I totally agree with the good lady above and sorry to reiterate the point but the link below should take you to a thread over in the Let's meet up forum which is intended to give us blokes some help and advice when posting on this site and also how to improve our chances.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html
Anyway have fun and all the best :thumbup:
Hi da69ve I've already pointed him the direction of the post that's ohhh all of 6 posts below this one.
I'm starting to think that all blokes need to sit a complusory theory test before they're allowed to go anywhere near placing a post on SH.
Remarkable it really is, not just this Michael1807 but every other one that registers and posts within seconds and with their brains in their pants.
Hands up how many newbie blokes posting on this site would consider jumping off the high board at the local pool without first checking that the pool had been filled up? Anyone? None I bet.
So why so many of you insist on not looking around the forums first is just beyond my comprehension. It's obvious that there's either no thought process involved or it's just laziness on your behalf hence the vast number of "I wanna fuck today get in touch" posts.
So please take on board some of the advice available on this site before placing that first post. Make time to have a look around around the site and get yourselves known before making an arse of yourself posting stupid requests. You never know you may even find that the site will work for you. Oh and those that reply "well we all have to start somewhere" and "we're all new to this once" that's just an excuse for being lazy and not having looked around here before jumping in to post.
Guys just a thought but you have all noticed that this was posted over 2 months ago? They may not still be looking.
Hope for your sakes they are :thumbup:
Hi and welcome to the site you will find that you stand a slightly better chance of getting lucky by telling the other folks more about yourself and what you're looking for and perhaps by putting more details in your profile.
This site tends to work best by getting yourself known to the other users via the various forums, so take a look about and read some of the posts, there's some great ones offering advice to blokes looking for fun.
Hi I know you only registered today but have you had a serious look round this site?
The chances of you actually getting what you're looking for are very slim to say the least even more so since your ad tells the folks looking at it very little about yourself or your partner.
Sorry to shatter the illusion but this site isn't a "place a post and get a fuck" site, take a look around and you'll see that the successful ads are those that put some effort into their ads and get themselves known, over time, around the different forums.
Hi folks has no-one read the post from Serendipity or even this site's very own AUP rules?
Posting specific locations in an open forum is a BIG no no, if discussed via PM's then no problems carry on. I would imagine that the locations mentioned in these posts are now very likely to be full of boy racer and tossers looking either for some quick fun or worse still to do some damage to either property or persons likely to be there.
Think of your own safety please peeps before posting specific details for ALL to read.
The authors of the 2 posts may want to edit the details ASAP before the mods pick up on this breach.
Be safe :thumbup:
Excuse me guys but back down a minute I merely responded to a post from a newbie who was looking for this person. The only thing I did was to point out that they were unlikely to get a reply from the person in question as they were no longer a member of the site (at their request I might add).
This was following a thread over in the cafe forum last weekend where it appeared from Hayley's words that there had been some not 100% accurate postings.
At no point in my post did I ever mention that she was not a genuine dogger or swinger. If you can see that in my post then please show me, cause I can't!! Where on earth did I call her a dreamer?
I did suggest to the newbie & anyone else reading my previous post to carry out a search if more details were required and to understand Hayley's situation a bit more, so for the benefit of some folks here's the link to the thread that ultimately caused the request for de-activation:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopicpage/26887/40.html
Markymark it wasn't posted to mislead you but rather to provide you with an answer as to why you were unlikely to get an immediate reply that's all.
For what it's worth naughtynorwich & racer3 I actually think the shit she took in the thread above was way over the top, undeserving and un called for but maybe I shouldn't say that 'cause I've now been marked as one of her critics and judges without peeps even knowing me! Pot, Kettle, black anyone?
FFS there's far too many peeps on here that fail to read posts fully or they read into posts only what they want to read and not actually which has been posted.
From now on I'll do f**k all to help newbies on here if this is what happens, let them post away to their hearts content and wonder why there's no reply.
I just tell it as it is mate.
It's best you know now rather than keep posting and not get anywhere. There's been plenty of blokes posting along similar lines, not getting a reply and then slagging this site off because of it.
At least you know at the outset and have a chance to give it a chance to work for you, you may even want to add to your profile to let others know more about yourself.
Just some hints & tips for a newbie that's all. :thumbup:
I've not been about that much today so got some catching up to do and of course just couldn't resist this one 
May I respectfully point you in the direction of the post a few places below this that's offers men posting on SH some advice? :small-print:
hwoar: :lol: 
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, I know where you're coming from and that's why I try to drag us single blokes up and out of the gutter, god knows why though. 
Leave you to it. 
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