I took my instructors theory and practical and passed almost 3 yrs ago.
my instructor was an ex metropolitan police instructor and was a real bastard, and was the dead spit of charlie stubbs from corrie both in looks and attitude.
We actually started flirting till i remembered how much i was paying for his time and once i got serious, so did he and i passed. I didnt follow through with part 3 cos Steve had just gone to iraq and was killed. I went to pieces and couldnt handle the stress.
I dont think it matters if the instructor is male or female if they are professional, and if they arnt, report them to the DSA
Good luck Louise
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When i was a kid my brother used to go in my bedroom and im sure he nicked money so i used to keep £1 and £5 notes in a copy of the hobbit on my bookshelf
Years after i left home i found the book and when i opened it they fell out, by which time the £1 were obselete and the fivers were worth sod all
A scarey moment.....several yrs ago when life was good, i stashed a large collection of tax free £50 notes under the floor. One day while at work I heard on the news that today was the last day old fifties were legal tender. I was somewhere in deepest Devon and drove back to Hereford like a mad thing, ripped up the floor, dashed into town, parked on double yellows outside the bank at pm, ran in, threw them on the counter and said please change these for new ones, and the cashier said, they ARE the new ones
Years after i left home i found the book and when i opened it they fell out, by which time the £1 were obselete and the fivers were worth sod all
A scarey moment.....several yrs ago when life was good, i stashed a large collection of tax free £50 notes under the floor. One day while at work I heard on the news that today was the last day old fifties were legal tender. I was somewhere in deepest Devon and drove back to Hereford like a mad thing, ripped up the floor, dashed into town, parked on double yellows outside the bank at pm, ran in, threw them on the counter and said please change these for new ones, and the cashier said, they ARE the new ones
What have you lost and then had the good fortune to find again?
This could mean sanity but not virginity, although for those of us who are bi, we did have two bites of the preverbial CHERRY
I have a special gold ring which slipped off my finger due to cold weather and loosing weight. I was heartbroken for weeks and weeks, and then to my imense joy, as if by fate, I put my hand into a glove that i hardly ever use and it slipped back onto my finger. I knew what it was without even looking.
This could mean sanity but not virginity, although for those of us who are bi, we did have two bites of the preverbial CHERRY
I have a special gold ring which slipped off my finger due to cold weather and loosing weight. I was heartbroken for weeks and weeks, and then to my imense joy, as if by fate, I put my hand into a glove that i hardly ever use and it slipped back onto my finger. I knew what it was without even looking.
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Whilst I see the tenuous logical connection - you cannot connect the two. These guys are merely looking for attention and not paying heed to your desires.
As they are contacting you in an opening of dialogue, one you do not wish to have, why bother to go into it with them. Delete or ignore, they won't be offended and you can have a chuckle at their tiny cocks...
Amber.........just think on and apply this senario to your stalker problem, .......youve asked him to stop and he takes no notice and carries on regardless.
NO means NO
Have to agree with FB and sexkitten here
Its a swinging site and some males will send shots, yes it gets annoying at times, but to me purely because it says "no single males" and its usually the 'u cant refuse me types'.
If you browse the site for 5 mins you will find dozens of cock shots; be it profiles, the gallery, chatroom or mail. Sorry to say Gemini, but if you are so sensitive, maybe a site like this is not for you
D......as i said, im no prude, ive experienced a few cocks in my time, ive worked with men most of my life and know ALL there is to know and when im the only woman on a building site, i accept im the minority.
But, when i make a specific request on here, i dont think im being naieve or sensitive, so forget i ever said anything, my mistake.
Lock this thread please
Its a swinging site and some males will send shots, yes it gets annoying at times, but to me purely because it says "no single males" and its usually the 'u cant refuse me types'.
If you browse the site for 5 mins you will find dozens of cock shots; be it profiles, the gallery, chatroom or mail. Sorry to say Gemini, but if you are so sensitive, maybe a site like this is not for you
D......as i said, im no prude, ive experienced a few cocks in my time, ive worked with men most of my life and know ALL there is to know and when im the only woman on a building site, i accept im the minority.
But, when i make a specific request on here, i dont think im being naieve or sensitive, so forget i ever said anything, my mistake.
