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What was wrong with filling the loo with hundreds of candles
They'll get stuck in the u-bend when you flush.
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Mr_D_and_HotTart
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 57
Bisexual Female, 62
0 miles · Hereford and Worcester
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Quote by ant140
Mutley, you snickering, floppy eared hound. When courage is needed, you're never around. Those medals you wear on your moth-eaten chest should be there for bungling at which you are best. So, stop that pigeon, stop that pigeon, stop that pigeon, stop that pigeon, stop that pigeon, stop that pigeon, stop that pigeon. Howwww! Nab him, jab him, tab him, grab him, stop that pigeon now........his name was Zilly!!!
Erm, wasn't it Klunk?
I've sometimes explained this by pointing out that sex and love are two different things.
Marriage is about love. Sex isn't (although they do work well together!)
Once someone admits to themselves that sex can actually be a LOT of fun with someone they don't love, just fancy, then the aparrent contradiction in having extra-marital sex disappears.
Marriage is about love. Sex isn't (although they do work well together!)
Once someone admits to themselves that sex can actually be a LOT of fun with someone they don't love, just fancy, then the aparrent contradiction in having extra-marital sex disappears.
Quote by shireen-steve
Born in Latin America and grew up in Detroit
But you are not American???
Shireen
Latin America is the collective term for all the Spanish-speaking countries in Central and South America, ie: Argentina, Belize, Bolivia, Brazil, Chile, Colombia, Costa Rica, Ecuador, El Salvador, Guatemala, Honduras, Mexico, Nicaragua, Panama, Paraguay, Peru, Uruguay and Venezuela.
Quote by corriefem
...my understanding of swinging is about playful fun between consenting adults where the ground rules are that there should be no emotional attachment that could hurt any of the people involved.
Exactly.
I think the problem here is that emotional attachment isn't somethng you can choose to have or not have, and 'playful fun' as you put it implys that some pretty strong unattached emotions are going to be flying around if all is going well.
Quote by corriefem
There are though I feel some men who may see this site as a place which must seem rather like a sweet shop where women may be a commodity that can be used and replaced with ease.
Hmmm, I'm puzzled by this statement. While your tone seems to imply this is a bad thing, isn't this behaviour entirely acceptable by the rules you set out above?
Reversing the sexes, I feel there are some women who see this site as rather like a sweet shop where men are be a commodity that can be used and replaced with ease... and I've had the time of my life being used by some of them, for which I'm eternally thankful!
I'm drawn to the conclusion that you must mean emotionally used, not just physically used. Which again leads me to a state of confusion, since a one-way emotional tie has been formed if that's true, and it's the 'victim' that has formed the tie, not the 'predator'. Surely it's the 'victim' who should have said 'back off, I'm starting to get emotionally invovled here', not the 'predator' who should have said 'I'm backing off because I think you might be going to get emotionally involved'?
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