I was sniggering like a school girl when watching Nigella on tv the other day when she said "I like a nice bit of tong action"
When will I grow up... never!!!!
Today has been a good day. The kids at school didn't moan about the choices they had for their lunch, I went to work without my coat because it was so warm and there was a huge number of bright yellow daffodils nodding to me as I walked to fetch the kids from school which made me smile.
Oh and the kids and I played tag all the way home from school. I might have looked daft running down the street after them but boy was it fun!
The most dangerous sport I know is driving around Leeds city centre in the rush hour :scared: :scared: and I have a huge fear of heights.
Horses don't scare me... spiders have that priviledge
amazing.... absolutely beautiful... and just a huge chunk of rock
wow
yes please for me and the tart :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
I cleared a huge number of receipts out of mine the other day and had a bit of a tidy up.
Mine at the moment contains
purse containing various cards and in change
phone
diary
pen
empty specs case
sunglasses
cigarettes
lighter
tub of vaseline lip therapy with aloe vera
receipt from restaurant visited last night
business card from above
orange flavoured lolly given to me by the waiter from above
receipt for £30 of diesel
Holiday booking form from work
And some people have chosen to "appear offline" when they are logged in
I guess I'm just really lucky. Whenever I've played as a SBF I have always been made to feel a big part of the playing and not a spare part at all and that's something I aim for when I play as a couple now too.
As part of a couple I fully understand that the whole experience is not just about me or us as a couple... it's about everyone involved. We're comfortable enough in our relationship to give the other fem more attention than we give each other during any playtime. Hopefully that means that the fems we have played with have left us feeling like she was special and had all of her needs met, but at the same time knows that we've had a jolly good time too . Playtime is for experiencing things that we can't do with just the two of us and we get a lot of pleasure from being able to experience that and maybe it's because of that that we are both comfortable with giving more of our attention to the third party.
Personally I think it's incredibly selfish of them to have left you feeling so excluded. My pleasure is centred around that of those I'm playing with. If my play partners are happy, then the chances are I will be too.
I know my partner well enough to know when he needs some attention and he knows the same for me. I guess it's hard to keep everyone happy in a MFF if you don't have that kind of connection.
I'm kind of rambling now, only just finished my first coffee. I may come back to this later
Is it the case that healthier eaters prefer to drink wine rather than beer or that wine drinkers prefer to eat more healthily?
Lies damn lies and statistics....
Ok my personal opinion. It might be prudent to let them know just because they're not looking for anyone else it doesn't mean that you want to be exclusive to them. Let them know that you're looking for a variety of fun and not just a 4-some. After that, what you do or don't do, and who you do or don't play with is nothing to do with them to be honest.