No the comment was not directed at you, it just expressed my disappointment at the number of people who have flooded the site (luckily most of them do not post, they just use the chat) thinking swinging is a passport to one-night stands and forgetting that first and foremost they must have good manners and consider that the other person is a human being with feelings.
I am sorry if I sounded too severe in my response to our young member. I can get intense at times and now that you have explained I can see how my intentions can be misunderstood. Friends?
Kiss Me she is not addicted to orgasms, she is addicted to her toys. She has made them the focus of her universe. She could very well grow out of this phase or not. Did you not see a programme on TV about a year ago where a young couple were so addicted to toys and kinky stuff that they had forgotten how to make love to each other? The sex therapist forbade the use of toys and made them abstain from penetration so that they could reprogramme their mind to work which apparently had some positive results in their relationship.
You may agree or disagree with what I or others write but this is an open forum and we are invited to post our views and that is what I have done. I spoke from my heart and gave the same advice I would have given my own daughter to prevent her from falling into the pitfalls that perhaps I had fallen at one time. Perhaps there is no point caring about others, I sometimes forget this is a shag them and leave them place for some people. *sigh*
I am in love with my FB and I think he is falling for me, too. Very scary.
Toy addction is a very serious matter and could affect your later sexual development. It is OK to use a toy now and then but when you depend on them to come... uh oh! As others have suggested you need to refrain from using them. Use the good old fingers instead, then you are more likely to have an orgasm during intercourse. Remember you can't always carry your toys with you and some men may not be as liberal thinking to accept your need to use them.
Maybe lack of confidence is the norm in life. Has anyone ever thought of it this way?
That was the most hillarious report I have read in a long time. Glad that you lot had fun.
Cliff
May I suggest you put some pictures up in your profile, even if you wish them to be in your private gallery (only people you invite can access it). Then people like me will have a better idea who they are being proposed by and you will have a greater chance of successful meets.
Regards
Just hatched out of my egg in swinging terms and I am already worried that I may be a crypto-nymphomaniac. How else can I explain the insatiable need and obsession with a specific area of my lower body that pushes me to take risks and go out of my comfort zone?
To illustrate:
Day 1: failed orgy but successful 1:1 with 9 incher
Day 2: great massage turned sexual exploration with R.
Day 4: Rio's with P. and pulled Aussie guy whilst being watched - day begins at midnight
Day 4: massage with specialist in the afternoon and then great sex with regular FB
Day 5: lots of options but I am kind of getting sore down there from too much use, yet will I stop? Let us hope today's O which was the only one in the string of days will keep me quiet for a few hours.
Do you think I should see my doc? Surely it can't be normal for a girl to want so much sex in her life?
It is 8 pm and not looking very promising. As always, lots of men PMed me saying they want to escort me there but none has persuaded me they are genuine. I don't know, I might just go there on my own *gulp* only it won't be for action. I suppose if anyone goes there and sees a lady looking like me they can always ask 'Are you Tania?' and see...
I am bored! Where's that street map?
Alright some good pointers there! Phil osopher I do not feel obliged to show myself to anyone but I have made a couple of friends in the chatrooms and it would be fun to see each other. Also I am going abroad soon and it will be very lonely there so I might need some cam action to relieve my boredom... ;)
Hello
I am inundated with requests to view the webcam which I haven't got... I think it is time for me to buy one but there are so many out in the market and with so vast a price range that I am totally confused. What should I be looking for? I know I would like my cam to send a clear image and sound and I would also like to use it to record a video for my profile but FPS, resolution, and privacy button options baffle me.
If you can, please give me an idea what cam to be looking out for (I use a laptop, if that makes any difference, running on Windows XP). I don't want to ask a salesman's advice as it is guaranteed he'll make me walk out with the most expensive cam they've got!
Thanks in advance
When I look at profiles, I like to be reeled in by a nice face sporting a smile. Then I check out the rest of the pictures and I prefer to see a whole body shot (clothes are fine) and sometimes I may want to see a cock pic. However, I would seriously recommend to any guy who wants to build a long lasting relationship with a fellow swinger, not to place the emphasis on his cock. Women go for personality. If you show a smallish cock women will surf by you and never give you the chance to prove how nice you can be. If you show an enormous cock, women will swarm around you and sting you like bees demanding instant satisfaction and not caring about your feelings and inner world. At the end of the day it is up to you. You have to decide what you want out of SH and plan your route accordingly.
Right, well I don't have a group that I am familiar with to invite and know that they will honour their invitation. I am struggling all alone (sob, sob) to reconcile my moral values with my slutty needs. This is why I wanted a man who could take the lead and show me the way but he hasn't come along in all 18 months I've been a member.
Yesterday I invited 4 men from the chatroom and only 1 showed up. I didn't mind because he was a very interesting person and I am glad I was able to give him my full attention.
As for the greedy girls party, I think people have recommended this to me in the past but again, how do I get myself to one when I am so extremely shy and self conscious? And who is going to look after me (because I am rubbish at looking after myself!)
I am going to read on the suggested link but now I must get ready for my massage session because it turns out my guest is on his way.
Laters everyone!
Birthday wishes from me too. I haven't managed to get to Manchester yet, but I have not forgotten your good advice. Hugs.
How do you find all this time (as per days 1-5 above) with a new baby on your hands?
