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Quote by supermonkeyboy
I think you'll find we are more than the sum of our 'bits' and people expected to be treated as human beings rather than 'bits' of their anatomy. Don't judge this site by what you may find in the adverts. This site is more than about sex, believe it of not!
LC
I didn't mean that at all, I just meant I presumed the people would be a bit more open than what I've seen so far, from a certain few...
Hi :welcome: there are a great many facets to this site, and I for one have no problem with how you may havethought it worked here, or your tongue in cheek comments. In fact I think you have carried yourself quite well, despite the insult you received. If you are here for social reasons you are very welcome, and if you are here to learn more, then you are equally welcome.
I can understand why you may have thought a Sexual site like this may have meant the members here are more accessable to shag, but there is a huge aspect to swinging that many, including myself, didn`t realise until they started getting into the scene, and for the majority it`s a lifestyle which goes beyond just sex.
Maybe this link will help
Venusxxx
Quote by KitKatGot as far as pub... and thought 'That's enough of this bollox, get the beers in''
I never finished puberty. :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
: lhk
Kat
Something along those lines yes :mrgreen:
I just found the post on `payback` day
Feb 17 2004
Hello Mr Let`s Screw over the new girl, what`s that? You want to come in early tomorrow with stuff to put into storage, and want to know if I can be in at am?
I`m sorry, I can`t make it :mrgreen:
Let us ignore the fact that I actually arrive in town at 8am, I still need to pick up the keys from the main office, and thats not open til 9.
It seems to escaped my mind that I can arrange to keep the keys on me, or get the caretaker to open up for you.
Let us assume that is because I am stupid, like you assumed I was stupid when you conned reduced storage out of me before.
What`s that? You`ll have to `shop` around for somewhere else? Somewhere else won`t offer you a discount like we do.
Wattapity
Oh, you also need to bring more stuff in later tomorrow, about 200 cubic feet, and you `happen` to know of a bay on the 4th floor which is available?
Well, after having asked for larger bays which you claim you haven`t filled and had me charge accordingly, but I have since been warned you pull THAT trick frequently, we`ll just get you to stick your 200 cu ft in one of them shall we?
Let`s see how you get on with that! :smug:
That`s not revenge, that`s not letting people walk over me in my present. It didn`t give me smug satisfaction in the slightest :giggle:
Venusxxx<------doing a very good job of `moving on`
I try to maintain a balance between being as open as I can be, and leaving myself open to crap I don`t have the emotional energy to deal with. My kids don`t know about our lifestyle simply because
a) What kid wants to know about their parents sex life (ick) and
b) I`m have enough on my plate trying to teach them about vanilla sex.
That said, my eldest knows that most of our friends are from this site, and has a tolerance toward all sexualities and sexual lifestyles. I am confident that the attitude we are raising our kids with now will go a long way toward changing the expectations society has one or two generations from now.
I`m much happier focusing on the future generations rather than the past ones, they have much more potential.
(have not drunk enough coffee to speculate on the questions, sorry!)
Venusxxx
a) What kid wants to know about their parents sex life (ick) and
b) I`m have enough on my plate trying to teach them about vanilla sex.
That said, my eldest knows that most of our friends are from this site, and has a tolerance toward all sexualities and sexual lifestyles. I am confident that the attitude we are raising our kids with now will go a long way toward changing the expectations society has one or two generations from now.
I`m much happier focusing on the future generations rather than the past ones, they have much more potential.
(have not drunk enough coffee to speculate on the questions, sorry!)
Venusxxx
On a brighter note. Letting out my frustrations via writing and imagination, can be invaluable:
Feb 10 2004
^^^^^^^^^^^/Venus, when she fell off of her mountain one day
Anyone`s eyeballs bleeding yet?! :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Feb 10 2004
I am so fucking livid.
WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?!!!!!! I WAS SCREWED OVER AT WORK BY SOME RAT FUCK BASTARD WHO OWNS HIS OWN COMPANY AND WORKS WITH US FOR A DISCOUNT. HE ALREADY MAKES AN OBSCENE PROFIT BUT THE TIGHT FUCKER SCREWED ME OVER ANYWAY. HE KNOWS I`M NEW, HE KNOWS______ HAS TO TAKE BACK OVER FROM ME AFTER A MAJOR OPERATION WHICH, INCIDENTLY HE KNOWS SHE HAS HAD COMPLICATIONS WITH, AND HE KNOWS SHE WILL INEVITABLY BE CORRECTING SOME OF MY MISTAKES AS IT IS. HE KNOWS I FIND THIS JOB REALLY HARD AND HAVE BEEN TRYING MY DAMN HARDEST AT IT, BUT THATS OK, WE`LL SCREW VENUS OVER JUST TO MAKE ANOTHER FUCKING PROFIT. CUNT.
YET THE FUCKING CUNT HAD THE FUCKING AUDACITY TO PHONE ME AND COMPLAIN BECAUSE ONE OF HIS CUSTOMERS WAS TOLD TO PUT HIS STUFF INTO STORAGE AFTER A HOUSE FIRE, AND THAT CARE IN THE COMMUNITY WOULD PAY FOR IT, AND WHEN THEY LET HIM DOWN, AND HE WAS STIFFED WITH THE BILL, AND HE CAME TO SEE ME, AND WHEN I TRIED TO HELP HIM, THAT I`D GIVEN HIS CUSTOMER THE IMPRESSION THAT HE WAS OVERCHARGING HIM. HE WAS MAKING A FUCKING OBSCENE PROFIT, BUT I DID NOT TELL THE CUSTOMER HE WAS BEING OVERCHARGED, I TOLD HIM TO BEAR IN MIND THAT THIS COMPANY RECEIVES A DISCOUNT, AND THAT REMOVAL CHARGES HAD ALSO BEEN ADDED TO HIS ACCOUNT.
THAT RAT SHIT CUNT KNOWINGLY SCREWS ME OVER, I BEND OVER BACKWARD FOR THE CUNT, LETTING HIM BRING PEOPLE INTO STORAGE AT THE LAST FUCKING MINUTE, AND WHEN I INADVERTANTLY LET HIS CUSTOMER KNOW THAT HE IS MAKING A £600 PROFIT OUT OF HIS MISERY, IS ALL OVER ME LIKE A FUCKING RASH :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:
I HOPE HE DIES, I HOPE HIS WIFE DIES, I HOPE HIS CHILDREN DIE, I HOPE HIS GRANDCHILDREN DIE, AND THEIR LITTLE DOGGIES TOO.
I WISH I HAD FINGERNAILS SO I COULD SCRATCH OUT HIS EYEBALLS AND WATCH HIS EYEBALL JELLY RUN DOWN HIS SORRY FACE.
THE FUCKING BAILIFFS ARE BREAKING THE LAW, IN PRETTY DAMN SURE OF IT. THEY ARE RAT FUCK BASTARDS TOO.
MY FUCKING KIDS MEET ME ON THE WAY HOME AND WANT TO CUDDLE ME WHEN ALL I WANT TO DO IS KILL SOMEONE.
MY FUCKING ELDEST CONFRONTS ME WITH WANTING TO DISCUSS HER `ENGAGEMENT` AS SOON AS I WALK IN.
I DIDNT JUST , I WORKED WITH DEBT COLLECTORS, GOT A JOB, GOT ANOTHER JOB, , WENT TO THE USA, AND HIKED THE TRAIL BY MYSELF.
WHAT THE FUCK MORE DO PEOPLE EXPECT FROM ME?
IF THERE WAS EVER SUCH A THING AS FATE, IT WANTS TO PUSH, AND PUSH, AND PUSH, TIL I DIE.
