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Is it wrong to want to go to McDonalds at 22:50 on a Sunday night, when I should be sleeping ready for the first day in a new work role tommorow? umm
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There is also the term polysexual, which I feel more comfortable using than pansexual:
(From Wiki) Polysexuality should not be confused with pansexuality; pan meaning all, and poly meaning many, though not necessarily all. Polysexuality is a self-identifying term that is somewhat amorphous, as there is a wide variety of different people who use the term to describe themselves.
I have some specific types of people I am attracted to, and some people who are intriguing despite not visually conforming to my 'usual type', but their genetic sex is not always an influencing factor in my preference. I'm afraid, I find very macho men and very girly women a turn off, but the opposite and all points in between are much more attractive. Just my personal opinion. ;)
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i can really relate to your dilemer, but as the truth always has a habit of comming out, then yes, i would tell him, as it was in the past ..so to say, then he may accept it. you cant honestly tell me that you are his only ever lover?? can you?. it may be a big gamble, but better out now rather than him finding out later..i hope this is of some help
So far nothing has been an issue on either side, Iv told him at one point I did have 4 lovers running concurrently, just havnt used the word 'swing'Quote by amylouAmylou, Im going to answer both of your posts together,
I think you should decide how important swinging is to you. If you have no intention of stopping then you need to tell him right now, if there's a possibility that this guy could be everything you ever wanted and he's so fantastic that you won't want to be with anyone else then wait until you are sure.
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Actually I think I may have misread your post, you seem to have already decided to give up swinging in order to be with him. If that's the case I see no reason to tell him anything, it's the kind of thing that could stick in his head for years.
If you feel you have to tell him please don't sit him down and announce it, it will sound like a confession. It's better to just wait until you've watched something on TV or read something in a magazine about swinging then casually mention that you used to be involved in it.
I think you should just not mention it though, so what if he finds out? It was before you got together so who cares?
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Tough call.
Try discreetly bringing the subjecyt into conversation to guage what he feels first. If he's cool about it then go for it. If he is the jealous type and backs off at the idea then keep quiet
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Plus, you never know, once (if) he finds out he might be keen to get involved himself
Quote by zootleIm bending to your way of thinking zootle, I like this man enough to have no secrets from him, and have told him as much, if it came out later then it poo poo's my own convictions about being honest with him.
The truth has a way of getting out. If, further down the line, it comes out and he's very shocked about it, that could be bad. I'd be honest and upfront myself, make sure it's not a problem before getting too deep.
Quote by coachmaster:shock: a fantastic first post in my eyes, thankyou coachmaster!
Tell staight away if youre good together he will understand
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:P Tell him now. Have a monogomous relationship with him sure, but you never know, swinging may come in handy again when the sex life goes through one of those slumps
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What I think works best, and is ages old..........is talking............talking................talking.
That way you hopefully put to sleep any worries or concerns you have. Jealousy is usually feeling insucure, and that can sometimes be remedied with talking and being honest. Mis trust could be harder to conquer. Without trust it is hard to develop further.
I hope that makes some sense.
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Hello everyone,
I'm new to this site so forgive me if I write nonsense. Its nearly christmas so I thought that I'd give myself an early present and do something just for me!!. So I joined here!! I'm probably at the back of a very long queue of horny blokes but what the heck, you all seem nice people looking at the msgs here so if i just converse and have a laugh then it'll still be worth it.
see ya
mark:D :D :D
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I'm sure this has been a topic often before but its one that always intrigues me.
Whats your latest dream? - I mean as in a dream while you were asleep.
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Not enough :giggle:
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I MUST TRY HARDER
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- and wasn't Marilyn Monroe a size 16 at one point?
...it was so farcical!Quote by zootle
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