - so you need not only to remove the gadget that fixes to your windscreen when you leave the car but also wipe the glass afterwards as well as the sods look for tell tale sucker marks. This is a drag and causes me to only set it up on unfamiliar routes.
I like gadgets/ IT/ techincal stuff anyway but mine is a good combination. Ben
Quote by Velvet Lips
Batteries aren't that expensive are they?
H.x
That reminds of another one of my purchases that I get hours of fun from !
:D :twisted: :twisted:
Sexlightened
I am looking for a woman who enjoys fun , laughs, lively discussion and chats. A woman who can appreciate a no strings sort of friendship where we get on personally and the chemistry begings to work for both. Of course I like great sex and nothing gives more pleasure than when it happens but for me it works best when we are both firing on all cylinders and the intercourse is on so many levels. Not interested in a wham bam thank you mam - I like the extra and like giving the extra that makes it all so much better.
So if you are a sexy woman who like a man with brains as well as balls contact me for this week-end or perhaps another day?
So if you are a sexy woman who like a man with brains as well as balls contact me for this week-end or perhaps another day?
Sexlightened
Jags, The collective feel from the posts is that you have got what it takes - but its a Wizard of Oz thing - you just need the confidence to realise it - the SH badge of horniness.
The words will come easy - ist the looks - we all know ' that look' between 2 people that says I am just testing / flirting or Im interested.... the words just test the sitaution out - just go with your feelings.
The weird bit is how many people want that little extra in life but dont let it show. Ben x
I think I love you!! Butterfly kisses are fantastic.. how about nibbles on the inner thigh??
You are certainly the best at deep snogging. Those lips of yours on mine are simply divine, especially with a hint of Merlot around the edges.
My cleavage is still holding the GFZ remote control. Sarge never retrieved it. Fred got lost in the depths and KitKat gave up the fight!
:passionkiss: :passionkiss:
The words will come easy - ist the looks - we all know ' that look' between 2 people that says I am just testing / flirting or Im interested.... the words just test the sitaution out - just go with your feelings.
The weird bit is how many people want that little extra in life but dont let it show. Ben x
Quote by Jags
Mmmmm, a dark corner with Jags? Oh, yes please
assionkiss:
Plenty of good, deep snogging, then allowing one's lips to trace a line down the side of the neck and along the collar bone, before descending - ever so slowly - towards the cleavage, with a mixture of butterfly kisses and a tantalising tongue.......................
I think I love you!! Butterfly kisses are fantastic.. how about nibbles on the inner thigh??
You are certainly the best at deep snogging. Those lips of yours on mine are simply divine, especially with a hint of Merlot around the edges.
My cleavage is still holding the GFZ remote control. Sarge never retrieved it. Fred got lost in the depths and KitKat gave up the fight!
:passionkiss: :passionkiss:
Sexlightened
Jags, The collective feel from the posts is that you have got what it takes - but its a Wizard of Oz thing - you just need the confidence to realise it - the SH badge of horniness.
The words will come easy - ist the looks - we all know ' that look' between 2 people that says I am just testing / flirting or Im interested.... the words just test the sitaution out - just go with your feelings.
The weird bit is how many people want that little extra in life but dont let it show. Ben x
I think I love you!! Butterfly kisses are fantastic.. how about nibbles on the inner thigh??
You are certainly the best at deep snogging. Those lips of yours on mine are simply divine, especially with a hint of Merlot around the edges.
My cleavage is still holding the GFZ remote control. Sarge never retrieved it. Fred got lost in the depths and KitKat gave up the fight!
:passionkiss: :passionkiss:
The words will come easy - ist the looks - we all know ' that look' between 2 people that says I am just testing / flirting or Im interested.... the words just test the sitaution out - just go with your feelings.
The weird bit is how many people want that little extra in life but dont let it show. Ben x
Quote by Jags
Mmmmm, a dark corner with Jags? Oh, yes please
Plenty of good, deep snogging, then allowing one's lips to trace a line down the side of the neck and along the collar bone, before descending - ever so slowly - towards the cleavage, with a mixture of butterfly kisses and a tantalising tongue.......................
I think I love you!! Butterfly kisses are fantastic.. how about nibbles on the inner thigh??
You are certainly the best at deep snogging. Those lips of yours on mine are simply divine, especially with a hint of Merlot around the edges.
My cleavage is still holding the GFZ remote control. Sarge never retrieved it. Fred got lost in the depths and KitKat gave up the fight!
:passionkiss: :passionkiss:
Sexlightened
In the real world men and women stray if they live with someone from time to time. Some are lucky and find the right person -eventually. But I have a partner with a low sex drive and I have met enough women to know that it's the same for both men and women. Then there are those people who just like a shag with someoene else - for fun, the excitement. I am an intelligent and creative guy who likes to chat and have some laughs as well . No doubt some sad people will make all the usual boring comments. But I know women rarely want to speak up and I respect that. But if you are a real woman who may enjoy some discrete daytime meets with a sensual guy then please be assured I am 100% discrete as all the women I have met wont say but will appreciate! Contact me if you are tempted! Ben xx
Sexlightened
I am in a relationship and I have a much higher sex drive and enjoy sex much more than she does nowadays. I know there are women who are in similar situations with partners with a lower sex drive. I also know from expereince that some single women like a guy in my situation because we are not going to get attached etc. Cheating happens and whilst it is not openly discussed it happens and I have had some great meets! I am 46 years young and have lots to offer as as well as fun and laughs. I am looking for some some discrete daytime nsa meets in the North West. My advert number is 345821. Thanks, Ben
Sexlightened
What a waste - strip and shag would beat doing the wallpaper anyday!