CEPT ITS GONE TOO FUCKING FAR NOW. ITS BEYOND A CUNTING JOKE. I`M BEYOND CRACKING, I FUCKING LIVID. I`LL SORT THESE FUCKING BAILIFFS, AND WONT ONLY GET THEM TO WORK WITH ME, IF I FIND OUT THEY HAVE BROKEN THE LAW (AGAIN, IT WOULDN`T BE THE FIRST TIME) I`M GOING TO SCREW THE SORRY FUCKERS OVER. AND IF THERE IS EVER SUCH A THING AS FATE, AND I KILL IT, MAYBE THE WHOLE FUCKING WORLD WILL IMPLODE, AND IF IT DOES, IF THE WORLD ENDS TOMORROW, YOU CAN ALL BLAME ME.
IF NO FUCKER LIKES IT, THEN THEY CAN KISS MY ARSE.
PREFERABLY WHEN I AM TAKING A DUMP.
I`m going down the pub.
^^^^^^^^^^^/Venus, when she fell off of her mountain one day
Anyone`s eyeballs bleeding yet?! :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Quote by maidinheaven
Sorry, I seem to have touched a nerve there.
I've been in the position, feeling betrayed, the feelings of desperation and loneliness. Spiteful? I can live with that. Bitter and twisted? Why use words like that?
Been the "other woman" have you?
I don't want to start something in public - but if you haven't been through it then you have no right to condemn.
I`ve never been betrayed by a partner, but I have been shat on from a great height, as I`m sure most of us have at some point or another.
As the first person here to use those words, I`m happy to expand a little.
Although I have never enacted revenge on people who have hurt me in my past, I have spend a great deal of time and energy in the past focusing on them, how to `show them` I can do better, being angry that they have been able to act with so much disregard to others etc, etc. I really feel that it promoted the negative feelings within me, and acting in such a manner would have made these feelings more tangable. If I had of enacted revenge, I would have been able to equate an actual action upon my part with all of that negativity, validating it and thus giving it more focus to effect me as a person. It would have left me more bitter and twisted than I was already. Removing myself from that kind of negativity altogether has proven to be much more valuable to me, and as I did nothing wrong in the first place, it`s the leastI deserved. I`m so much more important than the negative people in my life, and not lending those people my energy in any way, shape, or form goes a long way toward emphasising that. I`m a much better person for it, and I believe giving in to the desire to `get even` would have denied me this opportunity. I`d hate to see anyone else deny themselves the same opportunity.
It`s also allowed me to have a broader outlook on life, and recognise that some of the people who have hurt me in the past are emotional retards, and as a result have much bigger personality problems than I ever will. I tend to pity people like that now, as they are denying themselves the fuller life I have access to. I`m not entirely above getting a certain amount of satisfaction from this knowledge however. :mrgreen:
I do try not to let people walk over me in my present, but that`s something else entirely.
For some reason I get more upset when I see it second-hand now, I make more of an effort to immune to first-hand abuse.
Venusxxx (currently sat on her mountain)
Quote by little gem
Cue geeky gem...
Teeth crumbling comes from the time when mothers lost their teeth in child birth due to giving all their calcium and other nutrients from the teeth to the foetus. It was an indication that the person wasn't getting enough good stuff from their food and often became ill and died.
Very interesting Geeky Gem
, still don`t know why that of all things should be used by dreams to indicate bad health.My teeth are always screwing up regularly in my dreams! :shock: I`m normally just wobbling them, until I end up wobbling each and every one free, then spend the rest of the dream panicking about wtf I must look like!
That said, I also believe in dreams which mean fuck all.
Venusxxx
Angel, I once posted on a thread similar to this about a series of very vivid dreams I was having. I wasn`t after interpretation as it was not anything I took much stock in. The dreams were simply weird and worth posting, I was having fun with it, nothing more. The analyses` which were offered were very dramatic, but still I laughed it off. However what followed afterward was uncannily accurate, even to the point of matching the unconcious stages of the illness (or perhaps the `denied`. I`d like to be able to say it was all very `suggestive` and had a great influence upon why I became so poorly, but it wasn`t until sometime afterward I remembered the dream thread, I had bigger fish to fry. The analyse itself didn`t leave that much of an impression on me at the time. I can`t even say that like many horoscopes, the analyse could be treated with ambiguity, because I can`t, it was spot on, or at least I don`t feel I am being subjective.
