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berksbex
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female
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Quote by Lovecommando
Some people have a fetish for making love to soft cuddly toys. They are call 'plushies' or 'plushophiles'. Many of them dress in 'fursuits' to make themselves look like their favourite animal characters and sometimes have sex together. There's a link here about the subject
Perhaps the guy wanted to have sex dressed as a panda?
LC
Interesting, LC. Perhaps panda sex is really "PandA" sex : Plushies and Animals sex.
Quote by berksbex
Ahh I knew someone who was into that :P
It looked fun (if a bit sweaty!) though I never tried......wish I had now.....should always try something at least once
There was a documentary about the subject on the TV a few years ago. I was surprised at how organized all these people were at getting together for parties, but that's the internet for you, I suppose. It seemed a popular fetish, as their parties were well attended. They talked about the subject quite openly, especially the women who I believe this fetish has an appeal.
Was your friend male or female, berksbex?
LC
He was male, and he wasn't a panda, he was a cat
seriously. He was a very nice guy with a respectable job etc but just liked to pretend he was a cat sometimes. But, as I'm more of a dog person, I let it pass :P :wink: Quote by Lovecommando
Some people have a fetish for making love to soft cuddly toys. They are call 'plushies' or 'plushophiles'. Many of them dress in 'fursuits' to make themselves look like their favourite animal characters and sometimes have sex together. There's a link here about the subject
Perhaps the guy wanted to have sex dressed as a panda?
LC
Ahh I knew someone who was into that :P
It looked fun (if a bit sweaty!) though I never tried......wish I had now.....should always try something at least once
Sarah, I have been trying to work out if 'panda sex' is just a typo, but nothing really comes close
have you asked the guy what he means? Quote by steph
STRAIGHT GUY LOOKING FOR SEXY DAYTIME FUN WITH FEMALES IN LEEDS/BRADFORD ANYTIME IN IN TOUCH AND THERE WILL BE PLENTY OF SUCKING AND FUCKING!!
OK Lets start again
Hello Pussystuffer
Welcome to SWINGING HEAVEN
ok so why have you had the pisstake? Have a look and reread your ad from a female perspective.
There is nothing wrong with wanting a good session - nothing at all but you DON'T need to shout about it to draw attention to yourself.
Writng in Capital letters is considered Shouting on the Internet and therefore rude. It also makes your post pretty difficult to read.
As a guy wanting a shag on a site such as SH you need to stand out for the right reasons. Why should anyone want to meet YOU. They don't know you :wink:
The Caps and the wording make you come across as pretty desperate - try slowing down and getting involved. The Nickname does you no favours either - you could be a fuck machine
and having seen them in use that is not a compliment as the sex is just too mechanical.Pop in the Cafe and have a look round - there is plenty of advice in the Advice thread on how to be a successful single Male on the site - might be worth a read.
If you need some help - please don't be afraid to ask and am sure someone would help - we can all help with links to threads where people have good tips etc.
The more effort you put into a site such as Swingingheaven the more fun you generally will get out of it.
Good Luck and Have fun
Steph
Steph, you are doing a sterling job around here educating newbies. I hope they are taking note!
:rose:
Quote by RedHot
hummm good question i have always wondered the same about guys, fancy trying out my strap on see if you like hard or soft better?
I'll hold him down if you like :wink:
shall we let him have lube, or not?
:twisted:
:shock: :shock:
Now that's plain wicked . . . . . . . but I like it :wink: 
:rotflmao: Tracy-Jayne
Ohhh carry on with the spanking, I quite like that :twisted:
Quote by PoloLady
serious they can kill ya?
no way
serious?
Hope you don't mind me asking.....but how old are you,its just that you seem very naive in these matters.
Old enough to cosider taking unnecessary risks and probably add to the country's STD problem through total ignorance
Obviously skipped the sexual health lessons in school
these days you get videos, talks and lessons on the subject and I can't believe that someone is unaware that some stds are life-threatening. Quote by Marcuso
Don;t worry mate the ladies can get a bit tetchy in here sometimes lol
I understood you mate
And how many have you met to suss out that we are tetchy? I'm guessing none with that attitude :P
LOL....chill a bit Bex.....Take a deep breathe and sit down and relax. I've met Stuart recently, and knowing what he is like, it was all meant tongue in cheek and a bit of fun. (he's a nice guy really, and if he thought he would offend anyone he wouldn't have posted it)
Oi now who's being tetchy
and don’t be so condescending, I don’t need to sit down and relax (I need shag! :twisted: ). He got the deserved response by referring to swingers as seedy and though he later qualified that remark by saying it wasn’t him who thought of them as seedy, it was too late for the reply. If he thinks the ‘ladies can get a bit tetchy in here sometimes’ that’s nothing compared to how his wife will be when she find out what he has planed! Lol oh and that btw was a joke :wink: :lol:
Quote by Bloke2005
SILLY Dawnie....
