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Sara_2006
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 57
Straight Male, 58
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mr mrs mids its is totally up to you what you do if you want to perform and leave then do just that. if you want to stop and have a drink before or after thats fine. if when you get there you dont want to even go upstairs and look round that is entirely up to you. no one is there to judge you on what you will and wont do .... unless you give them score cards and ask for a score out of 10 
the key to having a nice time at a club no matter what you are doing there is to relax and enjoy what happens. as dean says the social at chameleons may be a good starting point as nothing will be expected from you, have fun hun xxxxxxx
the key to having a nice time at a club no matter what you are doing there is to relax and enjoy what happens. as dean says the social at chameleons may be a good starting point as nothing will be expected from you, have fun hun xxxxxxx Sex God
does it have to be a hotel ... what about a private hotel that is close to a club then you can satisfy both the exhibition side and the need for cleanliness as most clubs are really clean and also close to hotels that if you did fancy a play then you just take them back to the hotel or play at the club thereby keeping the hotel room clean lol
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please oh please can you help lol i am looking for bonediggers thread on their first time at a party i have a friend who thinks they are the only ones to get nervous and i know this thread will put their minds at ease if not at least help them understand that it happens to us all
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Quote by Freckledbird
basically a munch is for 'active' sh members only and a social can be for banned members and members of another site and also non swingers etc
Thanks for that Sara, it makes it much clearer now. And it also confirms that my socials are munches as they are always and exclusively for active sh members.
I will bear that in mind next time, when I want to have my event stickied as munches lol.
Love
Goldsmith
xxperhaps something also to bear in mind that you can not restrict numbers unless it is for the venue ie no restricting the number of single males to balance out the numbers. a munch is open on a first come first served basis and the only restriction should be on the venue only allowing say 80 people
If it's a munch (and therefore a no-play event), it shouldn't matter what the ratio is anyway.
As an aside, I don't see how events like socials or munches can take place in swing clubs - it's a swinging environment so straight away there's the possibility of play.
so true freck a social should not really involve play of any sort and a munch defiantly should not and if any is seen then should be reported and then they will have to face the consequences of the possibility of ejection from the venue and possibly their profile banned off the site. these rules are there to safeguard the members who do not want the pressure of play and if a social is held at a club then this pressure is there.
any after social/munch parties are not governed by the same rules but should be held in a different environment than the social/munch.
the restriction i was talking about was simply for a munch as the rules state that a munch is open to all active members so an organiser can not restrict the number simply on the fact that more single males want to attend than couples
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Quote by goldsmith
basically a munch is for 'active' sh members only and a social can be for banned members and members of another site and also non swingers etc
Thanks for that Sara, it makes it much clearer now. And it also confirms that my socials are munches as they are always and exclusively for active sh members.
I will bear that in mind next time, when I want to have my event stickied as munches lol.
Love
perhaps something also to bear in mind that you can not restrict numbers unless it is for the venue ie no restricting the number of single males to balance out the numbers. a munch is open on a first come first served basis and the only restriction should be on the venue only allowing say 80 people
Goldsmith
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