Lock this thread please
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Pity.
Anyway, after you've blocked single men, how are you going to block the single men whose profile says they're couples ?
Or the single men whose profile says they're gay ?
Or the single men whose profile says they're women ?
Or the single men whose profile says they've got 12 inches waiting to send you to heaven ?
Or the single men whose Jaguar is an escort ?
Oh, and it's not a nanny state if you don't want it to be.
The nanny state exists to give some something they wouldn't have otherwise, and to give others something to moan about. And as an excuse for many to moan that they could be king if it wasn't for the "nanny state".
Those that can, will.
Those that can't won't.
Those that can't be bothered, moan.
And dont you think this is why i didnt use my block/filter option in the first place?
If we all start that, where does it lead to?
As I said, I had hoped people would use their (un) common sense and know when NOT to reply to someone, cos the answer to that is in the initial statment........NO single men
Hi Dammie and ukwineman
thanks for reminding me of the block and filter option, i may well resort to it.
I detest tony blair and his nanny state, i prefer to let grown adults use thier discrettion and run their own lives and im insulted by laws and rules which belittle my intelligence and integrity, and i had hoped i wouldnt have to play nanny.
As you say, a few fools spoil things and give a majority a bad name. I hope im savvy enough to see who the fools are and still admire and respect the majority of decent guys. Im not a man hating lesbo activist
thanks for reminding me of the block and filter option, i may well resort to it.
I detest tony blair and his nanny state, i prefer to let grown adults use thier discrettion and run their own lives and im insulted by laws and rules which belittle my intelligence and integrity, and i had hoped i wouldnt have to play nanny.
As you say, a few fools spoil things and give a majority a bad name. I hope im savvy enough to see who the fools are and still admire and respect the majority of decent guys. Im not a man hating lesbo activist
Hi everyone
I have deliberately worded my profile/ad to specifically ask single men NOT to contact me.
Im sure many people will understand what im going to say next. I have received and keep receiving messages from single men.
I have to say, regretfully that at times i loose my temper and reply with a tirade of abuse. I know i should remain polite, but on the other hand, i DID point out my preference and anyone who disregards that request is then fair game for my wrath.
Why do men do this?
Do they think it doesnt apply to them as an individual?
Do they think i will find them irresistable, and make an exception?
Or do they have so little respect for women, they do as they please?
I have just logged on to find another message from a guy who quite frankly in the real world be prossecuted, convicted and on the sex offenders register for an unsolicited view of his penis, were he to do this in a public place
Before you all go off on one, Im not a prude nor am i under any illusions re the purpose and customs of this site, BUT, if i wanted to see his penis, i would ask and dont appreciate it being "thrust" in my face.
Were the curcumstances different, and I wanted to contact single men, i would hope any guy would have the decency to wait untill asked before flashing his bits.
If you ask/tell a guy you dont want sex and he continues without consent, that is .
If I ask/tell single men i dont want messages and they send me pix of their bits, what is that classed as?
Should i be a sport and just accept this lack of respect, as a "boys will be boys" thing or am i justified in being annoyed?
I have deliberately worded my profile/ad to specifically ask single men NOT to contact me.
Im sure many people will understand what im going to say next. I have received and keep receiving messages from single men.
I have to say, regretfully that at times i loose my temper and reply with a tirade of abuse. I know i should remain polite, but on the other hand, i DID point out my preference and anyone who disregards that request is then fair game for my wrath.
Why do men do this?
Do they think it doesnt apply to them as an individual?
Do they think i will find them irresistable, and make an exception?
Or do they have so little respect for women, they do as they please?
I have just logged on to find another message from a guy who quite frankly in the real world be prossecuted, convicted and on the sex offenders register for an unsolicited view of his penis, were he to do this in a public place
Before you all go off on one, Im not a prude nor am i under any illusions re the purpose and customs of this site, BUT, if i wanted to see his penis, i would ask and dont appreciate it being "thrust" in my face.
Were the curcumstances different, and I wanted to contact single men, i would hope any guy would have the decency to wait untill asked before flashing his bits.
If you ask/tell a guy you dont want sex and he continues without consent, that is .
If I ask/tell single men i dont want messages and they send me pix of their bits, what is that classed as?