A shag with the sexy man himself by the sounds of it... wish it was open to blokes :cry:
Ah but it must be open to blokes! If not it contravenes the European equal opportunities act and we don’t want to upset any Europeans. Anyway, do you fit in the age bracket Bloke? :P because he can still descriminate against someone for their age (not for long though!) :wink:
As an aside, did you know that the European commission for social affairs and equal ops had a section named Horizontal activities? :twisted:
Quote by Sexysteph
BK my real postcode puts anyone within approximately 2 miles of my house. My real name is Steph and in that area I am fairly well known - it would be a cinch to find me. I left the correct postcode up for a few hours when it first came in and had 6 pms from people who had told me they lived extremely near. One was in the next street
Far too close for my personal comfort.
Steph
Yep, me too steph so I took your advise and moved :wink:
I mean if BERKSbex doesn't give a clue to roughly the area I live in, then I don't know what will. The postcode idea was obviously designed by someone who has no idea of the implications of 'being found out' on lives of some swingers.
Quote by mrfun69
I have been on alot longer than that. I think thats down to the new style site.
I,m not saying oh lets meet and shag but alot of the women ads do.
Actually, you are right there
many ads do say fancy a shag because that's what they want right there and then. But what we have been trying to say is that you will get more sucess by getting to know people better. Imagine how many emails an ad that says 'fancy a shag now' might generate (in the region of 150 or more) so do you fancy your odds then? I'm just trying to be practical :P I think the problem is that you are coming across as someone who just expects swingers to have sex with anyone (putting a in your first line for instance.....it's not our fault you aren't getting a shag lol).
What I was trying to say is that swingers might have sex with more than one person but that doesn’t necessarily make them any easier to get than non-swingers out on the town for the night. :P Of course swingers meet people on one to one basis sometimes, its just that it doesn’t have to be just anyone and making an impression round this place counts. You might be a good looking lovely guy (which I am sure you are). But you need to stand out and also some swingers prefer someone who has done this type of thing before (not all though). As I said before, put more detail in your ad that might help. Personally I delete anyone who emails with one or two lines.
And don’t lie and say your cock is 12 inches long because a) we all know that’s a lie! b) you will get found out! C) many women don’t like them that big d) we all know that’s a lie!!! :lol: :lol:
in your first line for instance.....it's not our fault you aren't getting a shag lol). What I was trying to say is that swingers might have sex with more than one person but that doesn’t necessarily make them any easier to get than non-swingers out on the town for the night. :P Of course swingers meet people on one to one basis sometimes, its just that it doesn’t have to be just anyone and making an impression round this place counts. You might be a good looking lovely guy (which I am sure you are). But you need to stand out and also some swingers prefer someone who has done this type of thing before (not all though). As I said before, put more detail in your ad that might help. Personally I delete anyone who emails with one or two lines.
And don’t lie and say your cock is 12 inches long because a) we all know that’s a lie! b) you will get found out! C) many women don’t like them that big d) we all know that’s a lie!!!
:lol: :lol: IMHO (even if you don’t want it lol) I think if you just want a shag you should go to a prostitute. Women on here aren't going to have sex with you just because you want them to. Swinging is a lifestyle that people choose, and like PoloLady said we tend to be a bit on the adventurous side which may not suit someone after a one to one meet. Maybe somewhere like that face party place might be more suitable?
As for the ads verses profile thing, the profile is very restrictive and only gives you limited answers; in an ad you can put all the info about you and about what you like etc and then put a link in your sig. For instance I find the postcode things harder to decipher, much easier to put your county or nearest town.
which may not suit someone after a one to one meet. Maybe somewhere like that face party place might be more suitable?As for the ads verses profile thing, the profile is very restrictive and only gives you limited answers; in an ad you can put all the info about you and about what you like etc and then put a link in your sig. For instance I find the postcode things harder to decipher, much easier to put your county or nearest town.
Quote by Bloke2005
Interesting post - regardless of my sexuality, I really do believe that you should try something rather than be left wondering, regardless of the outcome... at least then you'll know.... and what have you got to lose?
Good luck with whatever you decide to do mate :thumbup:
Yes, I totally agree and most of us had to take the step into ‘trying something rather than be left wondering’ when we started swinging in the first place, so taking another step into discovering an attraction to an opposite gender is just the next step. And actually that would be a very good philosophy to carry through to the rest of your life too, you never know until you try.