I can understand the subconcious picking up on things the concious hasn`t, and expressing this in dreams, that makes perfect sense, but what I don`t get is the precise imagary dream analysis uses. One image could mean something very different to any individual, especially across the cultures, that seems realistic to me, but dream analysis doesn`t seem to allow for this, or need to.
Why teeth crumbling if there is illness? Why so precise? A...I dunno, teapot for example could represent something very specific. It doesn`t make sense!
I`ll admit though, despite my experiance, I haven`t looked into it as much as I should have.
It was on my `to do` list
Venusxxx
I can understand the subconcious picking up on things the concious hasn`t, and expressing this in dreams, that makes perfect sense, but what I don`t get is the precise imagary dream analysis uses. One image could mean something very different to any individual, especially across the cultures, that seems realistic to me, but dream analysis doesn`t seem to allow for this, or need to.
Why teeth crumbling if there is illness? Why so precise? A...I dunno, teapot for example could represent something very specific. It doesn`t make sense!
I`ll admit though, despite my experiance, I haven`t looked into it as much as I should have.
It was on my `to do` list
Venusxxx
That is an interesting point FB, even if we ignore the fact that she didn`t start this thread. However, I`m aware many people find seeking support from those who are not so close to them a great deal easier than having to confront things face to face with someone closer. I hate people seeing me when I`m miserable.
:edit: ok she did ask for the thread. If it helps good on her!
Venusxxx
:edit: ok she did ask for the thread. If it helps good on her!
Venusxxx
Quote by freckledbird
The news didn't stop her browsing the forum earlier
Unless there's another jennaj who was showing online?
Mars was once with a best mate when his mate received a phonecall that his father had died. He went right on playing the Playstation. Distraction can help break things down into managable chunks.
Venusxxx
Proud of you Bloke! :mrgreen:
I`m sorry it closed up, I know how much you loved it. Next time choose one you really like to for the peircer to put in, preferably one you`ll be able to add dangly bits to yourself without taking it out, and leave it in for a good few months before you get all excited and start shopping for more! Perhaps you could ask the peircer if you could shop for your own, and what specifications it would need to meet for it to be used at the peircing?
Venusxxx
I`m sorry it closed up, I know how much you loved it. Next time choose one you really like to for the peircer to put in, preferably one you`ll be able to add dangly bits to yourself without taking it out, and leave it in for a good few months before you get all excited and start shopping for more! Perhaps you could ask the peircer if you could shop for your own, and what specifications it would need to meet for it to be used at the peircing?
Venusxxx
Quote by little gem
One is extremely shocked and somewhat surprised that the proprioitor of this marvelous internet website has not informed the southern lady, who goes by the username Venus, that she is far better off in the Northern areas of the country. One feels she talks rather too much to be an occupant of the southern region.
;)
Gem. FUCK OFF!
Whilst we are on the whole `educating` thing, may I please have a list of words NOT to to be said in the presence of a load of Northern monkeys please.
And in case anyone was wondering, I do NOT refer to myself as `one`. Gem, however, apparently does! :moon:
Venusxxx
Quote by marmalaid
Would all single males seeking help form an orderly queue this way please :twisted:
Can I be first in the queue?
That makes a change. You normally fuck your way through the queue first, and still go back to rejoin the end when you`re done.
Venusxxx
Nothing's changed there then
:evil2:
Which one of us were you talking about Venus?
Well, I thought the `you` bit might have been a bit of a give-away :giggle:
I wear iron knickers remember? :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
Sneaking in through the side-door. I like it! You may be on to something there, they :uhoh: haven`t thought to look for that yet! :giggle:
Ok, I`ll be good and put the thread back on track
Venusxxx
Ok, I`ll be good and put the thread back on track
Quote by 21andhorny
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please no pic collectors
Venusxxx