Should i be a sport and just accept this lack of respect, as a "boys will be boys" thing or am i justified in being annoyed?
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Would you be embarrassed to use a unisex toilet if a work colleague (client, customer, whatever) of the opposite gender had walked in at the same time and entered a cubicle next to you?
So how would you manage on a building site with a toilet with no door on?
But I went to a school where that was also the case. its just a bodilly function...get on with it.
Some of you might have read my deleted post earlier and will know ive had a crap day and therefore cant sleep.
Anyway, this is my therapy.........I guess in order to be able to swing as a couple and not get jealous etc, you will have a very strong relationship?.........but im sure that by virtue of being human, you like everyone else will encounter the occasional tiff or bust up.
In central Africa there is a species of ape called the Bonobo. They are unique in the animal world because of their sexual habits. Unlike most other animals, they dont just mate at a set breeding time but actually use sex as a conflict resolution tool as well as a troop bonding excersise.
Do swinging couples also do this as part of conflict resolution?
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Anyway, this is my therapy.........I guess in order to be able to swing as a couple and not get jealous etc, you will have a very strong relationship?.........but im sure that by virtue of being human, you like everyone else will encounter the occasional tiff or bust up.
In central Africa there is a species of ape called the Bonobo. They are unique in the animal world because of their sexual habits. Unlike most other animals, they dont just mate at a set breeding time but actually use sex as a conflict resolution tool as well as a troop bonding excersise.
Do swinging couples also do this as part of conflict resolution?
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forgive me if im wrong here but were are you aiming yourself? you have been a lesbian most of your life from previous posts that i have read, but are now interested in men. are you looking for a stable and long term ie: at are age life long relationship or is the biological clock ticking.
excuse me if im missing the plot
No hunni, your not missing the plot cos there isnt one realy, im just learning a few swinging rules and boundaries
Ive always had it in my mind that sex can only be enjoyed as part of a loving relationship, but who knows?......maybe there is a way out of my hangups where i can have all the fun i want and not have men treat me like a whore and i dont even get paid for it.
My very limited experience of men has been one of "premature evacuation".......where they shoot and leave
ops: Thank goodness the House of Lords last night had the sense to vote in favour of a new bill which out laws discrimination against gays and lesbians by service providers.
Untill now its been possible for shops, hotels, etc to deny the sale of goods and/or services on moral or religious grounds. Its not just Muslims who can be labeled "extreemist" or "fundamentalist". The far right christian alliance, The Roman Catholic Church, evangelists etc have all tried to get this bill blocked.
One such group in the mid west united states have even stated that they dont believe a female can legitimately call herself a woman unless she has given vaginal birth to a child.
That could rule out a lot of career women, infertile women, or even women who have had a child delivered by cesarian section.
Im guilt free, so I dont have to waste several hours a week in the church attoning for my sins.
It leaves me with more time to play!!
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Untill now its been possible for shops, hotels, etc to deny the sale of goods and/or services on moral or religious grounds. Its not just Muslims who can be labeled "extreemist" or "fundamentalist". The far right christian alliance, The Roman Catholic Church, evangelists etc have all tried to get this bill blocked.
One such group in the mid west united states have even stated that they dont believe a female can legitimately call herself a woman unless she has given vaginal birth to a child.
That could rule out a lot of career women, infertile women, or even women who have had a child delivered by cesarian section.
Im guilt free, so I dont have to waste several hours a week in the church attoning for my sins.
It leaves me with more time to play!!
:shock:
"Where do I draw the line"? said the monkey as he wiped his arse on the carpet.
Ive spent a few evenings this week chatting to one very nice guy, and im kinda forming an opinion. Indulge me and picture this.........He said and I agree, better or even best sex comes from a regular partner with whom you have a certain raport. You both know the steps and timing, so you dont tread on eachothers toes, you know the likes and dislikes and have the confidence to push the boundaries and yet feel secure. Your less concious of your own actions and can better concentrate on their needs.
So........when does this 'swinging' turn into something more serious?
Is it when you find your self walking round his house wearing his boxers and shirt?
You leave a toothbrush at his just for convenience?
Your in his kitchen and notice the washing maching has finished and you hang out his washing?.......just to be nice cos thats what your like!