Quote by babe and him
In the last few weeks babe has been practising her stripping and very good she is at it. A slow sensual strip, an erotic pout or two of her hips, a glimpse of boob as her hands slide up and down swaying to the movement of her body,
Sorry getting carryed away with the thought of babe stripping, right back to the subject of stripping.
I have been giving babe every encouragement to pratice her stripping, but not sure if i am getting the right message across to her.
First off we brought a steam wallpaper stripper, and you should have seen babe strip those walls the movement and the energy she put into her stripping was something to behold she just got the walls so wet and glided the scraper over them to lift the wallpaper off, even the woodchip did not slow her.
Then she asked what she could strip next.
So i passed her the hotair gun and got her to work on the woodwork, well the heat was just to much, for both of us, so went out and brought 30lts of paint stripper, the way she went up those stairs and round the landing to the bedroom was a sight to behold, erotic movement would have not stood a chance .
Even then she had not had enough of stripping she was back with what can i strip now.
so she started stripping plaster off the walls .
I wonder if i am giving her the right encouragement in the art of stripping as i had a different sort in mind.
B n H
Sexlightened
What a waste - strip and shag would beat doing the wallpaper anyday!
Quote by babe and him
In the last few weeks babe has been practising her stripping and very good she is at it. A slow sensual strip, an erotic pout or two of her hips, a glimpse of boob as her hands slide up and down swaying to the movement of her body,
Sorry getting carryed away with the thought of babe stripping, right back to the subject of stripping.
I have been giving babe every encouragement to pratice her stripping, but not sure if i am getting the right message across to her.
First off we brought a steam wallpaper stripper, and you should have seen babe strip those walls the movement and the energy she put into her stripping was something to behold she just got the walls so wet and glided the scraper over them to lift the wallpaper off, even the woodchip did not slow her.
Then she asked what she could strip next.
So i passed her the hotair gun and got her to work on the woodwork, well the heat was just to much, for both of us, so went out and brought 30lts of paint stripper, the way she went up those stairs and round the landing to the bedroom was a sight to behold, erotic movement would have not stood a chance .
Even then she had not had enough of stripping she was back with what can i strip now.
so she started stripping plaster off the walls .
I wonder if i am giving her the right encouragement in the art of stripping as i had a different sort in mind.
B n H
Sexlightened
I like sex more than the next man ( if he's a horny one ) and ideally would like to meet a woman with similar interest and needs - who wouldn't! Have not been disapointed with any of the contacts I have made. Well apart from that woman from Warrington with three breasts and a somewhat liively old goat called Archibold but lets forget her. I have an above average sex drive and like meeting people and having fun and a few laughs.
I am 46 and looking for discrete daytime meets for nsa fun. I have a partner and dont want to leave her. Her sex drive has become very low and despite whatever I do I doubt if that will change for some time if at all. Ideally I would like to meet a woman who likes interesting and stimulating chats / experiences as well as really good sex. I like reading, writing, art , theatre, cinema and all sorts of music. I live in Preston and come from Manchester and would like to meet a woman living in the North West.. Ben
I am 46 and looking for discrete daytime meets for nsa fun. I have a partner and dont want to leave her. Her sex drive has become very low and despite whatever I do I doubt if that will change for some time if at all. Ideally I would like to meet a woman who likes interesting and stimulating chats / experiences as well as really good sex. I like reading, writing, art , theatre, cinema and all sorts of music. I live in Preston and come from Manchester and would like to meet a woman living in the North West.. Ben
Sexlightened
Macman, Every so often someone raises this theme and all the predictable lets have a go at cheaters responses are given an airing yet again. Take no notice as what you have is biased responses from a very small minority. Both men and women cheat on their partners and most are not open about it even on this site. Even fewer admit to it. On this site it is some guys who will post about it but natualy women don't. It is common to find couples where one of them has a lower sex drive than the other. I don't think your situation is unique. It is sad that people on this site cannot be open about certain matters without receiving biased, rude and intollerant responses. Very few swingers will tell friends, family and people they work with that they are swingers because of the predictable responses they will receive. Sadly the same is the case for men and women who cheat on their partners on this site. I was naive at first and expected better when I started using the site. Now the good news! In the past I received lots of support and pms which indicates that whilst most people accept it goes on but no one wants to talk about it openly on this site. I treat you with respect and would expect that you will have tried to improve your sex life with your partner but with limited success. You wanted to share this on this site in an open and genuine way still hoping to find ways but sharing your emotional as well sexual frustration with others in a similar situatiom. It wont happen here! I have made some great contacts and also chatted to a number of people by being on this site. It takles place however outside the forum - emails, pms, phone calls etc.
Take care and don't give up hope, Cheetah
Take care and don't give up hope, Cheetah