Your on the way over to his place for the evening and stop off for a bottle of wine and end up getting him some shopping at the same time?
Im sure you can all think of more examples
Are you two "seeing" eachother or just good fuck buddies?
Ive spent a few evenings this week chatting to one very nice guy, and im kinda forming an opinion. Indulge me and picture this.........He said and I agree, better or even best sex comes from a regular partner with whom you have a certain raport. You both know the steps and timing, so you dont tread on eachothers toes, you know the likes and dislikes and have the confidence to push the boundaries and yet feel secure. Your less concious of your own actions and can better concentrate on their needs.
So........when does this 'swinging' turn into something more serious?
Is it when you find your self walking round his house wearing his boxers and shirt?
You leave a toothbrush at his just for convenience?
Your in his kitchen and notice the washing maching has finished and you hang out his washing?.......just to be nice cos thats what your like!
Your on the way over to his place for the evening and stop off for a bottle of wine and end up getting him some shopping at the same time?
Im sure you can all think of more examples
Are you two "seeing" eachother or just good fuck buddies?
lol heheheheQuote by Argt05
Now that ive had a chance to chat with a few of you, and ive read the many postings to my original question, and ive also read profiles and as some say 'got a feel for the person behind the posting' I admit maybe some of what i initially said was hasty, based on past experiences and didnt take into account what apears to be a quite unique cross section of like minded people in this group.
I desperately dont want to waste anymore of my life in a sex free environment, but I couldnt see a way to enjoy it with the type of strangers i had previously met.
I hope that will all change now, and thank you everyone for helping me to see that.
Sorry to hijack you're thread, but have you ever thought about becoming one of my SLAG's???
Guaranteed to please, and Everyone is Joining.... It's like the Ipod of the Sex world!!!
You won't be short of Male attention nor Female for that matter.
See ya
I dread to think what cunning stunts one might be expected to perform to gain said membership. Is there some sort of initiation test to go through?
Now that ive had a chance to chat with a few of you, and ive read the many postings to my original question, and ive also read profiles and as some say 'got a feel for the person behind the posting' I admit maybe some of what i initially said was hasty, based on past experiences and didnt take into account what apears to be a quite unique cross section of like minded people in this group.
I desperately dont want to waste anymore of my life in a sex free environment, but I couldnt see a way to enjoy it with the type of strangers i had previously met.
I hope that will all change now, and thank you everyone for helping me to see that.
I desperately dont want to waste anymore of my life in a sex free environment, but I couldnt see a way to enjoy it with the type of strangers i had previously met.
I hope that will all change now, and thank you everyone for helping me to see that.
There's also a sort of mid-way feeling that you sometimes get, when you are aware that an "intimate friend" of yours is playing with someone else - you have no relationship as such with this person, (apart from being friends), and that suits both of you - but it still stings to know about it.
Or is that just me?
Isnt this part of what makes us human?
i cant speak from experience yet cos ive never shared anyone whilst ive been in a 'relationship' (careful use of the R word there, means different things to different peeeps..im learning), but if i was intimate with a couple or single on a regualr basis and i found they were also seeing others, i can imagain how i would feel too
Or is that just me?
Isnt this part of what makes us human?
i cant speak from experience yet cos ive never shared anyone whilst ive been in a 'relationship' (careful use of the R word there, means different things to different peeeps..im learning), but if i was intimate with a couple or single on a regualr basis and i found they were also seeing others, i can imagain how i would feel too
Hi Maz
what you have to remember is that in every catagory in life there is yet another spectrum with vanilla one side and extreem on the other. I agree that its so silly that a persecuted group will also persecute, just as the jews were in the hollocaust so they do it to the palestinians
I dont know where you went but in birmingham gay clubs have been hijacked by straights in the past 2 years because they are so tollerant of everyone and a safe place to go for a good night out, but no one picks on anyone else.
what you have to remember is that in every catagory in life there is yet another spectrum with vanilla one side and extreem on the other. I agree that its so silly that a persecuted group will also persecute, just as the jews were in the hollocaust so they do it to the palestinians
I dont know where you went but in birmingham gay clubs have been hijacked by straights in the past 2 years because they are so tollerant of everyone and a safe place to go for a good night out, but no one picks on anyone else.
